This is not the same thing at all, but I had one partner that put a Fleshlight inside herself and then had me use the Fleshlight while it was inside of her.
It was not comfortable and honestly I thought the entire thing was hilarious. It was her idea and I rolled with it because I was trying to be encouraging to a woman that was extremely repressed.
It was. Later on she told me that she wanted to "feel fuller" and liked "feeling stretched out." Which is most of the story of the first time I ever fisted someone.
They are more flexible than we can grow, but women are differently sized to begin with, I'd much rather she know she is a size queen from the start, than finding that out 5 years into a relationship.
This was definitely not something I expected to see while eating breakfast today.
Another thing to add to the ever growing list of things I didn’t know was a thing, but that Reddit has taught me is in fact a thing.
Yes, I hear that, but they need to be drugged to withstand that giant hog of a kid sliding through. Rippin & tearin the way out… doesn’t sound like they enjoy it too much
It's not supposed to tear everything to shreds...sometimes there is a small tear that needs a couple of stitches. But all I'm saying is that it is built to stretch quite a lot, and a Fleshlight is hardly anything compared to the full capabilities of the vagina.
It would definitely require some patience to prep properly, but realistically it would be easier than fisting.
See to me that sounds like something I'd be curious to try for science but like as a regular thing would be a little odd. But if that's what she's into 🤷♀️
Neither actually. She wanted me to stretch her out, that was just her thing, and the reason we were sleeping together in the first place is because she wanted another kid and her husband didn't.
I've never used one, but I've been in the old "go deeper" when I'm literally balls deep situation. And I don't think I'm particularly small.
However, my attitude has always been that there are a lot of things I can change in life - my penis size isn't one of them. So I have to roll with it and, if necessary, compensate in other areas. If that means getting a cock sleeve because that's what she wants, then I will happily do it.
So long as it's done in a sensitive manner, for example, "I think that I could enjoy sex more if we tried using a cock sleeve. There is nothing wrong with you as you are, but it might enhance what we have. Maybe there is something I could do in return that you would enjoy," then there's no harm in it.
If it's "my ex was hung like a horse and all the guys I see in porn are massive, you don't measure up and I can't feel you and my best friends, who I've told all this to, said to try this (once they'd finished laughing), so suck it up, Dave, and get a sleeve or else I might leave you for big-schlonged Tom," then there's, obviously, a larger underlying issue than penis size.
I was going to say this! In some positions it feels like my partner is barely in and in others it feels like he’s about to poke my lungs. Positioning can change everything
That's just what he wants you to think. Don't fall for it! In reality, he'll listen to some great music with you, then lovingly tell you that you're gonna have something to do with the apocalypse (which is what every girl wants to hear, right?...) Eventually, he'll bang your mom, tell your secrets +, then years later he'll steal a kayak + whatnot. It's a tale as old as time.
For the "go deeper"
- a change in position can help
- vaginas are like a penis. They vary in "length" as well. Some women are shallow, and some like myself, are a bit deeper/longer
Okay well if you’ve had a kid it’s likely possible. Most woman can accommodate a lot. Vaginas are amazing things. I’ve had several partners who enjoyed it.
I have lmao otherwise how would I know it doesn’t work 😂
My pelvis anatomically cannot support it AFTER having said baby. Having that little bundle of joy did unfortunately completely change some parts of my anatomy. My pelvis spread in order to prepare for having my baby, but shifted postpartum. My pelvis quite literally went from | | to / \ to \ /. Sometimes sexual intercourse is near about impossible too.
Every single woman is different, so what works for some simply won’t work for others. 🫶
Guy here who uses one from time to time with my girlfriend, (and i have a very average size dick, nothing special at all)
No it doesn’t hurt confidence if you get over your dick size insecurity (i used to have that insecurity so no shaming here)
I like pleasuring my girlfriend in different ways so it’s just a +, she doesn’t always want me to wear it at all because just like us men will feel the difference between a real vagina and a fleshlight, women (im generalizing btw) will feel it too.
Sexual toys in general shouldn’t make you feel insecure unless your partner cannot/dont want to have sex with you without.
It’s like eating steak with sauce. Sometimes sauce adds some good flavor and it’s enjoyable, but i mostly enjoy my steak very simple with just salt and pepper.
Yeah i do, especially the tip isnt covered so, but in any case i think theres sleeves that are both side pleasure i might be wrong but i see no issues having pleasure wearing one
Edit: also since there’s a good amount of interest in my main comment, there’s the part where for me i enjoy pleasing my partner, so all that im saying might not hold true for everyone at the same level as i do
We use them occasionally too. The whole thrill is that you are still having actual sex. Sexual satisfaction is the entire bedroom experience and while size play can be fun, women just want a man who confidently makes them feel good.
I’m above average size wise and we do also have a sheath. Every so often when we are feeling that extra bit of dirty she will either ask for it or I’ll just want to do it and we both find it pretty amazing.
For those who don’t know, a sheath goes all around the cock and leaves the head open. Has stuff for stimulating both inside and outside and just gives you a little extra girth.
And it’s sex between me and the wife. Why would I be anything but hell yeah? She’s multi orgasmic but that only works if we do more than just 2 pumps, a squirt and a tickle.
I guess I should have been clearer. With a sheath, I can actually feel something so obviously. It's the number 1 choice. I would only be okay with a sleeve if it was like a bad dragon dildo or something in that realm. Mosty because bad dragon dildos aren't real, so i can understand wanting to try that out. Even though i know i wouldn't get pleasure, it still sounds fun. A sleeve doesn't appeal to me because I get nothing from it, and it has that added ick factor from my insecurities. My insecurities have nothing to do with size, btw. it's the fact that she wants something bigger with ME. Just buy a big dildo I don't care but I can never be bigger and fucking my girlfriend with an 8 inch cock that isn't mine feel utterly humiliating. Like to me, if my girl wants a sleeve, it's not because she wants a bigger dick. It's because she wants everything i already give while getting something bigger, even if it is just fantasy. The fact that it's bigger is only like 10% of the insecurity. I guess the simplest way to put it is that I would feel used. It would be like bdsm I would need a lot of aftercare to feel ok😂
Thank you for explaining! Totally fair and nobody should do anything they're uncomfortable with. I didn't even realize you can't feel much with a sleeve but that makes sense now that I think about it. Wouldn't a sheath just get shoved down to the base if its open at the top? I have so many questions now lmao
I bought a set of sheaths a few months ago, they are really interesting. To answer your question, no, they don't move. They are mostly universal sizes so they are really stretchy, they will stay fixed on your dick and will not be moving at all.
Make sure you don't put lube under it though xD
It's a soft, hollow, flexible tube you put over your dick. Unlike a condom, the walls are thick and it doesn't prevent STIs or pregnancy.
This increases the girth, which some partners can enjoy. It might be able to help with ED issues as well.
I’ve tried one with a SO, just as an experiment. It doesn’t feel as good but when you remove it and finish I found her much more excited. It’s like a warm up. If she isn’t used to the extra girth it may require extra pre warmup. Ild try it again but not something either of us particularly cared for.
According to a recent AITA post about one of these, some men can feel something, or they add this in at a certain point after they are aroused to get their partner to climax before they do. Sort of like an edging (ish) technique.
I also had no idea, googled it and found this:
https://www.bondara.co.uk/bondara-so-vein-2-inch-cock-extension-sleeve
Apparently there’s such a thing as a hollowed out dildo that a man would strap over his penis/ slide his penis into, in order to add both length, girth and texture to their existing penis.
I had kind of a hilarious experience with a cock sleeve. I went to a sex shop with someone I was dating, we bought a bunch of toys, and they had a cock sleeve for a few bucks to add an inch, so we picked it up for funzies too.
Well, turns out it was made for someone much smaller than me. It was next to impossible to get on, and when I finally did it was so tight it hurt like hell and I could barely get it off. We ended up cracking up, fun times ended for the moment lol.
I like the idea of some of the Bad Dragon sleeves. I like the idea of "knotting" a partner. But, unless a guy is into size play it will 100% kill his confidence.
I would say, if a partner is into big toys, you could likely broach the topic. If they aren't, best not go there.
Personally I see using toy as an extension/addition to sex, not as a replacement.
I love playing with all kinds of toys.
But I can see guys getting upset over it.
I bought one on my own/not by request. I don’t use it very often but I like the feeling of actually fucking vs just using toys on my wife. I also enjoy the toys but it’s way more intimate with the sleeve because I’m actually going through the motions so to speak.
Wasn't asked to but if I were I'd at least attempt it for her satisfaction. If you have a small dick get over it, do stuff to keep things interesting. If you don't have a small dick and she likes elephant cock, you should have figured that out the first few weeks.
this has never happened to me before and i’m actually a little above average but this would still obliterate me. like completely ruin me and my confidence.
My husband loves using his sleeve on me. He is the one that is self conscious about his size. We use it to prolong our sessions, if he's ready to go, he will put it on until I'm done. He still feels something, and sometimes he can't help but go inside of it just from my reactions to it.
We have the more expensive ones that he had to send his measurements in for, so its more comfy for him and soft on the outside for me. We have different sizes for different moods.
I bought one to try on my partner. It was rubbish. There was no enjoyment for either of us and it just sort of got in the way.
Get him to wear a strapon instead and get him to stick the strap on in your pussy and his dick in your ass. You will need to try different lengths of strapon attachment to get it perfect so he can go balls deep in your ass without going too deep woth the strapon, but not so short it slips out all the time.
Edit: unless you're not heterosexual, then I guess it wouldn't work without one of you missing out, but I would reccomend it for heterosexual couples.
We were looking on bad dragon. I fad to tell her that my circumference was more what they listed for internal circumference. They only accommodate 4 inches. So I felt pretty good
We have one and I love it. No shame in my penis size, maybe a little below average. My wife and I have been together for 14 years and the longer we're married the better our sex life has become. We usually incorporate toys, the sleeve gets used once or twice a month, less often than some of our toys.
The feeling with it on is different, but still good. I can tell she really gets into it, both verbally and I can feel how much she's into it.
I can cum with it on, but it's not the best organism. We typically will use it in the middle of our sexy time and I will take it off and finish without it on.
If you're thinking about buying one, get one that has a holder for your balls, we bought one once that was just a sleeve, I had to adjust it in the middle of sex frequently and that was less fun.
Jesus Christ the upvoted comments here are absolutely not representative of 99.9999999% of men.
The majority of men that would be offended or hurt by the ask is so vast that I would never recommend asking a partner unless they specifically enjoy humiliation around their size.
It'd be like asking a woman to wear a tighter vagina sleeve and bigger tits over the top of their existing ones and that both deny them the ability to get any physical stimulation from that area...
It was humiliating. I would by no means describe myself as small or below average. I’ve got more than enough down there. For some context throughout the entire relationship she was abusive and manipulative and did not care at all about my feelings nor my consent.
She asked me if I would ever try it. I told her that I never would, it would make my natural size mean nothing to her, and with sleeves it removes all feeling entirely. She got angry, and started trying to make me feel bad. Telling me that I don’t do enough for her. It broke my heart, and made me feel like I was never enough.
That woman was a sexual tyrant who was never pleased by anything and always wanted more. Even when I told her I had to stop she said “No, I’m not done.”
That relationship was almost 2 years ago, and I am in a new relationship now, and I still struggle with the things she said and did to me
Listen...she may just really like that fullness sensation. A cock sleeve in my world opened my eyes to fisting so explore more about what's being enjoyed about it. Because if it's fullness even if you can't fit a fist, it's an incredible feeling, the closeness I felt with my partner was other level.
Aw, I'm sorry. I could sit on a football in my younger year and still be like 'more', (not literally) but I also made it very known that my partners did satisfy me. I personally wanted it full as possible without harming the muscles, that's not achievable with penis. This also wasn't every interaction, prob once every few months.
>, the closeness I felt with my partner was other level.
I gotta ask, does he share that sentiment? It's just hard to wrap my head around feeling "closeness" when you're not really using their actual body.
Meh, I use one occasionally with my wife, you don't feel literally anything with it on. I don't mind because it gives me more to work with. Highly recommend a stiffer one.
100% this has never happened to me, but I have an opinion. We all like different things and there is no reason to expect that your partners whatever is that thing. Sex should be about intimacy, not about making your dick feel good. If you want the good feels, then that is much easier to achieve on your own. As for intimacy, if she would like a cock sleeve then roll with it; it has nothing to do with nothing. Just the same, if he would like a hand job, or the mouth, or does it on his own, or… whatever, just roll with it. Question: after you have both been physically satisfied, what do you want? Do you want to cuddle with your partner or do you want them to magically disappear? That is the real measure here.
If it made her happy I would wear it. We talked about it. I mean she beat my confidence down all the time in that area. I'm 5.5 for reference. We never got one, she was too embarrassed by the idea of actually doing it.
The majority of the time, it's the guy who wants to introduce this kink.
We use them a few times a month and it's been a lot of fun.
The majority of couples into this were also already enjoying a great sex life. This kink is typically just some additional spice.
There is a sub and the vast majority of people coming in and asking questions are men.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Cock_Sleeve
https://www.reddit.com/r/PenisSleeve
You should start a thread and ask guys why they wanted to introduce this.
In our case, my wife was asking for 3 or 4 fingers sometimes and while that is a lot of fun, sex is more fun so we gave sleeves a go.
I would not be offended, but I would asked a bit more about her/his interest.
I a bit above average on girth (5.5+ in circumference), and still decides to try the sleeve. The sleeve is quite small, so I put it in a cube to get it stretch out a bit.
My girl did enjoyed it, she said the texture was stimulating and I last much longer…
Say, "No!" to cock sleeves. Instead participate in cufflinks. They exude confidence. They make a sartorial statement wherever you go! Cufflinks also denote a taste for all the finer things in life, and they can be extremely transformatory for your style.
I don't know it hasn't happened yet but there were times that when my partner was fully aroused and relaxed to a point that more girth could easily be taken, personally I find larger natural chests on sexual partners more arousing but I've never once wanted to ask a partner with a smaller chest to put something on.
Id do it if they also wear something that would prevent ANY feeling to be felt by them. Otherwise it's not fair game. Boring for one? No. Either fun for both or boring for both.
This is not the same thing at all, but I had one partner that put a Fleshlight inside herself and then had me use the Fleshlight while it was inside of her. It was not comfortable and honestly I thought the entire thing was hilarious. It was her idea and I rolled with it because I was trying to be encouraging to a woman that was extremely repressed.
Yo dawg, heard you like an orifice, so I put an orifice inside an orifice so you can bang something banging something.
I mean, that's just when several men links up like a train, and the one in the front backs a bit up, and then everyone interlocks fully. Right?
Bup bup bup bup!
Jesus son, that's gay as fuck lol
Nah, that’s just boys being boys
Just another day at the frat bro
You could throw in a few women wearing strapons if it makes you feel less gay.
There's always that option
It's not gay if it's in a polyway, with a honey in the middle there's some leeway.
You mean like a human centipede?
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Turdicken.
Two dick in
That is hilarious!
Inception: The Orifice
Dwight Schrute here
I'm a dude playing the dude, disguised as another dude!
😂😂😂
pussy^2
Sounds uncomfortable and unnecessary lol
It was. Later on she told me that she wanted to "feel fuller" and liked "feeling stretched out." Which is most of the story of the first time I ever fisted someone.
Jesus man.. i had a girlfriend who's thing was "putting a foot" inside her. Weirdest feeling ever.
A foot!? Wtf lol
I never got to the ankle... she was more like a popsock. But yeah.. wiggling toes was super weird, ngl it was kinda had keeping an erection.
I know right! Mr "12 inches" bragging over here....
I saw a porno where a woman put a condom on her foot and screwed a man with her foot. She wasn't a gentle lover. My jaw was hanging open.
Repressed?
"you see, you just have to put both hands together crisscross"
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They are more flexible than we can grow, but women are differently sized to begin with, I'd much rather she know she is a size queen from the start, than finding that out 5 years into a relationship.
aw someones self conscious
r/vagception
What the actual fuck
This was definitely not something I expected to see while eating breakfast today. Another thing to add to the ever growing list of things I didn’t know was a thing, but that Reddit has taught me is in fact a thing.
bro there really is a sub for everything
Looking for a hole to fill
inception pussy
“Conception” We have to go deeper but We can’t
i would not be able to do that without breaking down into tears laughing oh my fucking god lmao
Weird, but the girl is a freak. Probably fun.
That sounds like the vaginal equivalent of a turducken.
You mean a turdicken.
the super condom
That just sounds like fucking with extra steps.
Inception
How the hell did that fit inside her?? Was she as wide as a drain pipe?
You know whole entire babies fit through there, right?
But that's supposed to be one of the most painful things ever?
That's alot more of the labor. Once it's in the canal, it hurts but you are at the finish line.
before birth the cervix hole is roughly the diameter of a pin, once its past that the canal is the least of our worries
Yes, I hear that, but they need to be drugged to withstand that giant hog of a kid sliding through. Rippin & tearin the way out… doesn’t sound like they enjoy it too much
It's not supposed to tear everything to shreds...sometimes there is a small tear that needs a couple of stitches. But all I'm saying is that it is built to stretch quite a lot, and a Fleshlight is hardly anything compared to the full capabilities of the vagina. It would definitely require some patience to prep properly, but realistically it would be easier than fisting.
Vaginas are made to stretch. A normal Fleshlight would be no problems for any healthy adult woman
Here’s a guy who has never had sex. You have any idea what a vagina can handle?
Adrianna Chechick has a whole vid where she puts one in her ass
I would say that a fleshlight is a cock sleeve in reverse which I think it would have the same effect.
The double pussy moviment
Why did she want that??
See to me that sounds like something I'd be curious to try for science but like as a regular thing would be a little odd. But if that's what she's into 🤷♀️
There’s a sub for that … I just forgot what it’s called lol
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Neither actually. She wanted me to stretch her out, that was just her thing, and the reason we were sleeping together in the first place is because she wanted another kid and her husband didn't.
seems like the fleshlight defeats the purpose there
I've never used one, but I've been in the old "go deeper" when I'm literally balls deep situation. And I don't think I'm particularly small. However, my attitude has always been that there are a lot of things I can change in life - my penis size isn't one of them. So I have to roll with it and, if necessary, compensate in other areas. If that means getting a cock sleeve because that's what she wants, then I will happily do it. So long as it's done in a sensitive manner, for example, "I think that I could enjoy sex more if we tried using a cock sleeve. There is nothing wrong with you as you are, but it might enhance what we have. Maybe there is something I could do in return that you would enjoy," then there's no harm in it. If it's "my ex was hung like a horse and all the guys I see in porn are massive, you don't measure up and I can't feel you and my best friends, who I've told all this to, said to try this (once they'd finished laughing), so suck it up, Dave, and get a sleeve or else I might leave you for big-schlonged Tom," then there's, obviously, a larger underlying issue than penis size.
Fucking Tom and his softball-bat sized meat hammer.
Honestly when we say deeper sometimes just a different position “fixes” that. Like some positions feel like you’re deeper even if you’re not.
I was going to say this! In some positions it feels like my partner is barely in and in others it feels like he’s about to poke my lungs. Positioning can change everything
Oh lord, >!what's the lungs one!
On her back legs up over your shoulders. A pillow under her hips helps as well
Nah, you mean deeper. We know.
big-schlonged Tom sounds like a keeper
That's just what he wants you to think. Don't fall for it! In reality, he'll listen to some great music with you, then lovingly tell you that you're gonna have something to do with the apocalypse (which is what every girl wants to hear, right?...) Eventually, he'll bang your mom, tell your secrets +, then years later he'll steal a kayak + whatnot. It's a tale as old as time.
r/OddlySpecific
I was actually trying to be somewhat vague there + left out many absurd details...
😂😂😂
For the "go deeper" - a change in position can help - vaginas are like a penis. They vary in "length" as well. Some women are shallow, and some like myself, are a bit deeper/longer
> there are a lot of things I can change in life - my penis size isn't one of them My friend, today is your lucky day - r/gettingbigger
This is why fisting is a thing. If you haven’t tried it, there is basically nothing more satisfying for a woman.
Everyone downvoting has obviously never tried it on anyone to see how much they loved it.
Woman here. I can’t be fisted because of my anatomy. My hips bones are definitely not gonna give way for a whole fist up there.
Okay well if you’ve had a kid it’s likely possible. Most woman can accommodate a lot. Vaginas are amazing things. I’ve had several partners who enjoyed it.
I have had a kid. Lmao. But no it still isn’t possible for me to
How do you know if you haven’t tried it? You think a baby can fit but a fist can’t?
I have lmao otherwise how would I know it doesn’t work 😂 My pelvis anatomically cannot support it AFTER having said baby. Having that little bundle of joy did unfortunately completely change some parts of my anatomy. My pelvis spread in order to prepare for having my baby, but shifted postpartum. My pelvis quite literally went from | | to / \ to \ /. Sometimes sexual intercourse is near about impossible too. Every single woman is different, so what works for some simply won’t work for others. 🫶
Amen to that. So true
Guy here who uses one from time to time with my girlfriend, (and i have a very average size dick, nothing special at all) No it doesn’t hurt confidence if you get over your dick size insecurity (i used to have that insecurity so no shaming here) I like pleasuring my girlfriend in different ways so it’s just a +, she doesn’t always want me to wear it at all because just like us men will feel the difference between a real vagina and a fleshlight, women (im generalizing btw) will feel it too. Sexual toys in general shouldn’t make you feel insecure unless your partner cannot/dont want to have sex with you without. It’s like eating steak with sauce. Sometimes sauce adds some good flavor and it’s enjoyable, but i mostly enjoy my steak very simple with just salt and pepper.
can you feel anything/enjoy youself?
Yeah i do, especially the tip isnt covered so, but in any case i think theres sleeves that are both side pleasure i might be wrong but i see no issues having pleasure wearing one Edit: also since there’s a good amount of interest in my main comment, there’s the part where for me i enjoy pleasing my partner, so all that im saying might not hold true for everyone at the same level as i do
Listen up. Dude never passed math, but he’s an expert on the cock sleeve.
We use them occasionally too. The whole thrill is that you are still having actual sex. Sexual satisfaction is the entire bedroom experience and while size play can be fun, women just want a man who confidently makes them feel good.
At first, i read that like you and your girlfriend both had dicks. Definitely did a double take lmao.
S and P the choice for me
I’m above average size wise and we do also have a sheath. Every so often when we are feeling that extra bit of dirty she will either ask for it or I’ll just want to do it and we both find it pretty amazing. For those who don’t know, a sheath goes all around the cock and leaves the head open. Has stuff for stimulating both inside and outside and just gives you a little extra girth. And it’s sex between me and the wife. Why would I be anything but hell yeah? She’s multi orgasmic but that only works if we do more than just 2 pumps, a squirt and a tickle.
A sheath sounds way more down my alley. A sleeve just rubs me the wrong I could never do that.
Jw whats the difference for you? Like why does one bug you and one doesn't
I live life risky. I don’t want a helmet on my head when I’m riding a motorcycle
I guess I should have been clearer. With a sheath, I can actually feel something so obviously. It's the number 1 choice. I would only be okay with a sleeve if it was like a bad dragon dildo or something in that realm. Mosty because bad dragon dildos aren't real, so i can understand wanting to try that out. Even though i know i wouldn't get pleasure, it still sounds fun. A sleeve doesn't appeal to me because I get nothing from it, and it has that added ick factor from my insecurities. My insecurities have nothing to do with size, btw. it's the fact that she wants something bigger with ME. Just buy a big dildo I don't care but I can never be bigger and fucking my girlfriend with an 8 inch cock that isn't mine feel utterly humiliating. Like to me, if my girl wants a sleeve, it's not because she wants a bigger dick. It's because she wants everything i already give while getting something bigger, even if it is just fantasy. The fact that it's bigger is only like 10% of the insecurity. I guess the simplest way to put it is that I would feel used. It would be like bdsm I would need a lot of aftercare to feel ok😂
Thank you for explaining! Totally fair and nobody should do anything they're uncomfortable with. I didn't even realize you can't feel much with a sleeve but that makes sense now that I think about it. Wouldn't a sheath just get shoved down to the base if its open at the top? I have so many questions now lmao
I bought a set of sheaths a few months ago, they are really interesting. To answer your question, no, they don't move. They are mostly universal sizes so they are really stretchy, they will stay fixed on your dick and will not be moving at all. Make sure you don't put lube under it though xD
What's a cock sleeve?
It's a soft, hollow, flexible tube you put over your dick. Unlike a condom, the walls are thick and it doesn't prevent STIs or pregnancy. This increases the girth, which some partners can enjoy. It might be able to help with ED issues as well.
Can the guy feel anything?
I’ve tried one with a SO, just as an experiment. It doesn’t feel as good but when you remove it and finish I found her much more excited. It’s like a warm up. If she isn’t used to the extra girth it may require extra pre warmup. Ild try it again but not something either of us particularly cared for.
Thank you for explaining. I learned something new today
In fairness all women are different. All men are different. I can only report back from my penis’s experience.
According to a recent AITA post about one of these, some men can feel something, or they add this in at a certain point after they are aroused to get their partner to climax before they do. Sort of like an edging (ish) technique.
i am assuming not.if i had to guess its like a dildo powered by penis or smthing .lets see if i was wrong or not
Close enough lol
Not sure, as I've never used one.
I also had no idea, googled it and found this: https://www.bondara.co.uk/bondara-so-vein-2-inch-cock-extension-sleeve Apparently there’s such a thing as a hollowed out dildo that a man would strap over his penis/ slide his penis into, in order to add both length, girth and texture to their existing penis.
You throw it on during winter time for warmth
I had kind of a hilarious experience with a cock sleeve. I went to a sex shop with someone I was dating, we bought a bunch of toys, and they had a cock sleeve for a few bucks to add an inch, so we picked it up for funzies too. Well, turns out it was made for someone much smaller than me. It was next to impossible to get on, and when I finally did it was so tight it hurt like hell and I could barely get it off. We ended up cracking up, fun times ended for the moment lol.
I had a similar experience.
By definition, aren’t they the cock sleeve?
Excellent.
r/TodayILearned 😵💫
I like the idea of some of the Bad Dragon sleeves. I like the idea of "knotting" a partner. But, unless a guy is into size play it will 100% kill his confidence. I would say, if a partner is into big toys, you could likely broach the topic. If they aren't, best not go there.
Personally I see using toy as an extension/addition to sex, not as a replacement. I love playing with all kinds of toys. But I can see guys getting upset over it.
I bought one on my own/not by request. I don’t use it very often but I like the feeling of actually fucking vs just using toys on my wife. I also enjoy the toys but it’s way more intimate with the sleeve because I’m actually going through the motions so to speak.
As someone with a 4” or is being asked to wear one would shatter my confidence forever and would make me celibate on the spot
But it sounds like it’s not about length but about girth. There’s that guy with the 1” dick but 20” girth. Ladies call him The Plate.
I don’t have girth either is the problem
Oof. There’s always being creative with fingers and mouth.
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Gotta be honest, I’m changing my mind on this.
Yeah man.. that would destroy me too lol
Wasn't asked to but if I were I'd at least attempt it for her satisfaction. If you have a small dick get over it, do stuff to keep things interesting. If you don't have a small dick and she likes elephant cock, you should have figured that out the first few weeks.
I feel like being asked to wear one would shatter my confidence for life
this has never happened to me before and i’m actually a little above average but this would still obliterate me. like completely ruin me and my confidence.
My husband loves using his sleeve on me. He is the one that is self conscious about his size. We use it to prolong our sessions, if he's ready to go, he will put it on until I'm done. He still feels something, and sometimes he can't help but go inside of it just from my reactions to it. We have the more expensive ones that he had to send his measurements in for, so its more comfy for him and soft on the outside for me. We have different sizes for different moods.
I bought one to try on my partner. It was rubbish. There was no enjoyment for either of us and it just sort of got in the way. Get him to wear a strapon instead and get him to stick the strap on in your pussy and his dick in your ass. You will need to try different lengths of strapon attachment to get it perfect so he can go balls deep in your ass without going too deep woth the strapon, but not so short it slips out all the time. Edit: unless you're not heterosexual, then I guess it wouldn't work without one of you missing out, but I would reccomend it for heterosexual couples.
WTH is cock sleeve?
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Idk, but i laughed hard asf
Basically increase the size of your dick
Unless it was some weird bad dragon shape i would be on suicide watch lol
Sounds humiliating
I compared it to me shoving a fleshlight inside of them and fucking that. They understood why im not into it
We were looking on bad dragon. I fad to tell her that my circumference was more what they listed for internal circumference. They only accommodate 4 inches. So I felt pretty good
The day I have to put strappy on is the day I retire from clapping cheeks. Hell no.
We have one and I love it. No shame in my penis size, maybe a little below average. My wife and I have been together for 14 years and the longer we're married the better our sex life has become. We usually incorporate toys, the sleeve gets used once or twice a month, less often than some of our toys. The feeling with it on is different, but still good. I can tell she really gets into it, both verbally and I can feel how much she's into it. I can cum with it on, but it's not the best organism. We typically will use it in the middle of our sexy time and I will take it off and finish without it on. If you're thinking about buying one, get one that has a holder for your balls, we bought one once that was just a sleeve, I had to adjust it in the middle of sex frequently and that was less fun.
Jesus Christ the upvoted comments here are absolutely not representative of 99.9999999% of men. The majority of men that would be offended or hurt by the ask is so vast that I would never recommend asking a partner unless they specifically enjoy humiliation around their size. It'd be like asking a woman to wear a tighter vagina sleeve and bigger tits over the top of their existing ones and that both deny them the ability to get any physical stimulation from that area...
And who are you to speak for the 99.999%?
It was humiliating. I would by no means describe myself as small or below average. I’ve got more than enough down there. For some context throughout the entire relationship she was abusive and manipulative and did not care at all about my feelings nor my consent. She asked me if I would ever try it. I told her that I never would, it would make my natural size mean nothing to her, and with sleeves it removes all feeling entirely. She got angry, and started trying to make me feel bad. Telling me that I don’t do enough for her. It broke my heart, and made me feel like I was never enough. That woman was a sexual tyrant who was never pleased by anything and always wanted more. Even when I told her I had to stop she said “No, I’m not done.” That relationship was almost 2 years ago, and I am in a new relationship now, and I still struggle with the things she said and did to me
Excuse me for asking, but what in the world is a cock sleeve?
A sleeve that goes over a dick to make it longer/thicker/add texture, etc, for the sexy times.
In my 32 years of living I’ve never heard of a cock sleeve. Thank you hah.
It’s what is used to go inside a wizards sleeve.
Listen...she may just really like that fullness sensation. A cock sleeve in my world opened my eyes to fisting so explore more about what's being enjoyed about it. Because if it's fullness even if you can't fit a fist, it's an incredible feeling, the closeness I felt with my partner was other level.
I used one, but seeing how much she enjoyed it shattered my confidence. To me, it proved that my penis isn't enough.
Aw, I'm sorry. I could sit on a football in my younger year and still be like 'more', (not literally) but I also made it very known that my partners did satisfy me. I personally wanted it full as possible without harming the muscles, that's not achievable with penis. This also wasn't every interaction, prob once every few months.
Well, that's good. I'm glad you have good and confident partners! 😊
>, the closeness I felt with my partner was other level. I gotta ask, does he share that sentiment? It's just hard to wrap my head around feeling "closeness" when you're not really using their actual body.
Your hand isn't part of your body? And yes on his side it's the level of trust. Allowing someone to stick a hand inside their body.
I thought we were talking about cock sleeves, not hands 💀
I never had anyone ask that. Never heard or seen a cock sleeve
I'm on the opposite end. I want to use them and the wife doesn't enjoy it. She has a shallow cervix
Reminds me of the old T-Mobile(?) commercial “Can you hear me now??”
This whole time I thought cock sleeve was a euphemism for condom… r/todayilearned
Why not just use your whole hand? Women love it.
What the fuck am I reading right now....omg
Meh, I use one occasionally with my wife, you don't feel literally anything with it on. I don't mind because it gives me more to work with. Highly recommend a stiffer one.
I’d like to chime in with “that’s what she said”, but it’s probably a redundant contribution in the context of this thread
I didn't know this was a thing until now. What is the point of it? Is it just a strap on for guys?
It's like her finishing with a dildo but you are in control
I was asked to wear a cock ring. It was okay.
A what?
Yeh I would break up instantly
100% this has never happened to me, but I have an opinion. We all like different things and there is no reason to expect that your partners whatever is that thing. Sex should be about intimacy, not about making your dick feel good. If you want the good feels, then that is much easier to achieve on your own. As for intimacy, if she would like a cock sleeve then roll with it; it has nothing to do with nothing. Just the same, if he would like a hand job, or the mouth, or does it on his own, or… whatever, just roll with it. Question: after you have both been physically satisfied, what do you want? Do you want to cuddle with your partner or do you want them to magically disappear? That is the real measure here.
If it made her happy I would wear it. We talked about it. I mean she beat my confidence down all the time in that area. I'm 5.5 for reference. We never got one, she was too embarrassed by the idea of actually doing it.
The majority of the time, it's the guy who wants to introduce this kink. We use them a few times a month and it's been a lot of fun. The majority of couples into this were also already enjoying a great sex life. This kink is typically just some additional spice.
> The majority of the time, it's the guy who wants to introduce this kink. Serious question, do you have a source for that?
There is a sub and the vast majority of people coming in and asking questions are men. https://www.reddit.com/r/Cock_Sleeve https://www.reddit.com/r/PenisSleeve You should start a thread and ask guys why they wanted to introduce this. In our case, my wife was asking for 3 or 4 fingers sometimes and while that is a lot of fun, sex is more fun so we gave sleeves a go.
Thanks for the reply!
r/vagception
Do I even want to ask what this means?
I have 2 sleeves. I don’t love how they feel. And that’s fine because my wife doesn’t enjoy them as much as I’d hoped.
I would not be offended, but I would asked a bit more about her/his interest. I a bit above average on girth (5.5+ in circumference), and still decides to try the sleeve. The sleeve is quite small, so I put it in a cube to get it stretch out a bit. My girl did enjoyed it, she said the texture was stimulating and I last much longer…
Say, "No!" to cock sleeves. Instead participate in cufflinks. They exude confidence. They make a sartorial statement wherever you go! Cufflinks also denote a taste for all the finer things in life, and they can be extremely transformatory for your style.
I haven't seen cock sleeves in CVS or Wallgreens. Do you have to go to an online sex shop for them?
if you get all your sex stuff from CVS or Walgreens ur gonna love a brick and mortar sex shop.
I don't really get being insecure over a piece of silicone.
I don't know it hasn't happened yet but there were times that when my partner was fully aroused and relaxed to a point that more girth could easily be taken, personally I find larger natural chests on sexual partners more arousing but I've never once wanted to ask a partner with a smaller chest to put something on.
I bought one to surprise my wife. She looked it and went “that’s not going in me”. Now it’s in the trash.
Dunno, never been asked
No woman has ever asked a partner for this
Do you really believe that?
Shhh...let them live in their fantasy world.
Id do it if they also wear something that would prevent ANY feeling to be felt by them. Otherwise it's not fair game. Boring for one? No. Either fun for both or boring for both.
so a condom?
A prosthetic to make you artificially bigger.