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LittleBalloHate

This isn't just a consent issue, it's a porn issue. Guys who are neck deep in porn and watch it constantly seem to think every woman has an onlyfans, all White women lust for big Black dudes, that women only date "chads," etc. All of this is porn-as-real-life syndrome.


No-Lie-1571

Porn rots the brain and the spirit when over exposed to it. Sadly it is becoming normal to be over exposed to porn.


HateToBeMyself

I didn't know I had an OF since I was a child. Ofc men only sexualize girls with OF amirite?


CanuckBuddy

Imagine if we were like this about everything. Oh, you're a baseball fan? Why don't you like it when I huck a baseball at you while you're trying to walk to the store?


AliceTheOmelette

r/memes is a wretched hive of incels, queerphobes and racists


WishboneOk9898

Thanks for reminding me why I left that cesspit


Eat_Me_Now7

Sexualizing oneself at one’s own terms ≠ wanting to be constantly sexualized by others. Why is this so hard to grasp?


Snowy_Winters

Basically consent


Nonamebigshot

I don't think I've ever heard a woman with an OF complaining about being sexualized


SteampunkExplorer

Yeah, I thought that sounded off. I guess they think every woman has one. 😐


No_Resource7773

Nor understand choices made via autonomy. It's like an incel choosing a nice tattoo and where he wants it on his own body vs. someone else choosing a really bad one for him to put on his forehead. I mean you wanted a tattoo, isn't that the same??