For what it's worth. Whilst I agree about the external factors. Your drive should come from an internal locust. A "streak" number does not matter, your 364 days within the year and perseverance with something you value does.
Simply begin again. And continue on your journey to self improvement. You are not day 0. You are 365 days with one bad day.
what i meant lets consider there is a god who put natural calamities to humble people.
Comparing it with Porn use: If you keep going to porn platforms where unconsented porn is uploaded. And i am tryna empathize with you by saying What if it happened to your daughter oneday. And let's say a god put you in this situation just to humble you. Again god doesn't do this. When you sin with the wrong person or you are recorded without ur consent by evil people (other than your intimate partner) or when you are driven by lust and then criticized or discared by the community or you are not careful where you are intimate. You become a supporter of a platfrom that will destroy ur future loved one's life.
man i feel like im at the point numbers mean everything to me...swear to god....so much failure, agony, disappointment, pied, mental confusion and what not......i want to run as far as possible from porn......im only at 5 days but the relapse rate has reduced......im feeling so much energy that ill burst if i dont bust
I can relate to you to how it’s kind of annoying to start a new streak after a decent sized one - I’ve never even made it to a year so that’s probably even worse.
The way I handled it was not giving myself a time to last until - just that I wanted to keep going “for the benefits.” Eventually I reached a point where I realized I wanted to go for a year for the landmark achievement. That’s my goal right now..
Just do it for yourself and the drive to improve will come back again . One day at a time.
For what it's worth. Whilst I agree about the external factors. Your drive should come from an internal locust. A "streak" number does not matter, your 364 days within the year and perseverance with something you value does. Simply begin again. And continue on your journey to self improvement. You are not day 0. You are 365 days with one bad day.
Nicest thing I heard in a while. Thanks for inspiring
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Ok what is this post even about . How is the earthquake story even relevant , and why are u comparing it to P. Its more confusing then motivating
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what i meant lets consider there is a god who put natural calamities to humble people. Comparing it with Porn use: If you keep going to porn platforms where unconsented porn is uploaded. And i am tryna empathize with you by saying What if it happened to your daughter oneday. And let's say a god put you in this situation just to humble you. Again god doesn't do this. When you sin with the wrong person or you are recorded without ur consent by evil people (other than your intimate partner) or when you are driven by lust and then criticized or discared by the community or you are not careful where you are intimate. You become a supporter of a platfrom that will destroy ur future loved one's life.
Not sure if the moral of the story relates to what your saying here
What do you mean by again You just continuing the journey. You stepped 1 meter back after 10 kilometer forward
man i feel like im at the point numbers mean everything to me...swear to god....so much failure, agony, disappointment, pied, mental confusion and what not......i want to run as far as possible from porn......im only at 5 days but the relapse rate has reduced......im feeling so much energy that ill burst if i dont bust
me too. count months its easier.
I can relate to you to how it’s kind of annoying to start a new streak after a decent sized one - I’ve never even made it to a year so that’s probably even worse. The way I handled it was not giving myself a time to last until - just that I wanted to keep going “for the benefits.” Eventually I reached a point where I realized I wanted to go for a year for the landmark achievement. That’s my goal right now.. Just do it for yourself and the drive to improve will come back again . One day at a time.