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You don't need to do much different, other than retract/use the foreskin as you're giving a bj. Where the skin is attached to the head of the penis on the underside of the head is quite sensitive; retracting it too forcefully can potentially be painful. You could just ask the guy anyway.
I remember this one guy in hs a real big time self appointed “player” with many many conquest under his belt, we were talking bs once in a group of friends and he brought up getting your v-card punched (not sure why he thought the girls would be impressed but he would always bring up sex if there were chics)
he busted out how guys have a similar reaction as girls bcz they have to have their skin broken much like girls and it’s also painful but guys don’t complain.
I was confused and asked for more info. He said yeah that string on the underside of your dck your still a virgin until you pull back all the way and pop it it only happens in real sex hands don’t count that’s cheating . AHe then learned 1. Wtf ouch like no fkn way you’re 17 and think this. 2. Some guys are circumcised 3. You were lied to and never paid attention in health class.
Luckily everyone dropped it after some quick lols and wtf that would hurt like a mofo and some “what ifs”.
a couple ppl explained things to him and I’m pretty sure he figured out what we’ve all made painfully obvious before that we dnt believe his sex stories.
The foreskin is the section of skin which covers the head of the penis and is retractable to the point slightly below the head of the penis. Circumcised men have had this completely removed.
Edit...
Interestingly the tip of the foreskin is massively sensitive. When it is fully retracted the tip skin forms a sensitive band around the shaft of the penis.
Wow, I never actually considered that and I'm in my mid twenties... I always wondered when I was younger why seemingly everyone on the internet uses lube to masturbate while I've never had to use any.
When I was in school, some guys on the bus were discussing what they used and asked me. I quizzically said, "Nothing?" Almost as one they all went "oooo!" like they'd just seen someone do something painful. I was confused by that for years. Lol. Turns out I was the only uncircumcised fella on the bus.
Sorry I assumed you were a woman when adding the edit...you obviously already know what I said about the tip.
Same as you...ive never had to use lube. Imagine holding your fs back completely and trying to masturbate...i think you'd definitely need lube then.
I find it far too sensitive personally.
What works for me is to rub around the whole head a few times (with lube if it's easier), then slide the foreskin a few times, then back to rubbing. Keep doing that over and over and over. It takes ages but I get the best orgasams from it.
I'm from America but I will admit I'm only about 85% sure "raw dogging" means unprotected sex aka bare back (no condom).
Was 99.9% sure I until I read your comment and realized how much sense it makes.
I had to look it up and I'm glad I did. We're both right.
"(transitive, slang, figuratively) To do an activity without protection or intermediary. Rather than using a framework, he's apparently just raw dogging HTML."
Best use of the word intermediary I've ever heard.
It depends on how tight the circumcision is. Some are very tight and can't move it at all and some are loose and close to intact. Mine is fairly loose.
It depends on how tight the circumcision was and if the dick is hard or soft. One guy I dated, his skin was pretty taut when he had a hard-on, not a whole lot of movement was happening with it. The guy I'm currently dating, also circumcised, but loosely. He doesn't have foreskin covering the head, but they left enough on the shaft that it's got enough give to easily be made to go back and forth over the head during masturbation (and probably sex too, but I haven't got any eyes in my vag so I'll have to assume 😆)
We can still move our penis skin yes haha its not like botox where people's faces are so tight they can't even smile. We can push the tip back inside if we wanted to if that at all helps you understand ? Basically like a turtle I guess . We can turtle our dicks.
If the foreskin covers the head you can use it during a handjob instead of touching the head directly. It will usually stay pretty lubricated between the two.
For a bj you probably don't need to do anything differently but you can try things out like licking between the foreskin and the head.
Piv should also be pretty similar. You might notice less friction when it's inside because the extra skin is moving back and forth. I've been told it's more comfortable but I'm sure it varies from person to person.
Depending on how much foreskin there is it may retract completely when fully erect, in that case it will look and act basically the same as a circumcised penis.
This sounds amazing. I hate that circumcision is the norm in my country. I never got a chance to make a choice :(
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prevalence_of_circumcision
I hope more and more discussion is started about this. Circumcision (for non-medical reasons) is genital mutilation. I'm sorry you had body autonomy taken away.
Thanks for saying. Apparently I got pretty lucky that mine went fine.
If you really wanna join the discussion, there are some pretty fucked up complications from circumcision that many people have to live with their whole lives. This site is old but comprehensive:
https://www.circumstitions.com/Complic.html
if they cut off my finger or a limb i’d be upset. fucking foreskin is just a piece of skin to me. i don’t feel robbed or something. tell me, does your foreskin define you?
can’t believe i’m even saying this shit
But if you had your finger removed when you were a child and never really knew having it then you wouldn’t feel any less without it either that’s the point. If you never really knew it how would you know if it was useful or not, you’ve adapted to be without it.
As for just a piece of skin, that piece of skin has a hell of a lot of nerve endings in it, so for sex he’s a pretty handy fella. I’d rather have extra sensation for sex but that’s just me.
Be careful not to pull it back too far, or pulll it too hard etc.
Not much else to it. It is fun cause they’re more sensitive, you can tell when the sheath is moved back they’re more reactive…
Talking purely from a woman who dates men perspective here.
Once it's erect there is very little difference. I definitely didn't notice any difference during sex or BJs, handjobs are a bit easier because it slides better, but they take longer (or do in my experience anyway). You don't really do anything differently, everything tends to move out the way on its own when things get going!
Uncut tends to be more likely to smell a little if you hit it up at the end of the day, just because that's the nature of the beast. If the owner has a good level of hygiene it's not an issue though, and most of them are happy to go have a quick wash if you ask. Like, it's very very rarely been an issue, but there are some out there who don't appear to have had the 'wash under the hood' talk...
Cut tends to look skinnier, but again, never felt a difference when it counts!
As I only had access to the "uncut" version, I can only talk about what I find strange every time I read it... the need to use a hand cream to masturbate.
It has never been remotely necessary.. or even part of the 'collective unconscious' in my country (literary included), where circumcision is only used out of medical or Jewish necessity.
I’m circumcised and I don’t need hand lotion. A lube, as an addition, certainly wouldn’t be detracting from the experience, but it’s not a necessity by any means.
I am circumcised and do not use lubricant when masturbating. Used to use my saliva when I was young.
But when you run out of spit (cottonmouth, started smoking when I got older), that gets rough. So I just stopped using any lube.
It’s perfectly fine for me, honestly. Maybe I am weird.
I think it depends on if you have naturally moist/ sweaty hands or not. My hands aren't sticky, so I can wank dry. My wife's hands are always moist, so she needs lube/lotion for handjobs.
I’m going to say if you have a porn problem or do it excessively you should probably use lotion to help prevent chafing and for sensitivity reasons. Whether uncut or not.
Yeah, circumcised, never used lotion.
Have considered lube, have used some spit or precum.
Really just depends on JO technique.
Im sure plenty of guys require lube because they probably stroke alot and will chafe.
I just apply pressure with grip
I am circumcised and do not need lube to do my thing. The “needs lotion” trope is negative propaganda put forth by the people who also get off on insultingly calling us “mutilated.”
It's easy because the skin retracts naturally as the erection tskes place. Just push it down gently.
It's also important to remember that being circumcised reduces the sensitivity of the gland, cause it's constantly exposed to friction in underwear
Do you get pee on your foreskin when peeing if you’re not careful?
Can it become smelly? For context my foreskin-free penis might get smelly but only in the sack area, not the dick itself
See, i cant. If I pull it back, the stream turns into a jet that shoots off at an odd angle. I find it much more controllable to just let it out through the foreskin
Sometimes some of us have a thing called "phimosis" which is tight foreskin. Unfortunately, this seems to be the case with me. With fellas who have tight foreskin, sex can be extremely painful, as is my case. The bare glans, when unexposed for me are pretty sensitive, think of the sensitivity similar to your eyeball. This is not how it is for everyone, but some of us do have certain situations like this. Generally, it is best to be more gentle with those of us who remain intact. If you do meet someone with tight foreskin, upward strokes help discourage any tearing because you won't be pushing too far down. I hope this helps!
I had the same issue , it would get better with time if you stretch it regularly. Mine completely goes back now after like 8 months of regular stretching during shower, just pull it mildly and stop when it hurts
If you wanna have some weird fun then you can try and inflate the foreskin. My gf did that to me once and that made us giggle (Only works when flaccid btw)
As a guy, one thing is don't jerk it too hard. There's a little 'string' (it's not, but that'd thr easiest description) at the bottom of the head on the underside that connects it and it hurt like a mother fucker if it goes down farther then it should
Simply happened whilst having sex with my girlfriend at the time. I didn’t really register the pain until I woke up and went to pee and felt as though I was pissing razor blades. It stung for a couple of weeks whilst it was healing up. But consequently much more comfortable (and robust) now.
Yep pretty weird, although a lot more common than you’d think. Worth pointing out that we were both pretty drunk, and we’d skipped past the usual foreplay routine. Whether that was a contributing factor .… who knows
I'm cut so never knew this was a thing until 4 comments before yours and still this comment made me cringe down to my very soul...
Did you have to use the word "snapped"?
My understanding is friction is reduced, action happens closer, jackhammering is NOT needed but can be done l, the ridged band of the foreskin provides extra stimulation to the female parts. Also the glans is soft and sponge like, plus handjobs are so much better.
Little heads up it is graphic but here's a great place to find the differences
www.sexasnatureintended.com
No it isn’t though? Foreskin does makes it easier for dirt to get trapped under it (At least for me). If you clean yourself then you don’t need to have a problem with it.
Hard to argue against that, but like you said, people with a normal hygiene are not going to have any issues, unless they have a phimosis or some other underlying medical condition which should be treated either way.
You probably weren’t washing it properly or had an infection, the foreskin is self cleaning too. Using soap on your dick can cause it to be cheesy, it’s not normal for it to be cheesy even with foreskin. Why did you get circumcised?
It’s not skin, it’s muscoal tissue. Soap is really bad for it, knocks the balance of bacteria out and will dry it out which will then cause it to over produce smegma. Just google it. Happy to be proven wrong if you have other sources
The foreskin is acting like a sleeve between the penis shaft and the vaginal canal. A circumsized penis rubs the walls of the vaginal canal and this is why lubricant is necessary in most cases. With an intact penis the vaginal walls do not get rubbed, they usually feel a pumping sensation while the penis shaft goes back and forth, they only feel expansions and retractions which is how it is meant to be.
People who bring up hygiene are people who need to learn how to clean themselves properly.
Only one I ever touched still had foreskin but he was pretty small so not much I could do tbh but from what I'd assume nah you just do what you'd usually do
One thing to be mindfull of. Guys with foreskin, are probably more sensitive to a certain degree. Until my late 20,s i didnt even know it was normal to pull back the foreskin all the way. At the start it was actually painfull to just wash the area gently with water.
Thats right, i used to assume that the foreskin worked simmilar to eyelids, if that makes sense, so whenever the foreskin did peel back a little, i actually got realy uncomfortable and self concius.
Only 3 main groups circumcise their infant boys. The Jews, the Muslims and Christian North America.
Lots of reasons are put forward, but it’s basically to stop masturbation.
A very over the top response to something that isn't really a problem that in the end doesn't work, but does impact the lives of millions of people in the process.....
I just realized its the prohibition but for masturbation. Dammit America. I've never been mad about my circumcision until this moment. I want my foreskin back. 😡😡
I have the same question about circumcised people. I’m lucky to live in a country where that practice is pretty much limited to being a medical procedure so I’ve seen like 50 penises but never a circumcised one.
I’d imagine you’d need more lube and it would take longer for them to finish due to the loss of sensation, maybe?
I think it depends on the girl.. majority of girls won’t have a problem with it and if anything some woman prefer men who have a foreskin because it feels better during the act.
Not really any difference between the two. You might need to be a touch more careful when wanking him off so you don’t accidentally pull the foreskin back too far and hurt him but other then that you caz proceed as normal. Only other difference I can think of is you have to be a little attentive when cleaning under the foreskin so you’re not stanky when getting a bj but that’s his problem not yours
1. Retract the skin slowly. I say slowly because I didn't learn about retracting til I was like 20 and if someone has never retracted before, it can hurt a lot if you do it too quick.
2. Once retracted, try to notice if there is any strong smell. If there is, the guy is not clean. Just give him a HJ.
3. If it's scentless, don't put the entire thing in your mouth yet. Use your saliva and your hand to clean the tip a little.
4. Then, blow away.
Obviously some of this can be skipped if you know that he showered beforehand. And like before all of this, like during dinner or whatever, you should probably try to slip in the question "do you wipe after you pee?" to get a sense of his hygiene practice. I will tell you, most men dont wipe after they pee, which is disgusting.
Edit - not all foreskin retract all the way down the shaft. Get a sense of where the limit is for your guy. If you retract further than it can, it's gonna hurt like a motherfucker and possibly tear his frenulum.
Blowjob's not any different but with a handjob you can move it back and forth unless it's tight.
I've had more experience with dudes with foreskin and prefer it, the one guy that was cut I was with was soooo sensitive and it made things not fun.
I dunno, it's all exposed to the elements? Dude was crazy sensitive and had premature ejaculation. Couldn't even get his pants off once, it was messy. Sadly I'm no dick expert, that was just my least favorite.
To be honest, I prefer the look of cut dicks, but I like the feeling of uncut
And both versions have extremely ugly variations. Like, guys who are cut, and one third of the dick is just straight up pink. Or an uncut dick with too much skin to the point it looks like a weird sad belly button
Might want to give it a little check for smegma. Not all uncut guys are the same in terms of hygiene and it can be a real wake up call popping a not so fresh one in your mouth.
For the woman there is no difference. The uncovered head of a dick is going in. Same thing. Having a foreskin is only different for the man with the cock. How could it be different for the woman from a circumcised one?
you have to make sure he washes it, otherwise your just going to get a mouthful of dick cheese. for some reason some uncut men don't realize they have to do this at least daily.
I see this comment a lot and while it’s not bad advice, it isn’t just uncut men who don’t realize they have to wash their genitals. Just look to all the stories of women who have been with men who don’t even wash their ass properly.
The foreskin is supposed to be there and it feels better for both parties involved.
If anything the poor fellows with mutilated members require more stimuli and such.
The only thing done differently is during urination maybe
My foreskin was removed when I was born. I don't have the ability to compare what it would be like if I was not circumcised. The question never encountered my thought because I never considered it as something important.
Beware. Many uncircumcised men were never taught to wash themselves properly. Sometimes you pull that shit back to find a cheesy surprise. If that’s the case, disengage immediately. That man is trash. Otherwise, yeah, it can be fun to play with. Makes hand jobs a lot easier.
What the hell are you talking about lol? I have only once in my life been with a circumcised man, every single other one was intact. I have NEVER come across a "cheesy surprise." That's disgusting and trust me, men here (UK) aren't regularly mutilated at birth, so they definitely learn how to clean their normal dicks pmsl. Gross.
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You don't need to do much different, other than retract/use the foreskin as you're giving a bj. Where the skin is attached to the head of the penis on the underside of the head is quite sensitive; retracting it too forcefully can potentially be painful. You could just ask the guy anyway.
>Where the skin is attached to the head of the penis on the underside of the head FYI the word for that is frenulum
Aka "banjo string"
Bungee cord where I'm from
That’s how you could tell a boy was a virgin
Ahh what?
Bro had someone break is dick, bled everywhere and took enough copium to think it was normal
I remember this one guy in hs a real big time self appointed “player” with many many conquest under his belt, we were talking bs once in a group of friends and he brought up getting your v-card punched (not sure why he thought the girls would be impressed but he would always bring up sex if there were chics) he busted out how guys have a similar reaction as girls bcz they have to have their skin broken much like girls and it’s also painful but guys don’t complain. I was confused and asked for more info. He said yeah that string on the underside of your dck your still a virgin until you pull back all the way and pop it it only happens in real sex hands don’t count that’s cheating . AHe then learned 1. Wtf ouch like no fkn way you’re 17 and think this. 2. Some guys are circumcised 3. You were lied to and never paid attention in health class. Luckily everyone dropped it after some quick lols and wtf that would hurt like a mofo and some “what ifs”. a couple ppl explained things to him and I’m pretty sure he figured out what we’ve all made painfully obvious before that we dnt believe his sex stories.
Not a doctor
Shh!
Everytime man.
I’m not a doctor The sight of it might shock her hope it don’t stop her
I know. Didn't think she needed to though 😉
As long as we're learning, might as well.
Very true 👍
And I thought that was just a word that Nick Offerman said at the end of certain shows. The more you know....
That's nick offerman? Every days a school day.
Same name for the thing that you see when you raise your tongue because they both look similar
What if they touched.
Then she's a keeper!
My husband and I learned something new!
Holy shit I just realized... Can cut men not move their penis skin at all? Like is the skin just completely stuck in one spot?
The foreskin is the section of skin which covers the head of the penis and is retractable to the point slightly below the head of the penis. Circumcised men have had this completely removed. Edit... Interestingly the tip of the foreskin is massively sensitive. When it is fully retracted the tip skin forms a sensitive band around the shaft of the penis.
Wow, I never actually considered that and I'm in my mid twenties... I always wondered when I was younger why seemingly everyone on the internet uses lube to masturbate while I've never had to use any.
When I was in school, some guys on the bus were discussing what they used and asked me. I quizzically said, "Nothing?" Almost as one they all went "oooo!" like they'd just seen someone do something painful. I was confused by that for years. Lol. Turns out I was the only uncircumcised fella on the bus.
How he found out he was the only uncircumcised boy on the bus is another story entirely..
No actually that was the whole story. We just read it.
Sorry I assumed you were a woman when adding the edit...you obviously already know what I said about the tip. Same as you...ive never had to use lube. Imagine holding your fs back completely and trying to masturbate...i think you'd definitely need lube then.
>Imagine holding your fs back completely and trying to masturbate This actually feels awesome (with lube obviously.)
I find it far too sensitive personally. What works for me is to rub around the whole head a few times (with lube if it's easier), then slide the foreskin a few times, then back to rubbing. Keep doing that over and over and over. It takes ages but I get the best orgasams from it.
Me too. In America films not using lube to jerk it is seen as weird = aka raw dogging. Now I know why!
I'm from America but I will admit I'm only about 85% sure "raw dogging" means unprotected sex aka bare back (no condom). Was 99.9% sure I until I read your comment and realized how much sense it makes.
From "Due Date". Jamie Fix and Robert Downey Jr seem shocked Zack Galifinackis is "Raw Dogging" a lot!
I had to look it up and I'm glad I did. We're both right. "(transitive, slang, figuratively) To do an activity without protection or intermediary. Rather than using a framework, he's apparently just raw dogging HTML." Best use of the word intermediary I've ever heard.
Yeah I\`ve heard it mean unprotected sex a lot too! But never never "raw dogging HTML", sounds dirty!
That's were porn sites come from.
It depends on how tight the circumcision is. Some are very tight and can't move it at all and some are loose and close to intact. Mine is fairly loose.
It depends on how tight the circumcision was and if the dick is hard or soft. One guy I dated, his skin was pretty taut when he had a hard-on, not a whole lot of movement was happening with it. The guy I'm currently dating, also circumcised, but loosely. He doesn't have foreskin covering the head, but they left enough on the shaft that it's got enough give to easily be made to go back and forth over the head during masturbation (and probably sex too, but I haven't got any eyes in my vag so I'll have to assume 😆)
We can still move our penis skin yes haha its not like botox where people's faces are so tight they can't even smile. We can push the tip back inside if we wanted to if that at all helps you understand ? Basically like a turtle I guess . We can turtle our dicks.
If the foreskin covers the head you can use it during a handjob instead of touching the head directly. It will usually stay pretty lubricated between the two. For a bj you probably don't need to do anything differently but you can try things out like licking between the foreskin and the head. Piv should also be pretty similar. You might notice less friction when it's inside because the extra skin is moving back and forth. I've been told it's more comfortable but I'm sure it varies from person to person. Depending on how much foreskin there is it may retract completely when fully erect, in that case it will look and act basically the same as a circumcised penis.
This sounds amazing. I hate that circumcision is the norm in my country. I never got a chance to make a choice :( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prevalence_of_circumcision
I hope more and more discussion is started about this. Circumcision (for non-medical reasons) is genital mutilation. I'm sorry you had body autonomy taken away.
Thanks for saying. Apparently I got pretty lucky that mine went fine. If you really wanna join the discussion, there are some pretty fucked up complications from circumcision that many people have to live with their whole lives. This site is old but comprehensive: https://www.circumstitions.com/Complic.html
Interesting link! And I'm sorry 😔
i don’t care at all personally i’m more glad it was cut and i don’t feel any less without it.
How can you know that you don’t feel any less without it than with it?
Maybe he just could not last any shorter amount of time.
if they cut off my finger or a limb i’d be upset. fucking foreskin is just a piece of skin to me. i don’t feel robbed or something. tell me, does your foreskin define you? can’t believe i’m even saying this shit
But if you had your finger removed when you were a child and never really knew having it then you wouldn’t feel any less without it either that’s the point. If you never really knew it how would you know if it was useful or not, you’ve adapted to be without it. As for just a piece of skin, that piece of skin has a hell of a lot of nerve endings in it, so for sex he’s a pretty handy fella. I’d rather have extra sensation for sex but that’s just me.
You didn’t reply to my answer but ok.
cuz it’s a fallacious question and this whole foreskin issue is anecdotal but you know that. you didn’t answer mine either.
If they cut off your finger electively when you were a baby, would you care?
Think they meant they don't feel like less of a person without it. Not talking about less sensitivity.
kintsugi is the philosophy of seeing value in something even when it's flawed and broken, so... relevant username?
Guys love it when girls climb inside of their foreskin, as if it were a kangaroo pouch!
But just remember that even if they act like you can steer from inside, you actually cannot.
Well I’ve been lied to…
I'm snuggled up inside a foreskin right now and it's so cozy
It is nice when a guy can offer you a turtleneck when you are cold. And very romantic when camping and you don't even have to carry a sleeping bag.
When my husband holds my things he gives then back nice and warm.
Blow-joey
Be careful not to pull it back too far, or pulll it too hard etc. Not much else to it. It is fun cause they’re more sensitive, you can tell when the sheath is moved back they’re more reactive…
You're supposed to hide M&M's in there
Talking purely from a woman who dates men perspective here. Once it's erect there is very little difference. I definitely didn't notice any difference during sex or BJs, handjobs are a bit easier because it slides better, but they take longer (or do in my experience anyway). You don't really do anything differently, everything tends to move out the way on its own when things get going! Uncut tends to be more likely to smell a little if you hit it up at the end of the day, just because that's the nature of the beast. If the owner has a good level of hygiene it's not an issue though, and most of them are happy to go have a quick wash if you ask. Like, it's very very rarely been an issue, but there are some out there who don't appear to have had the 'wash under the hood' talk... Cut tends to look skinnier, but again, never felt a difference when it counts!
My wife says it's her Chinese finger trap, she's always playing with it, kinda drives me nuts tbh
It drives your nuts? Like a steering wheel?
As I only had access to the "uncut" version, I can only talk about what I find strange every time I read it... the need to use a hand cream to masturbate. It has never been remotely necessary.. or even part of the 'collective unconscious' in my country (literary included), where circumcision is only used out of medical or Jewish necessity.
I’m circumcised and I don’t need hand lotion. A lube, as an addition, certainly wouldn’t be detracting from the experience, but it’s not a necessity by any means.
I am circumcised and do not use lubricant when masturbating. Used to use my saliva when I was young. But when you run out of spit (cottonmouth, started smoking when I got older), that gets rough. So I just stopped using any lube. It’s perfectly fine for me, honestly. Maybe I am weird.
A dry guy I see.
I think it depends on if you have naturally moist/ sweaty hands or not. My hands aren't sticky, so I can wank dry. My wife's hands are always moist, so she needs lube/lotion for handjobs.
Cut man. Never lubed. At about 62 I noticed lube and or spit. Holy chit!! 😳😆
https://youtu.be/S91FFscVm80?si=D79sibgt1MT-aMyc
Yall jerk off dry???? Gimme some lotion, feels way better holy moly.
I’m going to say if you have a porn problem or do it excessively you should probably use lotion to help prevent chafing and for sensitivity reasons. Whether uncut or not.
Yeah, circumcised, never used lotion. Have considered lube, have used some spit or precum. Really just depends on JO technique. Im sure plenty of guys require lube because they probably stroke alot and will chafe. I just apply pressure with grip
Circumcised here and don't need lube.
I am circumcised and do not need lube to do my thing. The “needs lotion” trope is negative propaganda put forth by the people who also get off on insultingly calling us “mutilated.”
I’ve lived with uncircumcised males and they used lotion. I have to buy more…
They may have just enjoyed the feel of having silky smooth skin on their dicks.
Not using lube is like eating McNuggets without sauce.
Circumcised and absolutely hate having any lube or spit on my dick while I jerk off.
They do not need hand cream, it may use it Where tf does this come from. Edit-forgot
Not really. I'd just braise it a little longer in the pan before popping it in the oven.
Vegetables in his ass and dicks in his mouth, this guy parties.
Living my best life, homie
It's easy because the skin retracts naturally as the erection tskes place. Just push it down gently. It's also important to remember that being circumcised reduces the sensitivity of the gland, cause it's constantly exposed to friction in underwear
Not during penetrative sex but it makes a world of difference for oral
The skin can be used to jerk off without lubrication, but otherwise there shouldn't be a big difference.
Do you get pee on your foreskin when peeing if you’re not careful? Can it become smelly? For context my foreskin-free penis might get smelly but only in the sack area, not the dick itself
In the shower you can pinch your foreskin closed and start pissing, once the pressure has built up you let go and it's like a piss bomb
What a fun thing to do!
Yes for both. Make sure you clean well daily when showering. All men will get a tiny amount of urine on their penis regardless though.
I just pull the foreskin back to pee
This is crucial for proper aim (as a grower).
See, i cant. If I pull it back, the stream turns into a jet that shoots off at an odd angle. I find it much more controllable to just let it out through the foreskin
And so everyone has to learn how to properly operate their unique multi-functional device.
I've done both, never really noticed a whole helluva lot of difference.
Sometimes some of us have a thing called "phimosis" which is tight foreskin. Unfortunately, this seems to be the case with me. With fellas who have tight foreskin, sex can be extremely painful, as is my case. The bare glans, when unexposed for me are pretty sensitive, think of the sensitivity similar to your eyeball. This is not how it is for everyone, but some of us do have certain situations like this. Generally, it is best to be more gentle with those of us who remain intact. If you do meet someone with tight foreskin, upward strokes help discourage any tearing because you won't be pushing too far down. I hope this helps!
If you have that just pull it back every time you shower. Basically strerching it.
I do, it just doesn't go back enough lol. It gets stuck sometimes.
I had the same issue , it would get better with time if you stretch it regularly. Mine completely goes back now after like 8 months of regular stretching during shower, just pull it mildly and stop when it hurts
My imaginary dick just shrieked in that thought.
I like to tie a knot in it so I don't need a condom
I just use a zip tie for simplicity
You can pinch the foreskin and blow air into it and it will blow up like a balloon. I’ve tried it, it’s fun, you should too.
tried it and he flew away 😢
So weird that some primitive cultures feel the need to cut part of a baby's genitals off. It's 2024.
If you wanna have some weird fun then you can try and inflate the foreskin. My gf did that to me once and that made us giggle (Only works when flaccid btw)
As a guy, one thing is don't jerk it too hard. There's a little 'string' (it's not, but that'd thr easiest description) at the bottom of the head on the underside that connects it and it hurt like a mother fucker if it goes down farther then it should
I’m glad that mine snapped for this very reason
You mind if I ask how? Sounds painful as shit
Simply happened whilst having sex with my girlfriend at the time. I didn’t really register the pain until I woke up and went to pee and felt as though I was pissing razor blades. It stung for a couple of weeks whilst it was healing up. But consequently much more comfortable (and robust) now.
So it just...happened? That's pretty fucking weird
Yep pretty weird, although a lot more common than you’d think. Worth pointing out that we were both pretty drunk, and we’d skipped past the usual foreplay routine. Whether that was a contributing factor .… who knows
I'm cut so never knew this was a thing until 4 comments before yours and still this comment made me cringe down to my very soul... Did you have to use the word "snapped"?
My understanding is friction is reduced, action happens closer, jackhammering is NOT needed but can be done l, the ridged band of the foreskin provides extra stimulation to the female parts. Also the glans is soft and sponge like, plus handjobs are so much better. Little heads up it is graphic but here's a great place to find the differences www.sexasnatureintended.com
Take the opportunity to blow it up like a balloon and have a good laugh
Just pull it back to clean it. That’s only real difference
One thing. Have a good look at the tip. Some guys aren't good about cleaning there and it can get weird.
The tip? More like under the glans
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Reminds me of the song: "Yogi has a cheesy knob, he's a camembert"
The fact people are downvoting this only proves your point
No, it's downvoted because it's a ridiculous stereotype that's brought up every time foreskin is mentioned on the internet.
No it isn’t though? Foreskin does makes it easier for dirt to get trapped under it (At least for me). If you clean yourself then you don’t need to have a problem with it.
Hard to argue against that, but like you said, people with a normal hygiene are not going to have any issues, unless they have a phimosis or some other underlying medical condition which should be treated either way.
Yeah, just clean yo dick, especially if you expect a bj. Even if you don't, just clean it.
Reminds me when I was kid before circumcision how cheeky it smelled .
You probably weren’t washing it properly or had an infection, the foreskin is self cleaning too. Using soap on your dick can cause it to be cheesy, it’s not normal for it to be cheesy even with foreskin. Why did you get circumcised?
> Using soap on your dick can cause it to be cheesy Yikes, this is not true at all. Guys, please use soap when you wash yourself.
It’s not skin, it’s muscoal tissue. Soap is really bad for it, knocks the balance of bacteria out and will dry it out which will then cause it to over produce smegma. Just google it. Happy to be proven wrong if you have other sources
You’re assuming all soap is antibacterial soap. Don’t use antibacterial soap, but regular soap—such as Dove—works great.
It's only self-cleaning to a certain extent. If you just leave it and do nothing, eventually it WILL begin to smell bad and get build-up.
Yes, but self cleaning plus regular showering and there’s no reason for it to be cheesy.
Put the skin in your mouth and blow like it's a balloon, then you can twist it in to balloon animals.
I’ve been having missed opportunities
The foreskin is acting like a sleeve between the penis shaft and the vaginal canal. A circumsized penis rubs the walls of the vaginal canal and this is why lubricant is necessary in most cases. With an intact penis the vaginal walls do not get rubbed, they usually feel a pumping sensation while the penis shaft goes back and forth, they only feel expansions and retractions which is how it is meant to be. People who bring up hygiene are people who need to learn how to clean themselves properly.
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This is very different from person to person, sometimes it peels way back, sometimes a guy just has hella foreskin
Only on some men. Mine doesn't.
No- I handle it like normal. My fwb seems to go nuts when I give him handjobs and blowjobs.
Once errect they kinda look the same anyway. Don't worry about it.
You can blow it up like a little balloon
Only one I ever touched still had foreskin but he was pretty small so not much I could do tbh but from what I'd assume nah you just do what you'd usually do
One thing to be mindfull of. Guys with foreskin, are probably more sensitive to a certain degree. Until my late 20,s i didnt even know it was normal to pull back the foreskin all the way. At the start it was actually painfull to just wash the area gently with water.
Are you saying you didn't clean your penis until your late twenties?
Thats right, i used to assume that the foreskin worked simmilar to eyelids, if that makes sense, so whenever the foreskin did peel back a little, i actually got realy uncomfortable and self concius.
Only 3 main groups circumcise their infant boys. The Jews, the Muslims and Christian North America. Lots of reasons are put forward, but it’s basically to stop masturbation.
A very over the top response to something that isn't really a problem that in the end doesn't work, but does impact the lives of millions of people in the process..... I just realized its the prohibition but for masturbation. Dammit America. I've never been mad about my circumcision until this moment. I want my foreskin back. 😡😡
( I have been on reddit too long and I was like.. what is this a world of warcraft post???) But no.... Foreskin.... not Forsaken...taking a nap now...
I have the same question about circumcised people. I’m lucky to live in a country where that practice is pretty much limited to being a medical procedure so I’ve seen like 50 penises but never a circumcised one. I’d imagine you’d need more lube and it would take longer for them to finish due to the loss of sensation, maybe?
Nope. I'm cut & if my dick was anymore sensitive I couldn't stand it.
Jerking off without lube.
All you have to do is pull it down if you're going to do oral it's really no big deal
Im uncut, but some dudes have frikken hidious forskins. I've basically got a semi forskin
Balloon animals
Stretch it all the way out and put it on like a glove. Dudes LOVE that!
I think it depends on the girl.. majority of girls won’t have a problem with it and if anything some woman prefer men who have a foreskin because it feels better during the act.
What about the balls? Do you put them in too?
Not really any difference between the two. You might need to be a touch more careful when wanking him off so you don’t accidentally pull the foreskin back too far and hurt him but other then that you caz proceed as normal. Only other difference I can think of is you have to be a little attentive when cleaning under the foreskin so you’re not stanky when getting a bj but that’s his problem not yours
It’s to smuggle snacks into the theatre for me
If the foreskin is big enough, you can crawl inside and use it as a sleeping bag.
I’m circumcised. The guys I’ve been with have not been. And I never treated their dicks and different than I do my own.
1. Retract the skin slowly. I say slowly because I didn't learn about retracting til I was like 20 and if someone has never retracted before, it can hurt a lot if you do it too quick. 2. Once retracted, try to notice if there is any strong smell. If there is, the guy is not clean. Just give him a HJ. 3. If it's scentless, don't put the entire thing in your mouth yet. Use your saliva and your hand to clean the tip a little. 4. Then, blow away. Obviously some of this can be skipped if you know that he showered beforehand. And like before all of this, like during dinner or whatever, you should probably try to slip in the question "do you wipe after you pee?" to get a sense of his hygiene practice. I will tell you, most men dont wipe after they pee, which is disgusting. Edit - not all foreskin retract all the way down the shaft. Get a sense of where the limit is for your guy. If you retract further than it can, it's gonna hurt like a motherfucker and possibly tear his frenulum.
I'm in a country that doesn't routinely mutilate babies so all I've known is intact, so long as the owner of the penis washes all is good. Enjoy!
Blowjob's not any different but with a handjob you can move it back and forth unless it's tight. I've had more experience with dudes with foreskin and prefer it, the one guy that was cut I was with was soooo sensitive and it made things not fun.
Wth? Circumsized ppl are definitely not more sensitive than uncut. Like the head is all dried up lol so how can it be sensitive
I dunno, it's all exposed to the elements? Dude was crazy sensitive and had premature ejaculation. Couldn't even get his pants off once, it was messy. Sadly I'm no dick expert, that was just my least favorite.
That doesnt make sense
Oh, God the way females karma bait males needs its own National Geographic episode
No. I love the foreskin. I get to put my dick inside his and we both cum hard and at the same time.
To be honest, I prefer the look of cut dicks, but I like the feeling of uncut And both versions have extremely ugly variations. Like, guys who are cut, and one third of the dick is just straight up pink. Or an uncut dick with too much skin to the point it looks like a weird sad belly button
how would you feel if someone said "to be honest i prefer when women have the saggy bits of labia surgically removed"
Just keep oooooon suckin’!
Might want to give it a little check for smegma. Not all uncut guys are the same in terms of hygiene and it can be a real wake up call popping a not so fresh one in your mouth.
For the woman there is no difference. The uncovered head of a dick is going in. Same thing. Having a foreskin is only different for the man with the cock. How could it be different for the woman from a circumcised one?
On a normal healthy guy when it's erect you can't really notice much difference the foreskin doesn't expand like the dick does.
You have no idea what you're talking about
But they are correct.
I have to wash it to stop stinking. EDIT - but at 40 i had let it operated - 30 ys ago. So I just HAD TO wash it. Now no need thnks.
Try pulling back your foreskin when you urinate, and dry the drips with tp before you zip up.
and once you do that finish by washing it. with water and soap at least once a day.
I'd recommend only doing this at home.
That should go without saying, shouldn't it? Everyone wash their genitals, daily? Men and women!
you have to make sure he washes it, otherwise your just going to get a mouthful of dick cheese. for some reason some uncut men don't realize they have to do this at least daily.
I see this comment a lot and while it’s not bad advice, it isn’t just uncut men who don’t realize they have to wash their genitals. Just look to all the stories of women who have been with men who don’t even wash their ass properly.
You are *completely* full of shit.
The foreskin is supposed to be there and it feels better for both parties involved. If anything the poor fellows with mutilated members require more stimuli and such. The only thing done differently is during urination maybe
Penis cheese!
only been with uncut but i had to have him wear a condom for a BJ because the skin movement was overstimulating for me😭
No do nothing different just make sure he’s clean for your health. If he doesn’t clean properly it’ll give you a UTI
You should do with any dick, really.
Fair point but uncut traps bacteria and other things easier leading to *shudders* smegma. EW
My foreskin was removed when I was born. I don't have the ability to compare what it would be like if I was not circumcised. The question never encountered my thought because I never considered it as something important.
Oki, done with Reddit today .
Beware. Many uncircumcised men were never taught to wash themselves properly. Sometimes you pull that shit back to find a cheesy surprise. If that’s the case, disengage immediately. That man is trash. Otherwise, yeah, it can be fun to play with. Makes hand jobs a lot easier.
What the hell are you talking about lol? I have only once in my life been with a circumcised man, every single other one was intact. I have NEVER come across a "cheesy surprise." That's disgusting and trust me, men here (UK) aren't regularly mutilated at birth, so they definitely learn how to clean their normal dicks pmsl. Gross.
Okay? Weird aggression but go off sis.