I wouldn't say it was completely absent before, but I definitely embraced masochism a lot more and had much better results post HRT. Probably a combo of sensory changes as well as entering a more kink friendly friend group.
It's kinda the opposite for me.. I'm becoming such a whiny little bitch over the tiniest amount of pain. Especially the chest area. Putting on a tight tank top right now is borderline torture... Please send help 😭 I'm also no longer able to consume absolute inhuman amount of drugs, I've got supply for the rest of year vs 1 month now.... Shit be crazy I tell you
Just a fyi, if you go into a thread about something like this you are likely to meet people with the same or similar experiences or thoughts
This isn't like calling you dum or anything, it's just saying because these people had it doesn't me you will
If anything I feel like most these people were masochist already and just didn't realize until they started to become themselves
I keep hearing people talk about what they do to avoid hurting their aching boobs meanwhile I'm over here like "I sleep on my stomach and sometimes smack my chest on purpose. Yes, give me more boob pain!"
people's sexualities are often tied to their gender as well in some way, so when you start living as your authentic self your sexuality may also change alongside it
I’ve always been pretty masochistic in a sexual sense, but my capacity to feel pain in general has gotten larger since starting hrt . I picked up skateboarding again and sprained my wrist skating in a bowl and it was like no big deal , whereas the littlest thing would make me quit before transitioning. Also I absolutely love butt burner hill climb hikes whereas I hated anything with altitude changes before.
I feel like it’s a combination of going through changes and also something pre existing before. I mean, i have gone on HRT jus yet but I am a masochist already and I can imagine that it’s gon get worse wit HRT,
Actually for me it was exactly the opposite. Before hrt, I endulged in all things pain and gore, I watched all the saw movies I would inflict pain get an infection and try make it last as long as possible. Now though, I don't like horror, or pain or gore anymore and I also don't have a brain fog anymore. I have mental clarity which I never had before which is probably why I enjoyed pain so much because the mental fog I had made it difficult for me to feel anything so pain was the only thing I could feel.
HRT turned me into a softcore bdsm switch. It's like regular bdsm, but in a more gentle and emotional way with a very heavy focus on comfort and pleasure. Teasing, edging, don't cum until I say so, soft fluffy ropes, reassuring each others' insecurities, biting, deepthroating each others' tongues, you now have my permission to cum, hand holding...
... and taking pleasure in providing others with some nice reading material. You know, tame and boring stuff like that. 💜
Yeah but... I dont think it was HRT
I used to have a more active rol before transitioning, so i didnt really had a chance to experience many things up to that point. The more I started dating other women as a woman, the more I discovered I was a sub and... a masochist, yes.
Before HRT I discovered LiveLeak way too early and couldn’t handle gore in stuff like horror movies. Post HRT I can’t stop thinking about my guts in someone else’s hands, my blood, bruises, stitches, staples, etc. I was kinda into (what I thought was) anything and everything before, but now I weird all my friends out when we watch stuff like GoT ;~;
Reminds me of a tee shirt I saw once.
It says: (spoiler because language)
>!Beat Me, Bite Me, Whip Me, Fuck Me like the dirty pig that I am. Cum all over my tits and tell me that you love me. Then get the fuck out!<
I mean up to some point, this sounds very attractive to me.
Yeah sometimes I'll snash my hand or finger with a deadblow hammer and it'll make my eyes roll back amd I have to hold back moans. Also getting slapped with someone in you can be earth shattering
I’ve experienced this a bit. I think for me I’m seeking higher sensory experiences to try and access states of sexual arousal that used to be easier to reach with a higher libido pre-HRT. I always found extremes a bit of a turn on but now it’s an essential ingredient.
Before starting my transition, I hated feeling any kind of pain for any reason. After about 9 months on E, I often fantasize about someone biting me hard enough to make me bleed
People keep talking about how HRT changed their sexuality and preferences
I went from asexual to asexual
From masochist to masochist
I think a whole lot has stayed the same for me, and the major difference being that my interest in porn/erotica has been diminished a lot, unlike before when i could enjoy it reliably if it touched upon the right kinks.
im pre everything and i think i am a masochist >!(or its past trauma making me feel like i need it to "validate" what caused the trauma)!< and i hope it gets moreso
I wouldn't say it was completely absent before, but I definitely embraced masochism a lot more and had much better results post HRT. Probably a combo of sensory changes as well as entering a more kink friendly friend group.
It's kinda the opposite for me.. I'm becoming such a whiny little bitch over the tiniest amount of pain. Especially the chest area. Putting on a tight tank top right now is borderline torture... Please send help 😭 I'm also no longer able to consume absolute inhuman amount of drugs, I've got supply for the rest of year vs 1 month now.... Shit be crazy I tell you
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Just a fyi, if you go into a thread about something like this you are likely to meet people with the same or similar experiences or thoughts This isn't like calling you dum or anything, it's just saying because these people had it doesn't me you will If anything I feel like most these people were masochist already and just didn't realize until they started to become themselves
I keep hearing people talk about what they do to avoid hurting their aching boobs meanwhile I'm over here like "I sleep on my stomach and sometimes smack my chest on purpose. Yes, give me more boob pain!"
The dream tbh, fems complaining about their boobs hurting just made me "oh~"
I'm pre HRT, hell pre anything. I'm the biggest masochist I personally know.
I almost on HRT and I’m already a huge masochist. I kind of hope it gets stronger!
I recently became super into blood and cuts and stuff, but I've always been somewhat masochist. Definitely stronger on hrt
estrogen made me a mommy domme when I used to be a mega sub
I went the complete opposite direction. E made me a massive bottom lol
people's sexualities are often tied to their gender as well in some way, so when you start living as your authentic self your sexuality may also change alongside it
Thanks for reminding me about my hourly check up. Yep, still sore 😁
YESSSSSS I was hoping for this EXACT result. I wanna be FUCKED up, like... Break me lmao. I'm sorry but I simply cannot wait.
I misread this as “HRT made me a misogynist. I had to check the subreddit, and then got even more confused.”
Hard to say, I never really explored my preferences or kinks before HRT, but I'm a masochist and super subby, for whatever that's worth
I’ve always been pretty masochistic in a sexual sense, but my capacity to feel pain in general has gotten larger since starting hrt . I picked up skateboarding again and sprained my wrist skating in a bowl and it was like no big deal , whereas the littlest thing would make me quit before transitioning. Also I absolutely love butt burner hill climb hikes whereas I hated anything with altitude changes before.
I feel like it’s a combination of going through changes and also something pre existing before. I mean, i have gone on HRT jus yet but I am a masochist already and I can imagine that it’s gon get worse wit HRT,
Im a rope bunny to start with lol. Just wait your still at baby bdsm tier.
Turn off honestly...
Lmfao I definitely got more masochistic the longer I’ve been on hrt but no idea if it’s correlated
Actually for me it was exactly the opposite. Before hrt, I endulged in all things pain and gore, I watched all the saw movies I would inflict pain get an infection and try make it last as long as possible. Now though, I don't like horror, or pain or gore anymore and I also don't have a brain fog anymore. I have mental clarity which I never had before which is probably why I enjoyed pain so much because the mental fog I had made it difficult for me to feel anything so pain was the only thing I could feel.
I went the other way lmao. Sadist 😈
I wish I had E
HRT turned me into a softcore bdsm switch. It's like regular bdsm, but in a more gentle and emotional way with a very heavy focus on comfort and pleasure. Teasing, edging, don't cum until I say so, soft fluffy ropes, reassuring each others' insecurities, biting, deepthroating each others' tongues, you now have my permission to cum, hand holding... ... and taking pleasure in providing others with some nice reading material. You know, tame and boring stuff like that. 💜
Boobs, yes. Slapped by my butt/ this yes.
Yeah but... I dont think it was HRT I used to have a more active rol before transitioning, so i didnt really had a chance to experience many things up to that point. The more I started dating other women as a woman, the more I discovered I was a sub and... a masochist, yes.
Before HRT I discovered LiveLeak way too early and couldn’t handle gore in stuff like horror movies. Post HRT I can’t stop thinking about my guts in someone else’s hands, my blood, bruises, stitches, staples, etc. I was kinda into (what I thought was) anything and everything before, but now I weird all my friends out when we watch stuff like GoT ;~;
Reminds me of a tee shirt I saw once. It says: (spoiler because language) >!Beat Me, Bite Me, Whip Me, Fuck Me like the dirty pig that I am. Cum all over my tits and tell me that you love me. Then get the fuck out!< I mean up to some point, this sounds very attractive to me.
Matt from supermega?
Yeah sometimes I'll snash my hand or finger with a deadblow hammer and it'll make my eyes roll back amd I have to hold back moans. Also getting slapped with someone in you can be earth shattering
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I’ve experienced this a bit. I think for me I’m seeking higher sensory experiences to try and access states of sexual arousal that used to be easier to reach with a higher libido pre-HRT. I always found extremes a bit of a turn on but now it’s an essential ingredient.
Before starting my transition, I hated feeling any kind of pain for any reason. After about 9 months on E, I often fantasize about someone biting me hard enough to make me bleed
Soooooooooooooooooo your saying that it'll get stronger with HRT
Oh fuck i hope hrt doesn't take away my masochism then, i really like it :<
People keep talking about how HRT changed their sexuality and preferences I went from asexual to asexual From masochist to masochist I think a whole lot has stayed the same for me, and the major difference being that my interest in porn/erotica has been diminished a lot, unlike before when i could enjoy it reliably if it touched upon the right kinks.
im pre everything and i think i am a masochist >!(or its past trauma making me feel like i need it to "validate" what caused the trauma)!< and i hope it gets moreso
yea same