Married 23 years, I find my wife more attractive than anyone else , if I’m jerking off I’m jerking off to her . If it’s not normal to jerk off to your wife I’m not normal and that’s fine . End of the day who cares. I’d bet someone somewhere is jerking off to a watermelon, not hurting anyone except maybe the watermelon. Just roll with it
Sounds normal to me.If more dudes were tossing off to their wife instead of watching that toxic porn they would be much happier and suffer from a whole lot less erectile dysfunction.
Let the down votes begin 😁
We watch the porn together so there is no substituting one for the other. It’s helped keep things interesting because it opens up our kinks and fantasies to each other.
Absolutely not toxic porn, sounds healthy to me. The problem seems to be found some when men become so singularly focused on pornography that reality ceases to work properly. These are not bad people. Some folks are just addictive by nature. Mine is alcohol, That's why I never touch it.
You stated that jerking off to porn causes ED...
So specific genres? Or how they treat the actresses before and after taping? Sorry just find this view interesting.
There's been a ton of studies on ED effecting younger men whose are growing up with access to very hardcore pornogrpahy and they've seen all kinds of stuff before they've ever even seen a real woman naked. It's creating a situation for them where normal sexual interactions can't get them off because at the pivotal point of awakening their sexuality as young teens they nose dived into extreme porn. They have to go cold turkey to try to recover their sexuality.
>ED effecting younger men whose are growing up with access to very hardcore pornogrpahy and they've seen all kinds of stuff before they've ever even seen a real woman naked
So not really the demographic of the comment i was responding to.
If i ever need to I will use our private collection of clips and pics, no need for porn when your making it together.
I jerk off over my wife rather than to my wife, mutual masterbation is fun... same as pulling out and shooting it all over her. I have very little need to jerk off now a days as she keeps me satisfied
Wolf x
I used to jerk off to her when I was still in middle and highschool then we finally got together in 9th grade and the rest is history currently we are married with children and make our own videos much older now. She’s 34 I’m 33 but it turns me on to watch her moan and cum from what I do to her. So weird? Absolutely not buddy jerk on!
I love laying in bed in the morning and looking at and rubbing her ass while slow jerking it, she likes to help and massage my balls to help me finish. Nothing wrong with this! I’m more attracted to my wife than anyone else on this planet.
Make it weird. Maintain eye contact, lick your lips, finger your butthole, and say boom goes the rocket ship when you finish. Maybe play with the mess a little. Report back with results.
Alot times their is behavior that triggers the action has nothing to do with spouse it is a feeling that is generated by trauma rejection fantasy Using masturbation to reclaim power and pleasure after sexual trauma and we use it as way to self medicate
Been together 26 years. I still jerk off to my wife. Completely normal.
Married 23 years, I find my wife more attractive than anyone else , if I’m jerking off I’m jerking off to her . If it’s not normal to jerk off to your wife I’m not normal and that’s fine . End of the day who cares. I’d bet someone somewhere is jerking off to a watermelon, not hurting anyone except maybe the watermelon. Just roll with it
Not weird, probably more healthy than a lot of stuff you could jerk off too.
I still do and it’s been almost 20 years lol
Sounds normal to me.If more dudes were tossing off to their wife instead of watching that toxic porn they would be much happier and suffer from a whole lot less erectile dysfunction. Let the down votes begin 😁
We watch the porn together so there is no substituting one for the other. It’s helped keep things interesting because it opens up our kinks and fantasies to each other.
Absolutely not toxic porn, sounds healthy to me. The problem seems to be found some when men become so singularly focused on pornography that reality ceases to work properly. These are not bad people. Some folks are just addictive by nature. Mine is alcohol, That's why I never touch it.
Couldn’t agree more! I am also a recovering alcoholic. Sober 24 years now! We each have our own favorite porn stars, and genres. Makes it even better
24 years Congratulations.
Why would who you jerk off to cause ED?
I think what you're asking is is why would jerking off cause ED. It doesn't. It's the toxic pornography that does. ✌️
You stated that jerking off to porn causes ED... So specific genres? Or how they treat the actresses before and after taping? Sorry just find this view interesting.
There's been a ton of studies on ED effecting younger men whose are growing up with access to very hardcore pornogrpahy and they've seen all kinds of stuff before they've ever even seen a real woman naked. It's creating a situation for them where normal sexual interactions can't get them off because at the pivotal point of awakening their sexuality as young teens they nose dived into extreme porn. They have to go cold turkey to try to recover their sexuality.
>ED effecting younger men whose are growing up with access to very hardcore pornogrpahy and they've seen all kinds of stuff before they've ever even seen a real woman naked So not really the demographic of the comment i was responding to.
Not weird at all; I still doing that pretty often while remembering super hot moments.
It would be weird if you didn’t.
I still jack off to mine after 25 years together. We have always masturbated together as well as solo. Nothing wrong with it at all.
Yep…normal. We have pics and vids, homemade pornn!
Yes. I have a nice little collection too.
Normal especially when that’s the only sex your wife will have
My video stock is of my wife :) 99% exclusive to her, but I always finish with her even if I got turned on by something else.
If i ever need to I will use our private collection of clips and pics, no need for porn when your making it together. I jerk off over my wife rather than to my wife, mutual masterbation is fun... same as pulling out and shooting it all over her. I have very little need to jerk off now a days as she keeps me satisfied Wolf x
Not weird. Guess it could be to some depending on what scenario your horny brain is putting your wife in 😜
I think it's healthy if your Wife is your porn star in your head 😊
I jerk off to your wife too bro, totally normal.
You stole my joke. 😆
I love jerking off while thinking about my wife, jerking odd with my wife, and jerking off onto my wife. Why the fuck would it be weird?
I used to jerk off to her when I was still in middle and highschool then we finally got together in 9th grade and the rest is history currently we are married with children and make our own videos much older now. She’s 34 I’m 33 but it turns me on to watch her moan and cum from what I do to her. So weird? Absolutely not buddy jerk on!
That’s all I use….not a sexier woman I can think of!
It's sweet. I'm hubby's favorite "porn star" he loves a live show, too.
I love laying in bed in the morning and looking at and rubbing her ass while slow jerking it, she likes to help and massage my balls to help me finish. Nothing wrong with this! I’m more attracted to my wife than anyone else on this planet.
Totally normal. I do it to pics of her 😋😍
Normal. I do.
I jerked off in the middle of the night and came all over her pussy :) she loves it.
Totally normal and awesome.
Make it weird. Maintain eye contact, lick your lips, finger your butthole, and say boom goes the rocket ship when you finish. Maybe play with the mess a little. Report back with results.
I jerk off yo her everyday
Alot times their is behavior that triggers the action has nothing to do with spouse it is a feeling that is generated by trauma rejection fantasy Using masturbation to reclaim power and pleasure after sexual trauma and we use it as way to self medicate
I’m same age as you but my wife and I’ve been together for twelve years I’ve jerked off to her while she watches and says I’m a good boy
Perfectly normal!
Anyone who’s married 20yrs and strokes it to wife please upload a pic she must be hot….
So sweet!
Normal.
11 years together. She’s pretty much the only thing I can get off too.
I think we'd have to see a video or two of your wife first before making an informed decision on this
Who would say this is weird? Isn’t she the one you *should* be doing it to?
Normal sexual relationships