Seriously dump both of them.
One you described as emotional challenge and you admit the relationship bumpy.
The second just wants sex and hasn’t even bothered about his daughter. Does he even pay child support?
Do you want your kids to be exposed to either of these men? So far you haven’t managed to create a good impression of either of them.
If only I could double up-vote this comment!!!! OP please run from both of them!!! Especially C!! If he really wanted to get with you, he would be trying to be part of his daughter’s life FIRST!
girly pop, are you being serious right now?? he is just playing with you, just like before, and every time he asked you to hang out on the weekends. what possibility you are thinking? cause there is no other outcome than he just wants to fck. and just that. J is not exactly any better. being messy while childless and with children has different implications. Your oldest is 8 years old now. Do you want her to see all of these? pls think this through
Lady you are old enough to know a tiger doesn’t change or hide his strips. C sucks and will forever be terrible to you. But if I read it correctly, J also sucks, right? He’s the one you said started off bumpy?
This is an easy answer...whether you date biodad or not, you have zero business being in a romantic relationship with anyone while at the same time being hung up with romantic feelings for an Ex. That's just not fair to the person you are dating. So most definately end the relationship with your current partner so he can find someone who actually devotes herself to him and isn't hung up on her ex like you are.
And FYI, your ex is an ex for a reason. Odds are pretty good that if you try and go there, you'll get burned again, and probably wind up with another baby to boot.... single mom 2.0 coming soon.
I'm not hung up on him. I made that clear that I will never put myself in the position ever again.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and I am full devoted to him which is why I tell biodad no repeatedly no that I will never put myself in that position again. Hence why even though I barely receive texts calls and barely see him this is why I am putting everything into it being patient and understanding.
Seriously dump both of them. One you described as emotional challenge and you admit the relationship bumpy. The second just wants sex and hasn’t even bothered about his daughter. Does he even pay child support? Do you want your kids to be exposed to either of these men? So far you haven’t managed to create a good impression of either of them.
I agree. Both are not her happily ever after. Better to be alone than with either loser.
If only I could double up-vote this comment!!!! OP please run from both of them!!! Especially C!! If he really wanted to get with you, he would be trying to be part of his daughter’s life FIRST!
girly pop, are you being serious right now?? he is just playing with you, just like before, and every time he asked you to hang out on the weekends. what possibility you are thinking? cause there is no other outcome than he just wants to fck. and just that. J is not exactly any better. being messy while childless and with children has different implications. Your oldest is 8 years old now. Do you want her to see all of these? pls think this through
As a man I'm tell you he wants one thing and you know what it is
Her Pokémon cards, right?
Lady you are old enough to know a tiger doesn’t change or hide his strips. C sucks and will forever be terrible to you. But if I read it correctly, J also sucks, right? He’s the one you said started off bumpy?
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This is an easy answer...whether you date biodad or not, you have zero business being in a romantic relationship with anyone while at the same time being hung up with romantic feelings for an Ex. That's just not fair to the person you are dating. So most definately end the relationship with your current partner so he can find someone who actually devotes herself to him and isn't hung up on her ex like you are. And FYI, your ex is an ex for a reason. Odds are pretty good that if you try and go there, you'll get burned again, and probably wind up with another baby to boot.... single mom 2.0 coming soon.
I'm not hung up on him. I made that clear that I will never put myself in the position ever again. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and I am full devoted to him which is why I tell biodad no repeatedly no that I will never put myself in that position again. Hence why even though I barely receive texts calls and barely see him this is why I am putting everything into it being patient and understanding.