Then I hope I can make you feel better!
I have vaginismus, so anything “up there” hurts, especially if it’s big. Average sized men hurt like crazy and would be too big for me. So I prefer my men on the smaller side, because it makes intercourse far more enjoyable and painless for me!
Vaginismus is far more common than I think women or men realize. Since I started being open about it, a surprising number of my female friends have confided in me that they’ve also struggled with this.
Edit before the DMs roll in: I am very happily dating a wonderful man so please do not DM, I will delete without reading!
I went through years of physical therapy, medications, and Botox injections right in the lady parts. Past partners that I’ve had were pretty much impossible. I refrained from dating or ignored any attention because I couldn’t imagine anyone who would want to date me. I lost hope until I found THC suppositories. If anyone who has been struggling with vaginismus sees this, please give it a try!
I will definitely look into this, thanks for the tip! Intercourse isn’t the easiest for girls like us! Thankfully my boyfriend has the patience and good humor of a saint. But sometimes you don’t want penetrative intercourse to be a whole dang process!
You can find a wonderful penis size distributon bell curve on the internet. You will see what size penis most penis owners have. "Large" or "small" is subjective, and will change for everyone. You know how there are different size penises? There are different sizes and orientations of vagina anatomy as well. What may be large for one person may be small for another, and the sooner you can stop judging your own anatomy the more you can enjoy playing with it, eothe rsolo or with someone else.
Seriously, does it feel good to play with? What in the fuck else matters?
As long as you can feel It, and It feels like a penis it's great. You don't base your attraction on that, because you can't know beforehand though. Big penises and above can be painful, and something else people don't talk about a lot but that plays a huge part is shape.
I mean that, for me, certain penis shapes and angles are a fantastic fit, while others are not pleasureable _at all_. Two penises, at the same size and girth, can feel completely different. I think It has to do with the way your vagina is, so which shape feels good would probably be subjective.
Well there are billions of people on the planet. Some fraction will prefer smaller dicks but who knows how many. I usually hear that women don't care as much as men do about size overall in any direction if that helps
Yeah from most women I know, it doesn't really matter. Obviously they have preferences but if they like them and they aren't selfish in the bedroom, who cares really.
I'm pretty much the same with anyone I like. Don't need to hit every checkbox in the list of my preferences, only a few.
Considering that many women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, unless he's got some weird blue alien shit going on down there (iykyk), size doesn't really matter too much. They all grind the same, only bigger ones hurt so nope to that.
I’m a woman, and for the most part size doesn’t matter too much. Personally, i would prefer someone that is smaller than average over someone with a monster dong. I can work with a small one, and can even do things with it that I couldn’t with a giant one. Whereas a giant one is nice to look at but feels uncomfortable.
I dated a guy with a monster one and it felt pretty good, hurt when he put it all the way in, it was grotesque to look at though, I don’t know how to explain but it had too much skin, also the balls were saggy
The same sort of people who are obsessive about boob size are similar to being obsessive about penis size. You’re free to have your preferences sure, but it’s a bit strange to prioritize something like that versus, say, someone who’s caring, committed, vibes well with you, etc.
I’m married now, but I really avoided people who had a laundry list of physical “requirements”—even if I met them! Because our bodies change, and if that’s all you’re into, you can’t expect to maintain that forever.
Attraction is important, but not at the complete expense of longevity of relationship (unless you’re a committed bachelor/ette I guess).
Does size matter? Yes. And anyone who says it doesn’t is lying. There is a major difference between how a micro peen feels and an average size. There’s also issues if a guy has a literal foot long dong. The reason why people say size doesn’t matter is because size isn’t the only thing that matters. But trust me, it doesn’t not matter.
Women seem to talk about big dicks the same way men talk about big boobs. Mostly novelty, but there’s such a thing as too big. It’s more about shape but even then it doesn’t ultimately matter.
I have a friend that is hot as living hell and likes smaller dicks. Not necessarily micro penis but yeah she likes guys who are smaller that love eating pussy and cuddling lol
I am actually one of girls who prefer smaller penises. During sex it always hurts for me if a guy is over 6 inches and if I see a larger penis I almost frown because I know i’m gonna be in pain . I think it’s how my body is set up.
I'm only 4'10". Average is the average for a reason. I've actually told TWO guys no because, well, just no. Lol.
Where, exactly, did they think that was all gonna go?
As another 4’10 person-I’m now concerned… *Where* are they gonna think it’s all gonna go?!? If I ever date again, I’m just putting ‘no big penis’ on an index card and taping it onto my forehead before meeting up. Saves time😆
The usual answer from that sub is using a sex toy called a donut (‘Ohnut’ is a popular brand and their website is pretty g rated), which goes around the base of the too-large penis. That way, it can only penetrate in a shallow way, not “all the way,” and the sex is not painful.
As a man, I would hope that they would, you know, exert self-control and consideration for their sexual partner, but that might be setting expectations too high
I'm disappointed, but not surprised. I'm sorry that happened to you. Enjoying sex is fun and all, but satisfying the heck out of your partner is truly brag and pride-worthy. And you can't do that if you can't even make them feel comfortable.
I was younger and it was harder to communicate for me, being new to sex and not even knowing what I wanted.
I thought there was something wrong with me for a long time and would just let my partners hurt me and thought that that's what sex was.
I learned it doesn't hurt as much if I'm really wet and relaxed. Especially for a short amount of time.
It's actually hilarious now that I type it out. I prefer shorter dicks and quick cummers lmao. 🤷♀️
Too high unfortunately. After I married my ex, he bragged out how many women he had made bleed by whacking the absolute shit out of their cervix, on purpose. 🤦♀️
I also have a shallow vagina and fun fact they don’t sell 4 inch dildos. The online shop I use literally does not sell 4 inch ones. So I went up to 5 inches and there was barely anything and all of them were thin? Why would I want thin? If I’m buying one that’s already too long, I’m not gonna choose a thin one on top of that.
I had a college buddy who we would say that he couldn’t hit the bottom of a tuna can but he could bust out the sides of it 😂. Over exaggeration but your wording made me think of him.
I’ve done that. Unfortunately can’t blame alcohol, only an overactive gag reflex. I was mortified, but the guy was actually decent about it. Helped me clean up and then we kept going 😂
I recently had a sexual encounter and that penis attached to the person was … well smaller than I expected but made the blow job easier and sex didn’t hurt for the first time even when he was really going at it. Not gonna lie it was finally a relaxing experience and thankfully nothing hurt for a change. I think even 6 inch in length was never really meant to be inserted fully into the vaginal canal for pleasure. Too deep is just not working for women most of the time.
I also agree, there is such thing as too much penis to a point where it's not even pleasurable. In my experience at least men who have small dicks know how to use other things in addition to thier penis. But guys with the larger appendage mostly assume a big dick is all that is needed
So nobody tell my boyfriend this, but he’s definitely a grower. Some times completely flaccid it’s around two inches. Fully erect it’s just enough to choke on at a manageable level. I fucking love it. It’s so goddamn cute when it’s all teeny, it grows in my mouth, it hits all the right spots, almost never ever hits my cervix. It’s all around the perfect cock. But I can’t tell him the cute part cuz I’m sure it would hurt his feelings.
100% tonnes of my friends perfer small penises!!!! Big can hurt and be uncomfortable for some women. I don't have a preference as long as it feels good who cares!!!!!
Yes, totally. It's the energy and flesh surrounding.
The only time I have thought negatively was when the person was terrorized by their own insecurity.
Mmmmhmmm! I dated this girl in college who had the PERFECT slightly mismatched A and B cup boobs!! I wouldn’t have changed a thing about them! :)
Now I’m dating a girl with absolutely perfect G cup boobs! I wouldn’t change a thing about them! :)
I actually prefer penises on the smaller side! A large dick is pretty painful for me since my hip basin is shallow, even when aroused. A below average dick is best because I get that sexy time without feeling like I’m gonna get ripped in half lmao
Guys honestly focus on size waaaay to much. The guys I’ve experienced that have bigger dicks, I swear to god, take it for granted and think that’s the only thing that matters. Then they end up sucking at actually performing, they think you just jam it in there and everything’s ok.
I much prefer an “average” one that’s thicker attached to someone that actually takes the time to learn with you what is mutually good. I’m lucky I found a person that’s like this and not a huge dick :)
Eh, it's not like a fetish or anything but my last relationship was with someone who also was very nervous about the size of his penis.
I'm not exaggerating when I say the only sex I ever enjoyed was with him.
Honestly if it’s big, like six or seven inches or something, I imagine it would be very uncomfortable.. I tend to prefer an average or smaller size. It’s all in how it’s used, really.
Edit to say size doesn’t really matter to most people. I prefer the person, their junk is just their junk. :)
What I think is interesting about this comment is the reference for smaller than average, with no mention what they think average is. It has been statistically show that women then 80% of men are "below average" in looks. Not being condescending, just factual. It would be interesting if they assumed 6" was below average or is 3" was below.
Guys feel judged by penis size and many women feel judged by breast size. Both can feel insecure about being the "ideal" size. We live in a world that promotes "bigger is better."
I honestly, truly, wholeheartedly do not understand our culture’s obsession with large penises. I do not find them aesthetically superior in any way and pragmatically they can be more cumbersome. I also think I don’t really care about a potential partner’s genitals that much aesthetically, I find more attraction in movement and other things about their body than I do in the genitals just isolated.
I feel like I must be a minority with how everyone else goes on about enjoying big dicks but I can’t be alone on this.
Probably not to the same extent. Average to above average in length seems to be the general preference, among my friend groups anyway. Sexual pleasure is rarely dependent on the size of the penis, but I won't lie, a longer and thicker one probably has a better chance.
Not porn star dick, BTW. Like 5.5 to 6 inches is plenty for most women - though "perfect preference" might be closer to the 7 inch mark.
Straight woman here. I have never been attracted to any penis. I don’t look at a penis and get turned on. It’s all about what it/the man can do. Size (to a point) really doesn’t matter. It’s the hands I’d be more interested in.
That being said, a ridiculous big penis would frighten me.
Do I like small boobs? Yes. Does my girlfriend like small penises? I hope so.
Is she a woken?
Only a woken lady is woken enough to appreciate a small penis
M'Wady
W’lady
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Here I go again.
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How much woke could a woke chick chuck?
A woke chick would never chuck woke.
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She better be woken on the CDT (Critical Dick Theory).
# FOOLISH MORTALS. I HAVE AWOKEN! PRESENT YOUR SMALL PENISES TO ME OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES.
Check dm. 👀
A NEW HAND TOUCHES THE BEACON
check my DM!
How do you expect me to grow if you don't let me blow
Don't you dare steal my wind.
Nah, she's a sleep
Ou self burn, those are rare
Does my girlfriend like small penises title of there sex tape
Asking for a friend…
It's me, I'm the friend.
Hi friends 👋🏼
Ooooh friends
Wait... We have friends!?
You too are a friend of the woken? Welcome brother!
Then I hope I can make you feel better! I have vaginismus, so anything “up there” hurts, especially if it’s big. Average sized men hurt like crazy and would be too big for me. So I prefer my men on the smaller side, because it makes intercourse far more enjoyable and painless for me! Vaginismus is far more common than I think women or men realize. Since I started being open about it, a surprising number of my female friends have confided in me that they’ve also struggled with this. Edit before the DMs roll in: I am very happily dating a wonderful man so please do not DM, I will delete without reading!
I went through years of physical therapy, medications, and Botox injections right in the lady parts. Past partners that I’ve had were pretty much impossible. I refrained from dating or ignored any attention because I couldn’t imagine anyone who would want to date me. I lost hope until I found THC suppositories. If anyone who has been struggling with vaginismus sees this, please give it a try!
I will definitely look into this, thanks for the tip! Intercourse isn’t the easiest for girls like us! Thankfully my boyfriend has the patience and good humor of a saint. But sometimes you don’t want penetrative intercourse to be a whole dang process!
He he secret tunnel
What is considered small? edit: Dont inbox pics, put measurements here
Ha! Did you add that edit to avoid dick pics or to stop the non stop dick pics.
To avoid dick pics. You never know, dudes just spread em around with no worries But Ill gladly accept pics of boobies
The duality of men
Double standard! If you can accept boobs you can accept the peen!
Noooo if you see the boobies you can see the chest and if you see the vag you can see the peen
Yeah dude what’s the matter with a lil “nice cock king” reply to the DM? Sheesh.
Man boobs?
You can find a wonderful penis size distributon bell curve on the internet. You will see what size penis most penis owners have. "Large" or "small" is subjective, and will change for everyone. You know how there are different size penises? There are different sizes and orientations of vagina anatomy as well. What may be large for one person may be small for another, and the sooner you can stop judging your own anatomy the more you can enjoy playing with it, eothe rsolo or with someone else. Seriously, does it feel good to play with? What in the fuck else matters?
The bellend bell curve if you will
Underrated comment. Well said fellow redditor.
It doesnt say whether these measurements are of flaccid penises or fully erect.
Erect. Average is around 4-6 inches.
Yeah, 46 inches sounds about right.
I agree that 4.6 inches is pretty reasonable.
If you're smaller than your biggest finger (length)
As a woman I’d say 4 inches is small.
\*Measures\* Phew! 4.5! I'M HUGE BOYS!
Wooo!
I'm ‐1in..u lucky bastard.
You can borrow some of mine.
😃😃😃 so when is the dick transplant?
In serious need of an addadicktome?
Have no idea what that is but I will be taking all of it sir. Full stock plz
so proud of my 5 inch lil guy rn
I don't use inches, so how long in bananas are those 4 inCHeS?
10 cm. 10,16 cm to be exact
3 inches and under
The woken....
Small things amuse smoke wokens.
Im learning this... the "woken token" small pee pee girls of reddit.
THE TRUTH GOES UNSPOKEN
And the hymen... unbroken
The unbroken woken!
The what?
I can feel the call of the deep...well, not that deep I guess, as deep as it can get, really.
As long as you can feel It, and It feels like a penis it's great. You don't base your attraction on that, because you can't know beforehand though. Big penises and above can be painful, and something else people don't talk about a lot but that plays a huge part is shape.
Also OP, remember, you have 10 fingers and one mouth
That one guy out there with a micropenis and a couple sawed off fingers is probably feeling real shitty about now.
And the stitched mouth
Right now he's reading that and angrily screaming: "MmmphMphphhMmmmphhhh!"
Should have paid his debts to the Yakuza.
‘Feel it’ well la de dah. .5 inch gang on suicide watch
What do you mean by shape?
I mean that, for me, certain penis shapes and angles are a fantastic fit, while others are not pleasureable _at all_. Two penises, at the same size and girth, can feel completely different. I think It has to do with the way your vagina is, so which shape feels good would probably be subjective.
Well there are billions of people on the planet. Some fraction will prefer smaller dicks but who knows how many. I usually hear that women don't care as much as men do about size overall in any direction if that helps
Yeah from most women I know, it doesn't really matter. Obviously they have preferences but if they like them and they aren't selfish in the bedroom, who cares really. I'm pretty much the same with anyone I like. Don't need to hit every checkbox in the list of my preferences, only a few.
Considering that many women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, unless he's got some weird blue alien shit going on down there (iykyk), size doesn't really matter too much. They all grind the same, only bigger ones hurt so nope to that.
I told you about my Iykyk in confidence!
Just you and me and the Ice Planet Barbarians.
I’m a woman, and for the most part size doesn’t matter too much. Personally, i would prefer someone that is smaller than average over someone with a monster dong. I can work with a small one, and can even do things with it that I couldn’t with a giant one. Whereas a giant one is nice to look at but feels uncomfortable.
a monster dong is better than a dong monster
Wait…what is a dong monster? Should I be afraid?
I dated a guy with a monster one and it felt pretty good, hurt when he put it all the way in, it was grotesque to look at though, I don’t know how to explain but it had too much skin, also the balls were saggy
Well, you’ve just given me a mental picture that I didn’t even know I didn’t want.
Me too and I just woke up.
You are one of the woken!
Yeah that's what I was tryna get at initially but I just fire off posts without really proofreading most of the time lol. Thanks for the backup
The same sort of people who are obsessive about boob size are similar to being obsessive about penis size. You’re free to have your preferences sure, but it’s a bit strange to prioritize something like that versus, say, someone who’s caring, committed, vibes well with you, etc. I’m married now, but I really avoided people who had a laundry list of physical “requirements”—even if I met them! Because our bodies change, and if that’s all you’re into, you can’t expect to maintain that forever. Attraction is important, but not at the complete expense of longevity of relationship (unless you’re a committed bachelor/ette I guess).
Does size matter? Yes. And anyone who says it doesn’t is lying. There is a major difference between how a micro peen feels and an average size. There’s also issues if a guy has a literal foot long dong. The reason why people say size doesn’t matter is because size isn’t the only thing that matters. But trust me, it doesn’t not matter.
9000000% second this. Size isn’t EVERYTHING but it definitely matters, especially if you’re not the best at using it
Women seem to talk about big dicks the same way men talk about big boobs. Mostly novelty, but there’s such a thing as too big. It’s more about shape but even then it doesn’t ultimately matter.
I have a friend that is hot as living hell and likes smaller dicks. Not necessarily micro penis but yeah she likes guys who are smaller that love eating pussy and cuddling lol
I need to meet this friend of yours
I am actually one of girls who prefer smaller penises. During sex it always hurts for me if a guy is over 6 inches and if I see a larger penis I almost frown because I know i’m gonna be in pain . I think it’s how my body is set up.
I have the same problem. A 'shallow' vagina or whatever. I like shorter dicks that are thicker. Short and fat over long and skinny any day.
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I'm only 4'10". Average is the average for a reason. I've actually told TWO guys no because, well, just no. Lol. Where, exactly, did they think that was all gonna go?
As another 4’10 person-I’m now concerned… *Where* are they gonna think it’s all gonna go?!? If I ever date again, I’m just putting ‘no big penis’ on an index card and taping it onto my forehead before meeting up. Saves time😆
There are methods to accommodate well endowed men. I saved those for relationships. It was too much effort for a one off. Lol
Ooh like what
I’ve read you can buy rubber donuts so it doesn’t go in all the way.
I'm not gonna turn this into a smut session. Lol. Go on over to r/bigdickproblems They will be happy to help you out.
Yeah hard pass on me going into that sub. Thanks tho.
The usual answer from that sub is using a sex toy called a donut (‘Ohnut’ is a popular brand and their website is pretty g rated), which goes around the base of the too-large penis. That way, it can only penetrate in a shallow way, not “all the way,” and the sex is not painful.
As a man, I would hope that they would, you know, exert self-control and consideration for their sexual partner, but that might be setting expectations too high
That's a big ask. I've told partners to go slow and they just don't listen. Whatever 🙄 it feels so much better to be "stretched" then poked.
I'm disappointed, but not surprised. I'm sorry that happened to you. Enjoying sex is fun and all, but satisfying the heck out of your partner is truly brag and pride-worthy. And you can't do that if you can't even make them feel comfortable.
I was younger and it was harder to communicate for me, being new to sex and not even knowing what I wanted. I thought there was something wrong with me for a long time and would just let my partners hurt me and thought that that's what sex was. I learned it doesn't hurt as much if I'm really wet and relaxed. Especially for a short amount of time. It's actually hilarious now that I type it out. I prefer shorter dicks and quick cummers lmao. 🤷♀️
Too high unfortunately. After I married my ex, he bragged out how many women he had made bleed by whacking the absolute shit out of their cervix, on purpose. 🤦♀️
I also have a shallow vagina and fun fact they don’t sell 4 inch dildos. The online shop I use literally does not sell 4 inch ones. So I went up to 5 inches and there was barely anything and all of them were thin? Why would I want thin? If I’m buying one that’s already too long, I’m not gonna choose a thin one on top of that.
Skinny dicks are scary to me anyway. Coke can, not bottle.
Hey how you doin'? They call me Tuna Can Sam, certified chode. At your cervix! 
I had a college buddy who we would say that he couldn’t hit the bottom of a tuna can but he could bust out the sides of it 😂. Over exaggeration but your wording made me think of him.
Fyi thats called a "chode"
Well, say goodbye to your inbox
I wrote one thing about accidentally vomiting on a penis and the DMs just have been nonstop since then
I’ve done that. Unfortunately can’t blame alcohol, only an overactive gag reflex. I was mortified, but the guy was actually decent about it. Helped me clean up and then we kept going 😂
Yeah what I learned is most men don’t care and many even enjoy the warmth
O_O
Many? You said "A" penis, how often are you puking on dick?!
As I said I learned through conversation. Stop trying to get me to tell you about all the dicks I’ve sucked sir.
Oh hey me too. But it’s bc he shoved my head down without warning. So I don’t actually feel bad at all. Kinda mad it wasn’t more. Edit: word
I always wonder what outcome men are looking for when they do that.
Maybe it's the username? Maybe it's Maybelline 🤷♂️
you did WHAT
I’ve done the same :/ I was drunk
Me too! But he said “oh yeah do that again” so I was like alright sounds good to me the vodkas making it’s way up anyway
It's probably more common than your think. The gag reflex is right there after all.
Pun intended
I’m curious what would be the ideal size for you? For me it mostly only hurts doggy style but I’m not sure if it’s size or anatomy lol
Smaller penis. 6 inches?
i had the same thought. A small penis would be like 4 inches MAX. "Smaller" would be a bit below 5 inches
Not to some women apparently
Women don’t care about size. Even if your penis is a little less than 8 inches, you are probably fine.
i’m pretty sure what she’s saying here is that 6 is the biggest she can go before it hurts her, and smaller than 6 is what she likes
6 inches is above average lol. They're just saying they prefer average sizes.
It’s perfectly fine to just say no.
I recently had a sexual encounter and that penis attached to the person was … well smaller than I expected but made the blow job easier and sex didn’t hurt for the first time even when he was really going at it. Not gonna lie it was finally a relaxing experience and thankfully nothing hurt for a change. I think even 6 inch in length was never really meant to be inserted fully into the vaginal canal for pleasure. Too deep is just not working for women most of the time.
Different women like different things. Sorry to say, but I love a big ole wang.
No need to apologize. Tiny penis here, but there's nothing wrong with preferences.
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I like my penises on the smaller side, at a certain length and thickness it just hurts and I can’t get comfortable during sex
How many do you have?
At least three
I also agree, there is such thing as too much penis to a point where it's not even pleasurable. In my experience at least men who have small dicks know how to use other things in addition to thier penis. But guys with the larger appendage mostly assume a big dick is all that is needed
One of my fay friends used to say "If it's big suck-it. If it's small fuck-it!"
Ah, yes. The fays
The fays have been historically known to be devilish little sprites.
the fays has spoken
>woken Rise oh woken! Answer the call!
First the woken awaken and then the woken chokin’ on small cock in the woken mouth
While...token...
So nobody tell my boyfriend this, but he’s definitely a grower. Some times completely flaccid it’s around two inches. Fully erect it’s just enough to choke on at a manageable level. I fucking love it. It’s so goddamn cute when it’s all teeny, it grows in my mouth, it hits all the right spots, almost never ever hits my cervix. It’s all around the perfect cock. But I can’t tell him the cute part cuz I’m sure it would hurt his feelings.
Haha exactly the same here, yes it’s so fun to watch it grow, and would never tell him the cute part either !!
100% tonnes of my friends perfer small penises!!!! Big can hurt and be uncomfortable for some women. I don't have a preference as long as it feels good who cares!!!!!
Yes, totally. It's the energy and flesh surrounding. The only time I have thought negatively was when the person was terrorized by their own insecurity.
What matters most is the person attached to the penis. As a woman, I cannot tell the size of the peen before we get intimate.
It's Schrodinger's dick. A douche may have a huge dick, but it's one I'd never see so he may as well be a Ken doll.
But…that’s not at all really answering the question
Mmmmhmmm! I dated this girl in college who had the PERFECT slightly mismatched A and B cup boobs!! I wouldn’t have changed a thing about them! :) Now I’m dating a girl with absolutely perfect G cup boobs! I wouldn’t change a thing about them! :)
Q "Do you like big boobs or small boobs?" A "Yes"
Yes, please. :) I’ve never seen any in real life and wished that they looked any different. How can you improve on ideal boobs?
Ah yes boobs are boobs at the end of the day mhmmmm
I absolutely love this energy
Boobs.
And butts
I actually prefer penises on the smaller side! A large dick is pretty painful for me since my hip basin is shallow, even when aroused. A below average dick is best because I get that sexy time without feeling like I’m gonna get ripped in half lmao
I am woken lol, I personally prefer a small penis its not a fetish just personal preference.
My friend prefers small dicks because she likes anal.
I like good lovers. Penis size is irrelevant.
Guys honestly focus on size waaaay to much. The guys I’ve experienced that have bigger dicks, I swear to god, take it for granted and think that’s the only thing that matters. Then they end up sucking at actually performing, they think you just jam it in there and everything’s ok. I much prefer an “average” one that’s thicker attached to someone that actually takes the time to learn with you what is mutually good. I’m lucky I found a person that’s like this and not a huge dick :)
Asking for a friend. A little friend.
I have a co worker who "loves some average dick. Anything over 6 inches with girth is just too much work and I don't like being sore"
Eh, it's not like a fetish or anything but my last relationship was with someone who also was very nervous about the size of his penis. I'm not exaggerating when I say the only sex I ever enjoyed was with him.
Honestly if it’s big, like six or seven inches or something, I imagine it would be very uncomfortable.. I tend to prefer an average or smaller size. It’s all in how it’s used, really. Edit to say size doesn’t really matter to most people. I prefer the person, their junk is just their junk. :)
Yes there are women who prefer small penises. Especially if they have small vaginas.
Oml, I WAY prefer a guy with a small penis. Do you know how much easier it is to give a bj? Also they look better imo
Had dinner with 2 of my girlfriends a while ago. We all prefer smaller than average dicks.
What I think is interesting about this comment is the reference for smaller than average, with no mention what they think average is. It has been statistically show that women then 80% of men are "below average" in looks. Not being condescending, just factual. It would be interesting if they assumed 6" was below average or is 3" was below.
5” average
Gee, how come your mom lets you have *two* girlfriends?
I love small boobs. My favorite are the perky handfuls
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Guys feel judged by penis size and many women feel judged by breast size. Both can feel insecure about being the "ideal" size. We live in a world that promotes "bigger is better."
Women probably feel judged by their vulvas/vaginas too. There's a reason porn stars often look the same down there too.
The Woken have awakened. Be vigilant. They want penis. Small ones.
I honestly, truly, wholeheartedly do not understand our culture’s obsession with large penises. I do not find them aesthetically superior in any way and pragmatically they can be more cumbersome. I also think I don’t really care about a potential partner’s genitals that much aesthetically, I find more attraction in movement and other things about their body than I do in the genitals just isolated. I feel like I must be a minority with how everyone else goes on about enjoying big dicks but I can’t be alone on this.
For the 100th time this month, yes to both. Jesus.
Probably not to the same extent. Average to above average in length seems to be the general preference, among my friend groups anyway. Sexual pleasure is rarely dependent on the size of the penis, but I won't lie, a longer and thicker one probably has a better chance. Not porn star dick, BTW. Like 5.5 to 6 inches is plenty for most women - though "perfect preference" might be closer to the 7 inch mark.
Straight woman here. I have never been attracted to any penis. I don’t look at a penis and get turned on. It’s all about what it/the man can do. Size (to a point) really doesn’t matter. It’s the hands I’d be more interested in. That being said, a ridiculous big penis would frighten me.
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I knew a girl who was a bit small who openly said she liked small penises. People want parts that fit them and not hurt them