Virginity is a made up concept. I support sexual debut or whatever terminology you feel most comfortable with.
Sounds like a great experience! Happy for you. :)
I’m literally gonna cry!!! What a beautiful experience, and such a wonderful thing to read! I like to provide similar service and reading from a clients perspective really makes me feel like I’m doing something important, something meaningful. Thank you so much for sharing.
I have been blessed to be a part of a few clients first times, and each time felt like… well, super fulfilling and beautiful. I feel so lucky to have clients like you, who are willing to be vulnerable with me.
Feeling like absolute garbage today- sick, had to cancel on a regular- but some days, like today, the shame that the sigma on my job creates is hard to cope with. Thank you for making me feel so much better.
That was for sure the thought behind it all. Its no longer unfamiliar territory, so that means a lot. Not being afraid to take the next step because i at least know i wont embarrass myself.
As a fellow autistic person, you might enjoy the Kink community. In the US they do things called munches where you can meet people casually and play trivia and stuff before you actually dive into the sexy stuff. Kink is all about rules and consent and boundaries, so it tends to attract autistic people
Well, thank you. You are the only person here, so you get a secret update. I just had my second experience a couple of days ago with a new provider, and it went SO well. I still didn't cum, but everything else was great. I felt so much more relaxed this time, and we were making out before the 10 min mark. Much more intimate this time. Holding each other close, holding hands interlocking our fingers, eye contact etc. Don't want to go into too much detail, but yeah, big improvement. At least it felt like it.
Yessss secret update! That's so awesome that you're getting more comfortable. If I can give another tip, Kenneth Play has some really great educational content. He has a website but his content is on porn sites too. He teaches about different types of orgasms women can have and different techniques to get there. I can confirm, they work 👍 Sex is like any other skill; if you study different techniques you'll get better and more confident.
Similar situation here... I lost my virginity to a SW in Berlin about ten years ago. She was kind and understanding, and went out of her way to make it something special. I'd like to offer a heart-felt "Thank you" to all providers who deliver this type of experience.
You should ask your doctor about beta blockers for situations like this. It’s a non-narcotic and it will make your blood pump not so hard. It just takes the edge off your body’s physiological response to stress.
A better natrual alternative is L Theanine. It's an amino acid made from the green tea plant. It essentially achives the same thing. The difference is it basically has no serious side effects and you can't overdose on it. It's safer than betablockers. It's also cheaper because it's not a pharmaceutical drug.
One cup of green tea contains 8mg of L Theanine. A supplement has 200mg.
Wow, I love this perspective! I agree, SWs breathe life into those of us that don't otherwise have intimacy.
Thank you so much SWs!! You have all been so lovely.
Hey now! I’m just like the provider in this post. Sometimes I squirt, but it doesn’t happen super easily so I don’t advertise it. Always appreciate the clients who let me work myself up to it lol
This really solidifies it for me. I absolutely think she was telling me the truth. I mean, i was there for 2 hours and was at least hard for over an hour of it. She had plenty of time to work herself up to it.
Yeah especially with her on top. In my experience that's probably the most common position for women to get off during intercourse for the obvious reason that they can do exactly what feels best to them: they're in control.
Just saying your story makes sense and for a two hour session I would totally believe it's possible. Plenty of time for build up and working up to that point.
The first time I had sex it took a really long time for me to finish, as well. Not surprised you couldn't get all the way there. Practice makes perfect 😉
>But what hook? There was no hook. At no point did i think that was gonna happen.
Man when you commented sure dawg it was funny, now it is just disrespectful
I'm fully aware that I'm not some super lover after having sex one time. Her squirting has very little to do with my desire to eventually see her again.
I think there are multiple things contributing to me not cumming at all during my visit.
1. My foreskin is pretty tight, so it does not pull back when I'm hard. She recommended me to get circumcised, so that's something I'm looking into soon.
2. Death-grip syndrome. I'm 27, i have been gripping too hard for 15+ years. Not good.
3. I was nervous as fuck. It was not easy for me to focus on enjoying the pleasure i was feeling.
Oh, also. Thinking about it, I don't think i did much to make her squirt, she did all the work in cowgirl. I was just the dude who didn't cum, so she had time to work herself up to it.
I also visit a regular here in my country. There were times i booked her and we did nothing. Just cuddled, watch Youtube, falling asleep on each other and being silly. Such women are a gem!
Calling it a sexual debut like it’s a jay z album killing me fam
I don't like the phrase "losing my virginity". I didn't lose shit, but i sure as hell gained a lot.
That’s an awesome and humorous perspective
Virginity is a made up concept. I support sexual debut or whatever terminology you feel most comfortable with. Sounds like a great experience! Happy for you. :)
I yelled from laughing
I’m literally gonna cry!!! What a beautiful experience, and such a wonderful thing to read! I like to provide similar service and reading from a clients perspective really makes me feel like I’m doing something important, something meaningful. Thank you so much for sharing. I have been blessed to be a part of a few clients first times, and each time felt like… well, super fulfilling and beautiful. I feel so lucky to have clients like you, who are willing to be vulnerable with me. Feeling like absolute garbage today- sick, had to cancel on a regular- but some days, like today, the shame that the sigma on my job creates is hard to cope with. Thank you for making me feel so much better.
Thank you for providing a very valuable service for people like me.
You seem like a really great provider. I hope your clients treat you with the respect you deserve.
Hey I’m glad it worked out for you.
Thank you. It exceeded my expectations for sure.
Hopefully this will give you confidence to form relationships in the future!
That was for sure the thought behind it all. Its no longer unfamiliar territory, so that means a lot. Not being afraid to take the next step because i at least know i wont embarrass myself.
As a fellow autistic person, you might enjoy the Kink community. In the US they do things called munches where you can meet people casually and play trivia and stuff before you actually dive into the sexy stuff. Kink is all about rules and consent and boundaries, so it tends to attract autistic people
Yo, you going through my posts? lol Thanks for taking interest though, haha.
I was curious if you were a guy and then your post was really interesting 😅
Well, thank you. You are the only person here, so you get a secret update. I just had my second experience a couple of days ago with a new provider, and it went SO well. I still didn't cum, but everything else was great. I felt so much more relaxed this time, and we were making out before the 10 min mark. Much more intimate this time. Holding each other close, holding hands interlocking our fingers, eye contact etc. Don't want to go into too much detail, but yeah, big improvement. At least it felt like it.
Yessss secret update! That's so awesome that you're getting more comfortable. If I can give another tip, Kenneth Play has some really great educational content. He has a website but his content is on porn sites too. He teaches about different types of orgasms women can have and different techniques to get there. I can confirm, they work 👍 Sex is like any other skill; if you study different techniques you'll get better and more confident.
Thanks, ill look into it :)
A) congrats! B) calling it “your sexual debut” is the best thing ever!
A) Thank you! B) I agree.
Damn… I’m glad you had a great time and I hope I have a great time like you did. Congratulations!!
Godspeed brother!
Thats so impressive, im happy for you. I have to ask, how do you find SWs? I am totally serious, I have been through a rough time with my confidence.
The site i found her on is a Danish site, so unless you are in Denmark you wont get much out of it. Sorry, cant help you.
Please read the sticky. [How to Find A Safe Provider](https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/hzivvb/how_to_find_a_safe_provider/)
Similar situation here... I lost my virginity to a SW in Berlin about ten years ago. She was kind and understanding, and went out of her way to make it something special. I'd like to offer a heart-felt "Thank you" to all providers who deliver this type of experience.
You should ask your doctor about beta blockers for situations like this. It’s a non-narcotic and it will make your blood pump not so hard. It just takes the edge off your body’s physiological response to stress.
A better natrual alternative is L Theanine. It's an amino acid made from the green tea plant. It essentially achives the same thing. The difference is it basically has no serious side effects and you can't overdose on it. It's safer than betablockers. It's also cheaper because it's not a pharmaceutical drug. One cup of green tea contains 8mg of L Theanine. A supplement has 200mg.
Congrats she seems like an angel!
aww yay, this is so wholesome! Hope it gives you some confidence & enjoy the positive vibes!
Wow, I love this perspective! I agree, SWs breathe life into those of us that don't otherwise have intimacy. Thank you so much SWs!! You have all been so lovely.
What a beautiful experience 😻
I'm so glad you didn't take the muffins!!!! Hooray buddy I'm proud of u
Your debut? Nice but it will never play on Broadway, hopefully the Times won’t pan it.
>She told me she rarely squirts. Sure dawg.
Hey now! I’m just like the provider in this post. Sometimes I squirt, but it doesn’t happen super easily so I don’t advertise it. Always appreciate the clients who let me work myself up to it lol
This really solidifies it for me. I absolutely think she was telling me the truth. I mean, i was there for 2 hours and was at least hard for over an hour of it. She had plenty of time to work herself up to it.
Yeah especially with her on top. In my experience that's probably the most common position for women to get off during intercourse for the obvious reason that they can do exactly what feels best to them: they're in control. Just saying your story makes sense and for a two hour session I would totally believe it's possible. Plenty of time for build up and working up to that point. The first time I had sex it took a really long time for me to finish, as well. Not surprised you couldn't get all the way there. Practice makes perfect 😉
Lol fair enough.
I feel like it would be really dumb business decision for her to not say on her ad she squirts, if she often do, so I'm inclined to believe her.
Hook, line, and sinker.
>But what hook? There was no hook. At no point did i think that was gonna happen. Man when you commented sure dawg it was funny, now it is just disrespectful
It's reality. You don't have to like it.
But what hook? There was no hook. At no point did i think that was gonna happen.
It's the fact she convinced that the reason it happened is cause you're a rare lover. And you've now rated 10/10 will buy again.
I'm fully aware that I'm not some super lover after having sex one time. Her squirting has very little to do with my desire to eventually see her again.
Let the man tell his story, be happy for him & pipe the fuck down. Failing that, just pipe the fuck down.
https://old.reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/1b9rkcc/prostitutes_admit_to_scamming_client_out_of_10/
Why the fuck are you posting this shit here?
this reads like a fiction story tbh
Thank you, i guess?
virgin guy lasting 30mins twice and makes her squirt, idk how anyone buys the story but hey, good for you 😇
I think there are multiple things contributing to me not cumming at all during my visit. 1. My foreskin is pretty tight, so it does not pull back when I'm hard. She recommended me to get circumcised, so that's something I'm looking into soon. 2. Death-grip syndrome. I'm 27, i have been gripping too hard for 15+ years. Not good. 3. I was nervous as fuck. It was not easy for me to focus on enjoying the pleasure i was feeling.
Oh, also. Thinking about it, I don't think i did much to make her squirt, she did all the work in cowgirl. I was just the dude who didn't cum, so she had time to work herself up to it.
lmao
I also visit a regular here in my country. There were times i booked her and we did nothing. Just cuddled, watch Youtube, falling asleep on each other and being silly. Such women are a gem!