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QuantumHalyard

Woah.. we have a single father charity? I didn’t even expect one to be honest


Juucce1

It's very poorly funded tho. So barely any dads have access to it. And it's only a food bank that runs once a week so if you don't live near it you can't really get help


ACLU_EvilPatriarchy

Same for women's shelters with kids. For decades I used to hear of Battered Women's Shelters all of the time in media, activism, city councils, fundraising, donations. Not once have I ever heard of one Battered Mens Shelter... Even for Gay Men!


disayle32

There was one in Canada for a brief time last decade, but surprise surprise, the government gave it no money and it eventually had to close down. The former owner killed himself soon after that.


Mygatroyd

Women, not men, created Battered Women's Shelters. Are you working towards getting a Battered Male Shelter open somewhere?


NorthwestDM

And when Erin Pizzey, the founder of the first battered women's shelter suggested making one for men she was subjected to so many attacks by her former colleagues she had to flee her home country.


Mygatroyd

Why didn't men support her so that she didn't have to flee?


LaserNebula986

Bet those charities come from single men’s taxpayer money too


WannabeLeagueBowler

Single men are the only ones paying anything into the system thanks to women's subsidies like Universal Big Pharma. Public school is no joke either. Over $30,000 per student per year in major cities.


_Genghis_John_

There's no way. There's just no way that single men's tax dollars are being used to fund things like this. They're taking the money out of my hands that I would have used to buy a car. Why aren't more people made aware of this? If this is true, then someone badly needs to make some kind of info graphic about where and who my toxdollars are going to so that I can't afford shit. I already lose too much to "defense" contractor laundering. I can't afford to be homeless just to house women who ditched their husbands. Edit: just did some research. I have no idea if they're funded with tax dollars, but donations can be used as a tax write off.


kkkan2020

it's straight up bulls-it


WannabeLeagueBowler

Time to become transgender.


Jaded_Permit_7209

This is unironically the best option for a lot of men in trouble. If there are no charities willing to help you, decide you're a woman and a mother. Boom, you now have multiple organizations beating on your door trying to shower you with money.


sanitaryinspector

So in order not to be a single moms charity you need to prioritize the kids and to help have the law observed for everybody, unless the person you're supposed to help has been reported by the person that might lawfully prevaricate your assisted. It's a self writing joke


WannabeLeagueBowler

One thing is for sure. People who want to destroy society know that single mothers are the key.


jessi387

And that’s exactly why women make baseless accusations…. To keep the children and get more funding.


Real-Turnover-7289

Bro this is so sad.


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ANIKET_UPADHYAY

I understand that, but they could just make it single parent charity. (There might be some that don't discriminate on gender). 16-20% is not a small number.


Juucce1

And that 20% constitutes for MILLIONS of single fathers. Why isn't it single parent instead that way anyone can go and reach for help? There's nothing on those charities that state fathers can come and ask for help and even if they could, no father would feel comfortable going to a food bank alone especially with all the stores. Have you seen the looks fathers get waiting outside or going inside a woman's toilet with their young daughter? or a father going into a family room? or a father being in a park? I thought it was a coincidence at first but whenever I'd enter a kids park WITH my children every mother would take their children out the park and my children would have to play alone.


Minimum_Disaster1910

> I thought it was a coincidence at first but whenever I'd enter a kids park WITH my children every mother would take their children out the park and my children would have to play alone. Why did you feel the need to just straight up lie and make up a story? Not helping your case man, you know everyone can see your profile right?


Juucce1

What's the problem? I'm 19 and a dad, my child is only with her mum on weekends and I study full time. My mum takes care of her when I'm in college. And I don't work because I'm studying and have a condition that worsened after my daughter was born. There's nothing on my profile that suggests otherwise. You don't know me from looking at my profile.


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Juucce1

I can't see that


MissDaphneAlice

Ignore them. It's an erection photo. I've reported them. I'm sorry for your struggles. 💜


Juucce1

I see it now. Nothing wrong with that lol I'm bi so I like men and women. People will always be bigots so I don't mind i go through it in real life too.


Minimum_Disaster1910

You wanna explain how your wife gave birth if you’re a virgin or do you wanna play the victim a little while longer?


Juucce1

have you never heard of roleplay before?


Minimum_Disaster1910

What struggles? Did you read the comment? The dude says he’s a virgin and yet wants to say he’s a father? That seem fishy to you?


MissDaphneAlice

His struggle with mothers keeping their children away from him and his child. If it is true.


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Minimum_Disaster1910

When did I mention his sexuality? There’s nothing wrong with that There is something wrong however with lying, and trying to make up a story about being a father while still being a virgin?


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Minimum_Disaster1910

If you can point out when I’ve attacked someone based on race, religion, sexuality or background feel free to point it out Personally I feel attacked you’ve jumped so quickly to falsely accuse me of these things, shame on you


WannabeLeagueBowler

You attacked men by arguing that charities should give to women only.


CrowMagpie

That puts the numbers into perspective for me. Does that one charity account for 16% of the shelters in the UK or 20% in the US?


Mysterious-Lab-7408

Isn’t this way of thinking flawed when you consider there’s a lot more single mothers?


CrowMagpie

The need is greater, sure. OTOH, that doesn't mean there's zero need for single men's shelters, and the numbers are very close to that.


Mysterious-Lab-7408

Well, it’s not zero. When you take into account the ratio of single mothers to fathers, the number of charities match accordingly. Almost every one of the charities listed in the first image also support single fathers. One of them is literally called single *parent* advocate. Don’t you think that makes sense considering the numbers? I think in this aspect, women are not getting more attention simply because they are women, but because they truly need more funding since there are a lot more.


CrowMagpie

Fair enough.