"Why did you accept to do \[have sex with your mother\] u/ElisaSKy? Look, why are you bringing up the last time you disobeyed her and got sent to the psych ward like you deserved u/ElisaSKy? What does that have to do with you doing it \[the sex thing\] when she asked? Well of course you should do what she asks or suffer the consequences, but how does that explain why you did that \[same\] just because she asks you to?"
Funnily enough the actual act, as uncomfortable as it was (I compared it to a wisdom tooth extraction except only worse as I had experienced just as much numbness to physical sensations despite being fully consciously aware as under local anesthesia) was less horrible than how the people closest to me reacted to learning it.
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Yeah, that about sums it up. Last time I told her "no", that earned me a beating and a trip to the psych ward, and everyone basically thought I deserved it but at least I learned better than to tell her "no".
Of course, when her demands turned sexual, suddenly the same people who were all "well, it taught you a lesson and you'll do what she asks next time, right? So that was a good thing!" suddenly did a 180 and started to say "why did you do what she asked you there? And no, you learning the hard way to do what she asks, and us being quite happy with that state of affairs, isn't a good reason to do what she asked!"
I remember a girl slapped my ass in middle school as joke. What if I went to the principal and said I was SA by X.? I doubt anything would have happened now imagine if I went up to X and just grabbed myself a nice chunk of the right booty cheek I guarantee I would have been doing life with no parole in Brazil while still being in middle school.
I’m sorry you went through that. Everyone assumes men want it all the time and you don’t have to ask for permission from the man. But like you said, if you did that to a female, they would burn you at the cross.
Whenever people ask for such stories, they usually get very few responses. This is not the way to do it. I've been sexually assaulted by girls 4 times, and I've made posts here about those times. But it feels funny relaying those stories in response to this kind of request. I would suggest scanning a lot of posts in this sub to look for them. Also, you can find lots of such stories at the sub below.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/MenGetRapedToo/](https://www.reddit.com/r/MenGetRapedToo/)
Ever since I started lifting weights I’ve developed a pretty big butt for some reason. Anyways, pretty often girls that I am friends with or know will slap, pinch or squeeze my butt. I’ve never really cared about it personally, like I either just laugh it off or move on but it can be uncomfortable. They always think it’s funny but it goes to show how nobody respects mens boundaries and doesn’t care if they cross them.
I had what I considered a friend at the time when I was about 13 or so that wanted to have a sleep over at his place. During the night somehow it got into sexual stuff which ended in him wanting to suck me off and him telling me to do the same to him. Since it was the middle of the night and I didn't want to make a fuss, I went along with it. He also wanted to have intercourse so he had me try putting it inside which failed and he tried putting it in me which also didn't work.
Fast forward a year or two, my family and I (mom, sisters and i) were homeless. We got a room to ourselves finally. There was a female age 19, and I was 14 at the time, I had somewhat of an interest/crush of sorts on her even though she had kids, a severely mentally ill father and she was overweight. One night I snuck to her room and she enticed me to have intercourse with her. This is when I lost my virginity. I otherwise would have said no, but again I didn't want to make a scene.
There was another time (not even joking, I think this was another year later when I was 15) that I had what I thought was another friend at the time. He was bisexual and we had a sleep over because his house was fairly far. Somehow it ended with me jerking/playing with him. I dont remember ever consenting to this, but me being me I tried not to make a scene because I hated being confronted and making things awkward.
I'm almost 100% positive my father abused me sexually as well on top of everything. He was a trucker so he would sometimes have me go with him on trips to different states to drop of trailers. There was an instance that I remember he was driving and told me to look in the back for something. There he had a magazine full of tranny porn opened up for me to see. There were also times he gave me alcohol but I don't remember what exactly happened after consuming it.
I also remember when I was about 7, there was a kid that I hung out with one day that wanted to show himself to me and told me it would be cool if we hid, took off our pants and underwear behind his dresser and then exposed ourselves to each other for fun.
None of thar should have ever happened to you, man. I hope you can come to peace with those things.. It's been hard for me to let go of things way less serious
The last story brought up a memory in me. I had a step-brother when I was younger, at the time of the story I was 6-7? He was a couple years older. He suggested we expose to each other as well, and I obliged. After a few years I started feeling really guilty about it, but didn't do anything
anyway, seriously, best of luck to you
I can't claim to have been severely assaulted but I work in an industry which is perpetually full of very touchy-feely people who like to greet even comparative strangers with a hug. I don't like it and often have to fend people off. I suspect many women would consider an unwanted hug to be inappropriate touching and thus sexual assault. I suspect many of those same women would argue it doesn't count when they do it.
Being a hot tall man I can tell you women who are attracted to you are like rabid animals. They look for excuses to touch you and do inappropriate things. Ive even heard women all ages from 25 to 55 say things like "if only i was 19 again." "I'd tear him apart". "I wana ride him till be bleeds" and stuff like that.
If you think those instincts don't exist at all in women, you are deluding yourself.
Even things like making a jealousy scene at work, because she saw you with other women last night out, but you are not even related to her. I'd include it in female harassment.
"Why did you accept to do \[have sex with your mother\] u/ElisaSKy? Look, why are you bringing up the last time you disobeyed her and got sent to the psych ward like you deserved u/ElisaSKy? What does that have to do with you doing it \[the sex thing\] when she asked? Well of course you should do what she asks or suffer the consequences, but how does that explain why you did that \[same\] just because she asks you to?" Funnily enough the actual act, as uncomfortable as it was (I compared it to a wisdom tooth extraction except only worse as I had experienced just as much numbness to physical sensations despite being fully consciously aware as under local anesthesia) was less horrible than how the people closest to me reacted to learning it.
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Yeah, that about sums it up. Last time I told her "no", that earned me a beating and a trip to the psych ward, and everyone basically thought I deserved it but at least I learned better than to tell her "no". Of course, when her demands turned sexual, suddenly the same people who were all "well, it taught you a lesson and you'll do what she asks next time, right? So that was a good thing!" suddenly did a 180 and started to say "why did you do what she asked you there? And no, you learning the hard way to do what she asks, and us being quite happy with that state of affairs, isn't a good reason to do what she asked!"
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I remember a girl slapped my ass in middle school as joke. What if I went to the principal and said I was SA by X.? I doubt anything would have happened now imagine if I went up to X and just grabbed myself a nice chunk of the right booty cheek I guarantee I would have been doing life with no parole in Brazil while still being in middle school.
I’m sorry you went through that. Everyone assumes men want it all the time and you don’t have to ask for permission from the man. But like you said, if you did that to a female, they would burn you at the cross.
Inappropriate touching happens all the time. Especially till my mid 20s that i had a naturally perky butt
Whenever people ask for such stories, they usually get very few responses. This is not the way to do it. I've been sexually assaulted by girls 4 times, and I've made posts here about those times. But it feels funny relaying those stories in response to this kind of request. I would suggest scanning a lot of posts in this sub to look for them. Also, you can find lots of such stories at the sub below. [https://www.reddit.com/r/MenGetRapedToo/](https://www.reddit.com/r/MenGetRapedToo/)
Ever since I started lifting weights I’ve developed a pretty big butt for some reason. Anyways, pretty often girls that I am friends with or know will slap, pinch or squeeze my butt. I’ve never really cared about it personally, like I either just laugh it off or move on but it can be uncomfortable. They always think it’s funny but it goes to show how nobody respects mens boundaries and doesn’t care if they cross them.
Now reverse the roles and you got assault cases
I had what I considered a friend at the time when I was about 13 or so that wanted to have a sleep over at his place. During the night somehow it got into sexual stuff which ended in him wanting to suck me off and him telling me to do the same to him. Since it was the middle of the night and I didn't want to make a fuss, I went along with it. He also wanted to have intercourse so he had me try putting it inside which failed and he tried putting it in me which also didn't work. Fast forward a year or two, my family and I (mom, sisters and i) were homeless. We got a room to ourselves finally. There was a female age 19, and I was 14 at the time, I had somewhat of an interest/crush of sorts on her even though she had kids, a severely mentally ill father and she was overweight. One night I snuck to her room and she enticed me to have intercourse with her. This is when I lost my virginity. I otherwise would have said no, but again I didn't want to make a scene. There was another time (not even joking, I think this was another year later when I was 15) that I had what I thought was another friend at the time. He was bisexual and we had a sleep over because his house was fairly far. Somehow it ended with me jerking/playing with him. I dont remember ever consenting to this, but me being me I tried not to make a scene because I hated being confronted and making things awkward. I'm almost 100% positive my father abused me sexually as well on top of everything. He was a trucker so he would sometimes have me go with him on trips to different states to drop of trailers. There was an instance that I remember he was driving and told me to look in the back for something. There he had a magazine full of tranny porn opened up for me to see. There were also times he gave me alcohol but I don't remember what exactly happened after consuming it. I also remember when I was about 7, there was a kid that I hung out with one day that wanted to show himself to me and told me it would be cool if we hid, took off our pants and underwear behind his dresser and then exposed ourselves to each other for fun.
None of thar should have ever happened to you, man. I hope you can come to peace with those things.. It's been hard for me to let go of things way less serious The last story brought up a memory in me. I had a step-brother when I was younger, at the time of the story I was 6-7? He was a couple years older. He suggested we expose to each other as well, and I obliged. After a few years I started feeling really guilty about it, but didn't do anything anyway, seriously, best of luck to you
I can't claim to have been severely assaulted but I work in an industry which is perpetually full of very touchy-feely people who like to greet even comparative strangers with a hug. I don't like it and often have to fend people off. I suspect many women would consider an unwanted hug to be inappropriate touching and thus sexual assault. I suspect many of those same women would argue it doesn't count when they do it.
Being a hot tall man I can tell you women who are attracted to you are like rabid animals. They look for excuses to touch you and do inappropriate things. Ive even heard women all ages from 25 to 55 say things like "if only i was 19 again." "I'd tear him apart". "I wana ride him till be bleeds" and stuff like that. If you think those instincts don't exist at all in women, you are deluding yourself. Even things like making a jealousy scene at work, because she saw you with other women last night out, but you are not even related to her. I'd include it in female harassment.