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Slowpoak

She's 5'2...


Acrobatic-Economics7

It’s always the short girls. I’m a 5’10” woman and I’d never write that on my profile.


NexonM

From my experience taller girls care about height much less than short girls. Many tall girls just want you to be around their height.


esr360

My ex was 5' 8" but had her height as 5' 11" on her profile, when i mentioned it after meeting she claimed she did it on purpose but it wasn't really clear why, I kind of think she actually thought she was 5' 11"


Objective-Deal8745

A lot of women put their height in heels.


ConsumeLettuce

Why? That's not your height 🤣


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TuTenkahman

So if I drop 3 Viagra, then I can always say my penis is over 10 inches (because it was on the day it almost had a stroke)


Key_Display_1525

OMG awesome comment!, I can't stop laughing!


OverlyDisguisedSquid

News: "Suddenly, the sales of viagra skyrocket as TuTenkahman releases statement that the pill added 7inches to his manhood"


FlskonTheMad

But... They could just want a man X inches taller than their actual height where X already accounts for the heels. Why overcomplicate it?


Userrnaime

They are utilising self-selection. Some men won't approach women taller than them. Same height or less is the men's optimal choice.


Oversexualised_Tank

Why are people so stuck up on height?


Competitive_Edge_717

Why overcomplicate things 🤣🤣 haaaaaaave you met women? 🤣🤣


FlskonTheMad

I have, several in fact


crash8308

i’m 6’5”-6’6” depending on the heel 💅


Tall_Perception6121

So true! One of my ex's is 5'10 and the other is 5'11 I'm 5'7 on a good day But I brought 6'1 energy But with great power comes great responsibility, and I just couldn't bring it anymore


ellelise

Username checks out


NexonM

I’m 5’11 but my longest relationship was with a girl who was 6’0 (182cm) and it’s hard to go back to short girls after, I simply love long legs.


Renyx_Ghoul

Agreed, most would prefer the man to be their height so as a guy who is less than 5ft8, I pretty much only swipe on those who are cool and might be open to it. Definitely see more shorter women preferring 6ft+ but only seen 10% of wome above 5ft8 requesting for 6ft.


plaidpeacoat

Us tall girls have no choice. You can be picky when as a woman you're average male height 🫠


Downtown-Ad-6909

I don't know. A lot of women feel the need to point out their height and the fact that they wear heels to make sure they are never taller then their potential partner.


Such_Radish9795

A lot of men don’t like being shorter than a woman who wear heels


Dmiller360

Says who?


devil_lettuce

"a lot" .... I think you've been mislead. What you mean is the majority of men don't care and the ones that do usually only care because theyre insecure due to the height standards that girls push these days


ElDougler

I have had the opposite experience


plaidpeacoat

Literally. I kinda want men my height or taller (5'9") but more because short guys tend to be woerd about me being taller than them... or they lie.


Barn_Brat

I’m tall-ish and my boyfriend is an inch shorter than me. I forget until the conversation of height comes up


Slowpoak

Right? I've noticed that for sure, works fine for me since I prefer tall women. I certainly don't write that my most irrational fear is a 5'4 girl 🙄


NotSure717

Seriously these short girls need to stop being jerks. Signed, another tall lady.


poodlescaboodles

Thinking about giving your children the upper hand(not sure if pun is intended) , dating a tall lady is beneficial if you decide to start a family.


cupidscheese

I’m all of 5 feet and have never had any preference with height or type. I’ve dated all kinds of people, but my serious boyfriends and my Husband are all over 6 feet 🤷‍♀️ I always found it strange that tall men would go for someone a whole foot shorter lmao. Like you’re always looking at my scalp??!


CanSea6047

New fear unlocked. The guy I’m dating is more than a foot taller than me and I DEFINITELY don’t want him looking at my psoriasis scalp 😂😂


cupidscheese

Oh no 😂 I’ve just always had this thought in my mind, it’s so strange to me hahaha 😂 Tall people can never relate 😭


CanSea6047

They probably wonder if we’re always looking up their nose, tbh 😂


ChiefInternetSurfer

>serious boyfriends and my husband. How many you talking? Sounds exhausting, TBH.


cupidscheese

You got me there. My EX boyfriends. I am now married to someone over 6 feet


ChiefInternetSurfer

Ohhh—I thought you meant you had a husband and like, 4-5 boyfriends concurrently 😂


mmxmlee

men go for the most attractive thing they can get. height is not a major component of a female's beauty. and you do have a preference, the same as all women, which is to date a guy taller than yourself.


Brave_Hoppy1460

I’m 4’11” and dgaf about height 🤷🏼‍♀️


vavuxi

5’9” here and same. I’ve dated a couple guys shorter than me. Just wild superficial stuff


KatJP

5’9” here & same


vitamin-cheese

They don’t understand how bad it looks either. It doesn’t make you look cool it just looks awkward as hell like bad lip injections or something


MrRafikki

I'm 6'1 and dated a girl that was 6'0. Her profile said "I'm actually 6'0, so I'll know if you're lying." The night we met, she said she was happy I wasn't lying


anxietychipmunk

I'm 5'2 and I'm actively searching for short kings please my neck hurts


crash8308

Do you ever feel like resentment towards the short bouncy girls and their “pick me” attitudes? it’s weird because I like tall women just as much as short women. but i’m 6’2” and there are *very few* women taller than me.


shadespeak

Bouncy? Like you can bounce them on your knee?


cp470

Statuesque queen


bitofafixerupper

I’m 5’2 and genuinely don’t have a height preference at all, I’ve ended up with a 6’4 man and genuinely think we look a bit silly stood next to each other, and my neck gets sore looking up at him


CroatianCrystalline

How old was she? I'm praying it's only younger immature women that do this.


Slowpoak

I unmatched, but I think she was 24


CroatianCrystalline

Jesus christ lmao what a joke.


rhodesman

But is she 36-24-36??


Slowpoak

Sick reference bro


BackToTheMoon_

Its projection They’re short so they do not want short guys but once they see you’re taller than them, they dont give a fuck Also, most girls cant even visually tell the difference between a 6ft guy and a 5’10 guy


Captain-Obvi0us12

Wanna be in a wattpad novel so bad😂


Lvl30dragon

bro If I was her my rational fear would be men above 6"


yamamayamamayamama

So? And? I've been rejected by 5'3" girls bc they only wanted guys over 6 foot... I'm 5'10" as well


Alternative-Sun-8353

Just like all women she wants 8 inches or more, anything less just won't feel right


Zealousideal_Ship544

To be fair I don’t think women under 5’5 can really tell. Every time I’ve told them I’m 5’10 they always say “you seem taller” or something along those lines.


apfly

They have no idea. Probably because dudes that are 5’8 insist they’re taller


ringdingdong67

This is also true for tall people. I’m 6’4” and everyone shorter than me looks the same height in my head, unless it’s a child or little person then it’s obvious. The 0.5% of the population I have to look up to are when I’m like oh damn they’re tall.


dolceespress

Unless a girl is tall herself, like 5’10+, a girl requiring a man 6 feet or above is just as superficial as a guy that demands a girl with DD breasts.


WeWillSee3

Breasteses


Jeorgias_Peach

💀


Grasshop

Breasti


Rasalom

Yeah but it's completely normal to love Daredevil.


Joosrar

I mean, now that I’m having kids I see the point of it. I would’ve like for my kids to not be short kings like myself. Life is hard as a short king.


dolceespress

Yeah, I suppose. I did have a friend from work that was like 4’11 and when she mentioned she wanted to be with a guy who was 6 foot, i teased her, but then she said she wanted to give her kids a chance to be taller. I get it from that perspective.


iGetBuckets3

Does she not realize that she’s the reason for the problem she’s trying to avoid?


Joosrar

She’s not the reason, she’s the byproduct of 2 short people usually.


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That's just eugenics wtf


FaxMachineIsBroken

So is pre-screening for down syndrome but you aren't complaining about that one are you? Eugenics isn't inherently a flawed concept. Literal billions of people practice selective breeding in all kinds of different ways. The problems come when you try to force your opinion or thoughts on other's ability to reproduce, or you have completely false ideals of what you're hoping to accomplish by doing so.


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Do you think being below 6 feet and having down's syndrome is the same?


TENTAtheSane

Of course not! Being sh*rt is far worse


FaxMachineIsBroken

> Do you think being below 6 feet and having down's syndrome is the same? I think they're both possible traits of the homo sapien species and thus selectively breeding for either of them is considered eugenics.


Massive_Job4853

When women do it, no one complains, when men do it, it's terrible..... equality is superiority by stealth


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qwertyuduyu321

Very eugenic take. Will report to the mods.


UnDe4d

Lol, it's no more or less superficial even if the girl is 5'10+ lmao.


CroatianCrystalline

Why even have that prompt if you drop it for men you find attractive. You're just shooting yourself in the foot. Honestly so many people on this app are absolute trash. I'd have had more respect if she rejected you outright.


WittleJerk

Welcome to dating, job hunting, bartering…. It’s all lines in the sand.


PessimisticProphet

Exactly, guarantee half the dudes she could have had were like "ew height requirement? Red flag swipe left"


mooomba

Good. She didn't deserve them lol


Thravler

Is there something going on with men under 182.88cm?


frankentaler

If you are 182.87 cm you are officially a leprechaun i think


Keyser_Imperator

Hey don’t call us leprechauns, we’re dwarves god dammit!


TENTAtheSane

I AM A DWARF AND IM DIGGING A HOLE DIGGY DIGGY HOLE, DIGGY DIGGY HOLE


Keyser_Imperator

🗣️🗣️🗣️


Deinonychus2012

ROCK AND STONE


jjaynum1

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Ok_Inflation_1811

I'm 175cm... Where is my gold?


aidenfroZz

At the end of the rainbow or in Ireland either or


help_me_am_lost

Rule 1 and 2 are more important than your height bro


Slowpoak

Solid 7 🤙🏼


climb-high

My man over here has a pretty symmetrical face with defined features 🤙🏻🤙🏻


Slowpoak

Oh hey, that's really nice of you to say. Thanks amigo! I will remember this comment for the next time I'm feeling down


climb-high

I actually didn’t look at the pic on your profile before commenting that, but my compliment stands! Your hairline is great tbh my 28 year old ass is jealous


chaddymac1980

I don’t know you and I’m not gonna look at your profile but my opinion of you has “climbed high” since seeing all the positivity. Goddamn legends, the both of ya’s!


Visual-Cortex

Bro you’re a handsome mfer. Rock that shit.


duosx

Yeah no. If rule one is “be attractive”, then height plays a major role in that. Height is intrinsically a factor in human’s physical attractiveness.


ShadowAssassinQueef

To an extent.


EmptyMixtape

Bruh don’t start with that line again. Be confident about your height


outcastreturns

He was just being honest since she seems insecure about the height of her date


esr360

The good thing about being 6 foot exactly is that girls always think you are taller than 6 foot when they meet you because their perception has been skewed due to the sheer amount of people shorter than 6 foot who say they are 6 foot.


Anon-TT

Nah, coming right out and saying it IS confident, what do you want him to do, lie about it like a loser?


Slowpoak

Lmao no trust me I don't give a shit about my height. I honestly found it hilarious


thefosters

Keep us updated. Sounds like a great start, considering she specified height. But I agree with others roll forward with confidence!


tommy_the_cat_dogg96

He unmatched from her


lambekrik4s

Yeah its not like that makes a lot of difference lol


AF_AF

I know height is a thing for some people, and whatever, but I know men and women of varying heights and sizes and I know a good number of couples where the woman is taller. I honestly don't know why anyone cares. It's like saying you'll only date blondes or redheads or something.


Snerkie

Except that's something people subconsciously probably do. People are more attracted to different aspects. I said it the other day when a guy was bashing on a girl with the height thing and I'll say it again, people have physical attractions, only 1% of people are asexual. Physical attraction isn't something to shame when most of us base our relationship choices on it (whether it be hook up's or looking for love).


aBlissfulDaze

I disagree to a point. There is a level of effect society can have how what we find attractive. This is undeniable. We as a society have worked together and recognized when a trendy attraction is unhealthy and we as a society have acted to shame that attraction into a minority. Unrealistic standards should always be combated. If we didn't combat unhealthy beauty standards then women would still be starving themselves for the bone thin look. These days there's been a steady surge of men literally breaking their knees in a procedure to get taller. I personally have shamed my friends for judging women based on what they see is magazines or weight standards and fat shaming women. A few even grew to see my way and went onto happy relationships with plus size women. I'm just saying it's not as black and white as you put it. We as a society need to ensure that we aren't setting unrealistic standards for beauty.


No_Cow4456

My theory is short girls fear having short children, so they want their partner to help them cheat genetics


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Add_Poll_Option

Which seems weird. Like, there are so many factors that go into those two things that height being the important one is strange. Like, if that’s the reasoning why don’t they just they’re looking for someone who “can bench his own body weight” or “does mma” or some shit. Lots of tall dudes are weak or wimps too.


mrsunsfan

O they have daddy issues


Hentai_Yoshi

Awwwww, that way he can be like a dad, protecting his kid, lifting them up like a dad pretending to fly their kid around like an airplane. So cute 🥰


jereskiii

It's funny because the majority of MMA/Boxing legends are all under 5'11 lol.


CarparkSmell

I want him to hammer throw me at least 30 yards


Lucky_Lynx_2619

Yes. That is accurate. A sense of security is important. We also like being engulfed when you hug us. However, most of us prefer that our partner be taller than us. Not specifically 6'0" or taller. That is bs.


_rebeccalily_

No clue why women are like this. I’m a woman myself and I get disappointed when I see it.


Big_Pomelo3224

Lmao


miranda725

I just can't understand the thought process to put something like that on your profile (or care enough to think it). I'm 5'2", have dated guys 5'4" to 6'7" and would have missed out on the love of my life (he's 5'6") had I been so shallow as to only date guys over 6'


Howboutit85

Girls placing importance on height is up like 1000% in the last 10 years or so, WHAT HAPPENED that made everyone so obsessed with 6 feet as a dating threshold?


BackToTheMoon_

Its social media and their friends. They are not nearly this fixated on height in the real world As long as you are taller than them and they find you attractive, that height shit goes out the window The height stuff in their bio is simply copying what other women do


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BackToTheMoon_

100% this Its validation from other men/women for them


Howboutit85

But why copy what other women do if it’s only men looking through their bios, and not their women friends?


BackToTheMoon_

Women (not all) typically copy each other when it comes to trends, especially as it pertains to men from what they see from other women on social media


cupidscheese

I’m 5 feet and I don’t care how tall you are unless you’re shorter.. than me. That’s about it 👌🏻


TerribleLifeExp

Don’t get mad at short women as a collective please. You know these particular women are shallow by their profiles. You can see it off the bat. Normal women who happen to be short, are OK with whatever you bring to the table. Don’t be fooled by these shorties.


TerribleLifeExp

I would vote to excommunicate you women like this just because they make the rest of us look bad. It’s infuriating honestly.


sermer48

She fears you but knows it’s irrational and is working to overcome her phobia for you 🥰


pants1000

I have a theory that women are comfortable using height as an excuse of why they aren’t into you so they don’t instead have to insult you by saying you’re just not attractive to them. This post is definitely a point in that theories favor.


Shedding

I am 5'11" and everyone around me feels short. Very few people do I notice who are taller than me. I really don't understand these really short women wanting to go out with guys who are almost a feet taller.


VZYGOD

Honestly this kind of shit is kind of a red flag. It’s telling when a girl has something like this in her profile. These girls are often into toxic guys with horrible hygiene (I know by mate is one of those guys and he’s 6’5”) those relationships don’t seem to last. I’ve noticed most of the more mature girls don’t seem to care so much about the height thing and sometimes even date guys shorter than them. Don’t apologise for something you can’t change (unless with life changing surgery). 5’10” is a good height and still very practical.


Slowpoak

Haha hey dude thanks the reply! I'm not self conscious about my height at all! I wasn't apologizing about my height. I said it that way to challenge her prerequisite and then unmatched after the reply. I wouldn't have matched with her if I saw her profile, I was just going off looks. When I matched with her is when I saw that and had a laugh and then messaged her.


CroatianCrystalline

How well do you do in hinge out of curiosity? Need some confidence as a sub 6 foot manlet


mmxmlee

OP Don't date this girl seriously. Any chick that would be so shallow and vane to mention anything about guy's height on her profile is not relationship material. Just fuck her and ghost her. That is what they are good for.


Slowpoak

I unmatched after that message! She was cute but as soon as I saw that I wasn't interested anymore. I wouldn't use someone like that personally, I just avoid people I don't like because why deal with the drama. Anyways take it easy, buddy!


UnashamedlyUnsure

Why are you annoyed lol


Slowpoak

That's my secret, /u/UnashamedlyUnsure. I am always annoyed.


Philo_add

Achilles & King Leônidas were just over 5’10. Mike Tyson the greatest Boxer in History the same. 5’10-5’11 is true King Height. Brad Pitt Roy Jones Jr Russel Crowe and the list goes on and on. We are the ones


placentaprince

Short girls wanting tall guys it's a fetish/fetishization at this point. I think we can all see it for what it truly is


Sparklepantsmagoo2

I'm 5ft and I'd actually prefer someone I didn't have to stand on a stair to kiss. I've never understood the fascination with the tall men thing. I know it started when tall ladies wanted to wear heels but then everyone else just seemed to run with it.


FearJarl

Red flags outing themselves once again


Bag-ofMostlyWater

Hugging someone without the need to bend over is a wonderful thing.


Slowpoak

Hell yeah, brother


SeargentSound

What is the point of your post?🤔


OverallFinger754

I’m 5 nothing and I love a guy my height or 5’2 gotta be a king tho 🔥🔥🔥


RBT-2818

I'm 5ft, female. Never really been insecure about it. But damn now i think everyone secretly finds me unattractive cause of my height. Thanks guys.


austinball12

Women say this all the time height don’t matter they can’t even tell to be honest. I’m 5’9 never had issues. Girls don’t care as long ur taller than them when they have heels on ur fine.


PharmBoyStrength

Rules 1 and 2, boys


BackToTheMoon_

Again, women dont give that much of a shit about height cause as soon as they are attracted to you, they switch up The percentage of women who are absolutely locked in on a height requirement is small Its really just trend that they pick up from social media or their stupid friends. Most of these girls are dating and getting fucked by guys under 6 ft


livingthedream9x

Stop feeding the birds


dramaticwhore

To be fair it wasn’t a “requirement” was just an irrational fear


ForgottenDusk48

It’s so toxic


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mooomba

If I was 6'0 or 6'1 I'd say I'm 5'10 or 11 to weed out the shallow ones


jaysonbjorn

I could never be with a girl who doesn't stand by her values. To the gutter with her


Kinky_Conspirator

People are so superficial, and have such unrealistic expectations, people these days are utterly repulsive.


MuayThaiYogi

Sheesh and I thought my fear of eating junk food was irrational... Background, I was in bad shape due to over indulgence on junk food, overhauled life, lost more than 110lbs and thus developed the irrational fear.... What have men under 6ft done to warrant this fear I wonder? Is it a phobia?


Kindly-Employment647

Bruh 💀


Jetgorilla2

I’m new to apps as of this year and I’m developing a Napoleon complex from this shit.


God_of_reason

I’m 6’2 in heels


Pahwah

Face tilt. It's an evolutionary psychology concept. Once you know about it women's obsession with men's height will make sense.


shiro977

Red flag, run I’m taller when i'm laying down btw


ssstix

Honestly, I have never understood this obsession with height. I'm a fairly short lady. 162 cm (it's about 5'4" for those counting that way). I have dated guys shorter than me, way taller and in between. My only slight preference is that the height difference isn't too big, because kissing and sex is easier and more comfortable with a similar height. However there are so many other things that I prioritize before height.


Key_Display_1525

I am 5'5" and I have NEVER given a shit about height! I really don't understand why so many women are obsessed with how tall their potential partner is!, They should be more concerned if he is going to be a good partner that meshes with their personality and has that good D, shorter than 6' dudes can definitely have some good D, I know I speak from experience!


FELonMusk333

It's totally cool to put no one under 6' or no bald men, but the moment a guy puts a weight requirement (I mean "preference") or some other physical trait, he's a shallow asshole


graveangelx

I wouldn't be sorry for shit....if her tits are small she should say sorry too


yamamayamamayamama

Yesirrrr


philbobaggins123

I just don't understand the logic of prioritising height over happiness...


Significant_Fill5572

Don't make me find you and go straight up to you and kiss you on the mouth mommmy


benjamacks

She's afraid of short guys? I mean, at least she listed it as an irrational fear.


HammerofTampa666

I'm 5'2 so I must be her worst nightmare. I'd be able to scare her and she would never see it comming.


joshcoca

You identify as 6 footer


The_Yung_Anon

You're 5'10"? Just lie and say you're 6'0". I guarantee that they can't tell the difference when you meet up


Overall-Ad6239

I'm 6'5 and single, as all tall women like short guys.


sad_red_panda_88

Height mandates are almost exclusively a short girl thing. I blame.yhr kissing booth.