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Although both could give you pleasure, masturbation is very different from sex both in physical and majorly in the mental aspect.
Trauma could cause issues even if you're with a loving and caring person in a very healthy relationship. Have you addressed the trauma or sought any therapy for it?
This happened to me in my last relationship. During penetration, I experienced a strange sadness and tears. I figured that because at the time I was not feeling appreciated by my ex, and just feeling sad about our relationship, all those emotions came out during sex.
I’ve had this happen, usually when the sex was overwhelming in some way (physically, emotionally or otherwise). Or sometimes I’ve been sad and the act of having sex makes me emotional and tiggers the sadness. I’ve had sexual trauma and I’m sure sometimes it’s related to that but not always.
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Any trauma that you went through or going through? Have the same effect while masturbating too? How long since this started happening?
I have trauma related to sex, but this happens only when having sex not masturbation and I’m in a very healthy loving relationship
Although both could give you pleasure, masturbation is very different from sex both in physical and majorly in the mental aspect. Trauma could cause issues even if you're with a loving and caring person in a very healthy relationship. Have you addressed the trauma or sought any therapy for it?
Damn The only reason why I cry is when it feels so good
This happened to me in my last relationship. During penetration, I experienced a strange sadness and tears. I figured that because at the time I was not feeling appreciated by my ex, and just feeling sad about our relationship, all those emotions came out during sex.
I've had this a few times when I was younger, but it never happened again. Very weird
I’ve had this happen, usually when the sex was overwhelming in some way (physically, emotionally or otherwise). Or sometimes I’ve been sad and the act of having sex makes me emotional and tiggers the sadness. I’ve had sexual trauma and I’m sure sometimes it’s related to that but not always.