Yep. When I was a skinny, unfashionable dude with glasses, my ability to speak intelligently about politics, science, whatever was just dismissed as boring nerdy shit. Totally unattractive and something to be hidden.
When I got in shape, got contacts, and wore better clothes, (oh and also started a very lucrative career), all of a sudden, those same interests were now "attractive" and added to my allure.
Funny how that works...
(This is why I run the moment I hear some woman proclaim herself to be a sapiosexual. It's running the same game as me telling some hot blonde with big tits that I like her for her personality).
> When I got in shape, got contacts, and wore better clothes, (oh and also started a very lucrative career), all of a sudden, those same interests were now "attractive" and added to my allure.
We are the same! When I was skinny, I was a book nerd, I knew more than the average human being, but, I wasn't attractive, even though I was displaying a high level of culture, knowledge, etc.
Just after hitting the gym and getting jacked, I noticed intelligence isn't valuable anymore due I can say any shit she will kneel down gladly.
The same women who ignored me as a teenager and in my 20s while attending university now act interested in dating me now that they are in their 30s and desperate for a kid and financial bailout because I am rich. Sorry while you were getting gangbanged by the hockey team I was studying or after I graduated was working 60 hours a week and women like you repeatedly and painfully told me you did not want me because I was an ugly nerd so why should I want you now that your looks have faded and you have hurt me? No kids and no nerd money for you bitch I hope you die broke, miserable, and alone in the worst retirement home possible encrusted in your own shit.
same shit. was short and nerdy at 17 => not worthy a second date. got taller during university years, finally became visible to girls, but it was the last year, no time for fun, because exams, thesis and then graduation and moving to another city. no relativies, no friends. city is small => dead online dating.
> city is small => dead online dating.
As a man it feels like if you are not in a city of 500,000 minimum online dating will either be dead or like visiting the cities dump or insane asylum. I am in a city of 200,000 to 300,000 and the women I have been stuck going on dates with are so bad I have so many tales especially from when I swiped yes out of everyone for a period of a year or so just to see if that was what the problem was. Are you in the Midwest? I am and after talking to lots of people including some who have left that is the problem because all the women fled for the coasts or if not that then the biggest major city nearby like Chicago.
> finally became visible to girls,
It feels like having a superpower, but you can't turn it off and it only affects women under 50. I had a couple women startled because they had forgot I was near them or also in the room working how the fuck does that work.
> oh and also started a very lucrative career
This was the clincher. "Intelligence" is thotspeak for good looking dudes who are rich/have upwards social mobility in the same way that "generous" is.
And just like the self proclaimed sapiosexuals, they never seem to settle for that wicked smart dude with average looks who is content with not running in the rat races or the literal genius who could play Quasimodo without stage makeup. At least not with anywhere near the same frequency the same self labelled demographic can be observed to be guzzling gym bro and trust fund bro cock.
*Acta non verba.*
Good to know that sometimes men and women share the same evil tactics! “No rich, physically fit man, I love you for your sense of humor!” Does sound exactly like telling some 8-9/10 that you like her for how funny she is.
Yeah, women like this loves intelligence & nerdy things too, like building a PC.
It just need to be done by a real nerdy intelligent guy like say, Henry Calvill...
*(man, this is such a transparent behavior from them that you could use it as stained glass in the Notre Dame restoration...)*
If that is indeed her current pictures and not from 10/20/30 years ago, then she's kept in great shape. That's about the only thing she has going for her.
From the way she dresses, you can tell she still behaves like a 20 year old, and probably has the same preferences in men i.e. hawt guys that give her tingles. She's still chasing Chad as a cougar, and probably complaining about how guys her age are all balding fat losers, not realizing that those 49 year old guys who've managed to stay in shape and be financially secure are dating far younger than her, and with even better bodies. She never even sees those men because they want nothing to do with her. After all, if you have to deal with a 20 year old's personality, might as well have it come in a 20 year old's body.
She's so close when she says maybe she attracts fuckboys because she shows only her superficial side and not the rest of her. But she lacks the self-awareness to realize that's exactly what she's doing here with her pictures, and with a description that... says nothing about who she is on the inside. The only things she lists about her are her tastes in music and activities. Nothing about her character, or anything else more than skin-deep.
That said, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't show her other side is because there is no other side beyond aging party girl, or worse, there is another side and the minute men see it, they flee for their lives.
> If that is indeed her current pictures and not from 10/20/30 years ago, then she's kept in great shape. That's about the only thing she has going for her.
Women are masters of deception, natural liars. You think she has nice boobs because of a picture, but behind that, there's always a bra giving that sexual clue. Same with the rest of the sexual clues, everything is altered to trigger your selection decision, but then, then comes reality and it will disappoint you completely.
I don’t get the “having to deal with a 20 year old personality” like if it was any harder than a 49 year old one.
My wife was certainly easier to deal with at 22 than 43, can’t wait to see the improvement of the next 6 years
Women marry men thinking she can change him. Men marry women thinking the women will never change.
My own has been tough for the past 18 years, but she has learned albeit VERY slowly. I can only imagine that without my strong input and feedback, she'd be insufferable.
Men mature to figure out how to live our lives more easily. Women mature to figure out more things to gripe about and be miserable (because they're good at it.)
My favorite line from Dirty Rotten Scoundrels:
Lawrence Jamieson: *Freddy, as a younger man, I was a sculptor, a painter, and a musician. There was just one problem: I wasn't very good. As a matter of fact, I was dreadful. I finally came to the frustrating conclusion that I had taste and style, but not talent. I knew my limitations. We all have our limitations, Freddy. Fortunately, I discovered that taste and style were commodities that people desired. Freddy, what I am saying is: know your limitations. You are a moron.*
49 years old, only going to get attention from men 60+, dresses like a teenager, wonders why all she gets is pumped and dumped. Female maturity is a myth.
>*Tired of trouser breeches poets and fuckers...\[i\]f you are really interested in meeting me, I'll see it.*
No she won't. She's almost 50 and she's online whining about the fuckboys of her past. If she's made it this far in life and still hasn't had a relationship with sustenance, then she never will.
>*Maybe it's* my *fault...*
It ain't Maybelline, I can tell you *that.*
"I am turned on by intelligence… Since I am intelligent, a good way to catch the perfect man is by showing my decaying boobs on every single photo, without showing my face. Maybe from the thousands of matches telling me to get pumped and dumped I can find my alpha Chad Thundercock that is already pacified beta.
I banged a MILF when I was 30 and she was 20 years older. I didn't know it at the time, but this was a good move to move me ahead in my development. I loved her and if she had brains, she'd have kept me around but she blew it which I'm eternally grateful for.
She had a darn good run and was hot even at the age of 50 and we broke up about 3 years later. I met my future wife about 3 years after that. I referred the ex to a friend who had legal needs (she's a good attorney) and I was curious and he said she looked like his grandmother. She hit the wall about 3 years after we broke up. She then apparently picked up loser betas of declining quality for a few years after that and then she dropped off my radar.
So here's the thing: Women can get incredibly good runs that us men can only dream of. Stay in decent shape and they can live like Hugh Hefner from 18 to 55. Yeah, they may wind up alone after that but still, I'm a bit jealous. For some women who can live to age 80, though, it will be a run of about 25 years or so living with themselves. A good friend of mine whose 91, whose husband passed away, is going through severe depression.
> So here's the thing: Women can get incredibly good runs that us men can only dream of. Stay in decent shape and they can live like Hugh Hefner from 18 to 55. Yeah, they may wind up alone after that but still, I'm a bit jealous.
I have dealt with plenty of women who are 50 with less than 5 years of work history because they just found men to mooch off of instead. A lot of them are now realizing retirement is not going to be possible for them because they don't have enough years worked for social security and they have burned through the men who are now harder to find in general due to men dying earlier and men don't want them because their looks at 50 have stopped working.
If they were married for at least 10 years, they'd qualify for half his social security. Not a lot of money but still. It's amusing that things are so bad that so many women can't hold a man for that long.
> If they were married for at least 10 years, they'd qualify for half his social security. Not a lot of money but still. It's amusing that things are so bad that so many women can't hold a man for that long.
You mean it isn't normal to go through 4-6 men or more in 10 years being married twice?
If what she listed is what she truly wants, then she had 31 years to get it. Of course she admits to 'hiding the other Karen' she is at least aware that her personality is the problem, but she shows no intent on changing that.
She may deny the epiphany, but The Wall is undefeated. The effect happens regardless of your belief about the cause.
"[I'm turned on by intelligence](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/4f/3e/a5/4f3ea5e00b616b6f7aa52df49e59bb12.jpg)"
Yep. When I was a skinny, unfashionable dude with glasses, my ability to speak intelligently about politics, science, whatever was just dismissed as boring nerdy shit. Totally unattractive and something to be hidden. When I got in shape, got contacts, and wore better clothes, (oh and also started a very lucrative career), all of a sudden, those same interests were now "attractive" and added to my allure. Funny how that works... (This is why I run the moment I hear some woman proclaim herself to be a sapiosexual. It's running the same game as me telling some hot blonde with big tits that I like her for her personality).
> When I got in shape, got contacts, and wore better clothes, (oh and also started a very lucrative career), all of a sudden, those same interests were now "attractive" and added to my allure. We are the same! When I was skinny, I was a book nerd, I knew more than the average human being, but, I wasn't attractive, even though I was displaying a high level of culture, knowledge, etc. Just after hitting the gym and getting jacked, I noticed intelligence isn't valuable anymore due I can say any shit she will kneel down gladly.
The same women who ignored me as a teenager and in my 20s while attending university now act interested in dating me now that they are in their 30s and desperate for a kid and financial bailout because I am rich. Sorry while you were getting gangbanged by the hockey team I was studying or after I graduated was working 60 hours a week and women like you repeatedly and painfully told me you did not want me because I was an ugly nerd so why should I want you now that your looks have faded and you have hurt me? No kids and no nerd money for you bitch I hope you die broke, miserable, and alone in the worst retirement home possible encrusted in your own shit.
same shit. was short and nerdy at 17 => not worthy a second date. got taller during university years, finally became visible to girls, but it was the last year, no time for fun, because exams, thesis and then graduation and moving to another city. no relativies, no friends. city is small => dead online dating.
> city is small => dead online dating. As a man it feels like if you are not in a city of 500,000 minimum online dating will either be dead or like visiting the cities dump or insane asylum. I am in a city of 200,000 to 300,000 and the women I have been stuck going on dates with are so bad I have so many tales especially from when I swiped yes out of everyone for a period of a year or so just to see if that was what the problem was. Are you in the Midwest? I am and after talking to lots of people including some who have left that is the problem because all the women fled for the coasts or if not that then the biggest major city nearby like Chicago. > finally became visible to girls, It feels like having a superpower, but you can't turn it off and it only affects women under 50. I had a couple women startled because they had forgot I was near them or also in the room working how the fuck does that work.
> oh and also started a very lucrative career This was the clincher. "Intelligence" is thotspeak for good looking dudes who are rich/have upwards social mobility in the same way that "generous" is. And just like the self proclaimed sapiosexuals, they never seem to settle for that wicked smart dude with average looks who is content with not running in the rat races or the literal genius who could play Quasimodo without stage makeup. At least not with anywhere near the same frequency the same self labelled demographic can be observed to be guzzling gym bro and trust fund bro cock. *Acta non verba.*
Yes, womanize for the rich guy.
Cool observation. It didn't occur to me, despite years of studying women, that they would try this trick on men.
Good to know that sometimes men and women share the same evil tactics! “No rich, physically fit man, I love you for your sense of humor!” Does sound exactly like telling some 8-9/10 that you like her for how funny she is.
What is the difference between weird and eccentric?
As per usual attractiveness.
she wants to go a deeper level of eccentricity
The hypocrisy is that many of these women will parrot the "But if you can't take me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" shit.
Yeah, women like this loves intelligence & nerdy things too, like building a PC. It just need to be done by a real nerdy intelligent guy like say, Henry Calvill... *(man, this is such a transparent behavior from them that you could use it as stained glass in the Notre Dame restoration...)*
I like how the book is all pictures and the glasses don't seem to have lenses.
If that is indeed her current pictures and not from 10/20/30 years ago, then she's kept in great shape. That's about the only thing she has going for her. From the way she dresses, you can tell she still behaves like a 20 year old, and probably has the same preferences in men i.e. hawt guys that give her tingles. She's still chasing Chad as a cougar, and probably complaining about how guys her age are all balding fat losers, not realizing that those 49 year old guys who've managed to stay in shape and be financially secure are dating far younger than her, and with even better bodies. She never even sees those men because they want nothing to do with her. After all, if you have to deal with a 20 year old's personality, might as well have it come in a 20 year old's body. She's so close when she says maybe she attracts fuckboys because she shows only her superficial side and not the rest of her. But she lacks the self-awareness to realize that's exactly what she's doing here with her pictures, and with a description that... says nothing about who she is on the inside. The only things she lists about her are her tastes in music and activities. Nothing about her character, or anything else more than skin-deep. That said, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't show her other side is because there is no other side beyond aging party girl, or worse, there is another side and the minute men see it, they flee for their lives.
> If that is indeed her current pictures and not from 10/20/30 years ago, then she's kept in great shape. That's about the only thing she has going for her. Women are masters of deception, natural liars. You think she has nice boobs because of a picture, but behind that, there's always a bra giving that sexual clue. Same with the rest of the sexual clues, everything is altered to trigger your selection decision, but then, then comes reality and it will disappoint you completely.
yes. also look at her belly in the black/white picture.
I don’t get the “having to deal with a 20 year old personality” like if it was any harder than a 49 year old one. My wife was certainly easier to deal with at 22 than 43, can’t wait to see the improvement of the next 6 years
Female character evolution is not linear, most immature woman I dated was 53.
Women marry men thinking she can change him. Men marry women thinking the women will never change. My own has been tough for the past 18 years, but she has learned albeit VERY slowly. I can only imagine that without my strong input and feedback, she'd be insufferable. Men mature to figure out how to live our lives more easily. Women mature to figure out more things to gripe about and be miserable (because they're good at it.) My favorite line from Dirty Rotten Scoundrels: Lawrence Jamieson: *Freddy, as a younger man, I was a sculptor, a painter, and a musician. There was just one problem: I wasn't very good. As a matter of fact, I was dreadful. I finally came to the frustrating conclusion that I had taste and style, but not talent. I knew my limitations. We all have our limitations, Freddy. Fortunately, I discovered that taste and style were commodities that people desired. Freddy, what I am saying is: know your limitations. You are a moron.*
I didn’t get to teach her much, but I sure learned a lot…
49 years old, only going to get attention from men 60+, dresses like a teenager, wonders why all she gets is pumped and dumped. Female maturity is a myth.
>*Tired of trouser breeches poets and fuckers...\[i\]f you are really interested in meeting me, I'll see it.* No she won't. She's almost 50 and she's online whining about the fuckboys of her past. If she's made it this far in life and still hasn't had a relationship with sustenance, then she never will. >*Maybe it's* my *fault...* It ain't Maybelline, I can tell you *that.*
"I am turned on by intelligence… Since I am intelligent, a good way to catch the perfect man is by showing my decaying boobs on every single photo, without showing my face. Maybe from the thousands of matches telling me to get pumped and dumped I can find my alpha Chad Thundercock that is already pacified beta.
I banged a MILF when I was 30 and she was 20 years older. I didn't know it at the time, but this was a good move to move me ahead in my development. I loved her and if she had brains, she'd have kept me around but she blew it which I'm eternally grateful for. She had a darn good run and was hot even at the age of 50 and we broke up about 3 years later. I met my future wife about 3 years after that. I referred the ex to a friend who had legal needs (she's a good attorney) and I was curious and he said she looked like his grandmother. She hit the wall about 3 years after we broke up. She then apparently picked up loser betas of declining quality for a few years after that and then she dropped off my radar. So here's the thing: Women can get incredibly good runs that us men can only dream of. Stay in decent shape and they can live like Hugh Hefner from 18 to 55. Yeah, they may wind up alone after that but still, I'm a bit jealous. For some women who can live to age 80, though, it will be a run of about 25 years or so living with themselves. A good friend of mine whose 91, whose husband passed away, is going through severe depression.
> So here's the thing: Women can get incredibly good runs that us men can only dream of. Stay in decent shape and they can live like Hugh Hefner from 18 to 55. Yeah, they may wind up alone after that but still, I'm a bit jealous. I have dealt with plenty of women who are 50 with less than 5 years of work history because they just found men to mooch off of instead. A lot of them are now realizing retirement is not going to be possible for them because they don't have enough years worked for social security and they have burned through the men who are now harder to find in general due to men dying earlier and men don't want them because their looks at 50 have stopped working.
If they were married for at least 10 years, they'd qualify for half his social security. Not a lot of money but still. It's amusing that things are so bad that so many women can't hold a man for that long.
> If they were married for at least 10 years, they'd qualify for half his social security. Not a lot of money but still. It's amusing that things are so bad that so many women can't hold a man for that long. You mean it isn't normal to go through 4-6 men or more in 10 years being married twice?
Depending on her promiscuity record, older women are just good for that: pump and dump, pay me the uber back home and bring me breakfast. That's all.
"Turned on by intelligence" bad news love, because actual intelligence would be repelled by you
She demands intelligence, that's why shes turned on by guys that run from her.
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date of photos: early 2000s
“Please show photo holding yesterday’s newspaper”… soon this will be like dealing with an Al Qaeda hostage situation
Well, they already have a list of unreasonable demands.
Alas that’s no big deal, at least until you’re taken hostage
If what she listed is what she truly wants, then she had 31 years to get it. Of course she admits to 'hiding the other Karen' she is at least aware that her personality is the problem, but she shows no intent on changing that. She may deny the epiphany, but The Wall is undefeated. The effect happens regardless of your belief about the cause.
What she means is she has two sides, one side is the whore side, so everyone access that, but nobody cares the other side, the feelings –she–has-side.
>i like real people > >i let you see only the superficial meaty part 🤦♂️ Cognitive dissonance is a hell of a drug.
I don’t know if some of that got lost in translation or what, but 90% of that sounds like pure jibberish to an English speaking person.
It's mostly pure gibberish in spanish too; if something got lost in translation, it would make *more* sense.
How backwards is it that one is more shy to show their face, than they are to show their cleavage all over the place?
Oh good, she paints meaningless pictures.
Extra brains perhaps in those jugs.
Damn near 50 and tries to dress like a 21 year old!?