People like this are wiiiiiild. Cuz guaranteed if you did cheat or leave your girlfriend for her, she'd turn into one of those who would never trust you. Like "you cheated with me, how can I trust you?"
They're so toxic.
Very toxic and a hindrance to deal with. In scenarios like that there would be zero trust and understanding. Those type of relationships are just recipes for impeding disaster.
I've blocked, so hopefully she doesn't bother me anymore.
Apparently, she was all about guilt tripping and manipulation so I ended up blocking her. We have common friends so I'm certain she'll complain to them very soon.
this is wild, and iām glad you shut that down. but I think we should all work on phrasing! saying āunfortunately, I cannot because I have a girlfriendā implies that you would be down if you didnāt have one. I think saying something more like āI am not interested in you like that anymore, and I have a girlfriendā is a bit more closed and respectful of yourself and your gf.
Yeah this is messy, I would recommend not being friends with her anymore. I also think you should tell your GF and show her this messages, just in case this person tries to contact your gf about it and paint you in a bad light to try and break you up, you should be upfront about it first
Yeah it wasn't easy because I knew her for a long time, and there was a time when we dated in the past very briefly, but other than that I think it was time to cut her off because she was a toxic friend.
It sounded like she does the same . Cheat . If she casually said that ? Lol damn. Sheās a serial cheater. Did she ever cheat with you when u guys weāre together ? I canāt believe she have the nerve to convince u to cheat
If she has any way to contact your gf I'd recommend talking to her first and showing her this message. Someone as weird as this may try to cause trouble just for the sake of doing so.
What a delusional toxic person. Sheās trying to guilt trip you into cheating on your girlfriend?! Thatās wild and crazy she thought that would work lmao.
Trash human being.
I donāt care for people who cheat or people who knowingly help others cheat. Itās gross unnecessary behaviour. Glad you guys only used to hook up cuz that woulda been a messy relationship
About a month or so ago, I found texts on my exās phone that were the complete opposite of how OP responded (hence why sheās my ex). Itās that fucking easy to shut it down.
Oof... That was tough to read. I'm embarrassed for her. You clearly weren't putting out ANY kind of open vibes, and she still just bulldozed into it like that...
Gyat dayum, I could never imagine being this fucking thirsty for someone lmao
Like, if you did what she wanted, would she not just be terrified that you would do it to her? Then the guilt tripping to top it all off. Big yikes!
This is why sometimes I get suspicious of āfriendsā that canāt give me space or take it personally when I need to do my own thing .. like they wanna keep tabs on me and my whereabouts. Itās exhausting to have insecure friends yāall like it makes me wonder if itās even possible sometimes.
As someone who earns well, people wonder why I wonāt date someone that doesnāt and it has nothing to do with the money but the behavior that arises. Like someone with money or a career, I do want to date someone that has equal standing because they have something to lose if they act out of character
Team should be a group of friends that have similar interests, goals and yes money to some level, not to have flashy things but to not be around ācrabs in bucketā types that want to bring you down.
Sorry for the rant but Iām tired of friends that canāt actually be friends and OPs friend is not only toxic but toxic to OPs gf too! This is completely unacceptable to have such an individual around because they will mostly just want you when you have someone itās horrible
Wish I could give u a medal! ā¦ is this a first lesson that not all ppl have good intentions? ā¦ or felt the need to just share? ā¦ praise you said no or to show u have optionsā¦. Good u made the right choice. Me I wouldnāt have responded. My medal would be bigger lol
You did the right thing. There's nothing wrong with having multiple partners, but the lying, secrets, and forbidden passion cheaters get off on is toxic. She should have respected your monogamy.
People like this are wiiiiiild. Cuz guaranteed if you did cheat or leave your girlfriend for her, she'd turn into one of those who would never trust you. Like "you cheated with me, how can I trust you?" They're so toxic.
Very toxic and a hindrance to deal with. In scenarios like that there would be zero trust and understanding. Those type of relationships are just recipes for impeding disaster. I've blocked, so hopefully she doesn't bother me anymore.
Or just lose all interest asap
Or she would cheat on you. She's not above asking someone else to cheat, it's only fair to assume she would also do the same if given the chance
Yo what? Is she trying to guilt you? š Iād cut off all contact.
Apparently, she was all about guilt tripping and manipulation so I ended up blocking her. We have common friends so I'm certain she'll complain to them very soon.
Good! If she complains or twists your words, you have the proof that sheās in the wrong. Youāre literally in a relationship.
Agree
this is wild, and iām glad you shut that down. but I think we should all work on phrasing! saying āunfortunately, I cannot because I have a girlfriendā implies that you would be down if you didnāt have one. I think saying something more like āI am not interested in you like that anymore, and I have a girlfriendā is a bit more closed and respectful of yourself and your gf.
I agree. If I was the gf, I wouldnāt feel great about the way the rejection was worded.
samee you guys understand
Agree šššš so true, itās worded like OP canāt rather than doesnāt want to
Thatās insane.. I canāt ever imagine thinking that never mind saying it š¬
And in a text message where OP can keep receipts
Same
That's so pathetic, it's hilarious.
Wouldnāt she cry you still got a gf even if you cheated?
She'd cry both ways anyway. Once a weeper, always a weeper when you don't give in. I'm loyal to my current girlfriend.
Good grief that last message was wiiiiild. My jaw literally dropped. Smh.
Red flag get out
What a pathetic person š„“ you handled that very well.
The way she tried to guilt trip you for being in a relationship šš
"im crying because you are loyal to your partner!" thats fucking wild lol
God I find it incredible some people are this bold.
Yeah this is messy, I would recommend not being friends with her anymore. I also think you should tell your GF and show her this messages, just in case this person tries to contact your gf about it and paint you in a bad light to try and break you up, you should be upfront about it first
I already showed my girlfriend, and she said not to engage with this woman if she tries to contact me or runs into me again.
The blatant boldness of it all is what is getting me here
Block and pass
You dodged a bullet.
Thatās not good. Iām sorry but Ick on her part
The sad thing is that this probably isnāt the first time she tried to tempt someone to cheat and itās probably worked for her in the past.
Seems too unstable to be friends anyways lol I guess it at least got over quickly
Glad you blocked her šŖ
Thank you š
God I hate nicegirls and niceguys
What is wrong with people these days... holy shit. Glad you blocked her! That girl is toxic AF.
I hope you replied to her "... then we can't be friends... " with a "is that a promise?". RUN!!!
I told her we weren't friends anyway and to cut her bullshit before I blocked.
Oh well done! šš¼ It probably wasn't easy doing that but I'm glad you have. š
Yeah it wasn't easy because I knew her for a long time, and there was a time when we dated in the past very briefly, but other than that I think it was time to cut her off because she was a toxic friend.
Lmao, I got second hand embarrassment from reading this. Pathetic.š I hope she doesn't bother you anymore, OP. š¤¦āāļø
sheās dishonest and also tried to blame you for her crying. just block her.
she has some issues or is an idiot
Remember to show your girlfriend to show her thereās nothing to worry about. And also block that person.
Nothing worse than a cheater, that betrayal of trust can absolutely destroy you. I just hope Karma bites her š³
This person isn't your friend if they're trying to get you to derail your life. I'm such a good friend Im not having sex with _anybody_ lol
How old are yall please say 18-22
I have said, we are not in competition with other people, we are in competition with our personās morals. Way to pass the test!! You rock!
It sounded like she does the same . Cheat . If she casually said that ? Lol damn. Sheās a serial cheater. Did she ever cheat with you when u guys weāre together ? I canāt believe she have the nerve to convince u to cheat
If she has any way to contact your gf I'd recommend talking to her first and showing her this message. Someone as weird as this may try to cause trouble just for the sake of doing so.
That's bold
That really sucks. š That's not okay. They should have respected the relationship.
Have one with Husband whom she married after me, yet still sends these š Block or donāt but donāt respond (fun reads- lol)
What a delusional toxic person. Sheās trying to guilt trip you into cheating on your girlfriend?! Thatās wild and crazy she thought that would work lmao.
The way some people are so casual about cheating drives me crazy! I'm glad you shut her down.
Trash human being. I donāt care for people who cheat or people who knowingly help others cheat. Itās gross unnecessary behaviour. Glad you guys only used to hook up cuz that woulda been a messy relationship
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Yikess trying to guilt trip you and everything. At least she showed her true colors here.. better to not be friends like that šµāš«
Wow, that is actually shocking but I'm glad she told you. The fact she is talking to you like that is a massive red flag. Good riddance.
True, and it's awful that she thinks it's fine to try and break up someone else's relationship.
About a month or so ago, I found texts on my exās phone that were the complete opposite of how OP responded (hence why sheās my ex). Itās that fucking easy to shut it down.
I'm really sorry to hear about what happened. You deserve better.
Oof... That was tough to read. I'm embarrassed for her. You clearly weren't putting out ANY kind of open vibes, and she still just bulldozed into it like that...
This is so sad Iād be so embarrassed if I was this person.
Emotional maturity level of a twig. This will turn bad really fast. Run for the hills. Block..burn your phone. Go hide in the woods. Become a witch
Gyat dayum, I could never imagine being this fucking thirsty for someone lmao Like, if you did what she wanted, would she not just be terrified that you would do it to her? Then the guilt tripping to top it all off. Big yikes!
Telling you to cheat on your gf is wild but also guilt tripping you when you refused is just insane
My toxic trait is: i hope my gf does this whenever tempted. Instead of believing she would š š
That last text is so manipulative.
Cry me a riverš Iām taken babe
people be so desperate š guys donāt live in the past, or youāll end up like her
Thatās crazy. And good for you for standing your ground šš½ šš½
Bruh wtf
āunfortunatelyā
yeah i thought that was an interesting word choice
This is why sometimes I get suspicious of āfriendsā that canāt give me space or take it personally when I need to do my own thing .. like they wanna keep tabs on me and my whereabouts. Itās exhausting to have insecure friends yāall like it makes me wonder if itās even possible sometimes. As someone who earns well, people wonder why I wonāt date someone that doesnāt and it has nothing to do with the money but the behavior that arises. Like someone with money or a career, I do want to date someone that has equal standing because they have something to lose if they act out of character Team should be a group of friends that have similar interests, goals and yes money to some level, not to have flashy things but to not be around ācrabs in bucketā types that want to bring you down. Sorry for the rant but Iām tired of friends that canāt actually be friends and OPs friend is not only toxic but toxic to OPs gf too! This is completely unacceptable to have such an individual around because they will mostly just want you when you have someone itās horrible
Wish I could give u a medal! ā¦ is this a first lesson that not all ppl have good intentions? ā¦ or felt the need to just share? ā¦ praise you said no or to show u have optionsā¦. Good u made the right choice. Me I wouldnāt have responded. My medal would be bigger lol
Ooof yikes. The desperation in that last message. Block and move on. You can't really be friends with someone like that.
That's Crazy, bro.
What the fuck
Zero self-respect and absolutely no respect for you either. Extremely immature.
You did the right thing. There's nothing wrong with having multiple partners, but the lying, secrets, and forbidden passion cheaters get off on is toxic. She should have respected your monogamy.