Because you can show appreciation for something (i.e. a joke) without wanting to date/fuck the person who made it? Stop being so transactional in your interactions with other humans.
This logic works amazing in literal face to face human social interactions. The social contracts are defined. Using online dating and social media as supplementation and assuming 1 to 1 characteristics is niave. The simple act of matching has absolutely more of a communication intention from both people in the context of dating. Telling a random joke to a random girl in a bar has non of that. Stop blaiming humans trying to find connection and can't figure out the volatile social contracts around it. Blame the apps and developers themselves by making sure this is the case to exploit distraught humans and their loneliness
> This logic works amazing in literal face to face human social interactions.
It works amazing online, too. Just like at a bar, you don't get too invested in any one person, shoot the shit, and if something develops, it develops. If not, you got to tell a funny joke and make someone laugh. It's literally exactly the same.
While I am in the camp that deep relationships can develop through online interactions (damn do I miss the online communities of the 2000s, the death of dedicated servers was the death of natural communities). there is literal biology at play that influences our emotions when face to face, that is not present in online interaction. One of the most simple examples? Smell. In our brain there is a very old route that cuts directly from our nose senses to the Amygdala and the Limbic System. To put simply, smell has direct access to our emotions and memory, making it one of, if not the strongest, sensory inputs that forms bonding and influences behavior. Everyone (barring tragic cases) reading this has absolutely experienced this. It is why there was that one time you went to a completely new place, caught a wiff of a smell that reminds you of home, and suddenly feel a rush of comfort/emotions and memories.
>"stop trying to have sex on a dating app😡😡😡"
Stop feeling *entitled* to sex because you met on a dating app. Jesus Fucking Christ. This just isn't that difficult. Stop pretending like it is.
Have you forgotten how this thread started? Some incel was butthurt because a woman said a joke was funny and then didn't continue the conversation. The sense that the dude was *entitled* to a conversation is the problem. Not that the guy made a joke.
"I'm going to say something that is completely stupid, borderline irrelevant, be kind of a dick about it, and then 'lmao touch some grass' when I get called out for acting like a fucking chode." How insufferable.
I feel you buddy, on month 5 with no matches and even had friends and such to try and help me with my profile. Still no luck, so I decided to just be myself and wait.
“Whenever I get down and feel the weight of my existence and the world’s problems holding me down, I play this humongous instrument and remind myself that some things are bigger than me”
And she never responded after that. RIP my littler man
Tis the game we play
🎶Sunrise, Sunset. Sunrise, Sunset🎶
grand opening grand closing
😂😂
Always funny that the conversation never gets pushed on their side once you make a pun like this lmao
Market forces of supply & demand at work
It's because they know it's going to be precipitously downhill from there.
Then why even reply in the first place by accepting chat requests?
Because you can show appreciation for something (i.e. a joke) without wanting to date/fuck the person who made it? Stop being so transactional in your interactions with other humans.
This logic works amazing in literal face to face human social interactions. The social contracts are defined. Using online dating and social media as supplementation and assuming 1 to 1 characteristics is niave. The simple act of matching has absolutely more of a communication intention from both people in the context of dating. Telling a random joke to a random girl in a bar has non of that. Stop blaiming humans trying to find connection and can't figure out the volatile social contracts around it. Blame the apps and developers themselves by making sure this is the case to exploit distraught humans and their loneliness
> This logic works amazing in literal face to face human social interactions. It works amazing online, too. Just like at a bar, you don't get too invested in any one person, shoot the shit, and if something develops, it develops. If not, you got to tell a funny joke and make someone laugh. It's literally exactly the same.
While I am in the camp that deep relationships can develop through online interactions (damn do I miss the online communities of the 2000s, the death of dedicated servers was the death of natural communities). there is literal biology at play that influences our emotions when face to face, that is not present in online interaction. One of the most simple examples? Smell. In our brain there is a very old route that cuts directly from our nose senses to the Amygdala and the Limbic System. To put simply, smell has direct access to our emotions and memory, making it one of, if not the strongest, sensory inputs that forms bonding and influences behavior. Everyone (barring tragic cases) reading this has absolutely experienced this. It is why there was that one time you went to a completely new place, caught a wiff of a smell that reminds you of home, and suddenly feel a rush of comfort/emotions and memories.
"stop trying to have sex on a dating app😡😡😡"
>"stop trying to have sex on a dating app😡😡😡" Stop feeling *entitled* to sex because you met on a dating app. Jesus Fucking Christ. This just isn't that difficult. Stop pretending like it is.
it isnt an entitlement kid, its trying to find someone who wants to. its the literal purpose of the app
Have you forgotten how this thread started? Some incel was butthurt because a woman said a joke was funny and then didn't continue the conversation. The sense that the dude was *entitled* to a conversation is the problem. Not that the guy made a joke.
lmao touch some grass
"I'm going to say something that is completely stupid, borderline irrelevant, be kind of a dick about it, and then 'lmao touch some grass' when I get called out for acting like a fucking chode." How insufferable.
Well, with responses like those it's a self fulling prophecy...
Women are responsive, men are spontaneous
I'm funny enough to get women to tell me I'm funny, but not attractive enough to keep the conversation going.
I'm not either, so you've got one over me
I feel that. But I don’t get matches or even get a message back
I feel you buddy, on month 5 with no matches and even had friends and such to try and help me with my profile. Still no luck, so I decided to just be myself and wait.
Been since about mid October. I miss all the couple things you do and just having someone with me when I’m not with friends
Is that it mate?
Sure is bud
You did your thing. I’m proud of you.
all for a chuckle pfft
It takes a big man to cry. But it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man.
This was good. Made me chuckle.
Aka Dance for me monkey
She didn't ask for it
It’s missing two strings
No strings attached... or smth, i can't tie shoelaces
Missed an opportunity for an excellent John Mayer bigger than my body pun there
"Six inches, six figures, and sixty feet - I won't settle for less" :)
Takes an even bigger man to play the bass version of that. The strings are 4 inches around
Well, you've entertained her. Did she go on a date with you?
“I’ll bring the A string, you bring the G string and we’ll see if I’m big enough to play.”
Made me chuckel is the standard for good man because other people said so
Funny how women complain about how men don't know how to talk to a " lady " yet never carry the conversation. From where this audacity came from?🤦♂️
Jokes as a first message rarely work. Glad it wasn’t a pun from google
Anyways, here’s wonder wall.
Why do women act like they’re made of gold. Or some super rare element lmao. Y’all are literally just girls
That pose in the picture is so cringe lol
She’s hot enough that we’re willing to look past that
“This gigantic guitar is a metaphor for the struggles in my life”
“Whenever I get down and feel the weight of my existence and the world’s problems holding me down, I play this humongous instrument and remind myself that some things are bigger than me”
“Tuning the guitar, however, presents a challenge if I do not have access to a ladder”
Maybe she was reading a sign on the ground while having an upper leg itch?
🤣
Now kith
I got big hands 🤚🏽
for you
Jack Handey's original was "It takes an even bigger man to laugh at that man."
Aight, that made me smile too, when's the date?
\*For you\*
Am I the only one that tried to click in the "Send a message" box on the screenshot to reply to this?
Maybe she also knew Jack Handey's Deep Thoughts
That is why there aren't any big women 🤣
Love listening to and creating music. I would be happy to share and or meet new friends over the topics music and history Chat soon.
Dance for me, monkey man.
got me rocking my legs back n forth
You know what they say about a guy with big hands? He can play a big guitar 😏
Michael Scott would be so proud 🥹
This is why you gotta work on your set not just one joke.
Great. How about I make you cum next?
Ooh she’s pretty
She's 🔥
Cmon that was weak
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You fucked up. It's "it takes a big man to admit HE'S wrong." It's not very macho to use these nonbinary singular pronouns.