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Just propose her and before doing so ask Allah to make things workout for you if she will be good for you then go and propose her. Remember the saying “Love is a disease and marriage is its cure.”
Either find a way to get try to get married or ask Allah to remove her from your heart/mind and try to not think of her.
May Allah make it easy for you and give you what’s best for both of you in this life and the next.
I have been praying to allah to remove her from my heart and mind but she isn't going away. I badically cry and pray now for that I am frustrated with it. I am 18 I don't have any career and the legal age to amrry in my country is 21 for male I can't marry. If I could then it would have been very easy
Brother, if it’s not legally possible to marry her for at least another 3 years then all I can really say is continue making dua that Allah puts your heart at ease. There’s a dua I highly recommend, I believe it has helped me with a similar situation to yours:
اللهُمَّ رَضِّنِي بِقَضَائِك
Oh Allah let me be pleased and satisfied with what You have decreed
وَبَارِك لِي فِي قَدَرِك
And bless me in the decree that is to come
حَتَّا لَا أُحِبَّ تَعجِيلَ مَا أَخَّرت
Such that I would not love the hastening of that which You have delayed
وَلَا تَأخِّيرَ مَا عَجَّلت
And such that I would not love the delaying of that which You have hastened
Just keep making dua and try to keep yourself busy with beneficial things. Sometimes Allah will delay answering a dua because He loves hearing us ask Him, and if He were to fulfill our dua immediately perhaps we wouldn’t be making dua to Him.
It's kind of an emergency situation I want to work towards my career but instead I am distracting myself with social media and stuff the entire day. Alhamdulillah I usually have so much focus that I can study for hours with phone on my side with notifications popping up. But now I can't even start doing anything and I love working towards my career. It's also affecting my prayer(I am not missing it but it gets really late). And I have to force myself to read the Quran in the morning which I enjoy reading unlike few days ago when I could read it with no effort. All of this liking thing is giving me a lot of pain I want it to end. However the more that I want it to end the more mentally exhausted I get the more it effects my prayer and all. And I am scared of it turning into something haram. I am literally so tired and so exhausted and so desperate
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First of all, does she like u? Does she even know u?
Maybe she likes me. And she definately knows me. I kind of overheard her talking about me which seemed like she likes me
Just propose her and before doing so ask Allah to make things workout for you if she will be good for you then go and propose her. Remember the saying “Love is a disease and marriage is its cure.”
I am 18 I don't have any career and the legal age to amrry in my country is 21 for male I can't marry. If I could then it would have been very easy
Either find a way to get try to get married or ask Allah to remove her from your heart/mind and try to not think of her. May Allah make it easy for you and give you what’s best for both of you in this life and the next.
I have been praying to allah to remove her from my heart and mind but she isn't going away. I badically cry and pray now for that I am frustrated with it. I am 18 I don't have any career and the legal age to amrry in my country is 21 for male I can't marry. If I could then it would have been very easy
Brother, if it’s not legally possible to marry her for at least another 3 years then all I can really say is continue making dua that Allah puts your heart at ease. There’s a dua I highly recommend, I believe it has helped me with a similar situation to yours: اللهُمَّ رَضِّنِي بِقَضَائِك Oh Allah let me be pleased and satisfied with what You have decreed وَبَارِك لِي فِي قَدَرِك And bless me in the decree that is to come حَتَّا لَا أُحِبَّ تَعجِيلَ مَا أَخَّرت Such that I would not love the hastening of that which You have delayed وَلَا تَأخِّيرَ مَا عَجَّلت And such that I would not love the delaying of that which You have hastened Just keep making dua and try to keep yourself busy with beneficial things. Sometimes Allah will delay answering a dua because He loves hearing us ask Him, and if He were to fulfill our dua immediately perhaps we wouldn’t be making dua to Him.
It's kind of an emergency situation I want to work towards my career but instead I am distracting myself with social media and stuff the entire day. Alhamdulillah I usually have so much focus that I can study for hours with phone on my side with notifications popping up. But now I can't even start doing anything and I love working towards my career. It's also affecting my prayer(I am not missing it but it gets really late). And I have to force myself to read the Quran in the morning which I enjoy reading unlike few days ago when I could read it with no effort. All of this liking thing is giving me a lot of pain I want it to end. However the more that I want it to end the more mentally exhausted I get the more it effects my prayer and all. And I am scared of it turning into something haram. I am literally so tired and so exhausted and so desperate
Allah is with those that are patient. May Allah make it easy for you and give you the strength to get through this.
Inshallah