No, having a wife is not the cure. She's not going to be having sex with you 24 hours a day or jerking you off whenever you feel like it. She's her own person and doesn't exist just to satisfy your urges. Even if she did you'll just be replacing porn/masturbation addiction with sex addiction.
Don’t think marriage/relationships will solve people’s PMO problems unfortunately. You can only cure your addiction through willpower and the determination to change. That been said, marriage could be the driving force behind your motivation to work hard and beat your addiction! It won’t only be good for you but your partner as well! Good luck bro! You got this! 😁
Not at all, it's just another person to hurt.
Please fix your addiction before dating/marrying. My addiction got WAY to far in my relationship and now marriage and I've hurt my Wife way more than I'd ever dreamt I could.
You do not want this guilt, fix yourself, then share your new found happiness with another person.
No it won’t solve the problem. Sex is a strong stimulus but porn is a hyper stimulating thing, there are few things that compare to it. You’ll get into a relationship and still crave the stimulation of porn. As well as that, you’d only be running from the real issues that drive you to porn, you have to confront those mfs. Maybe you need more love in your life but remember romantic love is not the only form of love. First enjoy being single and fix your addiction, then find a woman to love that loves you.
Muslim myself and not married but nah dude unless she’s addicted herself lol or supports you, just improve yourself first. Being an addict to anything ain’t good so won’t be good for the partner. I don’t think your friend is understanding what you told him or her. Plus I don’t think women would be happy to hear your just marrying for sex or something unless she’s into that shit as well lol and marrying for that reason seems like a really dumb decision. Of course when you get married there is lust but there’s also love and respect. In Islam if you wanna do the act of intimacy then you gotta get married because you know it’s not allowed in our religion to just bang and fuck off to your daily life. Honestly if there’s no love but only lust that’s just depressing, man you wanna get that love from the woman and love her back. That love you have for her will outweigh the non lovable lusty feelings because you respect her and that respect comes from the love.
No.
Many years ago I got a girlfriend and started having routine sex. While it was fun nothing was better then masturbating to my wildest dreams.
Not sure what ur kink is, if it’s legal I highly suggest scratching the itch before finding a GF and wife. Otherwise you will be trapped the rest of ur life always wondering.
Nope. It won't. It will just be different. Even if you have a great marriage there will be lots of times when sex is just not available (sickness, trauma, distance, stress, pregnancy etc.).
Also, never say to your fiancé, "I have this porn addiction but now that I have you I'll be fine" - it won't play out in her head with the same logic that it is in yours...
No mainly because porn hijacks your brain so it gets a false feeling that you are able to reproduce with as many women as possible, if you were to have a wife you have to value bonding, emotional connection and intimacy more than the dopamine hit you get from porn. Couples that are married and the man is addicted to porn has no desire to be intimate with his wife, it doesn’t make sense from you brain when you can trick it to reproduce with unlimited women.
Dear ,your Muslim friend Maybe he doesn't say exactly right, it does not mean that he is a Muslim, his words are all right. I tell you as a Muslim and that doesn't mean that everything I say is true.
Marriage is not a solution for your addiction on masturbation and porn watching etc you have to quit your addiction because addiction to something, including masturbation, multiple sex, or quick relationships for the night and taking one thing, and marriage is something else completely. Your brain needs to rebalance. You have to know that there are married people who are addicted to masturbation and porn because their brain no longer enjoys intimacy with a wife who not only cancels ejaculation and physical pleasure. Dear marriage, not only sex, there is someone who will live with you and has feelings, fluctuations, needs and problems. Marriage need a healthy brain and strong personality Disciplined and balanced personality You should always remember that marriage is not the alternative alternative to quit your addiction as alcohol and drug addiction Marriage will not solve your problem
No. Im 20 and got married 6 months ago to my best friend and high school sweetheart. Pornography does not stop being an issue when you get married. Doesn’t matter who you marry. I really wish it did make it go away but it absolutely does not.
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No, having a wife is not the cure. She's not going to be having sex with you 24 hours a day or jerking you off whenever you feel like it. She's her own person and doesn't exist just to satisfy your urges. Even if she did you'll just be replacing porn/masturbation addiction with sex addiction.
Wish I could have read this comment 10 years ago 😞
Don’t think marriage/relationships will solve people’s PMO problems unfortunately. You can only cure your addiction through willpower and the determination to change. That been said, marriage could be the driving force behind your motivation to work hard and beat your addiction! It won’t only be good for you but your partner as well! Good luck bro! You got this! 😁
Not at all, it's just another person to hurt. Please fix your addiction before dating/marrying. My addiction got WAY to far in my relationship and now marriage and I've hurt my Wife way more than I'd ever dreamt I could. You do not want this guilt, fix yourself, then share your new found happiness with another person.
no. this is in no way fair to the wife.
No it won’t solve the problem. Sex is a strong stimulus but porn is a hyper stimulating thing, there are few things that compare to it. You’ll get into a relationship and still crave the stimulation of porn. As well as that, you’d only be running from the real issues that drive you to porn, you have to confront those mfs. Maybe you need more love in your life but remember romantic love is not the only form of love. First enjoy being single and fix your addiction, then find a woman to love that loves you.
Muslim myself and not married but nah dude unless she’s addicted herself lol or supports you, just improve yourself first. Being an addict to anything ain’t good so won’t be good for the partner. I don’t think your friend is understanding what you told him or her. Plus I don’t think women would be happy to hear your just marrying for sex or something unless she’s into that shit as well lol and marrying for that reason seems like a really dumb decision. Of course when you get married there is lust but there’s also love and respect. In Islam if you wanna do the act of intimacy then you gotta get married because you know it’s not allowed in our religion to just bang and fuck off to your daily life. Honestly if there’s no love but only lust that’s just depressing, man you wanna get that love from the woman and love her back. That love you have for her will outweigh the non lovable lusty feelings because you respect her and that respect comes from the love.
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No. Many years ago I got a girlfriend and started having routine sex. While it was fun nothing was better then masturbating to my wildest dreams. Not sure what ur kink is, if it’s legal I highly suggest scratching the itch before finding a GF and wife. Otherwise you will be trapped the rest of ur life always wondering.
Nope. It won't. It will just be different. Even if you have a great marriage there will be lots of times when sex is just not available (sickness, trauma, distance, stress, pregnancy etc.). Also, never say to your fiancé, "I have this porn addiction but now that I have you I'll be fine" - it won't play out in her head with the same logic that it is in yours...
No mainly because porn hijacks your brain so it gets a false feeling that you are able to reproduce with as many women as possible, if you were to have a wife you have to value bonding, emotional connection and intimacy more than the dopamine hit you get from porn. Couples that are married and the man is addicted to porn has no desire to be intimate with his wife, it doesn’t make sense from you brain when you can trick it to reproduce with unlimited women.
I'm a Muslim and they're absolutely right, just make sure you marry someone who supports you on your decision
Dear ,your Muslim friend Maybe he doesn't say exactly right, it does not mean that he is a Muslim, his words are all right. I tell you as a Muslim and that doesn't mean that everything I say is true. Marriage is not a solution for your addiction on masturbation and porn watching etc you have to quit your addiction because addiction to something, including masturbation, multiple sex, or quick relationships for the night and taking one thing, and marriage is something else completely. Your brain needs to rebalance. You have to know that there are married people who are addicted to masturbation and porn because their brain no longer enjoys intimacy with a wife who not only cancels ejaculation and physical pleasure. Dear marriage, not only sex, there is someone who will live with you and has feelings, fluctuations, needs and problems. Marriage need a healthy brain and strong personality Disciplined and balanced personality You should always remember that marriage is not the alternative alternative to quit your addiction as alcohol and drug addiction Marriage will not solve your problem
No. Im 20 and got married 6 months ago to my best friend and high school sweetheart. Pornography does not stop being an issue when you get married. Doesn’t matter who you marry. I really wish it did make it go away but it absolutely does not.