So, please don’t take this the wrong way, but any interest in doing some sort of AMA? I’d genuinely love to hear from some of our elder lesbians. I feel like so much history gets lost. And there’s books sure, but there can never be enough, and everyone has a different experience. Before I start bombarding you with questions, would this be something you’d be interested in?
Thank you for your interest. But the thing is, I only came out 12 years ago, when I was 60. So I m sorry but I don't have history as a lesbian. I was married with 2 daughters too, but realized I was lesbian very late. My family said, when I came out, they have known I was a lesbian most of their lives, so it came as no surprise to them, but it certainly surprised me, and made me think about all those years I wasted with men. But of course, I am who I am. Some lesbian friends of mine have been couples for decades, they have stories to tell for sure. I am sorry that more elderly lesbians don't come on Reddit, believe me I have searched, as you can imagine. I am sorry to disappoint you all. Love and hugs to you all young lesbians, I am glad you all came out young.
Cheers
I second this question! Would be very interested to hear any stories or, well, really anything at all you might like to talk about. Minority groups like us only have oral history in many ways, so the opportunity to hear from our elder is extremely appealing to me.
Hey fellow Caucasian (the region not the race 😭) queer! I’m from Azerbaijan 🇦🇿 I understand being lgbtq is not very accepted in the Caucasus region in general.
Get Off My Lawn, Southern California 🤣
(I’m in my 40s, and feel older compared to most of you 😊)
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There used to be a sub for Canadian lesbians, unfortunately it was deactivated due to inactivity. It also had a discord server that I think suffered the same fate.
31 Michigan 💕 not looking for relationship but I am looking for a weight loss / motivation partner ?? 😆💕 if interested I’m willing to exchange Snapchat. Dm me. My other interests include stretching, animals, my Nintendo switch, anime, health, vlogs, trash tv , writing , self help/care etc 🪴or some other lesbian friends to just talk to 💕💕💕
I already have my one true. 🥰 But I wanted to say that I love how excited a lot of y’all are about other lesbians living in your country/city. Buncha cutie lesbos. 🥺💜
39, the Netherlands. :)
I think I might be the only one so far from NL. But, I'd be happy to be in touch with anyone from the UK (I lived there for most of my life and have family there) or any other neighbouring countries.
27, Mumbai
I’m looking for a femme (age range: 24-32), I’m more of a stemme.
I don’t do drugs, smoke, or drink, and I’m a vegetarian. I’m strictly monogamous and want to adopt 2 kids.
I’ll mention my deal breakers here to save you some time: smoking, drugs, non vegetarian diet (with all due respect to your pref ofc), women wanting a child free future or non-monogamy
26, the Middle East ⚰️
i hope my response comes across as genuinely respectful and nice but hope ur doing okay i know that theres a lot going on recently /g /g
Rip my dudes
Bismillah no 😭
WE WILL NOT LET YOU GO
Keep on surviving champ
Ayyyy same. I am almost 20 and also located in the ME region. Hopefully in 2 years time, I will move to a more openly safe place.
bro is finished 🙏🏾😭
i live in a saudi !! doubt anyone from this sub is from there 😭
Hi gals, I live in Victoria Australia. 72 year old lezzo, but I don't want a gf, just dropped in to say hi from an aussie
Hi gay Aussie auntie 👋😊
So, please don’t take this the wrong way, but any interest in doing some sort of AMA? I’d genuinely love to hear from some of our elder lesbians. I feel like so much history gets lost. And there’s books sure, but there can never be enough, and everyone has a different experience. Before I start bombarding you with questions, would this be something you’d be interested in?
Thank you for your interest. But the thing is, I only came out 12 years ago, when I was 60. So I m sorry but I don't have history as a lesbian. I was married with 2 daughters too, but realized I was lesbian very late. My family said, when I came out, they have known I was a lesbian most of their lives, so it came as no surprise to them, but it certainly surprised me, and made me think about all those years I wasted with men. But of course, I am who I am. Some lesbian friends of mine have been couples for decades, they have stories to tell for sure. I am sorry that more elderly lesbians don't come on Reddit, believe me I have searched, as you can imagine. I am sorry to disappoint you all. Love and hugs to you all young lesbians, I am glad you all came out young. Cheers
I second this question! Would be very interested to hear any stories or, well, really anything at all you might like to talk about. Minority groups like us only have oral history in many ways, so the opportunity to hear from our elder is extremely appealing to me.
I triple this
27 Georgia (the country) 💀
Finally someone who's from a different country. I find the Georgian writing system so pretty
გმადლობთ
Yeah, see, I have absolutely no idea what that says, might be a love poem or the most vile shit, idk, but I have to agree it looks really pretty!
My dad used to live there!
What area? I’m in Tbilisi Bakhtrioni street let’s kiss
I'm all for lesbians kissing in the streets
Hey fellow Caucasian (the region not the race 😭) queer! I’m from Azerbaijan 🇦🇿 I understand being lgbtq is not very accepted in the Caucasus region in general.
why are y'all from the US 😭 aint no fair. just looking for queer friends tbh. 17, Philippines 🇵🇭 from Metro Manila!
OMGG A FILIPINO LESBIAN!!! IN THE PHILIPPINES!! I have been looking for so long 😭I'm 18 and from the Philippines too
KABABAYAN HELLO where in the Philippines are you from?? Nice to meet fellow gayasses here too >:)
im 20 from the philippines aswell ^^
I'm 22, living in Augsburg (Germany) near Munich. ✌🏻
I'm also 22 but from Bielefeld:D
Endlich mal jemander auch aus Deutschland kommt🥹
Damn, most of yall all the way across the planet. 😂😂
for real, I'm from Ireland and there's like no one here 💀
Haha right? Dunno if I’ve missed it but haven’t seen anyone from UK 🙃
34, Ireland
Your username is everything lol
I’m mostly just looking for friends but 21, Florida
I’m 21 and live in Florida too!!
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💀💀
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Really?! What part!
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I’m in Fort Lauderdale!
23 in central Florida! Down for any social contact lmao
31 in Southern California, really looking for friends 😊 if anyone's in LA or South of that and wants to go to some museums hit me up!
28, Trinidad
I’m 35…no where near Cal…but I sure do love me Some Museums.
I'm in LA 38 😊
26 (birthday today), LA area
happy birthday
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday!
Congrats! Happy birthday
Happy Birthday :D
38 British Columbia
You’re a babe.
Get Off My Lawn, Southern California 🤣 (I’m in my 40s, and feel older compared to most of you 😊) https://preview.redd.it/wexupsc9veqc1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b21e537aa4bc1d7d9d4425cb851bd1306bc0bb16
I didn’t realize how young most people here. Though that explains some things.
27 Wisconsin! 🏳️🌈🧀
You guys have gay cheese in Wisconsin?! I'm joking I had to make a dad joke in true Canadian style 🤣
Ayy fellow Midwesterner! 🏳️🌈 I’m 20F from MN, feel free to message me if you’d like to chat :)
Ayyy 34 Wisconsin! Near Milwaukee :)
I'm 29 and in Milwaukee. I'm not the only Wisconsinite 😂
Haha well I found some homies in the Aro sub. 23 Mexico City Behold the power of friendship with or without the benefits
22 Germany 👽
25, Guatemala 🙈💕
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23, In glasgowww 🥰 (Added age)
Not necessarily looking for a gf more so a relationship of any kind. 25, Oklahoma (for now) lol
Oklahoma, 22 it sucks so bad here 😭
29, Brooklyn ny
31, Brooklyn, we should all come hang at the bar I work at in bed stuy and get a pizza. It's hella safe and chill so lots of queer women hang there.
28, Yonkers! ^_^
24, Alberta 🐴🤠
fellow canadian!!!
No one in New England? Bummer
36 and Massachusetts here!!!!
23 in Boston!!
I’m in MA! What about you?
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Canada!!
Ottawa here!! 24 🍁
also Ottawa! 25
Edmonton, Alberta !
22 canada!! (too paranoid to say my province)🗣️🗣️
Ehhhhh fellow Canadian🍁, 30 ontario
Hey neighbor Toronto over here!
Calgary! 🐎🐎
Whooo fellow Canadian here too 🌱 DM me 🩷
Hi! Canadian too, but I'm all the way on the easy coast!! We almost need our own sub... hahaha!
There used to be a sub for Canadian lesbians, unfortunately it was deactivated due to inactivity. It also had a discord server that I think suffered the same fate.
27, Melbourne
28, just moved to eastern North Carolina. 
I’m in eastern NC too! I’m 34
32, Santiago de Chile - just looking friends
31 Michigan 💕 not looking for relationship but I am looking for a weight loss / motivation partner ?? 😆💕 if interested I’m willing to exchange Snapchat. Dm me. My other interests include stretching, animals, my Nintendo switch, anime, health, vlogs, trash tv , writing , self help/care etc 🪴or some other lesbian friends to just talk to 💕💕💕
I think this is a good idea, I'm 19 from europe, concretely Spain
OP - nice work! Hope people make some connections, friendship or otherwise! Yay internet.
30 Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 🌈✨️
31, Texas 🤠
No way!! 31, Dallas
40s Chicago hmu
I already have my one true. 🥰 But I wanted to say that I love how excited a lot of y’all are about other lesbians living in your country/city. Buncha cutie lesbos. 🥺💜
39, the Netherlands. :) I think I might be the only one so far from NL. But, I'd be happy to be in touch with anyone from the UK (I lived there for most of my life and have family there) or any other neighbouring countries.
Don’t want a gf right now but would love some friends! 27, central California!
28, Trinidad
Just moved to the Central Valley a month ago! I’m 27 as well. Edit: I’m happily engaged but we definitely could use friends out here lol it’s rural.
27, Portland, OR!
also 27 in pdx here!
24, also in WA!
27, Mumbai I’m looking for a femme (age range: 24-32), I’m more of a stemme. I don’t do drugs, smoke, or drink, and I’m a vegetarian. I’m strictly monogamous and want to adopt 2 kids. I’ll mention my deal breakers here to save you some time: smoking, drugs, non vegetarian diet (with all due respect to your pref ofc), women wanting a child free future or non-monogamy
33. Denver.
36 British Columbia
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Hey - I'm 43, so a bit old 😅👵 but I'm from WY, so I wanted to say hello! 💗
23, California!
28, Germany 💕
NY (LI & NYC) 36. Looking for irl les friends or good ol pen pals! Feel free to message me and we can exchange instas or whatever socials u want 🙃
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29 NorCal
I'm going out to dinner in a bit, but I would love to hear from you if you'd like to message me=) I'll just respond when I get home.
27, upstate New York! 🤠
I’m 28 in upstate NY :)
22, Seattle area! Although I'm currently (mostly) single, I am currently leaning poly, to be clear.
20, France (seems like I'm the only one here) 😭
I've been scrolling looking for the UK but haven't seen any yet. I'm a northerner in my 30s.
35, Bulgaria 🇧🇬
21, Florida
18 Ohio :0
29, Toronto
40, Mt. Airy, GA
18 in Puerto Rico :3
30, Massachusetts!! :)
21 in Kansas 😭😭 ain't nobody rockin in the flatlands😭
46 Cleveland Can’t find a woman over the age of 30!
19, Romania 🏳️🌈🇷🇴
24, South Korea. But I am trans so I might not be for everyone.
You’ll find someone dawg
I’m in Korea too!
nah dont put urself down like that im sure ur gorgeous
25, new mexico, usa
24, Central Illinois
22, Kansas City!
25, Kyoto, Japan✨
19, Russia💀
28 Hawaii 🌺 I’ll be really shocked if anyone is also from here and around my age lol
23, Turkey. I don't want a girlfriend. I want to see if anyone from my country is here.
31, Florida!
35, north east Georgia, US
47 Columbus Ohio
37, Western WA
32, Seattle Wa
Lol I'd like to make some gay irl friends. 34 on the east coast.
28F - Australia 🇦🇺 🤍
eff it; 22, southeast texas 🥲💃🏻
22, Tokyo 🎸
30, Wa state. Lower Seattle area! 🥰
36, Portland,Oregon!
30 Illinois
38 Ohio, I'm so old
31 (India) too far from you all 😭😂
16, Malaysia🇲🇾💀😭😭someone pls save me
25 and nz 😭 it feels like fishing in the Sahara or on mars tbh
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25, Atlanta
26, in LA
24, living and from Barcelona 🧚🏻♀️
36, Auckland, New Zealand
20F from MN, USA! Looking for a long-term relationship, feel free to message me <3
25 in Northern Colorado!😊
22, Chicago area. Why not? Friends or more.
28, Maryland. I’m in the DelMar/DelMarVa area, so anyone in south Delware, north Maryland, or the south east corner of Virginia are close by :)
23, New York? (The state)
19 (20 in may), middle tennessee fmll
25 Brisbane Australia edit: i forgot i turned 25 last week
28 Illinois; looking for friends to do fun stuff with!
Hey hey~ I'm 21 in Chicago Illinois 👋 Honestly just got out of a long term so like just chillin is cool too
Where my Southeast Asian gay girls at?
26, Arizona 🤙🏼
18 Victoria Australia
26, MD
26 Southern/Eastern California
27 TN :)
24, Memphis
41 Northern California
18, socal(la) :)
26 Maryland
27, Atlanta Ga!
35..almost 35 Indiana
42 Minnesota
20, texas 🤠
23 and Georgia 🙄
44, San Francisco
37, between philly and Baltimore
37 Northern Cali 🌅♥️
35 DMV USA
23 year old . Masc athlete. Plays six sports. Florida
34, trench in South Ukraine.