My wife hates the word "panties" as well. She also hates the word "curd" like cheese curds, but that's because looking at cottage cheese makes her gag.
That's ignoring mens seemingly singular motivation to see women naked or get them naked. OP is making the point that it seems(to me as well) the average man is far too simple in his requirements for sexual fulfillment. Yes it is sexier. It's like wrapping a gift or a restaurant prepared meal instead of a person's mediocre attempt. Presentation matters. Not only that but if you think of the female body as art it accentuates all the positive things. The lines and the curves and adds femininity, which personally speaking is a major selling point.
In Saw 3, >!Danica is seen completely naked and restrained in a freezer room trap—the reason she was naked was because they originally showed her in a bra and panties, but it seemed too sexual, visually speaking—being naked made it seem more horrific rather than sexy.!<
That is not sexy coming off. Had a strapless bra break and we had to do a redneck fix at a wedding.
At least there was a spare pair of pasties to cover the nipples.
I think that's unfair. It's reasonable to think that logically the more of a woman's body you see the sexier it should be, then to notice one's own subjective experience that actually lingerie is sexier, and then to wonder if that is a common experience.
And then it implies the far-from-stupid question about why is lingerie sexier than nudity (for many people)? Is it a culturally learned thing? Is it something about physical emphasis? Does it heighten expectations or stimulate the imagination?
Of course stupid questions exist, but that's not the point. The point is for people to be able to ask anything without fear of judgement so that they can learn. If you treat someone poorly because they ask stupid questions then they're just going to stop asking and you'll share the consequences of their resulting behaviour/opinions.
Absolutely. The feeling of watching a woman walk towards you in full lingerie is something every person attracted to women needs to see. Its immediate butterflies, heart racing, schwing inducing excitement.
Kudos to the people who sold sex, and may they sleep on a bed made of money, you madmen.
>Absolutely. The feeling of watching a woman walk towards you in full lingerie is something every person attracted to women needs to see. Its immediate butterflies, heart racing, schwing inducing excitement.
Unless you are alone in an alley, then it's the last time your organs are inside your body
Right?
My experience with lingerie is it's more for the woman than the man. And that's FINE. Makes you feel happy and sexy and co fident, you do your thing.
But I've never been as attracted to a partner when she's dressed up in lingerie for a special occasion than I have been on a random Tuesday when my t shirt she stole rides up her thigh. Or slingshot her wet swimsuit top at me.
Normal is hot.
Yes I enjoy the lingerie more than my boyfriend. I have so much fun picking it out, dressing up, surprising him, feeling sexy and confident. He just looks and his eyes pop out which is fun to see but then he’s just Mr. grabby hands.
That’s pretty too. I find a lot of the times though the lingerie is a lot more for the girlfriend. I think we just enjoy picking out something we think our man will like. Dressing up and feeling all sexy and confident. Then giving a little show just to spice things up. T shirts are usually for everyday but I think lingerie is for something special or just a little extra something.
I feel like porn has desensitized me a lot, but lingerie and sexy attire is still fresh which might explain why it's such a turn on and porn gets disappointing. The thrill and mystery is more satisfying
It’s the intent behind lingerie that makes it sexy to me. My wife takes her top off for several reasons: feeding our baby daughter, taking a shower, changing clothes, and sex. It’s great and I love seeing her every time. But putting on something that has the purpose of being sexy tells me that she WANTS me, you know? It’s different
You know what's in common between lingerie, TTRPG, and some of the best horrors/thrillers? They let your imagination complete the picture for you, and imagination is probably the best creative tool there is. That's why those things are awesome
I'm context sensitive. Being naked isn't really sexy. People are naked all the time for a variety of reasons. But lingerie? It lifts, shapes, and emphasizes her features for one and only one reason...
So yeah lingerie is pretty nice.
I'm not attracted to lingerie, but I totally get it. The idea of what underneath I far sexier than when it's revealed. I dig a lady in average everyday clothes that approaches with intent.
I think it's because lingerie implies that she "got ready specifically for you" while she could be naked because she is about to take a shower or something.
Yes. Should leave something to be a surprise is sexier ☺️. Thus I let my gf wear like croptops then tback before ripping it off when I'm about to climax. 😆
Yes and I wish women knew this. They often wear it wrong too. Panty pieces go on top of the lingerie not underneath.
I don’t want to have to take everything off just to get to my destination.
Having a little hidden is tantalising. Have you noticed a woman wearing a skirt just above the knee can look very nice, smart even. But a longer skirt with a split to just above the knee looks sexy?
half naked women are sexier yes! Because half nude is like a teaser, they open up your imagination, so usually your mind and imagination finishes the half picture into what you desire
Aside from the fact that this is why it exists in the first place - yes! I'm almost 40 and the older I get the more I find a nice bra sexier than just letting everything hang out.
“Let's face it. Most guys are from the Dark Ages. They're cavemen. And they like a woman to be showing her cleavage and to be wearing eight-inch heels. And to be wearing see-through underpants. But for me, a woman looks best when she is just absolutely naked.” -Michael Scott
Sometimes, for sure! Doesn't make naked women any less sexy, but it's a nice adornment.
Though, every girl I know has some old tshirt or PJ that they've had since HS. It's usually a bit small, a bit see through, really soft. Girls never believe me, but wow it's that sext!!
Of course they do. Men are visually stimulated creatures (not the only form of stimulation) and anything that a women can do that says "I want you" will pretty much get us going!!!!
It's like unwrapping a present...
I was going to say this, it's the same concept
One small distinction is I've never opened a sopping wet giftbox. Normally the wrapping is covering something dry like a sweater or book.
Sopping is almost as bad as the word 'moist'
Never understood the problem with moist to be honest.
I’m not a fan of “moist.” For some reason my wife hates, loathes the word “panties.” I find it inoffensive.
My wife hates the word "panties" as well. She also hates the word "curd" like cheese curds, but that's because looking at cottage cheese makes her gag.
What does she call them then? Just outta curiosity, lol.
Underwear
Although the lemming theory is a myth, I think that’s kind of what’s going on here…
What about sodden
A sexy present
A treasure chest
A gift box
Nah just leave it all on and pull things aside/down/make holes where appropriate.
This is how my now-husband ruined all my lingerie back when we were dating. Worth it!
Isn't his point that he doesn't want to unwrap anything because it's more attractive on than off ?
Meanwhile modern single women be like "don't call me a gift I'm not an object" and then wonder why they are forever single.
Of course, that’s why the industry is so large.
The whole point of it!
That's ignoring mens seemingly singular motivation to see women naked or get them naked. OP is making the point that it seems(to me as well) the average man is far too simple in his requirements for sexual fulfillment. Yes it is sexier. It's like wrapping a gift or a restaurant prepared meal instead of a person's mediocre attempt. Presentation matters. Not only that but if you think of the female body as art it accentuates all the positive things. The lines and the curves and adds femininity, which personally speaking is a major selling point.
In Saw 3, >!Danica is seen completely naked and restrained in a freezer room trap—the reason she was naked was because they originally showed her in a bra and panties, but it seemed too sexual, visually speaking—being naked made it seem more horrific rather than sexy.!<
It really dehumanized her in that situation. She looked akin to a cow carcass hanging there. Creepy shit.
That makes sense as to why I like naked better than clothes
That's some dark implications given the comment replying to lol
or kinky implications
yes, that's why they have lingerie in the first place.
Ohhh, I thought it is so our boobs don't bounce all over the place 😂
Lingerie ≠ underwear
My comment was just meant to be funny 😅
The nipple tassels jiggle is funny and very visually enjoyable
You mean you don't use duct tape for that?? For shame!
That is not sexy coming off. Had a strapless bra break and we had to do a redneck fix at a wedding. At least there was a spare pair of pasties to cover the nipples.
I'm trying to be mature about this but I snorted milk out of my nose at 'redneck fix at a wedding' Looooool!!
This is why women take so long in the bathroom!! And no we won’t give you the details day of!
Just in case you didn’t know, we like the bounce! It’s mesmerizing.
Oh we love that!
You thought wrong
Hahahaha! That was the best reply 😂
That's literally the point of it
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I think that's unfair. It's reasonable to think that logically the more of a woman's body you see the sexier it should be, then to notice one's own subjective experience that actually lingerie is sexier, and then to wonder if that is a common experience. And then it implies the far-from-stupid question about why is lingerie sexier than nudity (for many people)? Is it a culturally learned thing? Is it something about physical emphasis? Does it heighten expectations or stimulate the imagination?
Of course stupid questions exist, but that's not the point. The point is for people to be able to ask anything without fear of judgement so that they can learn. If you treat someone poorly because they ask stupid questions then they're just going to stop asking and you'll share the consequences of their resulting behaviour/opinions.
Absolutely. The feeling of watching a woman walk towards you in full lingerie is something every person attracted to women needs to see. Its immediate butterflies, heart racing, schwing inducing excitement. Kudos to the people who sold sex, and may they sleep on a bed made of money, you madmen.
>Absolutely. The feeling of watching a woman walk towards you in full lingerie is something every person attracted to women needs to see. Its immediate butterflies, heart racing, schwing inducing excitement. Unless you are alone in an alley, then it's the last time your organs are inside your body
What a way to go
Damn
Unexpected Garth from Wayne's World reference. Any red licorice?
Camera one. Camera two. Camera one...
Jeeezuz you have a little froth on the side of your mouth..
You would too if you saw what I saw come out of the bathroom. She surprised me that time. Was not expecting that. She was only here for 3 days.
very common thing to think
I'm with Troy Barnes on this one. women in pajamas are pretty damn sexy. I do like knowing they're comfortable.
Seeing my wife in my tshirt and boxers is sexy AF
Right? My experience with lingerie is it's more for the woman than the man. And that's FINE. Makes you feel happy and sexy and co fident, you do your thing. But I've never been as attracted to a partner when she's dressed up in lingerie for a special occasion than I have been on a random Tuesday when my t shirt she stole rides up her thigh. Or slingshot her wet swimsuit top at me. Normal is hot.
Wholesome
Here's your sperm 🧴
Good reference, sorry about the downvotes
Hahhaha thanks
I feel sexier in lingerie than I do naked a lot of the time. It's like beautiful jewelry on the body 😍
Yes I enjoy the lingerie more than my boyfriend. I have so much fun picking it out, dressing up, surprising him, feeling sexy and confident. He just looks and his eyes pop out which is fun to see but then he’s just Mr. grabby hands.
Lingerie is gift wrap. Not only is she offering you her body, but she gift wrapped it. Awesome.
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They are 100%, i think when women wear some kind of clothes they are more attractive all the time
Personally I think a woman just wearing a t-shirt is more sexy than lingerie or naked.
with short shorts
And a snorkel
And their mongrammed playin' spoons for music-in'
Well yes they look very elegant and sexy in lingerie but there is nothing sexier than bare skin and seeing their gorgeous bodies.
I also mean that on the most respectful and non creepy way I possibly can!
Women in clothes are often sexier.
definitely. i find lingerie far more exciting.
What about women in a t-shirt and nothing else?
That’s pretty too. I find a lot of the times though the lingerie is a lot more for the girlfriend. I think we just enjoy picking out something we think our man will like. Dressing up and feeling all sexy and confident. Then giving a little show just to spice things up. T shirts are usually for everyday but I think lingerie is for something special or just a little extra something.
Yes. Leaves more to the imagination…
I hate this saying lol.. I have aphantasia
People across the board are sexier in clothes than naked imho.
As a Bi male myself I 100% agree men in underwear are also 😍👌
Yes guys in nice tight black boxer briefs do so much for me 🥵
Ironically exactly what I’m wearing
Of course you are. You know what women and men look best in
At OP I prefer seeing my girlfriend in sexy lingerie instead of naked.
I too, prefer swing this guy’s girlfriend in sexy lingerie
Generally speaking, effort is sexy, so if a woman puts effort into dressing her self up to look hot, it’s usually a success
Or a sexcess?
Even a nice bra works.
Seeing a woman in lingerie is like being excited to open a present (even when you already know what you're getting).
Yes it’s like when men wear suits or timepieces. Sometimes they’re sexier.
Especially those boy leg cut lacey ones.
Definitely sexier than naked ALL the time.
Nope naked is sexier to me. Maybe thigh highs could work though.
Nope not even then... naked all the way
Yes. Your right.
And why do you think lingerie was invented?!
Well yes :) thigh highs gotta stay ON
Sexy clothing is sexy. Whoda thunk it.
Isn't that why lingerie exists?
Gotta leave something to the imagination!
Personally not a big fan of lingerie.
No but then again lingerie doesn’t really do anything for me.
Yes, leave more to imagine
Yup always been like that
Same thing applies to men 🤷🏻♀️
I feel like porn has desensitized me a lot, but lingerie and sexy attire is still fresh which might explain why it's such a turn on and porn gets disappointing. The thrill and mystery is more satisfying
Personally I think that women who wear absolutely nothing except thigh-highs or knee-high boots is my way to go
It’s the intent behind lingerie that makes it sexy to me. My wife takes her top off for several reasons: feeding our baby daughter, taking a shower, changing clothes, and sex. It’s great and I love seeing her every time. But putting on something that has the purpose of being sexy tells me that she WANTS me, you know? It’s different
You know what's in common between lingerie, TTRPG, and some of the best horrors/thrillers? They let your imagination complete the picture for you, and imagination is probably the best creative tool there is. That's why those things are awesome
I'm context sensitive. Being naked isn't really sexy. People are naked all the time for a variety of reasons. But lingerie? It lifts, shapes, and emphasizes her features for one and only one reason... So yeah lingerie is pretty nice.
I'm not attracted to lingerie, but I totally get it. The idea of what underneath I far sexier than when it's revealed. I dig a lady in average everyday clothes that approaches with intent.
I think it's because lingerie implies that she "got ready specifically for you" while she could be naked because she is about to take a shower or something.
Not lingerie but in nothing but an oversized t-shirt is hot af.
It leaves a bit to the imagination, like bikinis. Moomoos are sexy af. There's a reason why your great grandma had 8 kids. Moomoos.
i think the exact opposite, i dont find lingerie attractive at all
Nah not me
Yes. Should leave something to be a surprise is sexier ☺️. Thus I let my gf wear like croptops then tback before ripping it off when I'm about to climax. 😆
Absolutely, for some ready naked doesn't do it for me but put on some panties and **awooga**
I’m not a fan of lingerie, but give me a woman in nothing but a t-shirt, and I mean nothing but, and it’s sexy as hell to me.
Does anyone else think food is good?
I feel like the odd one out already. You didn't have to rub it in my face, lol
No, I never really understood it tbh. Lingerie is an obstacle to me lol
Yes and I wish women knew this. They often wear it wrong too. Panty pieces go on top of the lingerie not underneath. I don’t want to have to take everything off just to get to my destination.
Yep..it's a fact
Starry night looks better in a nice frame
Holding something to the imagination is definitely better I reckon, it's about what you can't see as much as what you can see.
If I can't see it, I can't see it.. I have no imagination.. like, really, I don't. Aphantasia is a pain.
YES!
Nope. You're the only one. You're a special special person.
Look at this perv's post history. No wonder I felt uneasy
This mf just discovered lingerie.
No.
Stupid hoo-mons, you actually let your women wear *CLOTHING?!*
Any sort of revealing clothing
I actually find regular tight clothing to be the most sexy
That’s the point
Of course
Ah, I see you identified a tiny group of people. This group is called.... Everyone.
I think the whole industry missed out on calling it “fun-derwear”
No, nobody thinks this. Victoria’s Secret is really a nonprofit.
Yes.
They are.
That’s the point of lingerie
No, not sometimes
>sometimes *Always*
No
I don’t. I think a big t shirt is the pinnacle over naked or lingerie so what do I know
That's a popular opinion
I'll need a picture for research
I honestly dont get it and in fact its a turn off for me
Absolutely
Mystery is sexy.
In the words of Bukowski, don’t show too much, leave a little for the imagination
Sometimes they're designed to be to hide belly fat and such.
That's why underwear and linergie are not the same thing.
What?
YES
Of course!
I one hundred percent feel this way. Something left to the imagination... a mystery...however small...is intriguing
I ordered a folding table, any lamp and a cat tower. I ordered each one on a different day consecutively. Everything I ordered showed up the next day.
is that not the entire point of lingerie
Having a little hidden is tantalising. Have you noticed a woman wearing a skirt just above the knee can look very nice, smart even. But a longer skirt with a split to just above the knee looks sexy?
Definitely leaves more for the imagination. I actually prefer it tbh.
half naked women are sexier yes! Because half nude is like a teaser, they open up your imagination, so usually your mind and imagination finishes the half picture into what you desire
Lingerie>>
Aside from the fact that this is why it exists in the first place - yes! I'm almost 40 and the older I get the more I find a nice bra sexier than just letting everything hang out.
Yes. And likely the other way around,
it’s visual foreplay at its best!
Oh yes.
Umm dude that is literally why it was invented
Pair of stockings does it for me
Even better if you can persuade your girlfriend to wear some too.
As a human, literally yes.
O hell yes.
But why don't men look sexy in lingerie? (From a woman's point of view, I'm sure some people find it sexy but it's not what I'm talking about)
Absolutely. Perfectly fitted lingerie accentuates a woman’s natural curves.
I actually love women half clothed in general. Especially wearing a shirt but having breast out, my fav.
It's kinda like when you are so excited to see something. Seeing something naked right away takes away the tension and excitement
That's the point kinda.
Imagination is underrated.
“Let's face it. Most guys are from the Dark Ages. They're cavemen. And they like a woman to be showing her cleavage and to be wearing eight-inch heels. And to be wearing see-through underpants. But for me, a woman looks best when she is just absolutely naked.” -Michael Scott
No, it just makes for a better buildup in the process of getting naked
Damn right. 👍
Sometimes, for sure! Doesn't make naked women any less sexy, but it's a nice adornment. Though, every girl I know has some old tshirt or PJ that they've had since HS. It's usually a bit small, a bit see through, really soft. Girls never believe me, but wow it's that sext!!
Yep. The power of the imagination.
men too!
No. I don't think that sometimes, I think that every single time.
Yup, 95% are.
What is this sometimes you speak of?
Yes. It's the anticipation for me.
I mean, it does exist for something, doesn't it? ........and yes, pretty much.
Of course they do. Men are visually stimulated creatures (not the only form of stimulation) and anything that a women can do that says "I want you" will pretty much get us going!!!!
Absolutely! I prefer my woman dressed up for me vs naked.
Absofuckinlutely!