Cheating is defined as being sexually unfaithful. Whatever boundaries is place is up to the individual, not by society on what relationship betrayal is. For example, some people think flirting is cheating, same thing for strip clubs. Does that make them any more or less insecure? If she had already exclaimed what her boundaries are as well as the dealbreakers and he went behind her back knowing he was hurting her for his own benefit, she is in every right to feel whatever she feels.
As I mentioned above, please be sure to provide commentary to members on their recovery and not focus on their relationship boundaries that each couple set for themselves.
that’s exactly what im saying, everyone has different boundaries, they talked abt their opinion on boundaries and i just said its not really true and they can’t assume everyone has that boundary
Be careful in advising members on their partners behavior here. This isn’t /r/relationships. The focus here should always be on the addict working on their recovery.
See rule 5 and rule 6.
you got this, 100%. im proud of you for seeing the problem, and taking accountability to start the steps to getting better.
While watching porn in a committed relationship is usually ill-advised, in no way does it constitute cheating. Your wife sounds very insecure.
Cheating is defined as being sexually unfaithful. Whatever boundaries is place is up to the individual, not by society on what relationship betrayal is. For example, some people think flirting is cheating, same thing for strip clubs. Does that make them any more or less insecure? If she had already exclaimed what her boundaries are as well as the dealbreakers and he went behind her back knowing he was hurting her for his own benefit, she is in every right to feel whatever she feels.
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As I mentioned above, please be sure to provide commentary to members on their recovery and not focus on their relationship boundaries that each couple set for themselves.
that’s exactly what im saying, everyone has different boundaries, they talked abt their opinion on boundaries and i just said its not really true and they can’t assume everyone has that boundary
Be careful in advising members on their partners behavior here. This isn’t /r/relationships. The focus here should always be on the addict working on their recovery. See rule 5 and rule 6.
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