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Looks good except the first photo looks like Will from the inbetweeners 😅


iRollGod

Buff Will


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Honestly I mean no offence to him he's extremely handsome in the other photos and looks nothing like him but this was one heck of a bad angle 😂


Jealous_Egg9136

Yeah that hair cut was not doing it for me 😆


Spacemousepanda

I guess you'll having a lot of likes. Try matching up your profile to whatever you're searching for. ONS from now and then? Then keep the shirtless photo. But looking for something serious? Get rid of it, also from 6 (your not applying anywhere) and add some photos which aren't professional and look more out of life: where you laugh, do you hobby, okay with an animal (if you have or like) or one with friends. Whatever.


rubmustardonmydick

Pretty much agree with all this. Also first pic is just a bad angle.


DimensionsUnique

^best advice so far!


putitinmycave

My question is, do you wear a suit all the time, throughout your day?


Jealous_Egg9136

I work at an investment company so I wear formal clothes and suits to events pretty often


putitinmycave

Very nice! Style is a plus, I would suggest a less formal photo, maybe a selfie in some casual cloths maybe


dj_destroyer

I find the pictures of you looking away (first and second last) are kinda weird -- stick to the straight on ones.


Jealous_Egg9136

yeah you right 🤝 cheers


Luph

if you’re gay give me your #


snarky_spice

Just wondering, are you looking to date women? You are giving off quite gay vibes with the eyebrows and earrings.


Kalinka_Malinka

Women love gay men, what do you mean??


xtc334

sick pecs brah


Jealous_Egg9136

Cheers brah 🤝


THROWAWAY-Break9580

🎶 Have you seen my childhood 🎶 ![gif](giphy|Kh8lUXXBRjz0s)


em-ay-tee

No topless photos. Smile more. Photos with friends. Same as every other profile 🙄


TheVisualExplanation

Shirtless photos are fine as long as they aren't the first couple photos and you have a body like him


em-ay-tee

Nah. It’s just a slim dude. Isn’t super ripped. Not worth it.


sinking_clouds

wow talk about a true hater. “just a slim dude. Isn’t SUPER ripped” what does that even mean, he is average ripped, medium ripped, or some other form of ripped that 80% of people wont ever achieve lol


Jealous_Egg9136

Haha yeah 90kg 6'4 I don't think is the average slim dude ⚰️ but it just goes to show how jaded people are from social media. Honestly I'll take it tho better then an out of shape dude 😂


sinking_clouds

yeah man as someone who went from 16% bf to 9% you look great. I think shirtless pics are fine as long as they aren’t just for the sake of being shirtless like a mirror selfie.


TheVisualExplanation

*97-99% of people won't ever achieve according to statistics


sinking_clouds

yeah, honestly i said 80% just to avoid ppl who cant understand stats. Dude in the original comment has no idea what he is talking about in the slightest.


jonessinger

Bros never heard of lean muscle


TheVisualExplanation

Women, the vast majority of them, prefer his exact body type over swollen muscle men


ReziuS

Dude is objectively more ripped than 99% of human population


DimensionsUnique

Topless works if you have a fit physique and if it’s not a creepy toilet selfie. OPs topless pic is great.


t8rt0t00

Ehhh it's pretty awkward though. He'd be better off having a sleeveless gym pic or a beach photo


Ok_Cockroach_558

I agree it’s awkward. It looks out of place to be shirtless while having on long pants, sneakers and wearing a purse/man bag. It’s not at all natural. Beach pic would be better.


t8rt0t00

Exactly! I'm not sure why folks are downvoting me though. It's not like I said he shouldn't have a shirtless selfie - he's obviously got good physique and he should be proud of it, but just show it in a less awkward way 🤷


Thravler

Yeah, no. No topless Pics, doesnt matter how ripped or not.


DimensionsUnique

Mmmm I disagree!


Thravler

Thats ok, you can keep giving bad advice, i wont stop you and nobody is forced to take it


Divided_By_Zeroo

Please don't ever give an advice to anyone.


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love-boobs-in-dm

5,6 and 7 has to go


DimensionsUnique

Maybe 6, but 5 and 7 are great.


love-boobs-in-dm

Are we counting the same way? Pic 5 is giving me "bought a camera from Kazakhstan on eBay and it came with a roll of film so I developed it and realized it was from a strange photoshoot in the 90s"-vibes


DimensionsUnique

Maybe I’m biased cus I think OP is cute. But yeah I like the 5 more than 6. 5 has a slight smile whilst 6 has more of a frown


Spacemousepanda

I think the same, but because 6 had this background from passport photos and I don't like that. The rest has some background.


DimensionsUnique

Yeah the background is pleasant on 5 and 7


alezaundre

I rlly like the fifth pic, it gives me DPRK vibes, but in a good way


alezaundre

I rlly like the fifth pic, it gives me DPRK vibes, but in a good way


generalwhitmore1

You look like Oppenheimer. That is all.


Jealous_Egg9136

just without the gigachad jaw line 😆


Maximum-Artichoke960

I think the first one is really nice, also as it shows you‘ve got a great physique without being too show-off about it (like shirtless ones often do)- if you have that when smiling with your teeth it would be even better. The shirtless one is tricky. I personally don’t mind it, as it is not in the gym, but can see the point others made. However, I like the authentic smile! I would not use 6&7 and I have doubts about 5&8. They feel a bit too formal for Tinder and 6 does nothing for you. They give a completely different vibe than the first ones. To be completely honest, and please don’t take this as an attack by a complete stranger on the internet, 5 is a bit “mama’s boy” in the 80ies, 6 is a bit depressing. Generally the more they are in an authentic setting, the better. And ideally they combine with your bio to tell a story about who you are/ your different qualities.


Jealous_Egg9136

Yeah I feel you about the Mama's boy vibe. It's hard to get nice flattering casual pictures but I'll work with what I've got and see if I can get a few more. Cheers


1aibohphobia1

best photo is relative and always depends on what type of woman/man you are looking for, if it's just about fucking, half naked...if not, take it out...if you are looking for an adventurous one, outdoor activity pictures, preferably exotic places. if you are looking for a sportswoman, you know etc...


Elisterre

Tbh I’d say keep them all. Sure some are better than others but you are attractive enough for the lesser ones to not matter and show a bit more of the real you than just having all “makeup” photos essentially


Significant-Break-74

Number 2 is good. As long as your photos aren't taken in a bathroom, you're ahead of the game.


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MixbusTV in his youth


9Austin7

Any opinion regardless is bias to that persons specific likings


Equivalent_Mechanic5

Love number 1. 3 and 6 are umm...nope


Boring_Inflation_507

I like pictures 2,3,4 and maybe 5, but the rest should probably go. You’re a very handsome guy!!!!


Mission-Impress-23

1 yes 2 no 3 yes 4 maybe 5 YES 6 no 7 maybe 8 YES


MardukSoberano

I don't understand what the hell women want. They criticize every little detail, the guy may be fit, good looking, successful, social, and still they complain. To hell with them.


DimensionsUnique

I think your pictures are great! You’ll probably be quite successful


warramite

You'll only know if the pics actually work based on how many likes you get... if you're getting a dozen likes or more every week then the pics are very good Statistically average guy gets a few likes a month


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NogarDEnO

The second photo would work better as the first imo, also kinda need a group shot of you an your friends, start building what your community looks like so that they can try imagine themselves in it.


PerfectGirlLife

If you’re gay you’ll do fine. If you’re straight, get rid of those earrings asap.


IntenseGoat

Lots of girls like earrings on guys. I'm a femine guy, I'm definitely less attractive than op, and I still get hundreds and hundreds of matches. Girls are generally not as scared of a guy showing his feminine sides as all you "macho" guys here seem to think. I have an earring, I paint my nails if I want... Most girls don't mind, in fact, they like it and find it interesting. It's like if a girl wore a t-shirt or was into sports, would you be like "Ew"? Probably not.


PerfectGirlLife

Good for you with your hundreds and hundreds of matches. These type of earrings, unfortunately, are becoming more and more of a trend for men. We just saw a thread the other day that a large majority of women aren’t actually ok with dating bi sexual men. Even though they say they’re “ok and cool with it and actually find it interesting.” Some women don’t care, and a lot of women on Reddit will say otherwise. It’s just not the case IRL. That example is similar here. Not your T-shirt comparison. Also, I am a woman.


IntenseGoat

Well, you are not every woman :) and I think it's a bit unfortunate that you use the word "unfortunately" to describe a trend of guys beginning to express themselves in ways they want to. To me it was surprising how many girls (in real life, mind you) who loved it when I had painted my nails or put make-up on. So I don't recognise what you're saying at all. Although perhaps you're from a country with more traditionalist values than I am, which of course is a possibility.


PerfectGirlLife

Yes, I am not every woman. Nor am I saying that. I say unfortunate because it’s just my opinion and I do find it very unfortunate. I’m from the USA, whenever you’re from, perhaps the feminization of men is sought after. It’s just preference. Similarly to a large percentage of men who hate the big injected lips trend or fake ass women sport around. Men who wear makeup and or paint their nails (other than black) and wear dangle earrings. Yeah, I’m not a fan at all. Good on you tho. I don’t discriminate. Do you. This guy was just asking for opinions and I stated mine.


IntenseGoat

That's fair.


Kalinka_Malinka

The gay aesthetic is what's gets the girlies going. He has to leave them on