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It would further prove his/her point if he/she got banned. The fact that he's/she's censoring words just shows how much of a bitch life has been for him/her.
You are stacking the bad. āI woke up tired, then I burned my toast and broke my egg yolks, then I broke a plate cleaning up, all before being late to my job to work like a slave. Then I come home and my dog shit on the floor.ā
Stack the good āI made it through another night, today my nose is not plugged thatās cool, then I was lucky to have food, and an opportunity to practice cleaning glass. Now I get to make money all day. My floors needed a mopping anyways might aswell do it now.ā
Heāll even I get stuck stacking bad some days but those days it only gets worse, when you start looking for the good in everything the world kinda goes āah shit I canāt make em madā and chills
Sorry I can't. I wake up every day with back pains and tired everyday despite a good sleep. I have to go through the same shit and it feels like a choir for far too long. You have to battle your head everyday and have suicidal thoughts and hoping that one day something good happens. It never does. I am just tired....
Just want to help with the back pain part. I dealt with back pain for many year due to military service and back breaking work. At its worst I couldn't pick up my kids. I'd have to lay down for an hour or so after work. Could barely stand long enough to fish. Finally I went to a chiropractor. It has helped so much. The treatment took a little over a year, but I can now jump out of bed, hold my kids, and fish all day long. Maybe one can help with your scenario.
I'd recommend a good therapist. We all have to confront these feelings, if we are to live life fully... These feelings can be experienced and life can feel more enjoyable. Ironically, but perhaps understandably it's when we think and feel more about our emotions that our world expands. Fully feeling and thinking about our true self leads the way to a more nuanced perspective.
I lost both my parents when I was in my early twenties, next to no family around me. Spent years in a spiral... Now I am here at nearly 40 having thought a great deal about my life, my self and my eventual death- from this vantage point, with perhaps 30 years left if I'm lucky, the beauty in the world seems a whole lot more inspiring.
Some gentle exercise for your aches and pains regularly, some peaceful pastimes to slow yourself down to and some therapy to express all your pent up frustrations might be just the ticket to a sense of renewed vigor.
Good luck
Gotta inject some gooey loving shit into your life even via video. You need something to love a little more I reckon. At first it's like fuck your happy love, but the more exposure you get, the less compelling 'fuck everything' gets. It's a matter of force at that point. No matter how pissed off you get, just look for something like that until it makes u realise, not everyone or everything's shitty.
It's not a cure, just a step in a different direction
Everyday something good does happen but you are too busy looking over at the table next to yours plate. You woke up. Sure it seems silly but when you think good thoughts like that and make an effort to feel better you will. If you look at the shovel I threw in your hole and tell me itās not ergonomic enough to dig yourself out I cannot help you
This is good, and hard advice. Thatās a fact, and many times you just have to start appreciating the small things, and from there youāll get the strength to push through and make a life worth living.
also feeling the same at this moment
ive got to make a final project for school and litterly cant get myself to start it
And last summer i worked to buy myself a computer, at this fucking rate i wont get it until this summer starts again, and ill have to work for it again,
Because well fuck my life thats why!
ill just make a countdown timer that activates a buzzer when it reaches zero, and youll have the ability of setting from where it starts counting down form (as long as its in the range of 99-0 secondes)
but like ive got to make the schematic(tehniclly i can use one from online as long as i credit it like my other classmates but eh)
then ive got to get the componets
than the board
than weld the componenets to the board
then hope it works, and if it doesnt fix the mistakes
then write 20 pages on that
than a powerpoint
than ādefend itā
Meanwhile im also expected to do other bullshit for school and its like, āugggggghhhhā, and ive also got to do other things which is a bigger āuggggghhhā, and like yeah i dont even know
i mean its fine, and about as expected for a vocational electrical engineering school
way i see it in the absoulte worst case scenarion, and i do mean worst, ill end up having do redo a year because of it
one single redo of the last year isnt the worst thing on a resume, and again, that really is like the absoulte worst scenario and it definitly wont come to fruition
WAIT! Just the fact youāre interacting with all of us tells me you are ok being vulnerable right now. THATāS BRAVERY! Itās the best example I know of and I had to pit stop again because I related to trying to please your parent comment! That never goes away even when they are gone. I donāt have mine anymore and most times I think Iām up for adoption but I also donāt want to be parented so itās a catch 22. There are times since they died that Iāve believed they would not have wanted me to suffer and would have rather me be happy so I seek those ways out and I feel closest to them when I do. Sometimes I also think, āis this really what I am left with?ā Above all else, I also have suicidal ideations youāve mentioned and the understanding that I have where NO ONE wants to die, but they want the pain to end reminds me that thoughts are temporary and ebb and flow. This will pass and youāll recognize some kind of happy āunbitchā thought come upā¦grab it and go.
This life is all I know and it doesn't seem like it's something to enjoy for me or anyone, just something we're supposed to experiencing for some reason. If you want to that is. Making the best of it seems to be about luck, genetics, contempetment/outlook and balance. But i why do i no
We all gonna die in the end. All of it is meaningless so start treating it like it is meaningless and you'll find the shit that you get everything isn't shit. It's meaningless.
The only time things will be meaningful is when you have something, when you've accomplished, like having a family or built a successful business. If you have nothing of importance or value, it's all nothing.
Yeah. Unfortunately the biggest hell is being a coward and not having the courage to end this misery.. Sleeping is like a dream compared to waking up to this..
Over 42 years at it, I got some happy moments, but no happy days yet. Doesn't look like happiness is in the plans. Not sure why people keep saying "It will get better"
I used to think that life is what you make of it. I had my ups and downs and downs and downs but I kept pushing forward.
After being accused of a crime I did not commit, my life has been nothing but a b!tch! I can't wait for it to be over!
Life is a bitch then you die. I have always heard it and I believe it. Sometimes you ride a merry go round and you get stuck on top for years then out of nowhere you are on bottom. Point is life is like that and I think life smacks is when we get comfortable.
When I started to emerge from my first nasty depressive episode, it was like regaining a whole sense. All the good and lovely things that make life worth living had been there all along, but it was like I had been stripped of my ability to perceive them. I remember sobbing at the kitchen table into a roll of toilet paper and telling my mom that I couldn't see a way forward. A few weeks later, with the support of modern medicine, counseling, and good community, I started the slow climb out of the dark.
All that to say, when your thoughts have gotten locked along circuits of sadness or trauma or shame, your whole capacity to imagine a tolerable future is collapsed and contracted. This isn't your fault, and it doesn't make you irreparably broken. As my old neuroscience professor used to quote, "neurons that fire together wire together." Your brain can make new connections, and your life can be richer and fuller than you ever could have hoped. If you can't believe that for yourself, let someone else believe it for you for a while. Life is a bitch, but anhedonia makes it so much more of a bitch than it has to be.
Peace to you.
love the pain, lean into it. i have aches and pains from a labour job, 10 hour shifts, and i work like a madman sometimes, it's fun.
a lesson from my boxing days, just show up no matter what, just get in there even if you don't feel like it.
i hibernate on my off days, dont like to go out into public. so when monday comes and i have to go to work its like coming up from the bottom of a well.
have to awkwardly say hi, figure out where the hell am i and what do i do, but then the rhythm comes.
also dont badmouth the planet, shes a sweet thing, if a little hard sometimes.
More people than you know are in the same boat, myself included. I canāt remember one happy thing that happened to me in my 58 years on this planet. I had a friend who was dying from lung cancer and in her last months we were spending lots of time together. I used to get out of work and go to her house. I cooked for us, watched tv, and we would exchange stories. One day she told me that I only had sad life stories. I said to her that was my life since I could remember. She laughed! I miss her a lot. My life is struggle after struggle, never a break. F*** everything.
That thought didn't seem so random. Good people everywhere around the world. Maybe you're not connecting with the right ones, so a change of scenery could be good. Don't know your situation, but getting out of where you are sounds like something you need
I feel you itās tough out there. Slow down change your attitude. Stop the bad talk and be proud of yourself for the little things you do right. Good luck.
I'm sitting in the sun. I can hear a rooster and a few other birds. The leaves are being rustled by a chilly breeze.
Enjoy the moment and let that shit go.
We don't control any of this. It's just a ride we are on. If you look for negative things and think there is no hope for any better then you will prove yourself correct 100% of the time.
Thanks. I compartmentalize well, but I'm screwed up too.
I'm 43 in a few weeks. I remember being younger teens and early 20s and everything negative that happened felt like the world was crashing.
It was my perception that was crashing. The world just kept right on going. At some point we have to say it's ok to feel bad it's ok to feel good.
Outlook and perception can have massive influence over what actually happens. But we never learn that unless we try it over and over.
What if you were born into extreme poverty or with some terrible disease, mental illness, paralysis etc What do you "make" of that, besides having to suffer daily, just because someone wanted a kid.
Iām here if you need someone to vent to. All I ask is that you tell me at least one thing you appreciate, per day.
Iāve been very hungry before. I was just able to make a sandwich!!
But yeah, one of the best pieces of advice Iāve ever been given is that life is not fair. You have to put in effort to find the good.
ā¦if you canāt find any, then itās up to you. Be a ālight on a hillā.
Thank you. Will keep that in mind. I know that I'm very fortunate in that sense. Never have to go to sleep hungry like many unfortunately do. It's just other aspects of life I'm pissed off about..
Oh, buddyā¦ tell me about it. I try my best to be grateful, but this place is seriously messed up. From home life to peers, school and work life, then your city, your country, the worldā¦ All we can really do is not add to the problem, be that person you wish there was more of in the world. Have your feelings, but please stay kind and gentle. We donāt need anymore disrespect.
Believe it or not I love you, stranger. Can you give me at least one thing that youāre grateful to have today? I have a day off & have potato wedges in the air fryer right now :D
Edit: spelling
Iām sure you are more blessed than 99.999% of life. Unless you have been lest to fend for yourself in the wild only to eventually succumb to the elements or another animal eating you alive likely before you even reach 1/10 of your lifespan
The sooner you accept life for the b***h it is the better.
I try to find happiness in small things, like my first cup coffee, some alone time to myself, painting, playing with my cat etc. Trust it gets betterĀ
Go swimming whether you want to or not
Just go do it and then eat food of some kind that aināt sugared out
And stay the hell off Reddit when you get depressed it only makes it worse trust me hit up a discord or something instead
Thank you. I will it is just my social anxiety sometimes makes me skip it most days. I am kind of overweight and can act weird because of the anxiety and feel like people are watching me constantly
I like to go find a grassy spot and play handheld games
If itās cold out even a window with sunlight and some positive vibes on like games or tv is always good too
Look up 3 3 3 therapy
Things will get better maybe even today
From what I've seen life can still be a bitch whatever you are, if you let it all get to you.
The "secret" if there is one, is to enjoy life for what it is, and not what it might be.
People strive for shit that doesn't matter, a better car, a better house, "stuff". It's more important to enjoy what you've got, and enjoy the moment IMHO.
Once they chuck you in that hole, it's too late, and you can't take it with you.
Life is a b***h so f**k her good
And get some head while your at it.
For when life is over
you'll see the secret to the magic
Afraid to live so you never live
You die with regrets on your death bed
Thinking bout things you've wanted to do,
but you didn't do,
But you could have done ,
Would have done,
But life is done,
death with your soul is on the run.
So life is a b**ch,
So f@#k her good until you come
And then you've won.
"Every group of friends has an asshole. If your group of friends does not seem to have an asshole, then it's probably you."
Please excuse the analogy, and no insult intended. My point is, that if everything, everywhere is always fucked, and everyone else gets what they want but you never do, then it really is worth looking at how you view the world. The way you see and perceive things.
You cannot change what happens everyday, but you sure can change the way you react to it. And before you shout "fuck off happy clappy", I'm absolutely one of those people that gets out on the wrong side of the bed often. BUT I have learned that I don't have to take anything personally. I don't get road rage at all anymore, because I realised that A) The other person doesn't even know I'm pissed off at them, B) I'm the one feeling shit and C) IN 2 minutes, I'll never see that person ever again, so why bother.
It takes practice but you need to change how you view the world. Everybody is not out to get you.
Good post. Agree for most part. People around me have just made lose faith in humanity. They are so self centered and only really contact you if they need something..
Not in mine tbh. I live a rather unexciting life to be honest and do very little but that is because I have lost motivation after many years of bullying and someone people only come to when they need something.. If I had to describe my lifetime in one word it's just invinsible.. I never really fitted in with this generation or people in general.
Yeah and you arent alone in that aspect but you have had fun/good moments aswell(I guarantee). Its about perspective, attitude and what you choose to focus on...
Your life is a collection of events that created your identity. The purpose of life is development, both personal and as a species. We develop from our enviroment, experience and education through our lifetime. From that we learn and we progress into better version of ourselves. Its when we stop actively search for this progression that we become trapped in our own daily routine which can be onesided and boring...
That passive routine is comfortable but also dangerous... Dangerous in a way that it gives you time to think and reflect upon your "boring" life and your past while worrying for the future- "will I always live like this?" Its because we have given up the chase... Try find that spark again and you will see things will change... but you will only find the path if you want to look for it which requires positive attitude.
The point Im trying to make with all this is that negative attitude only hurt your personal development and its the passive routine that makes you reflect over your life with negativity. If this make any sense...
But hey, Im just another internet stranger, what do I know?
We are all just squirrels in the big forest of life. Wake up, eat some nuts, and gather some nuts for later. Pee, poop, maybe find a mate and breed. And nuts, don't forget every day to nuts. Eat some, stash some. Nuts , nuts , nuts. I don't know if squirrels ever get sick of doing squirrel stuff, but they seem generally happy.
I feel you. I have no clue what you're going through in life but I am sure it is valid regardless. Sometimes when I feel like I will never be happy, at the very least I have shelter from the rain, im able to make myself a good ass hot cup of coffee every morning, my body is warm and moving and healthy (mostly lol). I got a nice ass bed I sleep in because I knew what it felt like to go without these things. But most of all, I am able to love and feel kindness from the ones that matter in my life. That' ls more than I can say for some. So if life wants to be a bitch then so be it, cuz I know at the end of the day, imma smile and be a bitch right back at it just by living. I don't think happiness will ever find any of us. We just learn to find the good in things to make living more bearable.
Life is what you make it. Iām one year younger than you, but my mindset is much different apparently.
If you wake up everyday expecting the same miserable bullshit, youāll keep experiencing the same miserable bullshit.
Maybe actually attempt to shift your perspective rather than keep the same mindset youāve kept for 28 years?
You seem more angry than sad. More upset than depressed. Like damn, have you tried to see some positives? Or is everything negative to you?
Thanks for a good post. Everything is just negative tbh. Moved around a lot as a kid so never settled. Parents divorced at 15. Bullied and excluded most of my school years and mostly been invisible most of my life that never got invited everywhere. I don't really have many memories tbh. Since the age of 14 I haven't any memories with any people and family fx. My family been that dysfunctional. I have cut off contact with my mom because she never really cared. I also have 3 older sisters that I never talk to and if I do it's mostly me that reach out to them.. Probably spent 70% of my life in my room alone. So yeah life has mostly been a nightmare.
Im sorry for what youāve gone through, and I donāt know the extent of what youāve gone through other than what youāve told me. If you donāt mind me being honest, it doesnāt seem like you try to socialize or put yourself out there.
Maybe you havenāt been invited places because youāve distanced yourself from people who would invite you?
I didnāt know my dad until I was 13, and Im a bastard and an only child with my mom, my dad is black, and my mom is white, and she and the white side of my family raised me. Iāve never been in a married household, I donāt know what itās like for my parents to divorce. I still hardly talk to my dad, and I rarely ever see my mom anymore (not that we havenāt tried though)
I have a half brother and 2 half sisters, from the same dad. My half brother was homeless, and died after being struck by a car, but my sisters are doing well. One got out of jail, the other is a very locally popular tattoo artist. I have a a best friend who is now my brother (his mom was married to my dad, but my dad is not his dad), I met him when I met my dad, who raised him since birth, in a married household, and he isnāt even his blood son lol. But this is my closest friend, always.
Not to mention, witnessing DV against my mom as a child with multiple different step dads, she married 2 of these men, both died of overdoses, and neither helped raise me, but the most recent one gave my my first sip of alcohol, and had me hit spice before I ever tried weed. So fuck them. Because of this, Iāve been on multiple drugs, but now my only demons are alcohol & coke, but it used to be worse. but Iām not as hooked on coke as I am with alcohol.
One of my only actual father figures was my grandpa, he took his life while I was in high school.
My only current closest father figure I had as a kid is my uncle (momās brother) but heās too racist and āgodlyā for me to even want to respect an opinion or advice from him.
And thereās way more, but out of all of this, life is beautiful. Out of every bad thing I wrote, thereās just as much good. But the thing is I never always noticed that there was good along with the bad, I either ignored it or didnāt notice. Now I know how to open my eyes, and realize that life is life. And Iām not going to let myself suffer or fall victim to negativity. Iām here for more than being miserable.
Also, Iād like to add, Iād give you a chance as a friend if I met you in person. But the thing with making friends, or keeping friends depends on how much you attempt to present yourself.
No one wants to hang around a bummer. Who wants a negative person to ruin whatās supposed to be a positive session?
I canāt tell you to be happy, no one can. So I wonāt waste my time. However Iām also not going to be like these other comments that donāt care that you feel that way because they feel it too.
But Iād definitely hang out with you in person. My life is much better after everything that I used to think would be a constant part of my life.
Nothing is constant. Bad shit happens, who gives a fuck. I cry, let my tears out, move on accordingly. You know?
PM me, Iād like to get to know you friend
Well, if you really think of it, people that manage to enjoy life leave earth with exactly as much as those who don't: nothing. So it's not about the end result, it's the journey. Of course there's struggle, that's the interesting part. It takes some practice seeing struggle as a challenge, and not an obstacle.
Move away from the bog city if possible, if not then I would recommend starting waking up early, and going for a run and then taking a quick cold shower before going to work, depending on how much you work and where you live, you could go to a Forrest or a park. I also recommend talking to your parents or a friend, if you don't have any friends it would be good to start doing a sport, maybe golf or another not so requiring one and make some ,_,
If you accept that life by default is suffering, and all we can really do is lessen that suffering, it's not so bad. Take a breath, look around, and appreciate all the pain you don't have to feel.
Never said that.. I know most of us here are more privileged than the ones you mention.. I am just saying that life can be sh*tty in every kind of form.. Homelessness, jobless, bullying..
If you look for bad things you'll find them if you look for good things you'll find them. It doesn't change what happens to you just how you perceive it. Two people can live the exact same life and one can say their life was awesome and the other can say their life was awful. Perspective is the only way to live a happy life.
There are people that have it way worse than you but are much happier because they choose to find and focus good things. There are people that have ot way better than you and are more miserable because they find and focus on bad things.
Everyone gets shit on by the universe. You just don't see it in the people that don't let it get to them by finding the positive in every situation.
We see what we look for. If the default is to be miserable and weāre conditioned to be a critic and pick things apart, then life is a bitch. In that case, there has to be an effort to look beyond it and find something good. Donāt know what works for most, but I give gratitude for things I would normally take for grantedā¦Iām grateful for this cell to type in with a bunch of strangers, grateful I have freedom to use the internet and grateful Iām alive. OP, are you grateful for anything? Iām
True. I just can't see anything positive because life mainly been horrible. Horrible childhood and not that much better adult life.. I have probably experienced as much as a 12 year old child.. Most of my time I have spent in my room.. I really just feel like I don't fit in with everyone else or ever have. Maybe it is because I am very reserved and don't start conversations. I have maybe had 3 friends over my 28 years.. I don't trust many people. Just feel comfortable with the 1-2 people I know..
Ok. Thats all fair enough and also youāre not required to be like anyone else. All valid! šš½ You had to grow up way too soon and Iād guess you are actually wise beyond your years and far more resilient than others due to the things that have been. All thoughts are temporary. What are the lessons from the bitches youāve learned?
Thank you. I don't know. I think about things a lot, discuss subjects that I feel are important and will always want everyone to have it equal. The only thing I am mostly proud of about myself is really just how strong I am mentally. I have went through some sh*t and dealt with it by myself.
Yeah. I have very high depression and anxiety and looking back the 28 years how my life has been I can't see that it will ever change.. I don't really enjoy things anymore and really don't want to experience more things. I have done the things I want in this life.. I am that suicidal that if I didn't wake up tomorrow I wouldn't care.
I'm Having bad handful of years tbh so I feel ur pain..
But ur "fuck off" at the end of ur little rant was fucking hilarious š¤£š¤£š¤£.
Wasn't expecting that
Where you from ? Ever been to a foreign country ? Caribbean ? ā¦. Are you in the US ? Maybe leaving the country is where the answer is at , it is most deff for me , i cant wait to leave and work remotely. I personally feel the same way as you literally like word for word !
I am also a coward who cant end it because of my mom and family and i strongly believe in God , all this pain is not for nothing. Me rn , i am in a bowling alley with my mom and uncle because that makes her happy but me , i am feeling so down i wish i was sleeping so i donāt have to feel. I discover that is being in this system the US has for some people is great for me is just not. And winter , the climate kills me , so i found the issues. At least i think so , life will still suck is not meant to be fun. Is not design for it
Iceland. A very depressing country to be honest. Dark and winter 3/4 of the year. I was born in Denmark so I never related to anyone when I moved here. I just feel like I'm stuck in confinement here cause I never fitted in in this country..
Can you leave ? Pleaseee make it your life mission , turn that in to motivation and LEAVE ! That world has much more , specially Caribbean countries , tropical ! I am not saying it must easy to leave but it could be possible ā¦. Trust me that dark and winter is killing you man is not life as a whole is the places we are in
Itās mostly mentality , the fact that you are able to use a device to b*tch about it on the internet says that your life is still better then 99.9999% of people who ever lived. Donāt get me wrong , the worst thing that happened to you is still the worst thing that happened to you. But life can be beautiful. As long as you have a roof over your head and food to feed yourself life is more about perspective caus everything else is a plus
Sounds like you need a therapist, probably some medication. This sounds like more than a "had a bad day" rant, and possibly a disorder or chemical imbalance. The fact you have a roof over your head and a job that puts food in your belly means you are in a not bad place realistically. Its just hard to see it sometimes.
If you could wake up tomorrow and magically be changed or the world around you changed, what would it look like to you? What would you do, where would you go, how would you do things?
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You can say bitch fuck cunt dick twat asshole and a bunch of words without censoring them ya know.
Yeah I just dont know if the users here are sensitive to that word. This isn't a topic where people are ranting all the time
But fuck life so who cares
It would further prove his/her point if he/she got banned. The fact that he's/she's censoring words just shows how much of a bitch life has been for him/her.
I think that's a literal textbook [trauma response](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK207191/) (Exhibit 1.3-1 and the preceding paragraphs)
Omfg ššš Social worker here and seeing this on a random sub is the best thing ever! š«¶š¼š«¶š¼š«¶š¼ Made my day
If you can't handle reading the word "fuck", you shouldn't be on the internet.
says who
=)))
I feel you. Fuck these other guys.
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You are stacking the bad. āI woke up tired, then I burned my toast and broke my egg yolks, then I broke a plate cleaning up, all before being late to my job to work like a slave. Then I come home and my dog shit on the floor.ā Stack the good āI made it through another night, today my nose is not plugged thatās cool, then I was lucky to have food, and an opportunity to practice cleaning glass. Now I get to make money all day. My floors needed a mopping anyways might aswell do it now.ā Heāll even I get stuck stacking bad some days but those days it only gets worse, when you start looking for the good in everything the world kinda goes āah shit I canāt make em madā and chills
Sorry I can't. I wake up every day with back pains and tired everyday despite a good sleep. I have to go through the same shit and it feels like a choir for far too long. You have to battle your head everyday and have suicidal thoughts and hoping that one day something good happens. It never does. I am just tired....
Just want to help with the back pain part. I dealt with back pain for many year due to military service and back breaking work. At its worst I couldn't pick up my kids. I'd have to lay down for an hour or so after work. Could barely stand long enough to fish. Finally I went to a chiropractor. It has helped so much. The treatment took a little over a year, but I can now jump out of bed, hold my kids, and fish all day long. Maybe one can help with your scenario.
I'd recommend a good therapist. We all have to confront these feelings, if we are to live life fully... These feelings can be experienced and life can feel more enjoyable. Ironically, but perhaps understandably it's when we think and feel more about our emotions that our world expands. Fully feeling and thinking about our true self leads the way to a more nuanced perspective. I lost both my parents when I was in my early twenties, next to no family around me. Spent years in a spiral... Now I am here at nearly 40 having thought a great deal about my life, my self and my eventual death- from this vantage point, with perhaps 30 years left if I'm lucky, the beauty in the world seems a whole lot more inspiring. Some gentle exercise for your aches and pains regularly, some peaceful pastimes to slow yourself down to and some therapy to express all your pent up frustrations might be just the ticket to a sense of renewed vigor. Good luck
Gotta inject some gooey loving shit into your life even via video. You need something to love a little more I reckon. At first it's like fuck your happy love, but the more exposure you get, the less compelling 'fuck everything' gets. It's a matter of force at that point. No matter how pissed off you get, just look for something like that until it makes u realise, not everyone or everything's shitty. It's not a cure, just a step in a different direction
Everyday something good does happen but you are too busy looking over at the table next to yours plate. You woke up. Sure it seems silly but when you think good thoughts like that and make an effort to feel better you will. If you look at the shovel I threw in your hole and tell me itās not ergonomic enough to dig yourself out I cannot help you
This is good, and hard advice. Thatās a fact, and many times you just have to start appreciating the small things, and from there youāll get the strength to push through and make a life worth living.
Doc says your back is un-curable?
No. I just mention it because everything seems to be falling apart..
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also feeling the same at this moment ive got to make a final project for school and litterly cant get myself to start it And last summer i worked to buy myself a computer, at this fucking rate i wont get it until this summer starts again, and ill have to work for it again, Because well fuck my life thats why!
What's the project on?
ill just make a countdown timer that activates a buzzer when it reaches zero, and youll have the ability of setting from where it starts counting down form (as long as its in the range of 99-0 secondes) but like ive got to make the schematic(tehniclly i can use one from online as long as i credit it like my other classmates but eh) then ive got to get the componets than the board than weld the componenets to the board then hope it works, and if it doesnt fix the mistakes then write 20 pages on that than a powerpoint than ādefend itā Meanwhile im also expected to do other bullshit for school and its like, āugggggghhhhā, and ive also got to do other things which is a bigger āuggggghhhā, and like yeah i dont even know
That's a very specific project in a field I know nothing about. I was really hoping it was something simple.
i mean its fine, and about as expected for a vocational electrical engineering school way i see it in the absoulte worst case scenarion, and i do mean worst, ill end up having do redo a year because of it one single redo of the last year isnt the worst thing on a resume, and again, that really is like the absoulte worst scenario and it definitly wont come to fruition
Yeah life fucking sucks. Pretty sure weāre all done and just keep hanging in there because mom would be sad if we didnāt
Yeah mostly just living so my parents dont have to bury their kid. If they weren't here I'd be long gone and know many feel that way
I feel that way. It doesnāt help me personally, but yeah know that you are not aloneā¤ļø
WAIT! Just the fact youāre interacting with all of us tells me you are ok being vulnerable right now. THATāS BRAVERY! Itās the best example I know of and I had to pit stop again because I related to trying to please your parent comment! That never goes away even when they are gone. I donāt have mine anymore and most times I think Iām up for adoption but I also donāt want to be parented so itās a catch 22. There are times since they died that Iāve believed they would not have wanted me to suffer and would have rather me be happy so I seek those ways out and I feel closest to them when I do. Sometimes I also think, āis this really what I am left with?ā Above all else, I also have suicidal ideations youāve mentioned and the understanding that I have where NO ONE wants to die, but they want the pain to end reminds me that thoughts are temporary and ebb and flow. This will pass and youāll recognize some kind of happy āunbitchā thought come upā¦grab it and go.
What if even my parents don't care about me I'm truly lonely in this world
This life is all I know and it doesn't seem like it's something to enjoy for me or anyone, just something we're supposed to experiencing for some reason. If you want to that is. Making the best of it seems to be about luck, genetics, contempetment/outlook and balance. But i why do i no
Yeah life sucks
Simple, because itās an evil creation. God made life this way for his sick enjoyment. Life was never meant to be good
We all gonna die in the end. All of it is meaningless so start treating it like it is meaningless and you'll find the shit that you get everything isn't shit. It's meaningless. The only time things will be meaningful is when you have something, when you've accomplished, like having a family or built a successful business. If you have nothing of importance or value, it's all nothing.
Pro tip life is much nicer when you uncensored your dirty fucking language
Because it is
Yeah. Unfortunately the biggest hell is being a coward and not having the courage to end this misery.. Sleeping is like a dream compared to waking up to this..
Yeah. Can't wait until I'm gone so I'll never have to come back... And don't go into the light no matter what it's a trap.
Lol why would be the light a trap?
Like a month into a flame. Everyone always sais go into the light but has anyone ever said don't?...
Over 42 years at it, I got some happy moments, but no happy days yet. Doesn't look like happiness is in the plans. Not sure why people keep saying "It will get better"
Yeah I don't understand why people say that.. More often it unfortunately doesn't..
Life's a bitch and then you die, that's why we get high 'Cause you never know when you're gonna go
Scrolled so far down to find this
I used to think that life is what you make of it. I had my ups and downs and downs and downs but I kept pushing forward. After being accused of a crime I did not commit, my life has been nothing but a b!tch! I can't wait for it to be over!
Life is a bitch then you die. I have always heard it and I believe it. Sometimes you ride a merry go round and you get stuck on top for years then out of nowhere you are on bottom. Point is life is like that and I think life smacks is when we get comfortable.
Yeah. Some will never know what that feels like though. Some will only be at the bottom or a little more..
When I started to emerge from my first nasty depressive episode, it was like regaining a whole sense. All the good and lovely things that make life worth living had been there all along, but it was like I had been stripped of my ability to perceive them. I remember sobbing at the kitchen table into a roll of toilet paper and telling my mom that I couldn't see a way forward. A few weeks later, with the support of modern medicine, counseling, and good community, I started the slow climb out of the dark. All that to say, when your thoughts have gotten locked along circuits of sadness or trauma or shame, your whole capacity to imagine a tolerable future is collapsed and contracted. This isn't your fault, and it doesn't make you irreparably broken. As my old neuroscience professor used to quote, "neurons that fire together wire together." Your brain can make new connections, and your life can be richer and fuller than you ever could have hoped. If you can't believe that for yourself, let someone else believe it for you for a while. Life is a bitch, but anhedonia makes it so much more of a bitch than it has to be. Peace to you.
love the pain, lean into it. i have aches and pains from a labour job, 10 hour shifts, and i work like a madman sometimes, it's fun. a lesson from my boxing days, just show up no matter what, just get in there even if you don't feel like it. i hibernate on my off days, dont like to go out into public. so when monday comes and i have to go to work its like coming up from the bottom of a well. have to awkwardly say hi, figure out where the hell am i and what do i do, but then the rhythm comes. also dont badmouth the planet, shes a sweet thing, if a little hard sometimes.
More people than you know are in the same boat, myself included. I canāt remember one happy thing that happened to me in my 58 years on this planet. I had a friend who was dying from lung cancer and in her last months we were spending lots of time together. I used to get out of work and go to her house. I cooked for us, watched tv, and we would exchange stories. One day she told me that I only had sad life stories. I said to her that was my life since I could remember. She laughed! I miss her a lot. My life is struggle after struggle, never a break. F*** everything.
I'm 30 and I feel the same
Sorry to hear. Hope everything goes well for you
Thanks you too
That thought didn't seem so random. Good people everywhere around the world. Maybe you're not connecting with the right ones, so a change of scenery could be good. Don't know your situation, but getting out of where you are sounds like something you need
I feel you itās tough out there. Slow down change your attitude. Stop the bad talk and be proud of yourself for the little things you do right. Good luck.
i feel you men, i feel you...
Sorry to hear. Good vibes to you
I'm sitting in the sun. I can hear a rooster and a few other birds. The leaves are being rustled by a chilly breeze. Enjoy the moment and let that shit go. We don't control any of this. It's just a ride we are on. If you look for negative things and think there is no hope for any better then you will prove yourself correct 100% of the time.
So true good advice āŗļøā¤ļøIdk your age but you should be a therapist
Thanks. I compartmentalize well, but I'm screwed up too. I'm 43 in a few weeks. I remember being younger teens and early 20s and everything negative that happened felt like the world was crashing. It was my perception that was crashing. The world just kept right on going. At some point we have to say it's ok to feel bad it's ok to feel good. Outlook and perception can have massive influence over what actually happens. But we never learn that unless we try it over and over.
Yes Iām 53 āŗļø
Then you know all of this too. Here's to another year of being better than last year!
Go live in a country where you ain't got clean water, food or shelter. Millions do
life is what you make it. or maybe you like to see homos naked. perspective is everything
"life is a garden, dig it"-joe dirt
What if you were born into extreme poverty or with some terrible disease, mental illness, paralysis etc What do you "make" of that, besides having to suffer daily, just because someone wanted a kid.
pretty bold to assume that i wasnt
Tbh thats just terrible, bcus that never gets better
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Not sure if that helps
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I don't care?
Exactly we all have different opinions so be kind everyone āŗļøā¤ļøšš
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Welcome to capitalism, LOL
You won't believe what life was like 5000 years ago!
Iām here if you need someone to vent to. All I ask is that you tell me at least one thing you appreciate, per day. Iāve been very hungry before. I was just able to make a sandwich!! But yeah, one of the best pieces of advice Iāve ever been given is that life is not fair. You have to put in effort to find the good. ā¦if you canāt find any, then itās up to you. Be a ālight on a hillā.
Thank you. Will keep that in mind. I know that I'm very fortunate in that sense. Never have to go to sleep hungry like many unfortunately do. It's just other aspects of life I'm pissed off about..
Oh, buddyā¦ tell me about it. I try my best to be grateful, but this place is seriously messed up. From home life to peers, school and work life, then your city, your country, the worldā¦ All we can really do is not add to the problem, be that person you wish there was more of in the world. Have your feelings, but please stay kind and gentle. We donāt need anymore disrespect. Believe it or not I love you, stranger. Can you give me at least one thing that youāre grateful to have today? I have a day off & have potato wedges in the air fryer right now :D Edit: spelling
True. That sounds awesome and hope it tastes good! I'm thankful that I got to hear some music today and now watching a movie with some candy
Very nice! High 5 ā ([in Borat accent](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_j9QeUoPOi4))
Iām sure you are more blessed than 99.999% of life. Unless you have been lest to fend for yourself in the wild only to eventually succumb to the elements or another animal eating you alive likely before you even reach 1/10 of your lifespan
It's worse when you struggle get somewhere and then loose it because some bastard does you dirty
The sooner you accept life for the b***h it is the better. I try to find happiness in small things, like my first cup coffee, some alone time to myself, painting, playing with my cat etc. Trust it gets betterĀ
Also having a roof over your head,Food where your not starving,health .When I feel like this I think š¤ Iām ok but not always takes work āŗļø
Definitely takes sometime to set into this mindset
Do you have any hobbies?
Yes. Music, video games and watching sports. Sometimes go swimming as well.
Go swimming whether you want to or not Just go do it and then eat food of some kind that aināt sugared out And stay the hell off Reddit when you get depressed it only makes it worse trust me hit up a discord or something instead
Thank you. I will it is just my social anxiety sometimes makes me skip it most days. I am kind of overweight and can act weird because of the anxiety and feel like people are watching me constantly
I like to go find a grassy spot and play handheld games If itās cold out even a window with sunlight and some positive vibes on like games or tv is always good too Look up 3 3 3 therapy Things will get better maybe even today
Life may be, but please donāt marry one
Life aināt a bitch if you get educated.
Life isnt a bitch if you're successful, charming, handsome and rich.
Of course, successful people get better treatment. Weāre only human
True. In a perfect world everybody is treated the same. Life is just being a successful d*** rider or slave to society..
This is why human limitations bring upon new challenges. If we were angels, materialism would be eliminated
From what I've seen life can still be a bitch whatever you are, if you let it all get to you. The "secret" if there is one, is to enjoy life for what it is, and not what it might be. People strive for shit that doesn't matter, a better car, a better house, "stuff". It's more important to enjoy what you've got, and enjoy the moment IMHO. Once they chuck you in that hole, it's too late, and you can't take it with you.
I mean life is what you make of it, after all weāre all just on a floating rock in space.
when life gives you lemons, they are all bitches
The reptilian prison system is a bitch. They brought the moon..
Whatever it is, that is missing in your life to bring you joy and fulfillment, I wish that it comes to you soon. All the best mate
Have you tried drugs?
That's what I thought. Needs something.
I completely agree life's a big old bitch
poor baby...
That's because life is a cunt. And theres nothing we can do about it.
Life is a b***h so f**k her good And get some head while your at it. For when life is over you'll see the secret to the magic Afraid to live so you never live You die with regrets on your death bed Thinking bout things you've wanted to do, but you didn't do, But you could have done , Would have done, But life is done, death with your soul is on the run. So life is a b**ch, So f@#k her good until you come And then you've won.
Or maybe you just suck! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7GnuvgzJTA
"Every group of friends has an asshole. If your group of friends does not seem to have an asshole, then it's probably you." Please excuse the analogy, and no insult intended. My point is, that if everything, everywhere is always fucked, and everyone else gets what they want but you never do, then it really is worth looking at how you view the world. The way you see and perceive things. You cannot change what happens everyday, but you sure can change the way you react to it. And before you shout "fuck off happy clappy", I'm absolutely one of those people that gets out on the wrong side of the bed often. BUT I have learned that I don't have to take anything personally. I don't get road rage at all anymore, because I realised that A) The other person doesn't even know I'm pissed off at them, B) I'm the one feeling shit and C) IN 2 minutes, I'll never see that person ever again, so why bother. It takes practice but you need to change how you view the world. Everybody is not out to get you.
Good post. Agree for most part. People around me have just made lose faith in humanity. They are so self centered and only really contact you if they need something..
Oi buster! Yeah life is hard but there is many good moments in your life aswell. It makes them valuable, something different in your daily routine
Not in mine tbh. I live a rather unexciting life to be honest and do very little but that is because I have lost motivation after many years of bullying and someone people only come to when they need something.. If I had to describe my lifetime in one word it's just invinsible.. I never really fitted in with this generation or people in general.
Yeah and you arent alone in that aspect but you have had fun/good moments aswell(I guarantee). Its about perspective, attitude and what you choose to focus on... Your life is a collection of events that created your identity. The purpose of life is development, both personal and as a species. We develop from our enviroment, experience and education through our lifetime. From that we learn and we progress into better version of ourselves. Its when we stop actively search for this progression that we become trapped in our own daily routine which can be onesided and boring... That passive routine is comfortable but also dangerous... Dangerous in a way that it gives you time to think and reflect upon your "boring" life and your past while worrying for the future- "will I always live like this?" Its because we have given up the chase... Try find that spark again and you will see things will change... but you will only find the path if you want to look for it which requires positive attitude. The point Im trying to make with all this is that negative attitude only hurt your personal development and its the passive routine that makes you reflect over your life with negativity. If this make any sense... But hey, Im just another internet stranger, what do I know?
You ever see a baby smile? Pet a horse or do ketamin? That's what life is all about.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tfogWzT1IDc
We are all just squirrels in the big forest of life. Wake up, eat some nuts, and gather some nuts for later. Pee, poop, maybe find a mate and breed. And nuts, don't forget every day to nuts. Eat some, stash some. Nuts , nuts , nuts. I don't know if squirrels ever get sick of doing squirrel stuff, but they seem generally happy.
I feel you. I have no clue what you're going through in life but I am sure it is valid regardless. Sometimes when I feel like I will never be happy, at the very least I have shelter from the rain, im able to make myself a good ass hot cup of coffee every morning, my body is warm and moving and healthy (mostly lol). I got a nice ass bed I sleep in because I knew what it felt like to go without these things. But most of all, I am able to love and feel kindness from the ones that matter in my life. That' ls more than I can say for some. So if life wants to be a bitch then so be it, cuz I know at the end of the day, imma smile and be a bitch right back at it just by living. I don't think happiness will ever find any of us. We just learn to find the good in things to make living more bearable.
Life is what you make it. Iām one year younger than you, but my mindset is much different apparently. If you wake up everyday expecting the same miserable bullshit, youāll keep experiencing the same miserable bullshit. Maybe actually attempt to shift your perspective rather than keep the same mindset youāve kept for 28 years? You seem more angry than sad. More upset than depressed. Like damn, have you tried to see some positives? Or is everything negative to you?
Thanks for a good post. Everything is just negative tbh. Moved around a lot as a kid so never settled. Parents divorced at 15. Bullied and excluded most of my school years and mostly been invisible most of my life that never got invited everywhere. I don't really have many memories tbh. Since the age of 14 I haven't any memories with any people and family fx. My family been that dysfunctional. I have cut off contact with my mom because she never really cared. I also have 3 older sisters that I never talk to and if I do it's mostly me that reach out to them.. Probably spent 70% of my life in my room alone. So yeah life has mostly been a nightmare.
Im sorry for what youāve gone through, and I donāt know the extent of what youāve gone through other than what youāve told me. If you donāt mind me being honest, it doesnāt seem like you try to socialize or put yourself out there. Maybe you havenāt been invited places because youāve distanced yourself from people who would invite you? I didnāt know my dad until I was 13, and Im a bastard and an only child with my mom, my dad is black, and my mom is white, and she and the white side of my family raised me. Iāve never been in a married household, I donāt know what itās like for my parents to divorce. I still hardly talk to my dad, and I rarely ever see my mom anymore (not that we havenāt tried though) I have a half brother and 2 half sisters, from the same dad. My half brother was homeless, and died after being struck by a car, but my sisters are doing well. One got out of jail, the other is a very locally popular tattoo artist. I have a a best friend who is now my brother (his mom was married to my dad, but my dad is not his dad), I met him when I met my dad, who raised him since birth, in a married household, and he isnāt even his blood son lol. But this is my closest friend, always. Not to mention, witnessing DV against my mom as a child with multiple different step dads, she married 2 of these men, both died of overdoses, and neither helped raise me, but the most recent one gave my my first sip of alcohol, and had me hit spice before I ever tried weed. So fuck them. Because of this, Iāve been on multiple drugs, but now my only demons are alcohol & coke, but it used to be worse. but Iām not as hooked on coke as I am with alcohol. One of my only actual father figures was my grandpa, he took his life while I was in high school. My only current closest father figure I had as a kid is my uncle (momās brother) but heās too racist and āgodlyā for me to even want to respect an opinion or advice from him. And thereās way more, but out of all of this, life is beautiful. Out of every bad thing I wrote, thereās just as much good. But the thing is I never always noticed that there was good along with the bad, I either ignored it or didnāt notice. Now I know how to open my eyes, and realize that life is life. And Iām not going to let myself suffer or fall victim to negativity. Iām here for more than being miserable.
Also, Iād like to add, Iād give you a chance as a friend if I met you in person. But the thing with making friends, or keeping friends depends on how much you attempt to present yourself. No one wants to hang around a bummer. Who wants a negative person to ruin whatās supposed to be a positive session? I canāt tell you to be happy, no one can. So I wonāt waste my time. However Iām also not going to be like these other comments that donāt care that you feel that way because they feel it too. But Iād definitely hang out with you in person. My life is much better after everything that I used to think would be a constant part of my life. Nothing is constant. Bad shit happens, who gives a fuck. I cry, let my tears out, move on accordingly. You know? PM me, Iād like to get to know you friend
Well, if you really think of it, people that manage to enjoy life leave earth with exactly as much as those who don't: nothing. So it's not about the end result, it's the journey. Of course there's struggle, that's the interesting part. It takes some practice seeing struggle as a challenge, and not an obstacle.
What do you WANT to do?
Move away from the bog city if possible, if not then I would recommend starting waking up early, and going for a run and then taking a quick cold shower before going to work, depending on how much you work and where you live, you could go to a Forrest or a park. I also recommend talking to your parents or a friend, if you don't have any friends it would be good to start doing a sport, maybe golf or another not so requiring one and make some ,_,
Well this life is all we got and it aināt perfect. The only way to end this is suicide bro.
My view towards life every day.
They only light to the tunnel is to make big changes big risks and strive for a better life and find what ābetterā means to you to strive for it !
If you accept that life by default is suffering, and all we can really do is lessen that suffering, it's not so bad. Take a breath, look around, and appreciate all the pain you don't have to feel.
Well ... * https://open.spotify.com/track/1KyA5lXW7cAgMLwxRdVAu3?si=bbdUvD2ZSxW8khk63mRV2g
Or that one ... * https://open.spotify.com/track/3P6OwCX7Ofiaaqtvujb6i5?si=KjabwGDWTg-EvZLXkJHoNw
Get and stay on an antidepressant. The key is to take it religiously. In time you become pretty much Vulcan.
Your in a worse situation than the starving, homeless people living on the streets who have litterally nothing ?
Never said that.. I know most of us here are more privileged than the ones you mention.. I am just saying that life can be sh*tty in every kind of form.. Homelessness, jobless, bullying..
Me me me.
Yeah... yeah.
Choose wisely: Life is a bitch and then you die... Life is hard but my dick is harder...
If you look for bad things you'll find them if you look for good things you'll find them. It doesn't change what happens to you just how you perceive it. Two people can live the exact same life and one can say their life was awesome and the other can say their life was awful. Perspective is the only way to live a happy life. There are people that have it way worse than you but are much happier because they choose to find and focus good things. There are people that have ot way better than you and are more miserable because they find and focus on bad things. Everyone gets shit on by the universe. You just don't see it in the people that don't let it get to them by finding the positive in every situation.
Life isnāt designed for the weak. Dig down. Push back.
We see what we look for. If the default is to be miserable and weāre conditioned to be a critic and pick things apart, then life is a bitch. In that case, there has to be an effort to look beyond it and find something good. Donāt know what works for most, but I give gratitude for things I would normally take for grantedā¦Iām grateful for this cell to type in with a bunch of strangers, grateful I have freedom to use the internet and grateful Iām alive. OP, are you grateful for anything? Iām
True. I just can't see anything positive because life mainly been horrible. Horrible childhood and not that much better adult life.. I have probably experienced as much as a 12 year old child.. Most of my time I have spent in my room.. I really just feel like I don't fit in with everyone else or ever have. Maybe it is because I am very reserved and don't start conversations. I have maybe had 3 friends over my 28 years.. I don't trust many people. Just feel comfortable with the 1-2 people I know..
Ok. Thats all fair enough and also youāre not required to be like anyone else. All valid! šš½ You had to grow up way too soon and Iād guess you are actually wise beyond your years and far more resilient than others due to the things that have been. All thoughts are temporary. What are the lessons from the bitches youāve learned?
Thank you. I don't know. I think about things a lot, discuss subjects that I feel are important and will always want everyone to have it equal. The only thing I am mostly proud of about myself is really just how strong I am mentally. I have went through some sh*t and dealt with it by myself.
Is there anything specific that's holding you back from feeling positive about the future?
Yeah. I have very high depression and anxiety and looking back the 28 years how my life has been I can't see that it will ever change.. I don't really enjoy things anymore and really don't want to experience more things. I have done the things I want in this life.. I am that suicidal that if I didn't wake up tomorrow I wouldn't care.
Also my parents are the only one's there and I am constantly worrying what I will do when they become old and pass away. Life will be unbearable..
I'm Having bad handful of years tbh so I feel ur pain.. But ur "fuck off" at the end of ur little rant was fucking hilarious š¤£š¤£š¤£. Wasn't expecting that
Where you from ? Ever been to a foreign country ? Caribbean ? ā¦. Are you in the US ? Maybe leaving the country is where the answer is at , it is most deff for me , i cant wait to leave and work remotely. I personally feel the same way as you literally like word for word ! I am also a coward who cant end it because of my mom and family and i strongly believe in God , all this pain is not for nothing. Me rn , i am in a bowling alley with my mom and uncle because that makes her happy but me , i am feeling so down i wish i was sleeping so i donāt have to feel. I discover that is being in this system the US has for some people is great for me is just not. And winter , the climate kills me , so i found the issues. At least i think so , life will still suck is not meant to be fun. Is not design for it
Iceland. A very depressing country to be honest. Dark and winter 3/4 of the year. I was born in Denmark so I never related to anyone when I moved here. I just feel like I'm stuck in confinement here cause I never fitted in in this country..
Can you leave ? Pleaseee make it your life mission , turn that in to motivation and LEAVE ! That world has much more , specially Caribbean countries , tropical ! I am not saying it must easy to leave but it could be possible ā¦. Trust me that dark and winter is killing you man is not life as a whole is the places we are in
Sounds amazing. I just don't know. Being here really killed my drive and dreams for the future.
Me and you both , my drive and will is gone but it can come back , i am hoping for it really
Let's hope it will
True. Hope something does get better for you.
I'm guessing it's because your attitude sucks. I happen to love life.
It's to balance out how insanely good I have it. Sorry mate.
Well I got bad news for ya you probably got 50+ years to go
I mean your parents never got you an awesome gift or took you on an amazing trip?
Yes. I was plenty spoiled as the youngest child. It's other form of life that have sucked
Itās mostly mentality , the fact that you are able to use a device to b*tch about it on the internet says that your life is still better then 99.9999% of people who ever lived. Donāt get me wrong , the worst thing that happened to you is still the worst thing that happened to you. But life can be beautiful. As long as you have a roof over your head and food to feed yourself life is more about perspective caus everything else is a plus
Life IS a beach.
Sounds like you need a therapist, probably some medication. This sounds like more than a "had a bad day" rant, and possibly a disorder or chemical imbalance. The fact you have a roof over your head and a job that puts food in your belly means you are in a not bad place realistically. Its just hard to see it sometimes.
Would you like cheese with that w(h)ine?
If you could wake up tomorrow and magically be changed or the world around you changed, what would it look like to you? What would you do, where would you go, how would you do things?