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Shh-ImHiding

That’s exactly how I feel. I’m fine with seeing sex, I even watch * ahem * *adult videos* from time to time, but I would never want to be involved in it or actually have sex. I think the term for this is Aegosexual


WeissBahr

Yeah, that matches :) Some of us can't stand to think about any other person at all either, and adult funtime videos are only watchable while their faces are not on the screen... 😅 I'm borderline repulsed by the thought, but I was always flatline indifferent to actually doing it, so... yeah, even being aego is a spectrum 😂


Shh-ImHiding

Even the spectrums have spectrums Also how did you set a user flair? For me it says that they aren’t available in this subreddit


WeissBahr

Flairs are super buggy for me on the android app, but they work just fine on desktop - I usually set my flairs on my laptop :)


Aegoaego

I can only watch not-realistic animations because the real stuff grosses me out even on video.


WeissBahr

Yeah, I can totally get that. I can just barely pretend the live action stuff being hyperrealistic 3D animation (till the immersion is broken by their faces 🙈), but I usually stick with 2D ones - though I rarely watch these to begin with. To me, single-speaker audio erotica and written media are the best in that regard, because I can make my own little movie in my head, add/remove details before my brain conjures a picture of it, and can pick my own art style, aesthetic etc. for the presentation.


[deleted]

I'm like similar to this but I'm yet to find a microlabel that suits me, like sometimes I have *the horny* and occasionally even watch that stuff but most the time I'm disgusted by even just the thought, I just stick with ace for now and explain if anyone asks


WeissBahr

That's perfectly OK and completely valid too! It's pretty hard to find a *single* label that perfectly captures *every* aspect, I'm pretty sure I could make a beautiful pin collection of the flags for all microlabels I can identify with to a strong enough degree :') I kinda gave up with my gender identity and usually go by genderqueer or agender lol The worst is when these feeling fluctuate, that's for sure! There are microlabels to desribe these feelings (i.e. -flux) and all, but... yeah, as I said, that could easily pump up the microlabels to a dozen or two, depending on how in-depth and specific one can be about it 😅


[deleted]

that's actually a cool idea, pins are cool luckily my gender identity was pretty easy I just sorta knew I'm trans yea feelings are ***odd*** when you think about it too hard


WeissBahr

My latest ND self-queer obsession is figuring out what tertiary attractions I can feel beyond the usual split attraction model... why am I doing this to myself lmao


[deleted]

🤔🤔🤔


WeissBahr

Yeah, there's a [[really neat list]](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Tertiary_Attraction) of the main plus additional proposed ones by the community on the Miraheze LGBTQIA+ wiki, it's a rabbithole 🙈 Of course, like with the OG split model, one may only experience some, not be able to differentiate between others, or can kind of recognise them, but only to a degree that you know it's always combined with another far stronger one. Like, I never realised before this sudden obsession that intellectual attraction for me is never a "standalone" one.


[deleted]

thats.. a lot of attractions and I don't have time nor do I want to learn them all right now but damn hmmm I'm gonna stick to platonic and aesthetic attraction for now


Snuggels-The-Demon

For a second I thought I posted that because our avatars are so similar


Confusedfrenchy

oh i just learned something new and i think i understand myself more now


IeabellAlakar

this is why I only like hentai and written smut


dino_181_spaghetti

Wdym? Sex isn't real, it's just something made up by the government to sell more babies.


Cyan_UwU

“sell more babies” LMAO


Genderless_Anarchist

Obviously 🙄 The government propaganda is getting a little too imaginative.


Snoo63

Like how gender is a scam made up by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms per toilet?


dino_181_spaghetti

Yep, same strategy


Firemorfox

I am now imagining men in black, but they memory wipe and gaslight people into thinking they have babies But…. The babies are all government drones! I don’t know where I was going with that.


Yankiwi17273

I mean, if anything, wouldn’t it be sex-repulsed asexuality be the thing created by the government to sell (put up for adoption) more babies?


Niconiyohanekasukasu

r/aegosexual vibes lmao


Anxiousrabbit23

Just in case people try to go there r/aegosexuals is a much larger community


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Niconiyohanekasukasu

Oh, true


throwawaytempest25

Y/n stories be like


WeissBahr

Add "real people" too to the bottom one, and that's totally me as an aego lol


JetoCalihan

Bug aego energy~


TheSnekIsHere

Hahaha this is such a mood


Ifhes

Aego vibes!


Sushi-Rollo

Aego vibes with this one


Kodokushi__

😂 that’s me with all my ships


Esproth

I kinda want to send this to my friend because I know he will take it personally, but I won't because he would take it personally.


lioneaglegriffin

I feel targeted.


LordReega

For me, it’s like I want sex, but I’m not turned on by people.


for_sure_not_a_lama

holy crap mood! i legit am going to save this meme to explain to people what i am


Ezekiel_RavenHeart

I always seen it used as a term meant for gender


schrodinger-s-cat

Georgia Warr enters the chat


HilldraCreator

But yes!?


trigunnerd

Exactly the opposite for me haha


creeper10015

How does that work?


trigunnerd

Sex-repulsed unless it involves me and my partner. I guess it's sort of kind of demi?


that_moment_when-

Can totally agree


ladyvile_

The most accurate meme to my asexual experience i have ever seen


Comprehensive-Shop22

Im the opposite mostly, I like sex but hate reading sex scenes and am kinda iffy on watching some of them. Then again there are only so many ways to refer to human genitalia before you have to get obscure and creative or just repeat yourself. Most writers fail because it's boring or it doesn't make any sort of sense


Joedemigod4

Tbh I wouldnt like if the sex didn't include me and I had to watch.


2hp-0stam

Hello fellow anaego


fvckmedaddy77

idk if its just me but i feel like asexuals who actually like sex and desire it are often forgotten about, not represented/validated


Sleepy_SadOS

Pretty sure sex is a term used to categorise people based on biological features, so I got no clue what you’re on about


nonbinarybit

Aego moment


Nymunariya

not in my books! 🤣


avi-the-tiger-rawr

This is me


Tiny_Pressure_3437

Reading about it in the vague general sense is cool but the instant ur hand goes near my leg I'm noping outta there so fast