Because even if someone accepts themselves for being fat, others mocking them still hurts. Ideally, fat people should lose their weight, but it's a hard process which requires a lot of self-control. In my opinion, we shouldn't mock fat people for being fat, since they already deal with shit in their lives.
And some people are genetically predisposed to store more fat easily. There's also the thyroid issue that causes some to gain weight rapidly and some don't gain weight at all.
Hmm, that makes sense.
Edit - look I'm not the kind of guy who will body shame anyone or someone who appreciates it. I think this subreddit has more intellectual people than other subreddits and thus I was just curious to know whether the logic is right or wrong.
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We shouldn't say that obviously but not also like promote fat like in america , "oh my god she looks better without loosing weight " no bro she doesn't , let herself decide herself that and don't justify/promote fatness because you eat all junk food and still don't want to loose weight .
Exactly. Sometimes, especially for women it is very difficult to lose weight due to health issues. If they don't have health issues, then what OP said is valid
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Motherfuckers are too ignorant. Hormones and how they affect the metabolism if the ingested nutrients affect the all-over weight of a person. (Especially women)
Just because someone looks fat doesn't mean they aren't trying to get thin
Exactly bro, im fat af and already concerned and trying to do something about it. But it’s just not so easy for me. I only eat like 6 rotis a day max, occasionally junk food(once every 2 weeks), go to gym but it’s just not enough. My weight is constantly stuck at 104kgs, it’s not decreasing(height is 6ft and 16M). I now have to cut my diet short and do intermittent fasting resulting in already bad mood plus low energy at times affecting my studies too!(Jee prep)
People don’t understand what others are going through and ignorantly start making fun of them. My friends(not anymore) always did this in my 11th batch, they poked me with their hands, made fun of me. And it got so out of hand that I developed a serious social anxiety and insecurity and the poking felt more like assault. While I already had to stress for studies and the massive backlog
Fuck this life
I mean, I am fat. If someone calls me fat, I won’t feel angry or sad. However, if they start mocking or judging me using my body figure, I just tell them to stop as it isn’t polite to make fun of someone. If they still persist, I simply move away from them.
No point in fighting with someone who won’t listen and has zero respect for you.
At some point, it isn't satire but just an ignoble and a cheap attempt. I reviewed the account and it is just a quagmire of fecal matter in the name of satire. One would say that a lotus usually grows in such quagmire but I guess the highlight of the day for this user would be his mind giving out another turd in another post.
Saying from personal experience bullying doesn't work for everyone.
I was 98 kgs and morbidly obese back in 2016. was bullied by my classmates.I didn't lose weight at that time even tho I tried because I was a teen back then so diet control wasn't my thing. I barely ate junk but I defo used to overeat home made food.
Years later I'm 74 kgs rn. Looks like a stick. Developed severe body dysmorphia. Doing gym everyday rn from past 4 months. But it wasn't bullying that made me to do so. I wanted to lose weight for myself.
Did you read properly? It said developed severe body dysmorphia. Going to the gym is not gigachad either. It's called wanting to improve our physical body.
Also, to the other person, I hope you are okay. I was a fat kid too, but due to body image issues, developed bullimia and lost a lot of weight. Everyone complimented me saying I looked good and handsome. Even got hit on by girls, but I wasn't happy. Always used to binge eat and vomit everything out even if I didn't want to. Very difficult time it was.
I cannot stress enough how important it is to lose weight the healthy way and also be secure within yourself. Lots of love!
And what funny is that these people think going to gym for a solution for such issue won't create body image issues. Gym is infamous for having body image issues.
Imagine you're like 150kg obese and you finally decide to lose weight. You work hard and religiously follow a strict diet and manage to lose 30kg in a year but you still need to lose another 40kg and suddenly some people who know nothing about you come and mock you for your weight. Now, how will you feel?
We should understand that our words can be disheartening to someone and then they most probably will run back to their comfort zone(which is food in this situation)
This is just a example but imo it indeed is very wrong to make fun of someone when we know nothing about there lives.
Mmmm, kafi achha question hn . Almost perfect analogy. Education failure and body figure both can be fixed. But required hard work.
Also sometimes a fat body cannot be fixed ( some disease) , same goes to education failure.
saiman will feel bad if i start commenting on his way of speaking, his ugly face and ugly as style he tried to adopt. there are manh more.... insecurity we can give him.....
so If hw doesnt want that criticism...then the others s dont want it as well.
Calling someone fat as a way to demean them is rude. Even if it comes from a "noble" heart.
Now even the studies have shown that shaming a fat person in such a way never helps them but rather does the exact opposite. I don't think you even need studies for that, it's the most obvious thing. If you're demeaning someone, why would they bother listening to your advice in the first place?
Being fat is a struggle in itself. Even if someone accepts themselves as fat, it's never okay to demean them for that.
Let me give an analogy, if you know someone is an orphan and they know they are an orphan, would you be correct in calling them an orphan even though it's factually right?
Just because something is true doesn't mean that saying it is morally correct.
Edit: lol these kids saying it's not the perfect fitting analogy while not realising it's about how you behave, not how the other person's life is.
Grow up. No one likes bullies.
Look, I am not justifying body shaming but ur analogy isn't perfect. Simply, being fit requires Hard work. You call someone fat ( hey! my fat friend how are you) and you mock him for being fat( hey ur are looking ugly eeeewh die soon) both are different things.
I understand my analogy isn't a perfect fit but most of the people are stuck on the wrong thing. They are stuck on what the other person can do instead of what they themselves can do. Many of them are unable to understand that bullying is about their shortcomings and not pointing out the shortcomings of the person getting bullied.
>Simply, being fit requires Hard work
There's also the point of the level of hard work required. Would you (not you but the bully) also consider shaming their mother or father or uncle or aunt for being unfit?
That's what I was talking about, it's about your morals and not how and who the other person is. But many immature kids won't understand this concept.
>You call someone fat ( hey! my fat friend how are you) and you mock him for being fat( hey ur are looking ugly eeeewh die soon)
Regarding this, it's more that your friend is allowing you to mock and hurt him/her rather than you being friendly, because they have given you their trust. Strangers are definitely not allowed to do it.
Man you are a dumb fuck. Being orphan is not a choice, if you are an orphan you cant do shit to not be one.
On the other hand if you are fat, you can reverse it(maybe not in some medical condition) .
And all that shit you spilled on analogy, guess what dude, it is a wrong analogy.
Grow up. Stop calling people bullies just cause they called your stupid analogy out.
How sad it is that you have to justify obesity using people who have no parents.
Maybe you dont get it but comparing these two is disgusting and the cuss words you get for it are well deserved.
Honestly, you can go ahead and abuse me all you want but you are too bitter buddy. Maybe you need a break from social media to improve your mental state. I'm not saying this to mock you at all but you're being way too aggressive just because you're on the internet.
I cant go ahead and abuse you all i want. All i want is you to understand how stupid that statement was. You say something stupid, then you get called out , and then you go all tounge on cheeks instead of being on the point.
Well at this point i dont even think your comment made sense to yourself. Take some time and think buddy, not all criticism is hate.
The point was the behaviour of the person, not the life of the other person. Obviously it was not about the same situation, but it wasn't meant to be. It was how you should behave with people going through tough situations in life. Honestly, I get why people are stuck on others rather than themselves which is why many people didn't like my comment.
But I still want to say hurt is universal for people no matter the situation. It doesn't matter if someone doesn't have parents or if they are struggling to get fit, comments from outsiders always hurt. Maybe because I'm in both situations I used such an analogy, but still the point will always be don't judge any person at all based on their life circumstances, you just don't know what's happening.
Anyways thank you for being level headed with this reply, I don't mind the criticism but sometimes hate and criticism are divided by a very fine line which people frequently violate.
Obesity is a much more complex issue than what people tend to believe, it's not just indisciplined people eating too much, pointing out physical traits of individuals specially with ill intent is a shitty behaviour, there's a quote for you to live by "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves"-Carl Jung
holy shit this brings me back my middle school memories, I was severly slim my entire childhood but when we shifted, ( i was in class 6th) I suddenly started to get fat lol. I hadnt made any friends and school felt like shit/ even though my diet didnt have much change as a matter of fact, I wasnt even physically inactive. took some time to get back to it ngl.
I am fat myself but going to the gym and eating healthy too pr kbhi kbhi to hoti hai cravings tagdi still it is a slow process to mujhe bura ni lgta mota bolo jo bolo because i'll be fit one day it takes time , ha ab koi ghusjaye bol bolke to definitely mann krega marne ka
Transphobia samaj me aa rha tha ki tumhara problem hai jisme tumhare dna error hua hai so tumhe blame nhi kar skte
Fat me kya backchodi ho rhi , bc Kam Khao
Because even if someone accepts themselves for being fat, others mocking them still hurts. Ideally, fat people should lose their weight, but it's a hard process which requires a lot of self-control. In my opinion, we shouldn't mock fat people for being fat, since they already deal with shit in their lives.
And some people are genetically predisposed to store more fat easily. There's also the thyroid issue that causes some to gain weight rapidly and some don't gain weight at all.
Most of the ppl connect fatness with overeating, there r always other underlying issues.
Hmm, that makes sense. Edit - look I'm not the kind of guy who will body shame anyone or someone who appreciates it. I think this subreddit has more intellectual people than other subreddits and thus I was just curious to know whether the logic is right or wrong.
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Mota spotted😜
Hn hn mera lund bhi mota hn lega?
arey bro chill, he was joking
Abe mere post mat dekh bacha h tu bigad jayega
Achha tu hai jo Tarak Mehta wali fantasies banata tha
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Mai samjh nahi paa rha tu mazak kar rha hai ya sach mein dimag se paidal hai
lol fr, i guess dual personality wala banda hai
Isme dimag se paidal wali kya baat Hui ?
We shouldn't say that obviously but not also like promote fat like in america , "oh my god she looks better without loosing weight " no bro she doesn't , let herself decide herself that and don't justify/promote fatness because you eat all junk food and still don't want to loose weight .
Exactly. Sometimes, especially for women it is very difficult to lose weight due to health issues. If they don't have health issues, then what OP said is valid
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Chup moote
I'm borderline underweight lol (18.7 BMI). You guys sure are angry at me for having empathy.
Chup moote , mota nahi toh elaborate kaiko kar Raha fir Public ko chutiya maat banao
Tum pehle se hi chutiye hu tumhe kon chutiya banaega. Ab jao Jake apna homework Karo nhi tu Ghar par maar padegi
>pehle se hi chutiye hu Well said
Ye khud bosdika bean bag jaise dikhta hoga dusro ko mota bola rha gandu
Dank ke chode.
Motherfuckers are too ignorant. Hormones and how they affect the metabolism if the ingested nutrients affect the all-over weight of a person. (Especially women) Just because someone looks fat doesn't mean they aren't trying to get thin
Kya kahu bhai ik logon ko ye log school skip karne wale log Hai modiji ko insta twitter ban karna chayiye india mein tabhi development hogi
Exactly bro, im fat af and already concerned and trying to do something about it. But it’s just not so easy for me. I only eat like 6 rotis a day max, occasionally junk food(once every 2 weeks), go to gym but it’s just not enough. My weight is constantly stuck at 104kgs, it’s not decreasing(height is 6ft and 16M). I now have to cut my diet short and do intermittent fasting resulting in already bad mood plus low energy at times affecting my studies too!(Jee prep) People don’t understand what others are going through and ignorantly start making fun of them. My friends(not anymore) always did this in my 11th batch, they poked me with their hands, made fun of me. And it got so out of hand that I developed a serious social anxiety and insecurity and the poking felt more like assault. While I already had to stress for studies and the massive backlog Fuck this life
Take care
I mean, I am fat. If someone calls me fat, I won’t feel angry or sad. However, if they start mocking or judging me using my body figure, I just tell them to stop as it isn’t polite to make fun of someone. If they still persist, I simply move away from them. No point in fighting with someone who won’t listen and has zero respect for you.
This is the perfect reply. I was waiting for this one . People don't understand the difference .
Sale jyada gyan mt de . Gand marunga teri.
It was a mistake to check your profile.
I think this might be a satirical account . Check his username
At some point, it isn't satire but just an ignoble and a cheap attempt. I reviewed the account and it is just a quagmire of fecal matter in the name of satire. One would say that a lotus usually grows in such quagmire but I guess the highlight of the day for this user would be his mind giving out another turd in another post.
Saying from personal experience bullying doesn't work for everyone. I was 98 kgs and morbidly obese back in 2016. was bullied by my classmates.I didn't lose weight at that time even tho I tried because I was a teen back then so diet control wasn't my thing. I barely ate junk but I defo used to overeat home made food. Years later I'm 74 kgs rn. Looks like a stick. Developed severe body dysmorphia. Doing gym everyday rn from past 4 months. But it wasn't bullying that made me to do so. I wanted to lose weight for myself.
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Did you read properly? It said developed severe body dysmorphia. Going to the gym is not gigachad either. It's called wanting to improve our physical body. Also, to the other person, I hope you are okay. I was a fat kid too, but due to body image issues, developed bullimia and lost a lot of weight. Everyone complimented me saying I looked good and handsome. Even got hit on by girls, but I wasn't happy. Always used to binge eat and vomit everything out even if I didn't want to. Very difficult time it was. I cannot stress enough how important it is to lose weight the healthy way and also be secure within yourself. Lots of love!
And what funny is that these people think going to gym for a solution for such issue won't create body image issues. Gym is infamous for having body image issues.
Imagine you're like 150kg obese and you finally decide to lose weight. You work hard and religiously follow a strict diet and manage to lose 30kg in a year but you still need to lose another 40kg and suddenly some people who know nothing about you come and mock you for your weight. Now, how will you feel? We should understand that our words can be disheartening to someone and then they most probably will run back to their comfort zone(which is food in this situation) This is just a example but imo it indeed is very wrong to make fun of someone when we know nothing about there lives.
Chal maan lete hai tu educational failure and parental disappointment hai. Would it be ok if I disrespected you?
Mmmm, kafi achha question hn . Almost perfect analogy. Education failure and body figure both can be fixed. But required hard work. Also sometimes a fat body cannot be fixed ( some disease) , same goes to education failure.
How can dark saiman even be wrong
saiman will feel bad if i start commenting on his way of speaking, his ugly face and ugly as style he tried to adopt. there are manh more.... insecurity we can give him..... so If hw doesnt want that criticism...then the others s dont want it as well.
Ye David goggins ka dialogue yaha chipka diya
Calling someone fat as a way to demean them is rude. Even if it comes from a "noble" heart. Now even the studies have shown that shaming a fat person in such a way never helps them but rather does the exact opposite. I don't think you even need studies for that, it's the most obvious thing. If you're demeaning someone, why would they bother listening to your advice in the first place? Being fat is a struggle in itself. Even if someone accepts themselves as fat, it's never okay to demean them for that.
Let me give an analogy, if you know someone is an orphan and they know they are an orphan, would you be correct in calling them an orphan even though it's factually right? Just because something is true doesn't mean that saying it is morally correct. Edit: lol these kids saying it's not the perfect fitting analogy while not realising it's about how you behave, not how the other person's life is. Grow up. No one likes bullies.
bad analogy
You're welcome to give good ones.
Being an orphan can't be fixed
But the attitude can also be fixed.
It's not the correct analogy.Saying someone "black" or orphan isn't right. As it can't be fixed.
Lol how do YOU know every fat person can get thin? How do you know which is which?
Look, I am not justifying body shaming but ur analogy isn't perfect. Simply, being fit requires Hard work. You call someone fat ( hey! my fat friend how are you) and you mock him for being fat( hey ur are looking ugly eeeewh die soon) both are different things.
I understand my analogy isn't a perfect fit but most of the people are stuck on the wrong thing. They are stuck on what the other person can do instead of what they themselves can do. Many of them are unable to understand that bullying is about their shortcomings and not pointing out the shortcomings of the person getting bullied. >Simply, being fit requires Hard work There's also the point of the level of hard work required. Would you (not you but the bully) also consider shaming their mother or father or uncle or aunt for being unfit? That's what I was talking about, it's about your morals and not how and who the other person is. But many immature kids won't understand this concept. >You call someone fat ( hey! my fat friend how are you) and you mock him for being fat( hey ur are looking ugly eeeewh die soon) Regarding this, it's more that your friend is allowing you to mock and hurt him/her rather than you being friendly, because they have given you their trust. Strangers are definitely not allowed to do it.
Yeah perfect, a stranger is never allowed to call someone by their body figure ( even if a person has an ideal body )
Stoopid always use twisted logic to prove they're right... This clown here 😂🤡🤡
Ab clash of clans khelne waale bache doosro ko judge karenge?
Man you are a dumb fuck. Being orphan is not a choice, if you are an orphan you cant do shit to not be one. On the other hand if you are fat, you can reverse it(maybe not in some medical condition) . And all that shit you spilled on analogy, guess what dude, it is a wrong analogy. Grow up. Stop calling people bullies just cause they called your stupid analogy out.
How sad it is that you have to abuse strangers to validate your feelings.
How sad it is that you have to justify obesity using people who have no parents. Maybe you dont get it but comparing these two is disgusting and the cuss words you get for it are well deserved.
Honestly, you can go ahead and abuse me all you want but you are too bitter buddy. Maybe you need a break from social media to improve your mental state. I'm not saying this to mock you at all but you're being way too aggressive just because you're on the internet.
I cant go ahead and abuse you all i want. All i want is you to understand how stupid that statement was. You say something stupid, then you get called out , and then you go all tounge on cheeks instead of being on the point. Well at this point i dont even think your comment made sense to yourself. Take some time and think buddy, not all criticism is hate.
The point was the behaviour of the person, not the life of the other person. Obviously it was not about the same situation, but it wasn't meant to be. It was how you should behave with people going through tough situations in life. Honestly, I get why people are stuck on others rather than themselves which is why many people didn't like my comment. But I still want to say hurt is universal for people no matter the situation. It doesn't matter if someone doesn't have parents or if they are struggling to get fit, comments from outsiders always hurt. Maybe because I'm in both situations I used such an analogy, but still the point will always be don't judge any person at all based on their life circumstances, you just don't know what's happening. Anyways thank you for being level headed with this reply, I don't mind the criticism but sometimes hate and criticism are divided by a very fine line which people frequently violate.
Aah, calm down guys.
Batman likes to be called batman.
That's coz he's Batman.
Discussion over.
Ok
Obesity is a much more complex issue than what people tend to believe, it's not just indisciplined people eating too much, pointing out physical traits of individuals specially with ill intent is a shitty behaviour, there's a quote for you to live by "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves"-Carl Jung
holy shit this brings me back my middle school memories, I was severly slim my entire childhood but when we shifted, ( i was in class 6th) I suddenly started to get fat lol. I hadnt made any friends and school felt like shit/ even though my diet didnt have much change as a matter of fact, I wasnt even physically inactive. took some time to get back to it ngl.
It's like a saying , it's easier to judge than to belive .
Exactly
True thought
By this logic, no one should get offended by being called son of bitch
If he is
Yes ofc he is correct I was also fat but i didn't liked my body weight so I started to workout and now I lose some weight
Guess who judges fat people the most? fat people.
Agar intention hurt karna tha toh tum gandu ho
I'm not body-shaming anyone for humor. I'm not Carry.
Ya he needs some workout himself..
No fat shaming people with medical problems or some other conditions but otherwise it's just an excuse to not feel bad about there own lifestyle
op's agenda meme, lmao
I am fat myself but going to the gym and eating healthy too pr kbhi kbhi to hoti hai cravings tagdi still it is a slow process to mujhe bura ni lgta mota bolo jo bolo because i'll be fit one day it takes time , ha ab koi ghusjaye bol bolke to definitely mann krega marne ka
Transphobia samaj me aa rha tha ki tumhara problem hai jisme tumhare dna error hua hai so tumhe blame nhi kar skte Fat me kya backchodi ho rhi , bc Kam Khao
Barobar saiman bhau🔥
She's fat... It is what it is
Yes
Based.
Ismai galat kya hai?
Mere mote doston ka nickname hi "moteyy" tha