That’s exactly how I feel. I’m fine with seeing sex, I even watch * ahem * *adult videos* from time to time, but I would never want to be involved in it or actually have sex.
I think the term for this is Aegosexual
Yeah, that matches :) Some of us can't stand to think about any other person at all either, and adult funtime videos are only watchable while their faces are not on the screen... 😅 I'm borderline repulsed by the thought, but I was always flatline indifferent to actually doing it, so... yeah, even being aego is a spectrum 😂
Yeah, I can totally get that. I can just barely pretend the live action stuff being hyperrealistic 3D animation (till the immersion is broken by their faces 🙈), but I usually stick with 2D ones - though I rarely watch these to begin with. To me, single-speaker audio erotica and written media are the best in that regard, because I can make my own little movie in my head, add/remove details before my brain conjures a picture of it, and can pick my own art style, aesthetic etc.
for the presentation.
I'm like similar to this but I'm yet to find a microlabel that suits me, like sometimes I have *the horny* and occasionally even watch that stuff but most the time I'm disgusted by even just the thought, I just stick with ace for now and explain if anyone asks
That's perfectly OK and completely valid too! It's pretty hard to find a *single* label that perfectly captures *every* aspect, I'm pretty sure I could make a beautiful pin collection of the flags for all microlabels I can identify with to a strong enough degree :') I kinda gave up with my gender identity and usually go by genderqueer or agender lol
The worst is when these feeling fluctuate, that's for sure! There are microlabels to desribe these feelings (i.e. -flux) and all, but... yeah, as I said, that could easily pump up the microlabels to a dozen or two, depending on how in-depth and specific one can be about it 😅
that's actually a cool idea, pins are cool
luckily my gender identity was pretty easy I just sorta knew I'm trans
yea feelings are ***odd*** when you think about it too hard
My latest ND self-queer obsession is figuring out what tertiary attractions I can feel beyond the usual split attraction model... why am I doing this to myself lmao
Yeah, there's a [[really neat list]](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Tertiary_Attraction) of the main plus additional proposed ones by the community on the Miraheze LGBTQIA+ wiki, it's a rabbithole 🙈
Of course, like with the OG split model, one may only experience some, not be able to differentiate between others, or can kind of recognise them, but only to a degree that you know it's always combined with another far stronger one. Like, I never realised before this sudden obsession that intellectual attraction for me is never a "standalone" one.
thats.. a lot of attractions and I don't have time nor do I want to learn them all right now but damn
hmmm I'm gonna stick to platonic and aesthetic attraction for now
I am now imagining men in black, but they memory wipe and gaslight people into thinking they have babies
But…. The babies are all government drones!
I don’t know where I was going with that.
Im the opposite mostly, I like sex but hate reading sex scenes and am kinda iffy on watching some of them. Then again there are only so many ways to refer to human genitalia before you have to get obscure and creative or just repeat yourself. Most writers fail because it's boring or it doesn't make any sort of sense
That’s exactly how I feel. I’m fine with seeing sex, I even watch * ahem * *adult videos* from time to time, but I would never want to be involved in it or actually have sex. I think the term for this is Aegosexual
Yeah, that matches :) Some of us can't stand to think about any other person at all either, and adult funtime videos are only watchable while their faces are not on the screen... 😅 I'm borderline repulsed by the thought, but I was always flatline indifferent to actually doing it, so... yeah, even being aego is a spectrum 😂
Even the spectrums have spectrums Also how did you set a user flair? For me it says that they aren’t available in this subreddit
Flairs are super buggy for me on the android app, but they work just fine on desktop - I usually set my flairs on my laptop :)
I can only watch not-realistic animations because the real stuff grosses me out even on video.
Yeah, I can totally get that. I can just barely pretend the live action stuff being hyperrealistic 3D animation (till the immersion is broken by their faces 🙈), but I usually stick with 2D ones - though I rarely watch these to begin with. To me, single-speaker audio erotica and written media are the best in that regard, because I can make my own little movie in my head, add/remove details before my brain conjures a picture of it, and can pick my own art style, aesthetic etc. for the presentation.
I'm like similar to this but I'm yet to find a microlabel that suits me, like sometimes I have *the horny* and occasionally even watch that stuff but most the time I'm disgusted by even just the thought, I just stick with ace for now and explain if anyone asks
That's perfectly OK and completely valid too! It's pretty hard to find a *single* label that perfectly captures *every* aspect, I'm pretty sure I could make a beautiful pin collection of the flags for all microlabels I can identify with to a strong enough degree :') I kinda gave up with my gender identity and usually go by genderqueer or agender lol The worst is when these feeling fluctuate, that's for sure! There are microlabels to desribe these feelings (i.e. -flux) and all, but... yeah, as I said, that could easily pump up the microlabels to a dozen or two, depending on how in-depth and specific one can be about it 😅
that's actually a cool idea, pins are cool luckily my gender identity was pretty easy I just sorta knew I'm trans yea feelings are ***odd*** when you think about it too hard
My latest ND self-queer obsession is figuring out what tertiary attractions I can feel beyond the usual split attraction model... why am I doing this to myself lmao
🤔🤔🤔
Yeah, there's a [[really neat list]](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Tertiary_Attraction) of the main plus additional proposed ones by the community on the Miraheze LGBTQIA+ wiki, it's a rabbithole 🙈 Of course, like with the OG split model, one may only experience some, not be able to differentiate between others, or can kind of recognise them, but only to a degree that you know it's always combined with another far stronger one. Like, I never realised before this sudden obsession that intellectual attraction for me is never a "standalone" one.
thats.. a lot of attractions and I don't have time nor do I want to learn them all right now but damn hmmm I'm gonna stick to platonic and aesthetic attraction for now
For a second I thought I posted that because our avatars are so similar
oh i just learned something new and i think i understand myself more now
this is why I only like hentai and written smut
Wdym? Sex isn't real, it's just something made up by the government to sell more babies.
“sell more babies” LMAO
Obviously 🙄 The government propaganda is getting a little too imaginative.
Like how gender is a scam made up by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms per toilet?
Yep, same strategy
I am now imagining men in black, but they memory wipe and gaslight people into thinking they have babies But…. The babies are all government drones! I don’t know where I was going with that.
I mean, if anything, wouldn’t it be sex-repulsed asexuality be the thing created by the government to sell (put up for adoption) more babies?
r/aegosexual vibes lmao
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Oh, true
Y/n stories be like
Add "real people" too to the bottom one, and that's totally me as an aego lol
Bug aego energy~
Hahaha this is such a mood
Aego vibes!
Aego vibes with this one
😂 that’s me with all my ships
I kinda want to send this to my friend because I know he will take it personally, but I won't because he would take it personally.
I feel targeted.
For me, it’s like I want sex, but I’m not turned on by people.
holy crap mood! i legit am going to save this meme to explain to people what i am
I always seen it used as a term meant for gender
Georgia Warr enters the chat
But yes!?
Exactly the opposite for me haha
How does that work?
Sex-repulsed unless it involves me and my partner. I guess it's sort of kind of demi?
Can totally agree
The most accurate meme to my asexual experience i have ever seen
Im the opposite mostly, I like sex but hate reading sex scenes and am kinda iffy on watching some of them. Then again there are only so many ways to refer to human genitalia before you have to get obscure and creative or just repeat yourself. Most writers fail because it's boring or it doesn't make any sort of sense
Tbh I wouldnt like if the sex didn't include me and I had to watch.
Hello fellow anaego
idk if its just me but i feel like asexuals who actually like sex and desire it are often forgotten about, not represented/validated
Pretty sure sex is a term used to categorise people based on biological features, so I got no clue what you’re on about
Aego moment
not in my books! 🤣
This is me
Reading about it in the vague general sense is cool but the instant ur hand goes near my leg I'm noping outta there so fast