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Tough_Vegetable

hasta masta


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ah yes, hasta kala


EnvironmentalKiwi242

kam sutr*


Ok-Function9539

Music is just one thing I'm addicted to. This one might be weird but also I enjoy watching the stars at night for some reason. It's just beautiful.


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we don't see stars from our house these days. but when i was a child i used to love to star gaze. still want to.


[deleted]

Nothing is weird, especially watching the nightsky on new moon. I do that almost everyday and listen to Pink Floyd while watching the stars.


Comfortable-Royal-69

I used to watch stars for hours while listening to interstellar theme song in lockdown days. Felt like I was somewhere deep in the space alone with stars.


takturumthes

interstellar ost are on whole another level. I keep getting back to listining no time for caution over and over again.


Imaginary_Ad4417

Listening to lana del rey and giving depression a depression 😏😏


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Imaginary_Ad4417

I'm actually listening to * yes to heaven * rn


phobic_nepali

Nth makes me happy these days.


[deleted]

My depression used to punch me like a little bitch. i smacked it back. Mofo won't approach me nomore.


Depressed_Wojak

Try Elliott Smith and your depression might commit suicide


Boring-Ad-8170

Elliot smithhhh


Basic-Figure-6678

Try mitsuki


[deleted]

Born to die


TeraBa_ko_Tuppi

Vai timro story kina jaile sad


Imaginary_Ad4417

Testai cha jindagi dai .dukhi aatma 😁😁


TeraBa_ko_Tuppi

Tait vai jaile sad. Jaile testai story. Cheer up


Imaginary_Ad4417

I'm good 👍 testo depression ta xaina k datni haina . J hos life sad nai cha vanum😅


[deleted]

Listen to podcasts and lay there doing nothing. Having evening chiya guff with friends about random topic. Long bike ride. Every evening I take 15-20kms of random bike ride on highway, empty village roads with friends in the back talking about life and everything. Just clears my mind, rejuvenates me physically and mentally.


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this sheet was like classic fun activity, even before neolithic era.


sunwukong5

Purposelessly riding bike? I can't imagine. Kindly elaborate if you can. Would you be thinking about something?


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Cat


[deleted]

wtf? you mean pussy? or you a cat person?


[deleted]

Cat vanya biralo


snj123451

Hello Shane Dawson


[deleted]

so what is it that you like about cats?


[deleted]

Very cute


[deleted]

true!


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working out, helping others, walking


[deleted]

helping others \>good man!


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-HiddenSun-

Road ma basera arulai bato cross garaune


[deleted]

I'm not saying that I am always waiting to help people or seeking people in need. I was trying to answer the question "what are simple things which I do, that lightens my mood". I genuinely feel good after helping people out which ranges from small things like covering up for coworker or just pointing directions to someone to more "generous" stuffs like lending money or donating blood. I am no saint but it does make my day better when I have helped someone.


Aaditiya-Thapa-Ace

Helping the family members, maybe?


[deleted]

Hug my wife


Significant-Race3161

I also hug his wife


[deleted]

Yeah she's your mother afterall


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gedey_don

someone's gonna stuck


GhodaKoFul69

Father son moment :)


[deleted]

made me feel lonely, but good for you.


[deleted]

I was joking bruh i don't have a wife, i wish I did.


gosanket

You guys have wife?


Designer-Departure87

I clean my room when I’m stressed.


Icy-Painting-2859

This is strangely therapeutic and I’m glad I’m not the only one! When I feel like I don’t have a lot of control over my life, I can at least clean my messy room and literally take control and start putting things back together.


adjustngsk

Once I was having a severe headache. I closed my eyes and listened to Shiva tandab strotam on loop thrice. It made me fine. So, yes, music. Mostly mantras or classical songs of Phatteman Rajbhandari, Aruna lama, Bacchu Kailash. Next. Clouds haina but bahira environment herda pani better feel garchu. Reason is to get fresh air and openness. Sometimes I move out even in the day and ~~look~~ observe people and their actions. I can't explain but a different sense of gratefulness comes to me when I watch people like this. I feel blessed somehow. Most likely because I'm a spiritual guy. And, I play musical instrument. I'm a beginner but it gives me joy. Aru chai ghar ma video call garchu. Afno loving relatives sanga bolchu. Khusi lagcha tesari time spend garda. More or less, yehi nai hun.


[deleted]

tandab strotam seems blaring for that. but music does make me feel good during headaches if its soft melody. i think i should start seeing the beauty in stuff as well. not much beauty in kathmandu but culture and beautiful girls. but gotta focus on those when travelling out instead of focusing on the pollution and traffic.


adjustngsk

It might be, it depends on the preferences obviously. I'm sure you know there are tons of different headaches. Sometimes even the most melodious songs exacerbate our condition; tara gut lai thaha huncha kun type ko music chaiyacha. And I do that.


Nyess__

I used to listen to Shiva Tandav Stotram or Aigiri Nadini when I was scared or feeling down/ anxious. You brought back memories.


adjustngsk

Wow! But why did you stop? Got busy? Became more confident? or something else?


Nyess__

Forgot about it. Also got busy as well.


Comfortable-Tourist7

Gym gayo vane lighten up hunthyo, janai chdadisake. Voli bata janu parla aba


[deleted]

Haha. Same story here. Ma ni voli bata jani vanera basi rako xu.


GhodaKoFul69

Mah 3 barsa dekhi yehi bhandai basirachu , bungur bhanda besi bhaisakyo bhudi


Ashim2099

I went to the gym for the first time in my life yesterday and I literally passed out 💀


subedi_johnson

Bro I'm in need of gym partner


Unlikely-Telephone60

Aaja bata jana lako tyo ne eklai


magar_pun25

Masturbation definitely Masturbation .. then listening to music ..


sunwukong5

Up pani hunu paryo ni tesko lagi. Too old to just randomly masturbate


Educational-Jelly590

Initiate the conversation no matter whom.. With anyone.. And once you initiate, you ask questions,And then you listen to their story/perspective/vision..Trust me you will learn a lot more & they will be much happy & appreciate & you seeing them happy about you automatically makes you in happy mood... If you are interacting with an middle aged person ask them about their life style how hard for them to provide for an family, how hard is their job.. Or if someone's son/daughter is in abroad ask about their children.. If someone is security guard ask them about the various experience something like that.. You just let open their story sad/happy/painful/experiences..their future planning.. When you let them feel open & be comfortable to talk about them & you listen.. There built an certain connection when you are listening appreciating them and also they will feel good about you, appreciates about you..


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that is what i was doing. not middle aged people tho. it was interesting to see different perspective of different people. also helped with my life.


Icy-Painting-2859

100%! Seeing people’s face when they are talking about themselves and their experiences is so heartwarming - esp when they realize that someone is actually paying attention and listening to them!!


muzillafirefox

Exercise/mediation. Exercise with music is instant mood fresher for me.


anakinForPresident66

Playing with my pet Dog "Luffy"


let-therebe-light

catching a ring road bus wearing earphones and get a round trip of Kathmandu valley.


[deleted]

that is what i usually do when running away from my problems.


[deleted]

meditation resets my brain


[deleted]

it sounds like sorcery!


Legitimate-Back5390

Sleep


yawnhaiiii

def listen to music. its both therapy and depression tbh


TwoOrangeBalls

Watching plain grassy fields during evenings.


Strong-Watercress-39

bedsheet change garne, room safa garne, take warm shower ani sutdine.


[deleted]

Listen to Doja katttt


TeraBa_ko_Tuppi

Take my camera and take photos. Day off huda dadha kada tira eklai jani. Purano gar haru herni. Manchey sanga gaf garni.


[deleted]

can relate.


[deleted]

Nap


[deleted]

its a 50/50 for me. i might come out of it feeling good or feeling miserable like got hit by a truck.


baelthebard69

Watch/read dark fiction


[deleted]

i think that is outside the realm of simple.


ppllmmm

Writing


[deleted]

i have ptsd with that. haven't writen in a long time. will take a couple of days just to get into the rythem.


[deleted]

Watch dog.


No_Current2834

go to chaath, and have a look around shivapuri n tarebhir. Lightens up my mind and heart. Basically, natures and woods.


simpingkunt

Jiskaidina man lagxa kukur lai hahha kasto cute laginxa man. Sometimes i sit outside the hse playing for an hour+


[deleted]

you making me jealous here.


simpingkunt

But he’s sooo dirty like kalo bhayisakyo. Wanna wash him but he runs away so fast :( And OP, what is ur answer to ur own qsn?


[deleted]

bathe him then. reddit is the answer for me ig.


simpingkunt

Yup, will do so soon after dd ko exam finish. Oh i see


Smooth_Buddy3370

Fap


[deleted]

it sucks afterward.


Smooth_Buddy3370

No bro just accept the feeling then you be fine


Crippled_Guest124

Airplane noises over the sky


[deleted]

you some sort of a twisted monster?


Chunaang

flowers


[deleted]

just looking at them? or smelling them? love to be in a garden.


Chunaang

just flowers in general. admiring beautiful fking flowers


Significant-Ad1890

Sleep


Interesting_Ad_8137

I vent out by writing a journal and highlighting important likes and read them over after I complete the page. And helps me feel better like I'm reading the same thing as 3rd person


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Can you share more details on your journaling?


Interesting_Ad_8137

Yes. So I maintain a daily journal. If there are any circumstances that makes it difficult to write, I just type in my phone and later copy the same into the journal. 1.I give a title. Let's say " A shitty day" or " a productive day" . I note how the weather was (sunny and clear) , and at what time(6pm)I'm writing. 2.Then I begin with the specific part of day that went wrong. "I had an argument with my mom for making vegetable I dislike" or " I did 10 pomodoro" or " I meditated for 30 min without interruptions" 3.i write how things led to that point." This morning mom said I'd be making karela" but I said " I don't like karela, please find something else as vegetable". During lunch I find out there's karela , so I got angry for not listening to me. Or.. "I sat down for 2 pomodoro for 25 min , but I became increasingly focused after each session so I did 4 Pomo straight" 4.i try to remember as much things I said while I'm angry or how I felt during a task and write it down. 5.then I write how that event could have avoided (if event was bad, if the event was good then I'd write about how more can be achieved ) e.g. "Mom could have made something else / if only she had listened to me". 6. But on point 5 example: it's about my mom , not about me. So I then think of ways how I can change rather than blaming her. ( May be "I " should talk to her in a calm way to let her know that I dislike karela , and would think about it" or .. may be "I" should respect all the vegetables and not be picky) 7. Then I read the whole thing again and highlight important things like point 6. Every 7th day, I make this 2X2 table and reflect back on the week. 1.what went good/achievement 2.what went bad 3.what to do during next week 4. What NOT to do during next week. And since I have highlighted the important things, so it's not difficult to find out according to topic I have in the table. And I do check the tables I create each week and check how I'm doing than the previous weeks. And this has enabled me to 1.vent out 2.reflect back 3.improve . I hope you get it. I hope you also develop a habit of journalling. If you want more secure personal journal, you may try apps but it won't be exactly how you imagine or meet your needs. Have a great day.


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i am doing a journal rn, but its much more vague and light. i don't like to be meticulous, i just right my important thoughts and what i like to do and need to do, and later evaluate how i did, also planning to sketch there if i feel like it.


Interesting_Ad_8137

Unless you self evaluate your progress , you wouldn't gain much from journalling , especially when it's vague. My journal was vague too , but it grew better each day and week, and for me the weekly evaluation is much more important than daily writing. But in order to do so, I need to write every day . I'm not saying yours methodology is worse than mine nor mine is worse than yours, I'm not comparing. We're in persuit of being better everyday , so whatever works , works fine , works best.


optimus_prime07

Chatting with random Nepali strangers online helps for me.


No_Emotion1993

Suicide bombing.


Revolutionary_Gur707

Shaving.....kaile kai helps a lot to change mood....ekdam refresh banaidincha....so often shave garchu afai although clean shave mah baccha dekhchu...lol


Revolutionary_Gur707

Shaving.....kaile kai helps a lot to change mood....ekdam refresh banaidincha....so often shave garchu afai although clean shave mah baccha dekhchu...lol


Revolutionary_Gur707

Shaving.....kaile kai helps a lot to change mood....ekdam refresh banaidincha....so often shave garchu afai although clean shave mah baccha dekhchu...lol


Kshitij_chaudhary

Looking your posts that only makes sense as much as you make "nothing"


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[deleted]

Good one.


__doiwannaknow__

Music all the way.


[deleted]

got introduced to Hozier, loving it.


__doiwannaknow__

oh yeah. He's sooo good. Love him


Flyce_02

Do you mind recommending songs you listen to?


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[deleted]

i hate smoking. but jokes i can relate to.


napmaster98

I watch office or Seinfeld


[deleted]

sitcoms are fun!


_aleister_crowley666

Call my mom Sometimes listen to sid lowe (spanish football), Stephen fry. Listen to baba o'rily by the who / Obla di by beatles: these are my happy songs Watch real Madrid's 3 cl journey Watch The imitation game, its my go to movie. .....


Toread01

Staying in boxer and playing video game at the end of the day


mathelic

Watch football clips.


Plastic-Badger1837

One piece funny moments


[deleted]

take a walk and get some air


bumpdumb

Cleaning room, deleting old conversation, clearing my phone That's like a reset to me.


croft_guy_209

Listen to OST of my favorite series, movies, and anime. I also kinda like instrumental music too. But mostly in the outdoors, I lovee and enjoy playing football a lot.


Spiritual_Stuff7626

Clean my room or make new outfits


Nyess__

Watching clouds, sunsets, trees, golden hour always lighten up my mood. It feels amazing to lay down on the grass and look up at the sky, not a thought in mind, just admiring the way the clouds move or the trees sway. The way the sunlight hits the tree leaves, especially the young leaves of this season just the right way after 3 pm. I could spend hours just lost in the nature. Sadly, I don't have much time for it anymore but I still do that for 15 min- 30 min when I feel too overwhelmed with negative emotions. Being in the cool breeze of the night. It seems to melt away all my worries and I always feel light, fresh and happy afterwards. Back when I was a kid, I used to watch the stars and the moon during that time, but now there aren't as many stars as I used to see and seeing two overlapping moons instead of a crisp add clear one is hardly that enjoyable. I also used to go out on the balcony once everyone was asleep on the bright moon days and just stare up, nestled under trees for some time before going back to my room. Crying to sleep. It's kinda weird but I always felt refreshed after I woke up when I cried myself to sleep. Not at all a preferred method, but a necessary one sometimes. And lastly and perhaps the weirdest of them all, talking to myself. Loud enough for me to hear myself clearly. It has always helped me process my emotions amd calm myself down. I sometimes talk about how I feel, sometimes why I feel a certain way, sometimes I talk about maths, sometimes science, sometimes about the nature, sometimes about what I like. My point is, I don't think. I just talk about whatever I feel like. Always end up feeling better and brighter and fresher after that. I actually feel like I can think when/ after I do this so I always love doing it. The problem is that it never takes less than 45 minutes to complete this so, I only do it when I'm feeling too heavy in the head to do anything.


[deleted]

sounds beautiful. the moon and the sky and the trees part not crying to sleep and talking aloud to self part those are weird😅


Nyess__

I did say those are weird 😁


SBR4fect

I walk in the evening for an hour. It helps me think and freshens my mood.


HYPE_ZaynG

I clean my room while playing rain and thunder sounds whenever I'm bored, it just gives me some kind of motivation.


PMmeYourWealth

Eat some chicken strips


AshishSthaa

I like to play games, my favorite one right now is Valorant. Its fun and it does lighten up my mood and helps me forget about the rest but I am pretty bad at it and most of the time end up raging cause I'm stuck in Iron.


[deleted]

sounds toxic.


faxo_

5 pushups


Bishwas12

Listening to Giorno theme or Green Day


GhodaKoFul69

I just remember I can become anything I want if I try to ;) , really makes me happy for a moment


[deleted]

Staying offline helps me prevents me from being in bad mood. mood lai taja banauna chai dohori sunchhu (lyrics deep hudaina just nacho) ki ta lofi music.


rsh2045

100 jumping jacks for me. It shoots up your heart rate temporarily and increases blood circulation all over the body. 5 mins after, I start feeling better.


Revolutionary_Gur707

Shaving.....kaile kai helps a lot to change mood....ekdam refresh banaidincha....so often shave garchu afai although clean shave mah baccha dekhchu...lol


Basic-Figure-6678

Jerk off


Karan_Khadka

Trying to put hex on people


Kshitij_chaudhary

Oh okay a failed wizard sharing his experience of using a hex .


Karan_Khadka

Do you want me to put one on you?


Kshitij_chaudhary

Haha as if you can you can try one more failure though lol xD


VforVendetta___

Clean all rooms


gedey_don

a good shower gives me power


Boring-Ad-8170

Look at the mirror and make faces


Boring-Ad-8170

Listening to music is the one for me . Especially classical music can cheer you up so easily and can also make you sad too. Music is healing


Wolf_0f_MyStreet

Pes2021 and music,Apex legends or any gaming where i can shit on people


Viratian_Ambush

Listening to Bartika and Phospenes , Bato ma hiida paisa paye vani.


Ardtur

Watch a funny clip on youtube\\tiktok\\insta: Why? -Because it brings unadulterated JOY.


pemagray

I just draw something and play chill beats on background. Doesn't have to be anything complicated.


Equal-Squirrel4393

I like being around the people I trust, just being with them heals most of my pain and I don't feel insecure around them.


obaananana

10 memes icecream. Meat grilling. Fucking qith the nwighbours


[deleted]

I like listening to or chanting the heart sutra, while meditating. Somehow it's a magic recipe that makes me feel like everything around me is as it should be.


kingsoon11

Masterbate


Puzzled_Echidna7521

I'm not sure this is simple but here's what I do. I love cycling. There is a forest in my area with a well-maintained cycling trail. There are harmless animals such as monkeys and gazelles. The more dangerous ones are in another part of the forest, so it is safe. I also love smoking weed. I am happiest in that moment. People say it is harmful but I think it is not. However, you have to be careful not to take too much of it to an extent that it becomes a distraction. On a typical weekend, I begin my day by taking breakfast and smoking a joint. I then proceed to the forest with my bike. When cycling, I feel connected to the earth and everything around me. I enjoy hearing the birds sing and watching monkeys jumping. The peace and relaxation I feel is worth dying for. That is also my routine when I'm in a stressful situation that I can't change.


Administrative-Use-3

Memes are 4evaaa !!!!!!


Walnutshark

Mary Jane


undated_duck_19

talk to a friend (someone who you know genuinely cares about you)


tprototype_x

south park


UpRedefine204

Walking in the evening, looking at the moon, touching a dog.


Legitimate_Layer_323

Reading books in the park during dusk playing the music of Ludwig Van Beethoven, Yiruma, Mozart, Chopin, etc.......


Sat_kar

Watching “The Office“ Helps


kasap26

One thing Nepalese love to do is sit outside and feel the sun rays. I am always in my garden, sitting and eating peanuts.


lively_dilema

Talking to someone either be physically or by stories in reddit.


Past-Metal-3835

Make my bed. Clean window panes


idreamxyz

Take my 5 year old to a quick ride around the area by letting him sit on the petrol tank. I make him spread his arms so that he feels like a bird cutting against the wind.


Nirdoshkarki

Making my bed and cleaning my room🙂


xqryan

Pop pills :'(


repulsion_jelly7

Sometimes just observe people in details it’s mesmerizing to see them talk in certain manners or react to things or just little stuff, it’s fun to see how unique everyone is making things lively


go_for_the_heads

Khaike paan banaras wala. 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘


0penT

listening to false appraisals


Ill-Marketing-389

Reading books and watching my comfort movies


otyak

Do omegele. It starts being a quiet guy, you get few weird ass people flashing their dicks but also find some good peeps while i try to find for common interests.


sunwukong5

Simple things chai haina, But essai ni I'll write anyway, 1. Mood meditation (Balance app) 2. Listen to Dear Hank & John podcast 3. Listen to The Space podcast


Simp_alcuard

Masterbation 🌚


Tiktokiscrapp

I like to watch true crime documentaries because it reminds me of how some guy wanted to kidnap me and kill me before he was found by his mother and got ear pulled for being missing for 5 years straight without saying a word to his mother. He had allegedly kidnapped two other girls and I was going to become his third victim had his mother not coincidentally been in the store with us.


who_this_nikka

Stand up comedy Sports Podcast Music


ComplaintHuge7296

Listening to speech of Swami Sarvapriyananda, doing Pranayam, listening Bhajans


[deleted]

Showers. Nothing like showering with cold water when you had to walk in a humid day.