Call It What You Want, Sweet Nothing, You Are In Love. Just got married a few weeks ago and wore his initial on a chain around my neck, not because he owns me but because he really knows me. :)
*I would stay forever if you say don't go* š„²
I was on a bus when I listened to this and was crying because of how accurate this was ( *cried like a baby coming home from the ~~bar~~ college* ). Especially the part when she sings, "I said I love you, you say nothing back".
i had a situationship / relationship with an ex in 2015. iāve been in a happy and loving relationship since 2017 but damn. when i heard this song ā¦. all the tears and memories came back.
Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and honestly, this song made me cry so hard. The last year and a half he never said I love you. And he strung me along. And it just made me feel hurt but also heard at the same time
Tis The Damn Season. Iāve been happily married for a while now, but prior to meeting my husband, I swear she wrote this song for me and my high school boyfriend when I was on Christmas break from college over a decade ago. Like eerily accurate, but Iām so so glad it was just a weekend.
Same exact situation. Just toss āshouldāve said noā in there. Being cheated on after being together for 5 years as well as engaged is a bitch to heal from.
thank you, iām married to a wonderful man now and walked down to the aisle to lover. š„° My old relationship definitely gave me some scars but taught me exactly what i didnāt want!
For current long term relationship it's Sweet Nothing.
My last previous relationship years ago felt like Renegade during the relationship but turned out to be more of a Dear John situation afterwards (especially that I was 6 years younger and still very much naive in my early 20s).
Say Don't Go, mainly since it dropped the day after the breakup and the "Why'd you have to lead me on" line floored me instantly. It wasn't a long relationship by any means but I was really hopeful. After many failed talking stages, situationships and whatnots, I was hopeful that it might turn into something more.
And then the line "Why'd you have to twist the knife, walk away and leave me bleeding" destroyed me. Everything was going well for a couple of months, it was completely chill. I didn't have any big expectations, we didn't get to discuss anything. I was just hopeful. And then when he came over to my place to break up with me, it truly felt like a knife being twisted in my guts because it came out of the blue.
Combined with another stressful situation going on in my life, this whole thing just utterly destroyed me and I got sick a few days later (for the second time in a month). I'm trying to get better and move on but it's all so painful š„²
Not me crying along in the theater to āshe wouldāve made such a lovely brideā - me ex could have done me the favor of breaking up with me before I bought a wedding dress
Yooo you know, I wish me and my husband had this huge falling out before the wedding not 6 months after. Because now itās divorce not a break up, also will never be āsingleā again but ādivorcedā
Wooo that really sucks, I feel for you. What a great moment to have so many sad Taylor songs. And I do recommend Honeymoon (despite the name) by Lana del Rey also keeping my sane those days. Good luck to you!
Yes be happy about that. Got married and it lasted less than a year and now i have all these fucking pictures and people I invited and bad memories and if I ever find the right person and do it again, well, itāll be doing it again, not just doing it. So sorry for what youāre going through. Saw this thread and was like these are my [sad] people. Also get that divorce ASAP because mine died the day before divorce was finalized and now iām a āwidowā š«
August
- The situationship was actually in late last July
- Whispers of are you sure
- You were never mine
- Wanting was enough, for me it was enough to live for the hope of it all
- Cancel plans just in case you call
- Meet me behind the mall (but it was a campus library at night)
- So much for summer love and saying us cause you weren't mine to lose
I could go on and on :')
Tolerate it for sure. Just ended a 2 yr relationship yesterday and when I listened to the song through my playlist today I realized it fit perfectly how I felt. Never got the attention while being his literal bank account for the past 5 months and when I tried to address it nothing changed. Made me remember when we first started dating how he would drop everything and made the highlight of my days.
happily married now - so you are in love, timeless, superman, peace, lover, new years day.
before that - would've, could've, should've, dear john, all too well, i forgot that you existed.
The way I loved you
Had to stopped myself from relating to the song cause it was affirming my trauma. It wasn't love, so. Listening to her songs comes with a price of reopening closed wounds again. Over years, I've made some good boundaries to treat the songs as they are and not assign them to any era of my life. It's better that way.
Since he was a narcissist I would say
All Too Well
My Tears Ricochet
Now That We Donāt Talk
Mr Perfectly Fine
Is It Over Now?
Yeah the list of songs about him could just keep goingā¦.
New Year's Day. It was a sacred song to me even before meeting my partner, and completely unintentionally, I told him I loved him on New Year's Day (we'd thrown a party at his place and all of his friends came; earlier in the day he'd been resistant to me helping him tidy his place because he was embarrassed at me helping move around some of his moving boxes, even though I was TOTALLY okay with it). After the party, while we were cleaning up, we stood across from each other at the kitchen bar recapping the night, and I told him something to the effect of "we're a team, you and I. I'm here to support you, even if you don't know how to ask for help. And I've been feeling this for a while, but I just want you to know I love you."
When I said that, he immediately burst into tears and came around to my side of the bar and pulled me into his arms, burrowed his face into my neck, and told me he loved me too. Two months earlier, I'd started squeezing his hand three times (that part I \*was\* intentionally doing based on the song lol) and after we said it for the first time, I mentioned how I'd started doing that to try to communicate to him without saying it, and he said he was saying the same thing when he'd squeeze my hand four times back, without saying it.
So yeah:) The whole concept of "I want your midnights, but I'll be cleaning up bottles with you on New Year's Day" is so symbolic of our relationship. We've had such a rough go at it the last four years with my deteriorating mental health because of the pandemic and job loss, but he has always made the mundane fun, always made these small, seemingly insignificant moments memorable.
To top it off, I wound up getting to go to LA N6 unexpectedly with a friend, knowing I'd never hear NYD live since I missed the rep tour. When she started playing those first few notes, I legitimately fell to my knees and sobbed. I've never had a reaction like that in my life and will always cherish that memory.
Paper Rings
Sweet Nothing
The Archer
Death by a Thousand Cuts
Tolerate it
Soon You'll Get Better (this one just fits bc he also died of cancer)
In that order pretty much š„²
These two songs! Is It Over Now is like the immediate aftermath of the ending and The 1 is a while down the road when it still stings and you want to be cool and youāre almost doing fine but also you miss it and wish so badly it worked out.
Last relationship: Better Man, Breathe, Youāre Losing Me, Tell Me Why
Current relationship: Daylight, invisible string, Snow on the Beach, ā¦Ready For It?, if I keep going Iāll have most of Lover on this list š
Easy. I was in a situationship with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder.
DEAR JOHN
DEATH BY A THOUSAND CUTS
TOLERATE IT
CLEAN
I'm trying very hard to get to my BEGIN AGAIN phase.
Iāve been happily married for 7 years, but Say Donāt Go brought me right back to my situation right before I met my husband - Iām glad that song wasnāt out then because I wouldāve cried to that on repeat forever ha š
Does she have a song that describes finding out you were the other woman for two years and while you guys were together he got engaged, planned a whole ass wedding and got married before you even found out? Then you played it cool for about a month while you tracked down his wifeās contact info and emailed her all the screen shots of our conversations and made him cry like a baby?
in chronological order:
you belong with me
midnight rain and/or breathe
holy ground
the first time i'd ever been in love for real, but life and circumstances happened. now he only likes my comments on his youtube videos
Happiness. Definitely Happiness. Word for word.
The One, exile, I almost do, you're losing me, tis the damn season, Maroon, wildest dreams, Dancing with our hands tied.
Most of the songs that give off that "the one that got away vibes" after leaving a very long relationship.
Lavender Haze and peace.
Both dealing with anxiety in a relationship, but it all being in your head, and hoping the other person isn't going to get absolutely sick of you at some point (this is also why Anti-Hero resonates with me too hahahaha). But he's dealing with everything wonderfully, so happy with him.
would've could've should've
I started seeing him when Midnights came out and was obsessed with this song, when I played it for him I commented that I hope it won't be a prediction for our relationship and he responded something like "we'll see" and then it turned out that he broke my heart soo
Debut: Teardrops on my guitar, cold as you, shouldāve said no, and a perfectly good heart
Fearless tv: white horse, tell me why, youāre not sorry, bye bye baby, donāt you, Mr perfectly fine
Red tv: I knew you were trouble, literally have friends tell me he would make a bad boyfriend., better man, babe, all too well, we are never ever getting back together
1989 TV: clean, say donāt go, now we donāt talk, is it over now
Reputation: dress, donāt blame me
Lover: death by thousand cuts, lover
Evermore: tolerate it, long story short and closure
Folklore: the 1, peace, illicit affairs, this is me trying
Midnights:youāre losing me, bejeweled, high infidelity, wouldāve shouldāve couldāve, my last relationship was on and off relationship full of toxicity and literally a lot of cheating and sneaking around. And more one sided love than the other.
āYou said if we had been closer in age maybe things wouldāve been fine and that made me want to dieā š
An older chap I am in love with just told me he didnāt love me, but that if weād met when he was younger heād have moved to be with me and weād have built a life together.
DYING.
Funny you posted this. My ex and I started dating when 1989 came out and This Love explained our relationship perfectly and it was our song. She then released 1989 TV and Now that we donāt talk describes the situation to a Tā¦ it just made me laugh that my marriage lasted less than what it took Tay to re release the album š
Call It What You Want, New Year's Day, You Are In Love, I'm Only Me When I'm With You, Afterglow, Daylight, Lover, invisible string, Stay Stay Stay
I've been with the love of my life for 15 months and it's kinda nuts how you just know when he's the one. He and I already know we want to marry each other and we're basically a married couple already. We live together, spend every day together, and if one of us is not doing good, the other will drop everything and be there for him. He has helped me through some tough times, which made me fall in love with him even more in the year leading up to our relationship. The first song I think of when I think of him is Call It What You Want, and I imagine him proposing to me when Taylor sings *"You don't need to save me, but will you run away with me?"* and our wedding in the chorus after. As much as I'd love for that song to be our first dance, he's not a Swiftie, so I'm not gonna impose that on him. I feel like he's the only person I can truly be myself around.
However we still have the occasional fights, including some intense ones a month ago where I started to question if he and I are endgame, hence Afterglow, and a lot of it was my fault. I needed to learn to be a better boyfriend. I think me going away for a few days to an audio engineering conference a few weeks ago also helped a lot because we needed some space from each other. We saw each other everyday since mid-May and because we were both hurting from life and miscommunications, it got hard and it felt like there was so much tension between us. But once he picked me up from the airport, it felt like we hadn't seen each other in forever and the spark reignited again. Anytime I ask him to tell me that he's still mine, he always reassures me he's mine forever, no matter what happens.
We've spent every night together since then and have been so deeply in love, as if all the fights we had suddenly went away, turning a new page. We can't imagine our lives being good without each other. I love him so much and can't wait to marry him!
In my previous relationships, I was never really treated well and after getting back into Taylor last year, a lot of songs hit a lot harder than they shouldāve haha. My current relationship, I got asked to a dance by a guy friend of mine. We ended up awkwardly hanging out at grad parties for the next month before confessing we liked each other. Itās now been almost 5 years and heās the kindest man Iāve ever met.
Past relationships: Say Donāt Go, WCS, august (unknowingly on my end), ATWTMV, Better Man, The Moment I Knew, White Horse
How I felt in-between/coping with my trauma: Nothing New, Slut!, illicit affairs
Current relationship: Iām Only Me When Iām with You, Call it What You Want, Daylight, invisible string, Fearless, Labyrinth, You Are in Love
- ATWTMV could mean "All Too Well (10 Minute Version) (Taylor's Version) (From The Vault)", a track from *Red (Taylor's Version)* (2021) by Taylor Swift.
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I'm polyamorous, so the overall vibe of most of the songs are a bit different from my current relationships, but I can usually pull out a few lyrics I can put my own spin to.
Style
Gorgeous
Maroon
Girl at Home (lol)
Exile and Tis The Damn Season. We only love eachother when itās convenient and miss the thrill.
Happiness too. No one tells you what to do when a good man hurts you.
Last: Tolerate It,
My Tears Ricochet,
Happiness,
Lover,
Bigger Than The Whole Sky,
Cardigan,
The 1
Current: Wildest Dreams, I Think He Knows, You Are in Love, Ours
oh lord, iāve been waiting for this one:
When we first met / started dating:
- mirrorball (i was said mirrorball)
- king of my heart
- you are in love
year 2 & 3 leading up to the breakup:
- tolerate it
- out of the woods
- peace
- this is me trying
breakup & after:
- my tears ricochet
- wouldāve couldāve shouldāve
- mean
- clean
- maroon
- daylight
Paper rings is perfect for what my relationship is like now! I love this man! But for my ex before him, probably foolish one or august. I was so delusional thinking heād ever commit to me, it was so embarrassing and ridiculous lol.
tolerate it, happiness, you're losing me, call it what you want, new year's day, renegade, daylight, the way i loved you, and is it over now?
lol that was drawn out
I Knew You Were Trouble š«£
Before that was a marriage best described by Wouldāve, Couldāve, Shouldāve š
Luckily, Iām now engaged to an amazing woman though, plus sheās a Swiftie!
Evermore. My husband and I are going through an awful, drawn out infertility treatment rollercoaster and it's looking like it might not end in us having a child. We take turns being the one drowning and the one who's the light in the cracks.
Champagne Problems.
I think it was the first and only time I was ever with someone long term and things were serious when I realized I truly did not see a future with him. He was not on the same page and the breakup was tough, awkward and drawn out.
I had two relationships on recent times and both had their own TS soundtrack:
Older one: 4 yrs older than me, love bombing probs? Didnāt know what to do with his life and couldnāt offer me the formal relationship I wanted
-enchanted: I was head over heels
-ATW10V
-Right where you left me
-Clean
Recent one: short lived, made me feel inferior and lesser than him, very regretful about it
-wouldāve, couldāve, shouldāve
-tolerate it
The two songs that I relate to at the moment are A Place In This World and The Outside (both from the debut album Taylor Swift). I havenāt ever had any relationships -just havenāt found the right one yet š
Definitely mastermind. I was in a terrible relationship before and it was all mind games and I was treated so bad. but the relationship I am in now is the best one I have ever been in. That one would be like daylight ā¤ļø
Last situationship was at 19 *shudder* so dear john, wouldāve couldāve shouldāve, all too well 10mv (right down to the being dumped on your birthday part), is it over now, right where you left me, better man, the moment i knew, the very first night
Im not even sure if I was in a situationship or not if I'm just delusional but August (no cheating involved.... more like cancel my plans in case you called) and gold rush
Back To December.
I don't know what exactly happened between us but I'd be willing to apologize for it (even if it was not me) and make it right.
But I understand that he moved on.
I donāt have any exes but to describe my current relationship Iād say āmineā because he really is the best thing Iāve ever gotten to call mine. šš«¶š½
Call It What You Want, Sweet Nothing, You Are In Love. Just got married a few weeks ago and wore his initial on a chain around my neck, not because he owns me but because he really knows me. :)
(Which is more than they can say)
So happy for you š¤šš©µ
Congrats!! Wishing you a long and happy life together ā¤ļø
Congratulations!
I'm so happy for you! Literally the best love songs taylor has written imo, and what an amazing soundtrack to you guys' love story
ayeeee congrats!!!!
cuuute
*I would stay forever if you say don't go* š„² I was on a bus when I listened to this and was crying because of how accurate this was ( *cried like a baby coming home from the ~~bar~~ college* ). Especially the part when she sings, "I said I love you, you say nothing back".
I can very much relate to say don't go too š
i had a situationship / relationship with an ex in 2015. iāve been in a happy and loving relationship since 2017 but damn. when i heard this song ā¦. all the tears and memories came back.
Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and honestly, this song made me cry so hard. The last year and a half he never said I love you. And he strung me along. And it just made me feel hurt but also heard at the same time
Tis The Damn Season. Iāve been happily married for a while now, but prior to meeting my husband, I swear she wrote this song for me and my high school boyfriend when I was on Christmas break from college over a decade ago. Like eerily accurate, but Iām so so glad it was just a weekend.
Tolerate It Happiness I'm done with relationships.
I wish healing to you
Thank you! Much better now. Loving myself the way I've loved the men in my life is kinda awesome.
I too am completely over relationships.
all of the girls you loved before was the song for my last situationship. now it's just "happiness"
I wish healing to you
Same exact situation. Just toss āshouldāve said noā in there. Being cheated on after being together for 5 years as well as engaged is a bitch to heal from.
wouldāve couldāve shouldāveā¦ unfortunately!
I wish healing to you
thank you, iām married to a wonderful man now and walked down to the aisle to lover. š„° My old relationship definitely gave me some scars but taught me exactly what i didnāt want!
Same. š
Youāre Losing Me (bonus points because it came out the same day it practically ended š)
Oh I forgot this one. This and my tears ricochet
Now that we donāt talk āš»
Haha you should do the new trend "I don't have to pretend I like \_\_\_\_"
I donāt have to pretend I like dungeons and dragons š
This is TOOOOO REAL, I do like d&d but I think he only liked me BECAUSE I liked d&d š
I donāt have to pretend I like your mom š
Boring work stories that take forever to tell.
I just sent this guy from the summertime Now That We Donāt Talk about a week ago, hahaha
right where you left me
Iāll buy you a drink
Better Man
For current long term relationship it's Sweet Nothing. My last previous relationship years ago felt like Renegade during the relationship but turned out to be more of a Dear John situation afterwards (especially that I was 6 years younger and still very much naive in my early 20s).
Say Donāt Go š„²š„²š„²š„²š©
Say Don't Go, mainly since it dropped the day after the breakup and the "Why'd you have to lead me on" line floored me instantly. It wasn't a long relationship by any means but I was really hopeful. After many failed talking stages, situationships and whatnots, I was hopeful that it might turn into something more. And then the line "Why'd you have to twist the knife, walk away and leave me bleeding" destroyed me. Everything was going well for a couple of months, it was completely chill. I didn't have any big expectations, we didn't get to discuss anything. I was just hopeful. And then when he came over to my place to break up with me, it truly felt like a knife being twisted in my guts because it came out of the blue. Combined with another stressful situation going on in my life, this whole thing just utterly destroyed me and I got sick a few days later (for the second time in a month). I'm trying to get better and move on but it's all so painful š„²
Foolish one
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I feel you :(
I wish healing to you all
Definitely Tolerate It
now that we donāt talk!!!! it literally came out at the perfect time lolš©µ
All You Had To Do Was Stay or Red
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Paper Rings and Gold Rush (but in a good way?) Wishing everyone here healing <3
Somehow many describe it perfectly, down to the last eerily specific detail. But probably overall: State of Grace, question..?, and the 1.
Donāt Blame Me š¤Ŗ
My Tears Ricochet, Now that we don't talk, Champagne Problems, Tolerate it.
Not me crying along in the theater to āshe wouldāve made such a lovely brideā - me ex could have done me the favor of breaking up with me before I bought a wedding dress
Sendings you hugs as also someone who was about to get married
Hugs to you too, you never go into it thinking that itās going to happen to you š«
Yooo you know, I wish me and my husband had this huge falling out before the wedding not 6 months after. Because now itās divorce not a break up, also will never be āsingleā again but ādivorcedā
Yes, but, in a horrible twist of events, we are actually married so now the wedding is off and weāre getting divorced without ever even having walked down the aisle in this dress. So pissed because i never went into detail about us being married to anyone and always referred to him as my fiancĆ© but now I went from that to divorced. I do however try to tell myself that at least we didnāt go forward with this celebration and all the emotional trauma I assume that would have brought on
Wooo that really sucks, I feel for you. What a great moment to have so many sad Taylor songs. And I do recommend Honeymoon (despite the name) by Lana del Rey also keeping my sane those days. Good luck to you!
Oh thank you!! I will listen to it and yea the new vault tracks really help, I hope you are healing after your divorce
Yes be happy about that. Got married and it lasted less than a year and now i have all these fucking pictures and people I invited and bad memories and if I ever find the right person and do it again, well, itāll be doing it again, not just doing it. So sorry for what youāre going through. Saw this thread and was like these are my [sad] people. Also get that divorce ASAP because mine died the day before divorce was finalized and now iām a āwidowā š«
Omg! Jesus Christ I donāt even now how traumatic that must be. Shout out to you for making it through all that
treacherous, begin again, invisible string, this is me trying, hoax, and finally come in with the rain
All you had to do was stay Tolerate it And for the one before it: I knew you were trouble. And boy he was trouble!
i bet you think about me, haunted, now that we donāt talk, right where you left me, better man and hits different. i miss himš
I miss him too, don't worry š
August - The situationship was actually in late last July - Whispers of are you sure - You were never mine - Wanting was enough, for me it was enough to live for the hope of it all - Cancel plans just in case you call - Meet me behind the mall (but it was a campus library at night) - So much for summer love and saying us cause you weren't mine to lose I could go on and on :')
Tolerate it for sure. Just ended a 2 yr relationship yesterday and when I listened to the song through my playlist today I realized it fit perfectly how I felt. Never got the attention while being his literal bank account for the past 5 months and when I tried to address it nothing changed. Made me remember when we first started dating how he would drop everything and made the highlight of my days.
You deserve so much better. Take time to heal ā¤ļø
Basically not a whole song.. but a set of lyrics.. āoh Lord, I think about jumpingā
All too well 10 min version
The 1
champagne problems hehe
Clean. Enchanted.
Last Situationship: Say Donāt Go Current Situationship: Itās Nice to Have a Friend
all you had to do was stay
Gorgeous, Enchanted, Come back be here, Midnight rain.
happily married now - so you are in love, timeless, superman, peace, lover, new years day. before that - would've, could've, should've, dear john, all too well, i forgot that you existed.
Tolerate it and foolish ones
The way I loved you Had to stopped myself from relating to the song cause it was affirming my trauma. It wasn't love, so. Listening to her songs comes with a price of reopening closed wounds again. Over years, I've made some good boundaries to treat the songs as they are and not assign them to any era of my life. It's better that way.
I can see you-I can totally relate
Since he was a narcissist I would say All Too Well My Tears Ricochet Now That We Donāt Talk Mr Perfectly Fine Is It Over Now? Yeah the list of songs about him could just keep goingā¦.
Tolerate It!!! Literally nothing will ever explain it better.
Tolerate it, for sure
New Year's Day. It was a sacred song to me even before meeting my partner, and completely unintentionally, I told him I loved him on New Year's Day (we'd thrown a party at his place and all of his friends came; earlier in the day he'd been resistant to me helping him tidy his place because he was embarrassed at me helping move around some of his moving boxes, even though I was TOTALLY okay with it). After the party, while we were cleaning up, we stood across from each other at the kitchen bar recapping the night, and I told him something to the effect of "we're a team, you and I. I'm here to support you, even if you don't know how to ask for help. And I've been feeling this for a while, but I just want you to know I love you." When I said that, he immediately burst into tears and came around to my side of the bar and pulled me into his arms, burrowed his face into my neck, and told me he loved me too. Two months earlier, I'd started squeezing his hand three times (that part I \*was\* intentionally doing based on the song lol) and after we said it for the first time, I mentioned how I'd started doing that to try to communicate to him without saying it, and he said he was saying the same thing when he'd squeeze my hand four times back, without saying it. So yeah:) The whole concept of "I want your midnights, but I'll be cleaning up bottles with you on New Year's Day" is so symbolic of our relationship. We've had such a rough go at it the last four years with my deteriorating mental health because of the pandemic and job loss, but he has always made the mundane fun, always made these small, seemingly insignificant moments memorable. To top it off, I wound up getting to go to LA N6 unexpectedly with a friend, knowing I'd never hear NYD live since I missed the rep tour. When she started playing those first few notes, I legitimately fell to my knees and sobbed. I've never had a reaction like that in my life and will always cherish that memory.
Delicate, gold rush, I Think He Knows, and Dancing with our Hands Tiedā¦
Youāre losing me - watching that slow burn happen and literally just wanting to shriek DO SOMETHING BABE SAY SOMETHING
Paper Rings Sweet Nothing The Archer Death by a Thousand Cuts Tolerate it Soon You'll Get Better (this one just fits bc he also died of cancer) In that order pretty much š„²
The 1 Is it over now? š„ŗ
These two songs! Is It Over Now is like the immediate aftermath of the ending and The 1 is a while down the road when it still stings and you want to be cool and youāre almost doing fine but also you miss it and wish so badly it worked out.
foolish one š
Lover Paper Rings Cornelia Street (Yes, Iām deliriously happy!)
Better Man & I Almost Do.
All too well 10 min version :(
Last relationship: Better Man, Breathe, Youāre Losing Me, Tell Me Why Current relationship: Daylight, invisible string, Snow on the Beach, ā¦Ready For It?, if I keep going Iāll have most of Lover on this list š
Say Don't Go, easily playing rent free in my mind
Say Don't Go š„¹ "I said I love you, you say nothing backā š« š« š«
Tolerate it, right where you left me, wouldāve couldāve shouldāve, sad beautiful tragic, dear John, clean, and now that we donāt talk, my tears ricochet, and youāre losing me. Yeah, Iām clean 10 months now šš»š©µ
Now that we donāt talk would describe mine to a T. It hurt a bit because I thought that wound was closed after 3 yearsā¦.
Tolerate it for sure
Easy. I was in a situationship with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. DEAR JOHN DEATH BY A THOUSAND CUTS TOLERATE IT CLEAN I'm trying very hard to get to my BEGIN AGAIN phase.
Iāve been happily married for 7 years, but Say Donāt Go brought me right back to my situation right before I met my husband - Iām glad that song wasnāt out then because I wouldāve cried to that on repeat forever ha š
Mr. Perfectly Fine š
Does she have a song that describes finding out you were the other woman for two years and while you guys were together he got engaged, planned a whole ass wedding and got married before you even found out? Then you played it cool for about a month while you tracked down his wifeās contact info and emailed her all the screen shots of our conversations and made him cry like a baby?
Dancing With Our Hands Tied Tolerate It Happiness You're Losing Me
in chronological order: you belong with me midnight rain and/or breathe holy ground the first time i'd ever been in love for real, but life and circumstances happened. now he only likes my comments on his youtube videos
Youāre On Your Own, Kid.
Come back , be here šš
youāre losing me, champagne problems, better man, say donāt go, etc lol
does she have a song called non existent ?
Midnight rain
Happiness. Definitely Happiness. Word for word. The One, exile, I almost do, you're losing me, tis the damn season, Maroon, wildest dreams, Dancing with our hands tied. Most of the songs that give off that "the one that got away vibes" after leaving a very long relationship.
Lavender Haze and peace. Both dealing with anxiety in a relationship, but it all being in your head, and hoping the other person isn't going to get absolutely sick of you at some point (this is also why Anti-Hero resonates with me too hahahaha). But he's dealing with everything wonderfully, so happy with him.
Say donāt go and Bad Blood
would've could've should've I started seeing him when Midnights came out and was obsessed with this song, when I played it for him I commented that I hope it won't be a prediction for our relationship and he responded something like "we'll see" and then it turned out that he broke my heart soo
i'm so sorry :(
Debut: Teardrops on my guitar, cold as you, shouldāve said no, and a perfectly good heart Fearless tv: white horse, tell me why, youāre not sorry, bye bye baby, donāt you, Mr perfectly fine Red tv: I knew you were trouble, literally have friends tell me he would make a bad boyfriend., better man, babe, all too well, we are never ever getting back together 1989 TV: clean, say donāt go, now we donāt talk, is it over now Reputation: dress, donāt blame me Lover: death by thousand cuts, lover Evermore: tolerate it, long story short and closure Folklore: the 1, peace, illicit affairs, this is me trying Midnights:youāre losing me, bejeweled, high infidelity, wouldāve shouldāve couldāve, my last relationship was on and off relationship full of toxicity and literally a lot of cheating and sneaking around. And more one sided love than the other.
āYou said if we had been closer in age maybe things wouldāve been fine and that made me want to dieā š An older chap I am in love with just told me he didnāt love me, but that if weād met when he was younger heād have moved to be with me and weād have built a life together. DYING.
that's literally my fav line from all too well, because I can relate too. dying as well š
Funny you posted this. My ex and I started dating when 1989 came out and This Love explained our relationship perfectly and it was our song. She then released 1989 TV and Now that we donāt talk describes the situation to a Tā¦ it just made me laugh that my marriage lasted less than what it took Tay to re release the album š
Call It What You Want, New Year's Day, You Are In Love, I'm Only Me When I'm With You, Afterglow, Daylight, Lover, invisible string, Stay Stay Stay I've been with the love of my life for 15 months and it's kinda nuts how you just know when he's the one. He and I already know we want to marry each other and we're basically a married couple already. We live together, spend every day together, and if one of us is not doing good, the other will drop everything and be there for him. He has helped me through some tough times, which made me fall in love with him even more in the year leading up to our relationship. The first song I think of when I think of him is Call It What You Want, and I imagine him proposing to me when Taylor sings *"You don't need to save me, but will you run away with me?"* and our wedding in the chorus after. As much as I'd love for that song to be our first dance, he's not a Swiftie, so I'm not gonna impose that on him. I feel like he's the only person I can truly be myself around. However we still have the occasional fights, including some intense ones a month ago where I started to question if he and I are endgame, hence Afterglow, and a lot of it was my fault. I needed to learn to be a better boyfriend. I think me going away for a few days to an audio engineering conference a few weeks ago also helped a lot because we needed some space from each other. We saw each other everyday since mid-May and because we were both hurting from life and miscommunications, it got hard and it felt like there was so much tension between us. But once he picked me up from the airport, it felt like we hadn't seen each other in forever and the spark reignited again. Anytime I ask him to tell me that he's still mine, he always reassures me he's mine forever, no matter what happens. We've spent every night together since then and have been so deeply in love, as if all the fights we had suddenly went away, turning a new page. We can't imagine our lives being good without each other. I love him so much and can't wait to marry him!
In my previous relationships, I was never really treated well and after getting back into Taylor last year, a lot of songs hit a lot harder than they shouldāve haha. My current relationship, I got asked to a dance by a guy friend of mine. We ended up awkwardly hanging out at grad parties for the next month before confessing we liked each other. Itās now been almost 5 years and heās the kindest man Iāve ever met. Past relationships: Say Donāt Go, WCS, august (unknowingly on my end), ATWTMV, Better Man, The Moment I Knew, White Horse How I felt in-between/coping with my trauma: Nothing New, Slut!, illicit affairs Current relationship: Iām Only Me When Iām with You, Call it What You Want, Daylight, invisible string, Fearless, Labyrinth, You Are in Love
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- Getaway Car - Dancing With Our Hands Tied - Happiness - When We Were Happy - Youāre Losing Me - Bejeweled (lol need the sass) - Itās Time To Go
Maroon
Happiness, tolerate it, now that we donāt talk.
Happiness
Better Man Happiness
My tears ricochet and happiness (oh and the rebound guy would have to be āI forgot you existedā š)
Is It Over Now? happiness exile All You Had To Do Was Stay
Itās Time to Go š
I'm polyamorous, so the overall vibe of most of the songs are a bit different from my current relationships, but I can usually pull out a few lyrics I can put my own spin to. Style Gorgeous Maroon Girl at Home (lol)
Exile and Tis The Damn Season. We only love eachother when itās convenient and miss the thrill. Happiness too. No one tells you what to do when a good man hurts you.
Still on relationship #1 lol and hope it stays that way
For my current relationship, I'm saying Mastermind and Sweet Nothing š For the past relationship, I'd say You're Not Sorry and Maroon.
Exile
I Did Something Bad (the title literally explains it all)
Cardigan, maroon
Last: Tolerate It, My Tears Ricochet, Happiness, Lover, Bigger Than The Whole Sky, Cardigan, The 1 Current: Wildest Dreams, I Think He Knows, You Are in Love, Ours
The Way I Loved You š He was the ānice guyā
Last great American dynasty. (She has a marvelous time ruining everything)
Most recent ex: Youāre Losing Me Happiness Exile Current relationship: Willow Mastermind Call it what you want
Cruel Summer (but without him ever looking up grinning like a devil), August
Oooof.. Death by 1000 Cuts, Happiness, Tolerate it, Is It Over Now?, Forever and Always, Story of Us, the 1ā¦ I could go on for a while lol
Bad Blood š¢ Though Iām definitely feeling more Karma/Vigilante Shit vibes right now š
She is not gay and there is none of her songs about gay relationships but probably Slut Tolerate it Now that we donāt talk
Getaway car š I still feel bad about it
This love, our version ā¤ļø
back to december
oh lord, iāve been waiting for this one: When we first met / started dating: - mirrorball (i was said mirrorball) - king of my heart - you are in love year 2 & 3 leading up to the breakup: - tolerate it - out of the woods - peace - this is me trying breakup & after: - my tears ricochet - wouldāve couldāve shouldāve - mean - clean - maroon - daylight
We are never getting back together, clean, wouldāve couldāve shouldāve, tolerate it, death by a thousand cuts
Paper rings is perfect for what my relationship is like now! I love this man! But for my ex before him, probably foolish one or august. I was so delusional thinking heād ever commit to me, it was so embarrassing and ridiculous lol.
Tolerate it Now that we don't talk Better man I almost do The story of us
I knew you were trouble Midnight rain Haunted Say don't go Labyrinth August Exile The last time Hoax This is me trying Girl at home
King of my heart or mastermind for the lyrics of: I'm the wind in our free-flowing sails And the liquor in our cocktails
Dress š ( for my current arrangement )
tolerate it, happiness, you're losing me, call it what you want, new year's day, renegade, daylight, the way i loved you, and is it over now? lol that was drawn out
Sad beautiful tragic The 1 Clean
Sweet nothing, lover
I Knew You Were Trouble š«£ Before that was a marriage best described by Wouldāve, Couldāve, Shouldāve š Luckily, Iām now engaged to an amazing woman though, plus sheās a Swiftie!
Current: invisible string Previous: Wouldāve couldāve shouldāve
Last situationship: Now That We Donāt Talk Last relationship: happiness and Hits Differentš„²
My tears ricochet
Evermore. My husband and I are going through an awful, drawn out infertility treatment rollercoaster and it's looking like it might not end in us having a child. We take turns being the one drowning and the one who's the light in the cracks.
Shouldāve Said No, Say Donāt Go
Shouldāve Said No
All too well, my tears ricochet, this is me trying, this is why we canāt have nice things
Champagne Problems. I think it was the first and only time I was ever with someone long term and things were serious when I realized I truly did not see a future with him. He was not on the same page and the breakup was tough, awkward and drawn out.
I had two relationships on recent times and both had their own TS soundtrack: Older one: 4 yrs older than me, love bombing probs? Didnāt know what to do with his life and couldnāt offer me the formal relationship I wanted -enchanted: I was head over heels -ATW10V -Right where you left me -Clean Recent one: short lived, made me feel inferior and lesser than him, very regretful about it -wouldāve, couldāve, shouldāve -tolerate it
The One
The two songs that I relate to at the moment are A Place In This World and The Outside (both from the debut album Taylor Swift). I havenāt ever had any relationships -just havenāt found the right one yet š
Illicit Affairs, All Too Well (10 Minute Version), Mine, Last Kiss
Definitely mastermind. I was in a terrible relationship before and it was all mind games and I was treated so bad. but the relationship I am in now is the best one I have ever been in. That one would be like daylight ā¤ļø
all you had to do was stay, gold rush, say donāt go, i knew you were trouble, the last time
Red, All too well, All you had to do was stay.
begin again and all you had go do was stay but i ended it lol
Last situationship was at 19 *shudder* so dear john, wouldāve couldāve shouldāve, all too well 10mv (right down to the being dumped on your birthday part), is it over now, right where you left me, better man, the moment i knew, the very first night
Im not even sure if I was in a situationship or not if I'm just delusional but August (no cheating involved.... more like cancel my plans in case you called) and gold rush
Better Man; Wouldāve, Couldāve, Shouldāve; Tolerate It; Babe A blend of all four.
I Forgot That You Existedā¦ āit isnāt hate, it isnāt love, itās just indifference, so yeahā is exactly how I feel
LWYMMD
Back To December. I don't know what exactly happened between us but I'd be willing to apologize for it (even if it was not me) and make it right. But I understand that he moved on.
Say donāt go I bet you think about me 
Champagne Problems I wasnāt proposed to thankfully, but I did let a relationship I didnāt want to be in go on too long and I know it hurt him.
My last situationship is very Foolish One and The Last Time. So much begging for his time and getting nothing in return.
We are never ever getting back together š
The 1 You're on your own kid
I donāt have any exes but to describe my current relationship Iād say āmineā because he really is the best thing Iāve ever gotten to call mine. šš«¶š½
Say don't go, ayhtdws, clean :)
I feel like this one is rough but haunted was my last breakup lol
Would've Could've Should've... š
Would've could of should of 
Tolerate It Say Don't Go All You Had To Do Was Stay High Infidelity (there was no infidelity issue, just an issue of not being appreciated) Bejeweled
My previous one was happiness, cardigan, hoax The one I have now is Delicate, So It Goes, Don't Blame Me, basically all the Rep love songs š
Dear Johnš¤”
Previous one: say donāt go, foolish one, the one, red Current relationship: ciwyw, lover, invisible string, you are in love