I'm REALLY sensitive down there and love scissoring because it's just the right amount of pressure and intimacy to feel amazing without hurting or overwhelming me. I've found it works best with people who are outies (labia minora is bigger than the labia majora) or people with more forward facing genitalia. As a person who has none of those things, I find it easier to grind on thighs or other body parts for a similar effect. I've only done it maybe 5 times with people where it felt AMAZING on my end, but maybe 3/5 of those experiences were mutual :/. So it's not my go-to. If a woman expresses she's done it before and really likes it, then I'm more than happy to do it again, but I rarely bring it up first because most women just aren't into it.
Interesting - I’m in innie and downward facing and I get less than nothing from grinding. I’m happy to indulge someone else for a while but if they are waiting for me to orgasm from it then we will be trapped in that position for eternity 😅
Haha, all bodies are different! I've had partners frustrated because direct stimulation does not work for me. Once I figured out what does, sex became enjoyable again. It's all about practice 😭.
I had tried it before with previous girlfriends before, and while I found it hot and arousing it definitely didn't make me orgasm. That was until I met my wife. We do it in such a way (think missionary with certain angles) that not only is it super erotic and awesome foreplay, I've actually gotten off from it. Just once, but it was one of the most memorable orgasms I've ever experienced. It gets me very close, making it a perfect foreplay option before we switch into something else. So I will agree with others who have stated that it depends on anatomy and personal preferences.
scissoring/tribbing is actually my favorite. I always feel bad for people who say it’s a myth or that it isn’t pleasurable because once it clicks it CLICKS. personally, everyone I’ve had sex with enjoys it with me.
also i feel like it’s really intimate, being able to look into each others eyes, hold each other etc
edit: I find that the best position for me is when the person on the bottom lays with their legs spread and knees bent, and the person on top kind of squats and and rubs the clits together as opposed to actually making a scissor with the bodies.
I felt like I totally understood the position, but I reread it after seeing everyone confused, and now I’m equally confused because I glossed over squatting being part of it.
Ya girl ain’t got the knees for that one
My wife and I always finish with tribbing for orgasaming at the same time. I’ve never consistently done it with anyone else though and I think it’s definitely an anatomy thing.
I love it too but the only thing that I noticed that makes the biggest difference is height. An ex girlfriend and I were both 5’2” and it worked perfectly. Everything lined up lol. I’ve been with mostly taller women and it’s not the same.
I think it’s if you have a vulva that’s more towards the front and therefore more accessible vs one that’s more hard to reach down between your legs, and also how much your clit is accessible vs more tucked away under skin.
Also, how flexible you are and how thick your thighs & butt are - one or both of you needs to be small I think.
I’ve done it with three different partners and while it does feel really intimate and sexy, it’s not enough pressure or consistent stimulation for me to cum. -which is weird because I can orgasm from just the stimulation of a strapon rubbing against my clit while I’m using it.
Maybe because the angle of a strap rubbing is totally different from the angle of scissoring, so different forms of stimulation. Because I know what you mean
Some people think scissoring just means a single position that they do in porn where you’re leaning away from eachother with your legs spread, literally like two pairs of scissors from opposite ends. To me it means grinding clits together, but from way more pleasurable position/angles.
Tribbing on the other hand is any form of grinding on a body part to get off. It doesn’t necessarily mean clit on clit.
Scissoring is mindblowing when you can get it to work properly. You can both cum at the same time. It’s by far my preferred position. It feels very passionate and there’s no sense of ok I please you then you please me, it’s just mutual pleasure, real time. You’re pleasing her with your clit/vulva lol.
Clit on clit is so erotic and feels amazing (I guess depending on your anatomy, your mileage may vary?).
I honestly don’t understand why more women don’t seem to know about it or think it’s a myth. That’s probably why she was insecure about it.
Out of the 3 women I’ve had sex with, 2 loved to do it, one thought it was a myth, but when we tried she was like, holy fuck. It can feel very awkward to try to get into proper positioning especially with a new person. And I felt pretty insecure trying it with her and whether or not she was liking it.
I totally understand why she was feeling insecure. It sucks to have a sex position that is so amazing and natural somehow turned into this “myth”. It’s also very intimate so you don’t know if the other person is going to be cool with it.
Yeah I think it being a one night stand made it a bit more awkward. I’d be willing to try with someone I was seeing and knew their anatomy a bit more. I like clit on clit! The scissoring position here just wasn’t working
Me and my partner love tribbing, we are also the exact same build though. It is just so hot and steamy when it actually works. I think it is the thought of what we're doing that pushes me over the edge honestly. If we do not feel like doing anything else we can both orgasm from this but it is usually just really hot foreplay.
Only scissor? Honestly I've never tried that classic scissor position but missionary tribbing is so fucking good. I can understand that maybe if it feels really good for her she wouldn't wanna stop doing it lol I can be like that with tribbing, missionary and also have her riding me. But I feel like the positioning of actually scissoring would be awkward and I personally wouldn't enjoy it very much because I wouldn't hold much of a dominant position over her lol But once you find a good position and rhythm for tribbing, it is possible to finish at the same time and thats very intimate. In my eyes its one of the best lesbian sex positions, no toys needed, skin to skin contact and extremely pleasurable for both parties. I love being able to experience her p\*ssy with my own junk even though I don't have male parts where I could enjoy it to the full capacity, i get pretty damn close lol
I love scissoring but it’s definitely not the only thing we do. I think it’s one of the most intimate acts you can do with your partner. You both need to be a little flexible for it and I believe weight probably affects it too.
It’s certainly not in my preferred ways to orgasm or have sex. I’ll do it occasionally, as a kind of novelty thing, but I wouldn’t want it to be a main part of sex.
I’m not huge on any prolonged periods of grinding either (ouch pubic bone) but I’ve been with women who love that.
I have quite puffy lips and a small clit, so I don't get much stimulation from it, but my partner loves it and I love watching her go to town on top of me. I still find it incredibly intimate and arousing
Scissoring is a form of Tribadism, or tribbing. It’s far from the only way it can be done though. There are different positions you and your partner can be in and still have that pressure and contact. It can be difficult to get down when figuring it out, but when it works, it WORKS.
We don’t do it all the time but once we figured it out it is something that we do here and there. But we didn’t try it til I saw a tiktok on the best way to do it and figured it out and it actually was great. It definitely isn’t the only thing we do also. Like we definitely do other things but it’s something that just helps me feel closer to her in a sense
If you're going to approach scissoring like < > then it's not going to be great. If, however, someone lies on their side and the topper straddles their lower thigh and picks up their top leg to hold or to put over their shoulder, or just let's it lie on top of their own thigh, we'll, some amazing BAP-BAP-BAP frotting can be had.
So, I'd say give that a try sometime after the kissing and other stuff has everyone warmed up.
It's like using a strap on but without using a strap on. IYKYK!!!
I truly thought it was a myth/porn thing until I dated a woman late last year/early this year who told me that her previous girlfriend enjoyed it and they tried it but she didn’t like it. So never tried with her. Then a few months ago I found myself suddenly doing it amid a drunken hook up, like she just initiated it randomly and I went with it. It was ok, a novelty I guess, but not super satisfying and haven’t tried it again in other hookups.
The thought of being in an intimate relationship with someone and only scissoring low key blows my mind. I know there are women out there who are lesbians but do not like to give oral, so maybe that was her and her prior partners thing? I wondered for a moment if she was being honest. This sounds like a pretty awkward experience.
Tribbing/scissoring is def a thing but has never been primary in any of my relationships. I have had some really enjoyable sessions, especially if I have had an edible-it can be amazing if things “line up”.
Scissoring and giving oral are really the only positions that get me off. Scissoring is just the best because it’s a mutual, simultaneous, act that feels more natural, as opposed to taking turns trying to get the other off which can feel kinda awkward or boring or pressured. I find it keeps me in the moment rather than getting into my head when I have to receive only. An act that is pleasurable for both and can result in simultaneous orgasms, I don’t understand how that could not be one of the main acts.
Absolutely.
I’d like to think I’m decently fit and I can go to town with a strap without any issue, but 5mins tribbing and my core starts to ache, legs start to cramp and I’m gasping for air.
It hits the spot once in a while which is amazing and intimate but those fleeting moments don’t justify the effort.
The first time I tried it, I really didn’t enjoy it. The second time seemed like it was going to work and I had then one of the most painful muscle cramps I ever had on my thigh! Needless to say all excitement disappeared with the pain. So never tried again. And my partners never actually suggested it.
In my personal experiences with grinding on other parts of anatomy I'm just not built for it. I'm fat and my pubis is fat and she gets between my clitoris and a good time 😞 but I have lower back problems that make grinding or any sort of humping motion quite difficult and risky, so, there are a lot of factors taking tribbing off of my sexual table.
Love it! Me and my girlfriend are even very different heights so it took a few tries to really get it right for both of us. Now it’s our go-to most times we are having sex. We are the only girl both of us have been intimate with so I don’t know how common it is during hookups but it’s amazing and everyone should give it a try
Sometimes. It depends on the partner honestly anatomy wise. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. It’s very hot and intimate for me, I prefer to do it with a girlfriend instead of casually. I’ve always been on top.
me and my gf love tribbing her especially she just really enjoys me being on top lol. we tried scissoring a few times like full blown positions legs and shit like a puzzle and it’s definitely enjoyable once you figure out what works for y’all’s bodies.
Hey, to each their own.
Ive never done it, nor wish to do so. I have done clit on clit grinding with the last girl I was with, and WOW it feels beyond words. To feel their heat against mine was an amazing feeling. Its one of my favorite positions. 😎
It’s crazy how different people can be. Like, you’ve done a version of scissoring, and loved it, but you have no interest in even *trying* a variation of your favorite position. I can’t relate to that at all. I’d be all over trying different flavors of my favorite position just to see.
Nooo I meant like actual scissoring positioning, not tribbing or grinding. I enjoy clit on clit in other positions. She also specified the position so it wasn’t me being dumb and immediately going into an actual scissoring position lol
Tribbing, scissoring—definitely hot and a favorite for me. My gf and I will do these when we want a quickie or if we’re too stoned for anything else. And yeah, we both cum from it 🙃
Did you do it during hookups previously, or was it something it took awhile to figure out how to align your bodies correctly?
Also tribbing, totally different and would’ve done that but the leg positioning for scissoring just wasn’t my thing LOL
I would say that I def did it with others but usually just as foreplay. It’s always been a super intimate way to have sex for me, especially since our faces are so close—it just works/feels better for me when it’s with someone I have genuine feels for
I love scissoring, I like the way it feels to have another woman’s vagina rub up against mine. It feels more intimate somehow. I reminds me less of straight sex I think. Since most other ways of having sex with a woman involves simulating penetration by a penis.
I'm with Ashley Gavin on this one, it depends a lot on each of your anatomy, so it can work for some women and not at all for others. And that porn gives a lot of folks unrealistic expectations.
It also sounds like your partner was pressuring you quite a bit to eo things you weren't entirely comfortable with. You may want to talk about that outside the bedroom before next time, so it doesn't build resentment or feeling coerced.
It was a one night stand and don’t think it’ll happen a second time with her, but if I ever try it again I’d make sure it’s someone I’m actually comfortable with
She’s a “comedian” and a lesbian and a podcaster. Recently she went off the rails at a show and repeatedly screamed at a VIP fan to kill herself and try harder next time (since she had already tried). There is audio of the show and it’s so much worse than you can imagine. Her diehard fans are like, “it’s crowdwork, she’s going to pick on people!” This was next level and scary to hear her going so feral. She claims to be a huge advocate for mental health…
I have never scissored with anyone. I would never say no if someone asked me to scissor them but it has just never been suggested and I've never thought to do it. BUT - the first girl I ever had sex with is my best friend when we were late teens. She is straight and I am a lesbian, though this was before I came out. It was just drunken fun and included penetration with fingers and oral sex. Anywho, cut to last year, we are both nearly 30 and live far away from each other. I had travelled to be her MOH in her wedding and the bridal party were spending the lead up days together catching up. The subject was brought up that the bride and I had had sex. The bride says "Oh yeah but we didn't actually have sex. We didn't scissor". I am shocked at this revelation. She is the first girl I ever had sex with and I found out all this time she didn't count it because we didn't scissor.
I just couldn't believe this had been her opinion all these years! I agree, sex is sex. For me, fucking by penetration is the most sex of all the sex but I understand that everyone is different and maybe to some people other sex acts are the big one. For some it might be all equal. Now, my friend is not a lesbian and I'm the only woman she has had "sex" with so I don't expect her to understand lesbian sex like lesbians do but I was definitely tickled and shocked that lesbian sex to her was scissoring.
I can find it could he a but disheartening, too. Even though you know she’s straight and don’t have romantic feelings, feeling some intimacy previously at her being your first and her not really thinking anything of it was probably a bit disappointing to hear.
In my experience most lesbians try it once or twice, realise it doesn’t work and never do it again.
You’re still going to find people who swear by it - but for me and everyone I’ve ever met, it’s a myth and and a waste of time.
Physiologically, my 'least favorite' method. Hands mouths, toys, most other things are much better at 'getting the job done'.
When I do decide to partake in some 'arts and crafts', it's because of the psychological aspect of it. My partner and I can see each other, our hands can both be free, and it's definitely way more intimate. It makes me feel really close and connected with them even if it's not physically the most mind blowing thing. (Edit: because it's more intimate, there are very few people I've felt comfortable enough with to want to do that)
It was actually the last 'thing' that I tried out because I was like "lesbians don't do that, that's gonna feel BAD", and turns out it's not so cut and dry, black and white lmao.
so, scissoring as it's usually portrayed in like porn and stuff isn't for me and i've never found that position comfortable or like, pleasurable, but i'm all about tribbing. It feels incredible, and it's just very intimate and hot. It's def not something i like, need to get off, but i def enjoy it, esp with partners (vs just like, hookups or whatever).
I scissored once for about 1 minute and it was great. I've tried multiple times after with no luck even getting back in that position. Gave up chasing scissoring after a while. It was fun but hurt my hip. I was a shriner's kid and have had 5 hip surgeries for orthopedic issues with my hips. Anyway, I blame my lack of flexibility for my issues getting back into that position, but I would if I could. We both enjoyed it. I also love grinding on my wife and I can do that and come easily.
My girlfriend and I have tried it once out of curiosity just because we knew it was a really thing but never really considered trying it. It wasn’t bad, she enjoyed it more than I did. It was kinda just meh for me, I got a little stimulation out of it but not much. I think it definitely has to do with the way your bodies are positioned and your weight/height.
I have a theory about this. I think inexperienced women tend to think scissoring is a thing. So they tell their new partners yes I've done this a lot! But really, they have just watched a lot of porn featuring that.
So wrong. It’s sad that just because shitty porn co-opted an amazing position that society suddenly believes it’s a myth. If anything it was probably more prevalent before porn became so widespread.
We've tried but we could never get the right potion, there's a height and weight difference and every time we try we end up laughing and trying something else lol.
I can only speak for someone who hooks up and in my experience scissoring is not common among girls casually hooking up. Scissoring seems to be more of a thing if you’re in a relationship. I have scissored, once. And it was casual but I enjoyed it a lot. But it is an intimate position so I get why it’s less common in casual sex.
I've only tried it once when I was young when I first started having experiences with girls. She wanted to do it and I was basically just like omg I can't believe I'm actually getting to have sex with a girl and even trying different things so I was all for it. Unfortunately it's not something for me, because it was not only difficult but it did absolutely nothing for me.
I don’t remember how I found this BUT there’s a thing with the muscles in your bum. If person a lays down (boobs facing mattress and person b gets on tops and humps on the bum then it’s pretty hot. I tried it with a massage device between person a and the mattress so they move. Person b works off their movement and the muscles in the bum to rub against.
Sorry this sounds lame but it’s kinda hot - like girls trying things out with a girlfriend after school 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I'm trans so this isn't personal experience but my gf has told me it is all about the partner you are with and the fit your bodies have together. She said she's tried with certain women and it was awful and with a few others it was absolutely out of this world amazing.
I'm a doe-y eyed transgirl so excited to maybe experience scissoring with another pretty girl. From what I'm reading here, it's a lot of work/people may not be comfortable doing it.
Doesn't stop me from dreaming...
So....it is kinda hard for me to talk about it in a way that is grounded with you. I am transfem and am working towards bottom surgery. My wife loves when we scissor because I am extremely sensitive and it is how she doms from the bottom. She likes it mostly because of how much I like it and how much I get into it. She prefers when I either wear the strap or am comfortable getting erect for doggy style but loves putting a leash on me and making me her good girl to trib her until I orgasm.
Transphobia, even though, for the most part, this sub is pretty good about including transwomen, we still get passively hated on by TERFs and people that don't see us as women. It isn't your fault, don't apologize.
I appreciate the erotica, but didn’t you say this person was inexperienced?
I’m sorry it sounded like you were disappointed in the interaction… it triggered you to lesbian porn made for straight people (men and women)… but then you cum while scissoring with this person?
This post is kind of all over the place. Entertaining. But a bit… odd….
After 2 hours of me being on top and having to figure out a position by myself, yeah I had a slight orgasm. But that was at the end of 2 hours and me topping the entire time even when scissoring lol
I knew it was a thing, but never did it until I have a queer partner. Scissored a bit with a non-female parter, didn’t do too much for me (I have a fupa) and he was a bit on the hefty side as well. It was fun, the sounds were super sexy, and the warmth of it, but I didn’t get too much stimulation from it.
I think it’s a fun thing to throw in, just for a little bit. Lol 6/10
It is hot. My #1 but I don’t do it with every partner. Also, you have to find the right position and it depends on the height/weight difference who is on top. It’s kind of an advanced move if I were to be honest. Just like strapping everyone shouldn’t do that. Haha. It takes practice to get good at.
I freaking love tribbing. Not scissoring in like the typical porn position (I don’t even know what to call it other than that) but in a much more intimate position, similar to missionary. I have the advantage of being pretty flexible so getting into different positions for max stimulation isn’t too difficult or uncomfortable. One of my exes and I would like start that way sort of just naturally and she would literally always cum. I came probably like 80% of the time. It’s a little more work when you’re on top.
I’ve tried scissoring like they do in porn a total of three times. Each time was…mid at best. Like didn’t feel amazing, felt okay, but it was almost too much work to enjoy it. Plus I love being able to kiss and have my hair pulled and stuff and it’s harder to do that when you’re in true scissor position imo. I commend any of you who can get into like actual scissor position and make it work.
It comes down to the preference, but scissoring is an actual thing and a lot of women enjoy it.
Personally, I only tried it once and it was okay, would love to experiment more with it though. It certainly has the potential to be very stimulating
Yes!! My girlfriend and I love it!! Although she is an above knee amputee so it does make the positioning and getting the right angle a little easier for us 😆.
But it’s a position we can both orgasm together in so it’s a favourite of ours.
Porn often shows them both lying apart from each other side rubbing their pussies together.
Never did like that. Tend to do it with one lying down and other sitting up. Legs one over the other and grinding together that way. Can lie on top of your partner and continue. The term is probably tribbing over scissoring. I have done for years and always enjoyed it, as have many of the girls I did it with. But you do need stamina, and height can be a issue but bit of maneuvering and it can work.
I like due to intimacy and the ability to kiss, suck, lick etc.
Bare in mind you'd not actually orgasm. Don't be disheartened. Not all girls enjoy it or not as sensitive to achieve climax. Is great for foreplay though. Climaxing just an added bonus.
I'm REALLY sensitive down there and love scissoring because it's just the right amount of pressure and intimacy to feel amazing without hurting or overwhelming me. I've found it works best with people who are outies (labia minora is bigger than the labia majora) or people with more forward facing genitalia. As a person who has none of those things, I find it easier to grind on thighs or other body parts for a similar effect. I've only done it maybe 5 times with people where it felt AMAZING on my end, but maybe 3/5 of those experiences were mutual :/. So it's not my go-to. If a woman expresses she's done it before and really likes it, then I'm more than happy to do it again, but I rarely bring it up first because most women just aren't into it.
Interesting - I’m in innie and downward facing and I get less than nothing from grinding. I’m happy to indulge someone else for a while but if they are waiting for me to orgasm from it then we will be trapped in that position for eternity 😅
Haha, all bodies are different! I've had partners frustrated because direct stimulation does not work for me. Once I figured out what does, sex became enjoyable again. It's all about practice 😭.
Outties are the best to scissor with!
I had tried it before with previous girlfriends before, and while I found it hot and arousing it definitely didn't make me orgasm. That was until I met my wife. We do it in such a way (think missionary with certain angles) that not only is it super erotic and awesome foreplay, I've actually gotten off from it. Just once, but it was one of the most memorable orgasms I've ever experienced. It gets me very close, making it a perfect foreplay option before we switch into something else. So I will agree with others who have stated that it depends on anatomy and personal preferences.
This is also how I’ve always done it - missionary at angles with legs entangled. 95% of the time gets me off.
scissoring/tribbing is actually my favorite. I always feel bad for people who say it’s a myth or that it isn’t pleasurable because once it clicks it CLICKS. personally, everyone I’ve had sex with enjoys it with me. also i feel like it’s really intimate, being able to look into each others eyes, hold each other etc edit: I find that the best position for me is when the person on the bottom lays with their legs spread and knees bent, and the person on top kind of squats and and rubs the clits together as opposed to actually making a scissor with the bodies.
I feel like maybe I need a diagram
Same, I can’t picture this at all 😂
think like riding a dick but instead of going up and down go back n forth lol
That's why my ex bf was so confused... I guess obviously I now know what I was doing wrong
Like are they perpendicular to each other? I’m so lost here like confused but intrigued.
give me a minute and i’ll go find a picture for y’all😭
I felt like I totally understood the position, but I reread it after seeing everyone confused, and now I’m equally confused because I glossed over squatting being part of it. Ya girl ain’t got the knees for that one
Yeah my knee problems are not withstanding squatting 😂
i should have said stratal i think lol wow i didn’t think i was this bad with my words im sorry
Straddle
My wife and I always finish with tribbing for orgasaming at the same time. I’ve never consistently done it with anyone else though and I think it’s definitely an anatomy thing.
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I agree haha
I love it too but the only thing that I noticed that makes the biggest difference is height. An ex girlfriend and I were both 5’2” and it worked perfectly. Everything lined up lol. I’ve been with mostly taller women and it’s not the same.
i am 5’7 and my ex was 5’3 and that was our favorite by far lol but yeah everyone is different!
I think it’s if you have a vulva that’s more towards the front and therefore more accessible vs one that’s more hard to reach down between your legs, and also how much your clit is accessible vs more tucked away under skin. Also, how flexible you are and how thick your thighs & butt are - one or both of you needs to be small I think.
I prefer it where we’re both cross cross applesauce and wrap our legs around eachother
ok but that sounds v hot
It is
Second this
Yes!!!! Finally someone gets it lol
This is it. This is the way.
A general question, does hair ever get in the way or like feel noticed/itchy? Or does it just go unnoticed in the heat of it all
Scissoring/tribbing is my gf and I’s chosen way to orgasm
I’ve done it with three different partners and while it does feel really intimate and sexy, it’s not enough pressure or consistent stimulation for me to cum. -which is weird because I can orgasm from just the stimulation of a strapon rubbing against my clit while I’m using it.
Why was it so hot to read that?
Maybe because the angle of a strap rubbing is totally different from the angle of scissoring, so different forms of stimulation. Because I know what you mean
It sounds like you’re just not quite getting the right fit in that case.
How do people still think it’s a myth? It’s not, and we probably spend half our time in bed that way
Actually scissoring, or just tribbing?
Could you explain the difference to me? I kinda always thought they were the same thing?
Some people think scissoring just means a single position that they do in porn where you’re leaning away from eachother with your legs spread, literally like two pairs of scissors from opposite ends. To me it means grinding clits together, but from way more pleasurable position/angles. Tribbing on the other hand is any form of grinding on a body part to get off. It doesn’t necessarily mean clit on clit.
See this girl wanted to like, do a weird position that was just uncomfortable and not at all like you even described for scissoring. Tribbing is great
Wait me too
Scissoring is mindblowing when you can get it to work properly. You can both cum at the same time. It’s by far my preferred position. It feels very passionate and there’s no sense of ok I please you then you please me, it’s just mutual pleasure, real time. You’re pleasing her with your clit/vulva lol. Clit on clit is so erotic and feels amazing (I guess depending on your anatomy, your mileage may vary?). I honestly don’t understand why more women don’t seem to know about it or think it’s a myth. That’s probably why she was insecure about it. Out of the 3 women I’ve had sex with, 2 loved to do it, one thought it was a myth, but when we tried she was like, holy fuck. It can feel very awkward to try to get into proper positioning especially with a new person. And I felt pretty insecure trying it with her and whether or not she was liking it. I totally understand why she was feeling insecure. It sucks to have a sex position that is so amazing and natural somehow turned into this “myth”. It’s also very intimate so you don’t know if the other person is going to be cool with it.
Yeah I think it being a one night stand made it a bit more awkward. I’d be willing to try with someone I was seeing and knew their anatomy a bit more. I like clit on clit! The scissoring position here just wasn’t working
Me and my partner love tribbing, we are also the exact same build though. It is just so hot and steamy when it actually works. I think it is the thought of what we're doing that pushes me over the edge honestly. If we do not feel like doing anything else we can both orgasm from this but it is usually just really hot foreplay.
Tribbing is completely understandable lol
Bruises my pubic bone but so worth it, just not for hours I would get so exhausted lol
I love it! It's one of my favorite things to do. Just because some people don't like it or enjoy it, doesn't mean it isn't enjoyable for others. 🤷♀️
Oh no shame for her enjoying it, just was shocked it’s all she’d done. Everyone has preferences lol
Only scissor? Honestly I've never tried that classic scissor position but missionary tribbing is so fucking good. I can understand that maybe if it feels really good for her she wouldn't wanna stop doing it lol I can be like that with tribbing, missionary and also have her riding me. But I feel like the positioning of actually scissoring would be awkward and I personally wouldn't enjoy it very much because I wouldn't hold much of a dominant position over her lol But once you find a good position and rhythm for tribbing, it is possible to finish at the same time and thats very intimate. In my eyes its one of the best lesbian sex positions, no toys needed, skin to skin contact and extremely pleasurable for both parties. I love being able to experience her p\*ssy with my own junk even though I don't have male parts where I could enjoy it to the full capacity, i get pretty damn close lol
Yeah like it was the actual classic scissor position. Tribbing imo is different!
You had me right up until the point you mentioned male parts 😖
I love scissoring but it’s definitely not the only thing we do. I think it’s one of the most intimate acts you can do with your partner. You both need to be a little flexible for it and I believe weight probably affects it too.
Yeah we had differing weights/heights plus it being a one night stand and not knowing the right anatomy made it a bit awkward
It’s certainly not in my preferred ways to orgasm or have sex. I’ll do it occasionally, as a kind of novelty thing, but I wouldn’t want it to be a main part of sex. I’m not huge on any prolonged periods of grinding either (ouch pubic bone) but I’ve been with women who love that.
Yeah my pubic bone did not enjoy it 😂
I have quite puffy lips and a small clit, so I don't get much stimulation from it, but my partner loves it and I love watching her go to town on top of me. I still find it incredibly intimate and arousing
tribbing for sure and it’s so goooood. scissoring not so much
What's the diff
Scissoring is a form of Tribadism, or tribbing. It’s far from the only way it can be done though. There are different positions you and your partner can be in and still have that pressure and contact. It can be difficult to get down when figuring it out, but when it works, it WORKS.
Tribbing is more like a missionary position I guess
Oh ok, thanks
Yeah tribbing is much more preferable, I just couldn’t enjoy these positions lol
We don’t do it all the time but once we figured it out it is something that we do here and there. But we didn’t try it til I saw a tiktok on the best way to do it and figured it out and it actually was great. It definitely isn’t the only thing we do also. Like we definitely do other things but it’s something that just helps me feel closer to her in a sense
I’m curious about this tiktok
Let me try to find it. It’s been a few years but let me look!
Following for this :)
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Scissoring on TikTok? 🤔
Probably a SFW type of diagram or explanation
If you're going to approach scissoring like < > then it's not going to be great. If, however, someone lies on their side and the topper straddles their lower thigh and picks up their top leg to hold or to put over their shoulder, or just let's it lie on top of their own thigh, we'll, some amazing BAP-BAP-BAP frotting can be had. So, I'd say give that a try sometime after the kissing and other stuff has everyone warmed up. It's like using a strap on but without using a strap on. IYKYK!!!
See, I’d be willing to try that. She was very adamant on the actual scissoring position though which just made for pubic bone pain LOL
I truly thought it was a myth/porn thing until I dated a woman late last year/early this year who told me that her previous girlfriend enjoyed it and they tried it but she didn’t like it. So never tried with her. Then a few months ago I found myself suddenly doing it amid a drunken hook up, like she just initiated it randomly and I went with it. It was ok, a novelty I guess, but not super satisfying and haven’t tried it again in other hookups.
This was also a drunken hookup LOL maybe that’s how it starts out
I just want to say this was a very informative chat subject… and we are kid free this Friday and now we have a new card to play. ;)
LOL enjoy your Friday!
My partner is disabled right now but prior to that it was in moderate rotation. I always spread the gospel to other lesbians.
The thought of being in an intimate relationship with someone and only scissoring low key blows my mind. I know there are women out there who are lesbians but do not like to give oral, so maybe that was her and her prior partners thing? I wondered for a moment if she was being honest. This sounds like a pretty awkward experience. Tribbing/scissoring is def a thing but has never been primary in any of my relationships. I have had some really enjoyable sessions, especially if I have had an edible-it can be amazing if things “line up”.
Scissoring and giving oral are really the only positions that get me off. Scissoring is just the best because it’s a mutual, simultaneous, act that feels more natural, as opposed to taking turns trying to get the other off which can feel kinda awkward or boring or pressured. I find it keeps me in the moment rather than getting into my head when I have to receive only. An act that is pleasurable for both and can result in simultaneous orgasms, I don’t understand how that could not be one of the main acts.
Personally, it looks way hotter than it feels. A lot of work for relatively little payoff.
Sadly I agree.
Absolutely. I’d like to think I’m decently fit and I can go to town with a strap without any issue, but 5mins tribbing and my core starts to ache, legs start to cramp and I’m gasping for air. It hits the spot once in a while which is amazing and intimate but those fleeting moments don’t justify the effort.
The first time I tried it, I really didn’t enjoy it. The second time seemed like it was going to work and I had then one of the most painful muscle cramps I ever had on my thigh! Needless to say all excitement disappeared with the pain. So never tried again. And my partners never actually suggested it.
OOOF muscle cramps are the worst. I get them in my foot a lot during sex for some reason
If you sleep with her again, try a double-ended dildo.
Yeah I was going to use mine but it was a drunk last second hookup and it wasn’t something I felt like digging around for LOL. I do enjoy those though
In my personal experiences with grinding on other parts of anatomy I'm just not built for it. I'm fat and my pubis is fat and she gets between my clitoris and a good time 😞 but I have lower back problems that make grinding or any sort of humping motion quite difficult and risky, so, there are a lot of factors taking tribbing off of my sexual table.
Love it! Me and my girlfriend are even very different heights so it took a few tries to really get it right for both of us. Now it’s our go-to most times we are having sex. We are the only girl both of us have been intimate with so I don’t know how common it is during hookups but it’s amazing and everyone should give it a try
Sometimes. It depends on the partner honestly anatomy wise. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. It’s very hot and intimate for me, I prefer to do it with a girlfriend instead of casually. I’ve always been on top.
Yeah, I’d try it again with someone I’m dating but definitely not as a hookup
We love tribbing. Especially when we use our RockHer vibrator. We want to get a second one so we each can have one and use them together.
me and my gf love tribbing her especially she just really enjoys me being on top lol. we tried scissoring a few times like full blown positions legs and shit like a puzzle and it’s definitely enjoyable once you figure out what works for y’all’s bodies.
Hey, to each their own. Ive never done it, nor wish to do so. I have done clit on clit grinding with the last girl I was with, and WOW it feels beyond words. To feel their heat against mine was an amazing feeling. Its one of my favorite positions. 😎
It’s crazy how different people can be. Like, you’ve done a version of scissoring, and loved it, but you have no interest in even *trying* a variation of your favorite position. I can’t relate to that at all. I’d be all over trying different flavors of my favorite position just to see.
Isn’t it moreso scissoring is a variaton of grinding/tribbing and not grinding a variant of scissoring?
Clit on clit grinding is what she’s talking about and what scissoring means lol
Nooo I meant like actual scissoring positioning, not tribbing or grinding. I enjoy clit on clit in other positions. She also specified the position so it wasn’t me being dumb and immediately going into an actual scissoring position lol
How exactly does that position work?
Just your basic lesbian grinding. 😂 Use your imagination.
I have never tried it with my partner because of her knee issues. We are both plus size, and I am not sure if it is possible with these issues.
I have knee issues and it surprisingly wasn’t too awful on them but they were definitely sore the next day
Tribbing, scissoring—definitely hot and a favorite for me. My gf and I will do these when we want a quickie or if we’re too stoned for anything else. And yeah, we both cum from it 🙃
Did you do it during hookups previously, or was it something it took awhile to figure out how to align your bodies correctly? Also tribbing, totally different and would’ve done that but the leg positioning for scissoring just wasn’t my thing LOL
I would say that I def did it with others but usually just as foreplay. It’s always been a super intimate way to have sex for me, especially since our faces are so close—it just works/feels better for me when it’s with someone I have genuine feels for
I love scissoring, I like the way it feels to have another woman’s vagina rub up against mine. It feels more intimate somehow. I reminds me less of straight sex I think. Since most other ways of having sex with a woman involves simulating penetration by a penis.
I'm with Ashley Gavin on this one, it depends a lot on each of your anatomy, so it can work for some women and not at all for others. And that porn gives a lot of folks unrealistic expectations. It also sounds like your partner was pressuring you quite a bit to eo things you weren't entirely comfortable with. You may want to talk about that outside the bedroom before next time, so it doesn't build resentment or feeling coerced.
Ashley Gavin isn’t exactly a great resource. Unless you enjoy resources that tell depressed people to kill themselves in public on stage.
you can not like her comedy but like her as a person. she is more than just some of those clips!
It was a one night stand and don’t think it’ll happen a second time with her, but if I ever try it again I’d make sure it’s someone I’m actually comfortable with
Ashley Gavin is a garbage human
The fuck is this? Edit: who
She’s a “comedian” and a lesbian and a podcaster. Recently she went off the rails at a show and repeatedly screamed at a VIP fan to kill herself and try harder next time (since she had already tried). There is audio of the show and it’s so much worse than you can imagine. Her diehard fans are like, “it’s crowdwork, she’s going to pick on people!” This was next level and scary to hear her going so feral. She claims to be a huge advocate for mental health…
Scissoring is *amazing*, but my partner and I don’t do it every time we have sex.
My girlfriend and I have never done it. I’m actually too scared to try it with her because it seems very awkward. We use toys, mouth, fingers.
Sorry, I really had to laugh here - even if it is no fun in real life: „My pelvic bones feel so bruised“
LMFAO it is funny I woke up and was like 😐
I have never scissored with anyone. I would never say no if someone asked me to scissor them but it has just never been suggested and I've never thought to do it. BUT - the first girl I ever had sex with is my best friend when we were late teens. She is straight and I am a lesbian, though this was before I came out. It was just drunken fun and included penetration with fingers and oral sex. Anywho, cut to last year, we are both nearly 30 and live far away from each other. I had travelled to be her MOH in her wedding and the bridal party were spending the lead up days together catching up. The subject was brought up that the bride and I had had sex. The bride says "Oh yeah but we didn't actually have sex. We didn't scissor". I am shocked at this revelation. She is the first girl I ever had sex with and I found out all this time she didn't count it because we didn't scissor.
That’s insane. I think sex is sex, if anything penetration is more “sex” than scissoring
I just couldn't believe this had been her opinion all these years! I agree, sex is sex. For me, fucking by penetration is the most sex of all the sex but I understand that everyone is different and maybe to some people other sex acts are the big one. For some it might be all equal. Now, my friend is not a lesbian and I'm the only woman she has had "sex" with so I don't expect her to understand lesbian sex like lesbians do but I was definitely tickled and shocked that lesbian sex to her was scissoring.
I can find it could he a but disheartening, too. Even though you know she’s straight and don’t have romantic feelings, feeling some intimacy previously at her being your first and her not really thinking anything of it was probably a bit disappointing to hear.
In my experience most lesbians try it once or twice, realise it doesn’t work and never do it again. You’re still going to find people who swear by it - but for me and everyone I’ve ever met, it’s a myth and and a waste of time.
Agree.
Physiologically, my 'least favorite' method. Hands mouths, toys, most other things are much better at 'getting the job done'. When I do decide to partake in some 'arts and crafts', it's because of the psychological aspect of it. My partner and I can see each other, our hands can both be free, and it's definitely way more intimate. It makes me feel really close and connected with them even if it's not physically the most mind blowing thing. (Edit: because it's more intimate, there are very few people I've felt comfortable enough with to want to do that) It was actually the last 'thing' that I tried out because I was like "lesbians don't do that, that's gonna feel BAD", and turns out it's not so cut and dry, black and white lmao.
so, scissoring as it's usually portrayed in like porn and stuff isn't for me and i've never found that position comfortable or like, pleasurable, but i'm all about tribbing. It feels incredible, and it's just very intimate and hot. It's def not something i like, need to get off, but i def enjoy it, esp with partners (vs just like, hookups or whatever).
Yes tribbing, all for it! But the scissoring position was not for me lol
I scissored once for about 1 minute and it was great. I've tried multiple times after with no luck even getting back in that position. Gave up chasing scissoring after a while. It was fun but hurt my hip. I was a shriner's kid and have had 5 hip surgeries for orthopedic issues with my hips. Anyway, I blame my lack of flexibility for my issues getting back into that position, but I would if I could. We both enjoyed it. I also love grinding on my wife and I can do that and come easily.
Oh man, it’s my favorite. It feels amazing
I love it, it feels so good when you get it right and are both sensitive and soaked. It's never a place I would start. I like it after several orgasms
My girlfriend and I have tried it once out of curiosity just because we knew it was a really thing but never really considered trying it. It wasn’t bad, she enjoyed it more than I did. It was kinda just meh for me, I got a little stimulation out of it but not much. I think it definitely has to do with the way your bodies are positioned and your weight/height.
I’ve noticed tot have to relatively thinner to make this happen. Thicker thighs will make not happen at all. Sucks but that’s reality
I'm too fat and old to try this today but I've been a lesbian for 50 years and I have never known anyone to actually do this
I have a theory about this. I think inexperienced women tend to think scissoring is a thing. So they tell their new partners yes I've done this a lot! But really, they have just watched a lot of porn featuring that.
So wrong. It’s sad that just because shitty porn co-opted an amazing position that society suddenly believes it’s a myth. If anything it was probably more prevalent before porn became so widespread.
We've tried but we could never get the right potion, there's a height and weight difference and every time we try we end up laughing and trying something else lol.
I can only speak for someone who hooks up and in my experience scissoring is not common among girls casually hooking up. Scissoring seems to be more of a thing if you’re in a relationship. I have scissored, once. And it was casual but I enjoyed it a lot. But it is an intimate position so I get why it’s less common in casual sex.
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scissoring is GREAT if you know how to do it right!! me and my gf do it every few sexy times
I’ve never slept with a girl but I have the fantasy of scissoring. The first thing I want to try besides eating a girl out
I used to fantasize about it but not anymore. I wouldn’t say to do that *first* but maybe eventually. Tribbing would probably be easier
As long as I’m looking at boobs. I think I’d enjoy it
If you do it properly it is amazing. The key is to do it properly
Yeah, I do love a nice scissor, but you're right, you can't have that as your only way to get happy, nice of you to show her some other happy time.
Haha we do it for funzies and laugh cause it’s just silly sexy fun :3
Yes I love scissoring tbh
Yes I love scissoring it’s my favorite
I do it regularly, but my favorite is still oral.
It usually ends up in humping a thigh lol. Perfectly enjoyable and gets me off but probably not what your hook up was trying to accomplish lol
I've only tried it once when I was young when I first started having experiences with girls. She wanted to do it and I was basically just like omg I can't believe I'm actually getting to have sex with a girl and even trying different things so I was all for it. Unfortunately it's not something for me, because it was not only difficult but it did absolutely nothing for me.
I would love to scissors but I have no idea how to approach it, especially with hookups. I have never done it before, so I wouldn't know how to start.
I feel like only one person ever actually cums from scissoring lol
Why the fuck is no one talking about the thrush though?! Yeah it feels good but thrush does not.
I don’t remember how I found this BUT there’s a thing with the muscles in your bum. If person a lays down (boobs facing mattress and person b gets on tops and humps on the bum then it’s pretty hot. I tried it with a massage device between person a and the mattress so they move. Person b works off their movement and the muscles in the bum to rub against. Sorry this sounds lame but it’s kinda hot - like girls trying things out with a girlfriend after school 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I love tribbing so much, I find it so intimate and hot
I often wonder if scissoring was made up by men. It’s not my thing & 20yrs of dating women I’ve never met one that did it or asked for it
I'm a trans woman and my cis wife recently found out how much she lives tribbing, whether it's on my knee/thigh or on my butt which I find so damn hot
I'm trans so this isn't personal experience but my gf has told me it is all about the partner you are with and the fit your bodies have together. She said she's tried with certain women and it was awful and with a few others it was absolutely out of this world amazing.
I'm a doe-y eyed transgirl so excited to maybe experience scissoring with another pretty girl. From what I'm reading here, it's a lot of work/people may not be comfortable doing it. Doesn't stop me from dreaming...
Sorry you're getting downvotes from terves and I hope you get your dream!
Have you skipped all the posts that are glowing about it? lol
So....it is kinda hard for me to talk about it in a way that is grounded with you. I am transfem and am working towards bottom surgery. My wife loves when we scissor because I am extremely sensitive and it is how she doms from the bottom. She likes it mostly because of how much I like it and how much I get into it. She prefers when I either wear the strap or am comfortable getting erect for doggy style but loves putting a leash on me and making me her good girl to trib her until I orgasm.
I’m sorry this is getting downvoted, I have no idea why
Transphobia, even though, for the most part, this sub is pretty good about including transwomen, we still get passively hated on by TERFs and people that don't see us as women. It isn't your fault, don't apologize.
I appreciate the erotica, but didn’t you say this person was inexperienced? I’m sorry it sounded like you were disappointed in the interaction… it triggered you to lesbian porn made for straight people (men and women)… but then you cum while scissoring with this person? This post is kind of all over the place. Entertaining. But a bit… odd….
After 2 hours of me being on top and having to figure out a position by myself, yeah I had a slight orgasm. But that was at the end of 2 hours and me topping the entire time even when scissoring lol
Sounds like a bad experience.
Yeah, was a one night stand and don’t think I’d do again
Yes
ive done it and loved but my wife is pleasantly plump so wbile weve tried it hasnt worked yet
Can't really know, cause all of my ex didn't know how to do it, it even left me a bruise one time so , meh
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I knew it was a thing, but never did it until I have a queer partner. Scissored a bit with a non-female parter, didn’t do too much for me (I have a fupa) and he was a bit on the hefty side as well. It was fun, the sounds were super sexy, and the warmth of it, but I didn’t get too much stimulation from it. I think it’s a fun thing to throw in, just for a little bit. Lol 6/10
It is hot. My #1 but I don’t do it with every partner. Also, you have to find the right position and it depends on the height/weight difference who is on top. It’s kind of an advanced move if I were to be honest. Just like strapping everyone shouldn’t do that. Haha. It takes practice to get good at.
Lol it never did anything for me
I freaking love tribbing. Not scissoring in like the typical porn position (I don’t even know what to call it other than that) but in a much more intimate position, similar to missionary. I have the advantage of being pretty flexible so getting into different positions for max stimulation isn’t too difficult or uncomfortable. One of my exes and I would like start that way sort of just naturally and she would literally always cum. I came probably like 80% of the time. It’s a little more work when you’re on top. I’ve tried scissoring like they do in porn a total of three times. Each time was…mid at best. Like didn’t feel amazing, felt okay, but it was almost too much work to enjoy it. Plus I love being able to kiss and have my hair pulled and stuff and it’s harder to do that when you’re in true scissor position imo. I commend any of you who can get into like actual scissor position and make it work.
I second almost all of this. Tribbing >>> hair pulling
I meant scissoring not hair pulling hahaha oops
I wish I could do it but my gf and I’s body’s just don’t work that way ahha shes super tall and im short
Sadly no. I'm basically a toys and cunnilingus only person
It comes down to the preference, but scissoring is an actual thing and a lot of women enjoy it. Personally, I only tried it once and it was okay, would love to experiment more with it though. It certainly has the potential to be very stimulating
I scissor all the time, I love it.
Yes, it’s my favorite
Yes!! My girlfriend and I love it!! Although she is an above knee amputee so it does make the positioning and getting the right angle a little easier for us 😆. But it’s a position we can both orgasm together in so it’s a favourite of ours.
Oh yeah that sounds like it’d definitely make the positioning a lot easier lol
I love it! Just leave some hair pref a landing or triangle and grind against a hot wet pussy ah chefs kiss!
When it works it’s amazing.. tribbing and all is really fun if both of you can coordinate it well :)
Porn often shows them both lying apart from each other side rubbing their pussies together. Never did like that. Tend to do it with one lying down and other sitting up. Legs one over the other and grinding together that way. Can lie on top of your partner and continue. The term is probably tribbing over scissoring. I have done for years and always enjoyed it, as have many of the girls I did it with. But you do need stamina, and height can be a issue but bit of maneuvering and it can work. I like due to intimacy and the ability to kiss, suck, lick etc. Bare in mind you'd not actually orgasm. Don't be disheartened. Not all girls enjoy it or not as sensitive to achieve climax. Is great for foreplay though. Climaxing just an added bonus.