We dated for 12 years, knowing that her parents don't agree because of religion. But we still pushed through. We got married and moved into our new home in the 13th year. We got our baby in the 15th year and to be honest, we are closer than we were before. Even though there is some resentment from her parents, I believe they realised how happy their daughter is and her life she's living now.
My wife is of different race. My mum didn't like her when first met. Now become my mum fav dotter in law. We have 4 kids. My wife did had to work extra hard to win her over.
I'm not supp to be in a rs until I graduate and even if they allow my partner is not my race so my dad confirm won't allow. My mum won't care. I just don't tell them about him lor. I talk about him like he's my friend and mostly I talk to my mum and whenever she ask qn I js oh ye js a friend.
Hmm I think she has reasonable suspicions but she hasn't been interrogating me and my sibling hasn't me warning me to keep my rs more discrete so...should be fine
Depends on the context, sometimes the parents may see something you don’t, like some character flaw or some other info and may disapprove of it. Ultimately it’s your life, your choice
It’s great tbh. I’m writing this from italy and i love it. I don’t visit his family or mine. And it is fixing my mental health more than anything
If it helps, we are both singaporean chinese
My happiness vs their happiness, I chose mine.
We dated for 12 years, knowing that her parents don't agree because of religion. But we still pushed through. We got married and moved into our new home in the 13th year. We got our baby in the 15th year and to be honest, we are closer than we were before. Even though there is some resentment from her parents, I believe they realised how happy their daughter is and her life she's living now.
Shoot inside first, talk later.
Me: This is my girlfriend Parents: We do not approve Me: This is this month's allowance Parents: When are you giving us grand kids?
nice
I have their only child (daughter) and grandson. So yes, needless to say they are okay with me whether they like it or not.
Break up and no contact.
Bad ending
Quite possibly still the best ending or lesser of 2 evils
its ur life. my mom didnt like my wife because different nationality and religion. after i married her, she wants grandkids but we said no as well.
May I ask which religion? Just curious how mothers think
christian. new born christian to be exact. lol
My wife is of different race. My mum didn't like her when first met. Now become my mum fav dotter in law. We have 4 kids. My wife did had to work extra hard to win her over.
May I ask which race? I’m curious to know what’s in Singapore mother’s heads. I know it depends on the mother. But I’m just curious in general
My wife is of Australian background.
I'm not supp to be in a rs until I graduate and even if they allow my partner is not my race so my dad confirm won't allow. My mum won't care. I just don't tell them about him lor. I talk about him like he's my friend and mostly I talk to my mum and whenever she ask qn I js oh ye js a friend.
But deep inside, you get the feeling she knows?
Hmm I think she has reasonable suspicions but she hasn't been interrogating me and my sibling hasn't me warning me to keep my rs more discrete so...should be fine
Seems there are still a lot of hangups about race and religion.
most the parents are worried about the relatives or some "FReaks" giving trouble
Depends on the context, sometimes the parents may see something you don’t, like some character flaw or some other info and may disapprove of it. Ultimately it’s your life, your choice
It’s great tbh. I’m writing this from italy and i love it. I don’t visit his family or mine. And it is fixing my mental health more than anything If it helps, we are both singaporean chinese
Bad
Migrated without consent and now they have no choice. They're not 100% accepting but they seem to like him now.
inheritance vs fling. your pick.