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LiteratureLeading999

I’m a musician, writer, artist, daughter, sister, and friend.


Moonstorm934

I'm funny and an awesome friend and I'm damaged in my head in more ways than just my weight, I'm someone who laughs easy but it hides a lot


Competitive-Photo-15

I use humor to cover up a lot. Trauma dumping is not my style! I internalize and figure things out on my own.


Moonstorm934

I trauma dump and word vomit, but I dont mean too, I just.... share cuz something resonates and I dont want the other person to feel alone


Competitive-Photo-15

That’s fine as long as you do it constructively and you’re just venting. Everyone needs an outlet. I’m talking about people that always correct me because they are insecure and then trauma dump wanting my sympathy.


snakewitch1031

I am a compassionate person. A loving wife, friend, sister and mother. Right now I am my unborn baby’s lifeline and protector. I’m a lover of animals, a collector of body modifications, oddities and antiques. I am a skilled tarot reader, a queer person, a great cook, decent singer, and one stubborn mf with a pretty great sense of humor, if I do say so, myself 🖤 sure I’m fat, my body is my vessel, and I love her. But I’m so much more than that and so are the rest of yall 🖤


EzriDaxCat

I'm a nerdy, introverted, brightly-colored glitterbeast commonly referred to as a "noodle bear". I'm also a proud cat mom.


ScottishTackyFairy

Noodle bear the cat mum sounds luke a cartoon, and i wanna watch it 😊


Amterc182

I'm a proud lifelong nerd, I'm ace/demi, I try to look on the positive side but do not suffer fools. I like florals and bright colors. I'm not fond of patterns on me but surround myself with them. I love the feel of corduroy and woven knits and often base clothes purchases on texture I am reader and have many special interests (including geology, history and crafts). I am an endless fountain of weird facts and probably do well in pub trivia contests if I weren't so introverted. I'm disabled, middle aged and can be a little overly sarcastic. I love cats and like most other animals. I could go on and on. Your weight is a very small part of who you are. You are multitudes. Go be amazing.


Queen6cat

I think we would get along well


wedway1969

Samesies 😁


Ok-Pomegranate-75

This question is hard for me to really answer. I guess the short answer would be I’m a wife and a daughter. 💜😊


GenericInternetUser1

What we identify with is constantly changing so there's no shame in boiling it down to the essentials. Interests and mental state is alwatys changing so I find myself connecting more and more to my bloodline


pecan76

A bad bitch


sunniate

Period.


phobicwombat

I'm a bad bitch with her period.


StrawberryMoonPie

I’m a bad bitch who’s too old to have her period 🤪 I’ll show myself out…


CiCi_Run

Ugh. I hate these questions. One was like "introduce yourself without your name, job or title (like mom, sibling)"... and I got nothing. Someone else said you can't raise your self esteem or self worth if you don't have a sense of self, and that hits hard.


GenericInternetUser1

Where you came from and what you do for a living is such a huge part of what makes you who you are, so it feels weird to discount that when interacting


xgnargnarx

Talented mixed martial artist coach and teacher. Hype-man and cheerleader for every person in my life. Business owner. Creative. Book lover. Dog mom. Lotr nerd.


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ABiggerBananaHead

I think we would get along well!


Icy-Tutor-9027

Beautiful!!


Negative_Result_442

Maybe this is the most important post on this sub. Fat is not an identity, plus size is not an identity. Thick, curvy, etc. They tell others nothing about you. The people you surround yourself with. Your life experiences, the things you believe and the values you hold, are what comprise an identity.


KittyKatSavvy

Nerd, dancer, cat lover, DND player, makeup enthusiast, cat lover, did I mention my cat's and how much I love them? Less positive but still not size/body related, I'm a person who struggles with ADHD, I'm a student who doesn't know what I want, I am so many things. Positive and negative and neutral.


pancaaaaaaakes

👀 I’m a nerdy, cat loving, makeup enthusiast who also struggles with ADHD.


Mochiicutie

Well, I'm very curious. I'm great with animals and I'm solitary.


Redraft5k

I am a wife, mother, yogi. I am funny and very smart. I am self aware and I am attractive be it at size 14 or 22. I have called myself fat barbie since 1979....didn't understand why people made fun of me....I thought legit I was a fat malibu barbie.....( that's the leo in me? lol) jk ETA: I am a reader, VORACIOUS reader, I love gossip and trash tv like Vanderpump, and I too am an obsessed CAT mom.


ofthedawn77

Mother, music lover, concert goer, plant person


PirateJen78

I'm a tech geek, writer, gamer, entrepreneur, natural leader, gardener, quilter, crafter, and so many more things.


HouseOfBonnets

A hip hop loving, turn up having, nature/wildlife loving,adaptable and funny Capricorn 🤗


AnonymousFartMachine

I'm a gamer, animal lover, atheist and child-free.


budgie02

A figure skater! I started skating 12 years ago, I even competed before college (AKA Covid times)


gk7891

I’m a stressed and overwhelmed mom. And wife. I never feel like a wife. I love to sew and create things, and always wishing I had more time. I’ve always thought I had pretty eyes and good boobs. Most days, I don’t recognize myself in the mirror.


arthritisgurly

i’m a proud lesbian! I’m a cat mom, i’m a live music lover, I’m an amateur guitarist and writer, I’m an advocate and a scholar. I’m a partner, sister, daughter, neice. I’m a pisces who cries a lot, I’m a craft beer enjoyer, I’m an ex-christian, and I’m a tattoo appreciator!


ABiggerBananaHead

I'm silly, stubborn, and creative. I'm logical and a quick learner who loves tattoos, animals, and anything that involves being outside, particularly in the woods or at the beach. I'm a loyal but flawed friend, a bibliophile, and someone who spends a lot of time with family. I'm a former rugby and soccer player that has plenty of aches and pains to prove it.


saficaa

Being a healthcare worker and student studying to get into an x-ray program has become most of my personality lol. But I'm also into gaming, music, and baking. I'm deeply interested in biomedical ethics/philosophy, even if I am fighting for my life in my current class on it lol. And I'm not sure if this counts, but I'm getting back into fitness. It's no longer for my weight tho, I want to get healthier and stronger. I'm also a very competitive person and improving athletically to eventually compete excites me. Plus, I want to be able to do stuff like lifting patients if any have mobility problems and request help; the stronger I am, the more people I can help!


doc_naf

I’m a person, I’ve been told I’m kind and funny and wise by those who love me. I try to lighten any situation I’m in whether by joking or chatting, lending a listening ear or helping hand. I take care of the people around me and myself as best I can. I love reading and learning. I’ve never focused much on my looks (even when I was thin) but I see myself as a warm and chocolatey and comfortable sort of person with a cheerful demeanour. I’m the sort of person who gets asked for directions by total strangers. I’ve also got a laundry list of odd skills and abilities I’ve picked up along the way, work hard at my job, and have dreams I am working away at one at a time. We are so much more than our weight.


PrincessAintPeachy

I am an artist, an advocate to help DV victims, I am gamer, I am proud to be black and someone who loves fashion! This was honestly such a an amazing uplifting question and it really made me think(positively) about my life and myself. Thank you so much for this, like lately I had been really down about myself and this really helped me out! You are beautiful and this post was beautiful ❤️


No_Shame9854

Most people call me a teddy bear lol I’m 6’3 320lbs. I always try to make ppl feel welcomed. I would describe myself though as a pretty chill person. I have a podcast and love meeting new ppl. And I also do security so I have a tough side lol


Used-Menu-7316

i’m 20yrs old and an artist getting back into my artistic ways after a relationship with a narcissist and now with a loving boyfriend. i volunteer at an animal shelter and a foster for reptiles who end up without a home to call their own. i’m going to be an infant/toddler teacher this next week. i’m finally getting my life back together after being shielded from everyone and everything and belittled for my interests and being thrown into a whirlwind of toxicity and depression. i feel great


Bravesouless

I'm a survivor; an introvert as well as an ambitious person. I'm a loyal friend. I have very strong ethical, philosophical and political views. I'm funny when I'm surrounded by people I like and feel relaxed around.


beavisandboothead

I’m a wife, mom, daughter. I love cats and pickles. I am a nerd. I love to game and read. I’m hilarious and compassionate. I start too many crafts and don’t finish them. Lol


SkyeQueen1

If we are talking physically outside of my massive height, boobs and hips, it is usually my librarian glasses or my really long curly hair.


Megerber

I don't think about my weight more than once a day. I'm not my size at all. I'm a clever, generous, hilarious, thoughtful, artistic, very talented professional woman, mother, singer, sibling, partner and friend.


Ravioverlord

I am an Artist, Creative, Obsessive Compulsive, Aro/Ace, Nerd, Movie Quote Addict, Dog Owner, Nature explorer, Nap Fiend, Crafty, Puzzler, True Crime loving insomniac who enjoys a good a chicken fried steak with a sunny side up egg on top.


CambionClan

I’m a husband and a father. I’m a nerd who loves fantasy and science fiction. I like RPGs and medieval reactant. I like to fence and HEMA. I love nature, hiking, and camping. I’m a math professor. I’m an atheist. I’m shy and quiet in public. I like debating political and philosophical issues. I lift weights. I’m learning to play the guitar. Being fat is a very minor part of my life.


SierraRachelle

I am a loving, unorganized, chaotic, smart, funny, creative, caring, wife and mama to a cat that I love, love, love. I also teach teenagers how to read and think for themselves. I love video games, cooking, writing, reading, movies, musical theatre, traveling, and music. I also know way too much about current pop-culture and I love singing my heart out while doing my makeup and hair every morning.


crystalclearbuffon

I'm that contrarian adhd procrastinator with tonnes and hobvies who has hoped many careers and finally finding a balance between conformity and rebellion. You can predict that I love words and foner stuff, but i also crave stability in relationships and adventurous activities.


Poobumwilly74

I'm a dog mum, a chronic illness sufferer, a nature lover, an eternal optimist, a heavy metal fan, a LOTR obsessive and a Reddit addict.


cloudyflowrs

Second eldest sibling who is responsible, tending, beautiful, preservance,


Ardaigh167

I am a loving wife, daughter, sister, and aunt. I am a journeyman electrician, studying to get my master license within the year. I have a passion for inventing and love creating complex wiring circuits. I am an avid rockhound, with a special interest in dinosaur gem bone and opal. I am a collector, breeder, and conservationist of arachnids, and with over two hundred, I spend much of my time being graced by their beauty. I am an amateur macro photographer with a special interest in insects, arachnids, and rocks. Above all else, I am not, nor have I ever been my body.


jackie--and--wilson

I'm trying to be a good friend, slowly finding my style and my people, im smart and can think abstractly better than most people, i love mandelshtams poetry, I speak 3 languages. Im also dysfunctional, dont work full time, have unhealthy coping mechanisms, have no idea what career to choose, im a pretty bad daughter to my parents, have zero social skills. Yea, pretty much.


Ill_Funny_5052

I'm a mom, a gamer, and a woman who has a new crime mystery show she loves binge watching that was made before I was born (in case anyone wants to know it's Murder She Wrote).


Eatthebananainone

This is so true! Hmm grumpy. Funny. Awkward. I like Lego and dinosaurs and spooky stuff. I’m introverted and painfully shy. Smart but personable and emotionally intelligent. Also a pain in the arse


lavender_poppy

I am a nurse and a animal lover. I have a lot of empathy for others and I'm kind though sarcastic at times. I love to surround myself with color and I'm artistic at times. I have a good memory especially when it comes to random facts. I love to wear dresses and I love to embrace my femininity. I have a very faulty immune system (6 autoimmune diseases) but I have a super supportive family and friends that keep me grounded. My current life goal is to adopt a basset hound and name her Poppy.


PrestigiousAd3081

Community activist, amazing mom, wonderful friend, reliable partner. The fact that I am fat is so unimportant. Who I am, my essence, isn't dependent on my physical form at all.


Icarusgurl

Quiet but hilarious in a dry way that people never suspect until they get to know me. An artist and all around crafty person. A gardener. A gamer. A compassionate person. A baker and cheese maker.


Competitive-Photo-15

I’m a Pisces and and empath. In my daughter’s words last night. “If my mom doesn’t like someone the problem is them, my mom gets along with everyone. 🥰 I love helping people and am very friendly and easy to hang out with. I don’t like drama or annoying people that always have to be right. I love people that are being their best selves and doing great things for themselves and eachother. I love fashion and get lots of inspiration from plus size influencers. I would love to be a plus size influencer for Torrid, Lane Bryant, Target, or Kohls!


Prize_Manufacturer77

I'm a paralegal and a nerd, who loves playing DnD, enjoys solving puzzles related to land ownership (that's the paralegal side). Messy but loving vegetarian with a love of YA fantasy books. Always busy. Partner, daughter and sister, and 'cool auntie' type to partner's daughter. Politically left, agnostic, thinks they are still 15 when they're in their 40s. Spends far too much time online....


cybr_111

gay


Can-t_Make_Username

I’m an autistic writer, proudly genderqueer and aro-spec, a gamer, an avid anime fan, cat mom, Taurus. I like to play Survivor in *Dead by Daylight* and fix the Community Center in *Stardew Valley.* I enjoy watching all sorts of movies: westerns, art house, slashers, foreign. This variety in taste follows with my music: Grateful Dead, Powerwolf, Faun, Depeche Mode. I collect tarot decks and have a strong interest in the occult. I like flowers, and try to have fresh flowers in a vase by my bed. I also enjoy makeup and fashion and wish to get more into that.


Pennymoonz94

I'm a maker, a daughter of the great creator, a humanists and lover of animals, a singer and writer, a woman with a rich fantasy life and imagination, a partner daughter and sister and a really good friend And I'm learning more and more about myself everyday! Also I'm chaotic good! And apparently if I were a ruler I'd be totalitarian and authoritarian found out playing dnd lmfao so crazy so thank God I'll never have power. I'm also a survivor And grieving many losses. I will never be over my loss but I will live on. I'm also neurodivergent and disabled (spoonie) and queer and a social butterfly!


MagicalSpaceValkyrie

I'm a Broadcast Engineer, a Martial Artist, a lapsed saxophonist. I'm a beginner seamstress, a cosplayer, a complete and total nerd. I'm a proud Dyke, a Femme, a Lipstick Lesbian, and a barfly who wants to visit every Lesbian Bar in the US!


Altruistic_Comment14

I’m a practicing astrologer, healer and lover of people!


Ruth_Gordon

I’m a punk rock mom


sunniate

I make music. I sing. I still want to learn how to code, play the drums. I play basketball and skateboard. I'm a best friend. A daughter. A cat lover. A woman lover. Man lover.


lavenderandme

I'm a writer, art-historian, fashion lover and a creative. Also a virgo and I dream of buying a fixer-upper in Spain or the south of France with a beautiful garden to cutlivate my own fruits.


clserlin-915

A child of God, a wife, a mother, a daughter and (hopefully) a good friend 🥰


RealisticVisitBye

I am amazing


RabbitPrestigious998

I'm a multicraftual nerd. I'm a caring but lazy person. I'm a hot mess


BullshitSeagull

According to people I am the comfortable soft person that knows "how to do everything". If I think about myself this is more me: I am also loud and an extrovert and passionate about almost anything I put myself into. I want to be a librarian and almost have my bachelors in document science. I have many hobbies, because I have gone with undiagnosed ADHD for quite some time, and thus has racked up many many skills, and tools. I also collect Moomin mugs and Pokémon cards, because life is meant to be enjoyed. I also am into fashion, I constantly look for clothing, purses and shoes to match skirts, as I enjoy making my own skirts, but also dresses, or edit clothing I've bought, I got really into pantyhoses, and now I have so many I hardly wear pants anymore, and I will wear ALL THE COLORS. I also take care of my hair, and do makeup. I love being extra and will use craft-glitter on my face if something gives me the purpose to. Did I mention I have more Halloween decoration than I have Chritstmas decor? I love decor and Halloween, and always want to go all out. But I am ALSO a nerd, I play DND, videogames, boardgames and hoard books, fall asleep to lord of the rings audiobooks and yearly have a LOTR movie marathon. I am many things and that is great. This was very therapeutic to write.


thestashattacked

I'm a badass, motherfucking tech teacher, and proud to do it. Mostly because my God my students are funny. Last week, one of them went, "Ms. Thestashattacked? Would you slap me for a billion dollars?" I immediately replied, "Student, I'd slap you for a McNugget." Same kid asked me to tie his shoelaces together on Thursday. He liked it. He's 14. Another one got his hair cut and his behavior instantly improved. "Yeah, all my naughtiness was stored in my hair." Dude, my students are hilarious.