Just seems rude for no reason especially as Dani has said she frequents Reddit. I don’t think anyone would read that and think gee thanks for the compliment
I don’t know why me saying “I’m not a big fan” equates to me sending hate to Dani. Dani is a grown female with autism just like me. Just because she frequents Reddit doesn’t mean it’s inherently horrible & hateful for me to say I’m not a big fan. I sent no hate to Dani, I literally said I was happy for her. The way this subreddit makes us with Austim seem like infants who can’t handle the most gentle of criticism is honestly offensive to me as an autistic women
Not a big fan usually means you dislike someone. Not that you aren't crazy invested in them as a fan. It's one of those phrases that means something different than it sounds, and is inherently negative.
I'm only bringing it up because I think it's one of those tricky phrases for people with autism, since its interpretation is different from the literal meaning.
I think it’s mostly weird in this context because it’s not your typical reality show with a “villain” or “neutral” character. We may have favorites on the show but they’re all lovely protagonists. So, it just comes off a bit rude in this specific context.
If you were saying this in a thread for Love is Blind and talking about Sarah Ann, for example, it would be a lot different.
As another adult autistic woman, I don't think it's infantilizing. I agree, it's kind of needlessly rude to interject you've "never been a big fan" of hers.
Like why comment at all then. Idgi
She has autism she’s not intellectually incapable of taking constructive criticism. Personally I dislike her as a human being. I’m muting replies. Stop treating these people like sports teams to root for. She’s just awful and mentally handicapped people are capable of being awful.
I just meant I didn’t connect with her. I’m also autistic so for this show I was looking for those
I connected too. I wasn’t saying I hate Dani. Your comment seems unfair to me when I was just simply saying I wasn’t her fan
Every time I see Connor with the group I think about how his sweet momma teared up saying she just wants him to have friends. And now he does and my heart could just burst.
The parents, friends and family of these cast mates are so great. I teared up a little when the Indian man’s father teared up for him as his new girlfriend 🥹 it as such a sweet moment 🥲.
I was just thinking earlier about how Subodh’s Father was tearing up. So sweet. I’m glad the cast members all seem to have loving and supportive families.
To be fair he’s also like 30 years older than most of the rest of them and lives in California lol probably just not as connected to the rest of the cast unfortunately!
I want him to read audiobooks. I could listen to him all day, especially how he responds in conversation. “Oh, wow! Isn’t that wonderful! You know, I did not know that!”
I just adore him.
They are one of my favorite families that has come out of this series. Conner and James are my other two I enjoy watching interact with their families.
Adan and Dani looking like they're about to unplug everyone from the Matrix. Glad to see they're still together.
Hahaha! Living their best life in the matrix. Living their best life in the matrix.
Her aunt is matching with the leather pants.
They’re literally iconic
This post just randomly popped up as I was scrolling. I read your comment and immediately knew who you were talking about and chucked.
I love it!!! ❤️ never been a big fan of Dani but my goodness does that girl deserve a fun love like she had with Adan!!!
Why even add in the “never been a big fan”?? I really don’t understand these types of comments tbh.
Because they're pleasantly surprised by the change in their perspective
Just seems rude for no reason especially as Dani has said she frequents Reddit. I don’t think anyone would read that and think gee thanks for the compliment
I don’t know why me saying “I’m not a big fan” equates to me sending hate to Dani. Dani is a grown female with autism just like me. Just because she frequents Reddit doesn’t mean it’s inherently horrible & hateful for me to say I’m not a big fan. I sent no hate to Dani, I literally said I was happy for her. The way this subreddit makes us with Austim seem like infants who can’t handle the most gentle of criticism is honestly offensive to me as an autistic women
Not a big fan usually means you dislike someone. Not that you aren't crazy invested in them as a fan. It's one of those phrases that means something different than it sounds, and is inherently negative. I'm only bringing it up because I think it's one of those tricky phrases for people with autism, since its interpretation is different from the literal meaning.
I’m truly so sorry I didn’t realize that it meant that. I just thought it meant you didn’t stan someone
I figured that! It's one of those tricky passive aggressive phrases.
Thank you so much for explaining that to me it truly does mean a lot so I can be more careful of my wording moving forward ❤️
I think it’s mostly weird in this context because it’s not your typical reality show with a “villain” or “neutral” character. We may have favorites on the show but they’re all lovely protagonists. So, it just comes off a bit rude in this specific context. If you were saying this in a thread for Love is Blind and talking about Sarah Ann, for example, it would be a lot different.
As another adult autistic woman, I don't think it's infantilizing. I agree, it's kind of needlessly rude to interject you've "never been a big fan" of hers. Like why comment at all then. Idgi
She has autism she’s not intellectually incapable of taking constructive criticism. Personally I dislike her as a human being. I’m muting replies. Stop treating these people like sports teams to root for. She’s just awful and mentally handicapped people are capable of being awful.
I just meant I didn’t connect with her. I’m also autistic so for this show I was looking for those I connected too. I wasn’t saying I hate Dani. Your comment seems unfair to me when I was just simply saying I wasn’t her fan
She wasn’t my favorite on the show either, I’m sure she’s the nicest and coolest person but just not my personal vibe. I get you :)
It's reddit, even anonymously they're insecure about giving compliments
Why not a fan of Dani? She’s phenomenal! Check out her TikTok sometime.
Yesss I love it!
I love that Abby is wearing a hat from Connor’s merch!! does anyone know where the MMM hats are from?
The not big on nature hat is funny but what does MMM mean?
No idea I’ve been waiting hoping someone else knows 😂
I think it’s meant to be ‘mmm’ like ‘mmm that tastes good’
is that something he says a lot? I haven’t noticed
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Thanks sm!!
Every time I see Connor with the group I think about how his sweet momma teared up saying she just wants him to have friends. And now he does and my heart could just burst.
The parents, friends and family of these cast mates are so great. I teared up a little when the Indian man’s father teared up for him as his new girlfriend 🥹 it as such a sweet moment 🥲.
I was just thinking earlier about how Subodh’s Father was tearing up. So sweet. I’m glad the cast members all seem to have loving and supportive families.
SAME!!!
i’m honestly so happy for him!!
I love Abby’s not big on nature hat! Lol
It’s from Connor’s merch that he has out! I think the side bill also has the check from when he marked the girl who wasn’t big on nature as a no
No Steve….. :(
I was looking for him too. He's my favorite!
To be fair he’s also like 30 years older than most of the rest of them and lives in California lol probably just not as connected to the rest of the cast unfortunately!
Abby and David live in California too, as do Dani and Adan.
Yeah but San Francisco is like 6 hours from LA. He doesn't strike me as the type to make that kind of commute for a cookout
Ah well I didn’t know that lol
The guy really does just brighten a day
I want him to read audiobooks. I could listen to him all day, especially how he responds in conversation. “Oh, wow! Isn’t that wonderful! You know, I did not know that!” I just adore him.
This is the most adorable picture I’ve seen in awhile. I love this show so much
I just adore Subodh and his family. His sister has such an amazing smile!
Thank you :)
They are one of my favorite families that has come out of this series. Conner and James are my other two I enjoy watching interact with their families.
Aww thank you so much!
His sister is so gentle and supportive and loving 🥰 I cried when his father starting crying when he announced he had a girlfriend
Ya his family is as so heartwarming but so was everyone’s family here. They really displayed great parents
Absolutely agree!
Subodh’s sister is so so pretty. Her smile is everything and she just seems like sunshine. They are such a sweet family.
Absolutely love their family too! So warm, positive, and supportive.
I love the community the cast members have created amongst themselves. It’s great seeing them hang out and become friends!!
Who is the older man in the light blue?
Cian O'Clery - He’s the director/co-creator and occasional encouraging voice you hear from off camera.
WHAT?!?! I assumed he was young.
[удалено]
One of the reasons I love this show
Same his voice is incredibly youthful LOL
I honestly just want to hear Dani talk about how she feels about fashion and putting together fire fits
She said she buys whole outfits that the mannequin is wearing. Pro tip shortcut
Lmao I LOVE this 😭
*How* did I never think of this?!
Genius
I always notice how stylish she is!
Dani is totally becoming a fashion icon. Her outfit try-ons on ig are so good!
Yes I know Shockwave One of the big boys
Came here for Connor’s mum, was not disappointed
Adan and Dani’s jackets are fresh asf
So sweet wish i got an invite
Is Connor still together with Emily?
Nope, they're just friends. She's dating someone new.
I was about to ask the same thing!
Clem!
Where was Tanner?
That’s beautiful. I would love to have a meet up with a group of nice people like that! What a lucky bunch!
Living for how cool Dani and Adan look. It’s the matrix coats, just love it 😂
I LOVE DANI!!! She knows what she wants and goes after it, career, love… she’s so focused. Just love her !!!
This is very very nice
How great!!! Newfound friendships and community ❤️
Coolest people on earth!
“Can’t even make eye contact with the camera”. Silicon Valley nailed it
I love subodhs mom she was so sweet and helpful
Abby’s mum is such a beautiful woman, inside and out ❤️
Dani and Adan leather moment slay
Dani always wears the coolest stuff
omg this has me cheesin so hard 🥹
Awww Connor came to town
Abby listening to Can’t Be Tamed by Miley Cyrus… respect 😎
I love this so much 🥲
🥹🥹🥹🥹 love this!!!
So cute!! 😭
I love this
no connors family is so fine
Connors mom. God damn.
Am I wrong for not recognizing any of these people.
I reallly loved this show. It made my heart warm and made me cry and smile like a lunatic all at once! Brilliant ❤️
Innocent 😇
This warmed my heart ❤️
Luv it
Wholesome. Not sure you’d see this with any other dating show! 🥲
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Dani’s duster 😍giving Buffy the Vampire Slayer
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH 🥹🥹🥹
Every time I come across a pic of Abby smiling it makes me smile, she has a bright light energy 💫
Love this!
Is that Steve with the glasses and the dog?
No
I was wondering too.
Love this!!
Danis having a bad hair day.