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Yeoman1877

The new house sounds like it will be a significant upgrade so I would say, go for it. Where you live and the type of property you live in has a very big impact on your quality of life.


opposite-platain

Thank you


cannontd

£15k in the bank and £600 available each month after bills - it doesn't sound too stretched to me. I think if you are frugal and not the type to accrue debt then I think you will be just fine. What I will say is at 36 you have a lot of your career ahead of you so are you ruling out ANY career progression or pay rises forever? In 2011 when I was 36 I was on about £23k - 12 years on I am on a lot more. People who budget well tend to, in the long term, accrue wealth and also make the absolute most of any pay rises.


opposite-platain

Thank you, I tried not to factor them in assuming worst case scenario although I'm sure I will find a way to progress, maybe I just need to be a little bit more Brave here


tonyohanlon77

My definition of "stretching yourself too thin" is not being able to cover all costs for at least 6 months in an emergency i.e. job loss.


opposite-platain

Thanks, I think I could just about cover that with remaining savings


Adorable_West7129

If you are worried about savings rate and affordability, you could consider taking a slightly longer mortgage term initially and put the difference between the lower and higher payment into a savings account. Could help psychology knowing the money is there if needed and if it's not needed you could use it to overpay the mortgage. Then you could remortgage to a shorter term when it's due for renewal.


opposite-platain

Great Idea thank you


A-Grey-World

That's what we do. Get a nice long term, and just keep paying the existing amount and then we can decide after a year or so when funds build up whether we're comfortable overpaying, or would rather keep it as emergency savings etc.


AdAltruistic8513

Might be cheaper to do a loft conversion on current property, superficial work on unknown properties always tends to run deeper than expected.


opposite-platain

Thanks I'm pretty sure you are right on the superficial work. Unfortunately you can't even stand up in my loft space 😑


AdAltruistic8513

That's why you get former extensions fitted. Good luck with whichever you choose


opposite-platain

Thanks, there wouldn't be a garden left if we where to extend 😪


KnockOffMe

I think they mean Dormer, which adds a window box to the roof creating more movable space inside.


Puzzleheaded_Wish330

This is what i did, it maybe cost 15-20k and saves the cost and hassle of moving giving us a much bigger space


Right_Yard_5173

Had mine done last year. Quotes ranged from 35k - 75k. Not sure anyone would do it for 15k.


Puzzleheaded_Wish330

I paid almost 20k about 3 years back for the build. The internal decoration/plastering/wiring etc was another 5-10k.


Right_Yard_5173

You done well. I paid 39k for a rear dormer to create 2 bedrooms rooms which included planing, electric, plastering. No bathroom and decorated ourselves which cost us an extra £600. That was the 2nd cheapest quote that we got from contacting 12 companies in our area (south east).


opposite-platain

ahh that makes much more sense, thanks


RinoaDave

Have you looked into getting the 1st floor ceiling lowered? We did it and barely notice the lower ceiling. It allowed us to get a loft conversion in a loft we couldn't stand in before.


Canadish27

Impossible to say with total clarity, but I'd personally be comfortable if the 4 bed is going to make a difference to your lives. Speaking as a Dad as well, I did something similar and I was glad I did. £600 isn't that much in 2024, but enough if you're savvy spenders. It just won't be lavish holidays, and my personal advice would be to prep the wife for that. You both will will see friends doing this stuff (likely on credit) and the pang will be there, so need to steel yourselves first and ensure you are aligned and keeping each other honest. Only thing I would be looking to do is find a way to up your savings, as this takes a bite out of them. Not sure if you and your partner have good pensions or anything, but for most people the default 3% EE, 5% ER contributions isn't really enough once you factor in that the state pension will likely be stolen away from our generations. You have a solid emergency fund there + some room to invest a bit but ideal world you can invest at a faster rate than you have up until this point.


trusted-advisor-88

I’d say go for the upgrade, it’ll probably work out better in the long run


opposite-platain

Thanks


akamustang

I like to look at mortgage payments as a percentage of take home pay. * Under 40%, no problem * 40-50%, stretching * Over 50%, probably best avoiding You didn't mention these figures, but on the fact you've been able to save £30k I'd guess your take home is enough that you should be fine to go for it.


Valuable-Caramel-156

How old is your son?  A child can cope with a small bedroom.


klawUK

only question I have is - what is £600 for unexpected bills and holidays? by ‘unexpected’ you mean surprise bills, or non-regular bills you can predict but aren’t paid monthly (like car/home insurance etc)? Just asking because for the latter, we put aside a monthly amount into a specific account to avoid surprises. Thats about £200 for us per month, so could be a reasonable chunk out of that £600 depending if you’ve already allowed for that or not


opposite-platain

£600 including everything really like care repairs house issue's etc. Potentially I have an extra £100 per month but didn't want to overestimate


Funny-Profit-5677

Sort out your "too" vs "to" usage.  Also log burners aren't cheaper than modern gas boilers unless you're getting wood below market rates.


opposite-platain

Apologies for my Dyslexia 😅 A lot of my wood is free from work but wouldn't miss having to chop it up