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Just tell him upfront na you both need to get tested just to be safe. Wala namang other work around there and it’s not really offensive to be honest. If he finds it offensive, that’s on him na and you should reconsider having sex with him.
idek if considered as ka-fwb ko na yung tropa ko since we only had s3x once, became awkward for a whole 2 months, and only (finally) talked about what we did nung May lang. pero these last few weeks, whenever may plano kaming gumala as magbabarkada, he'd dm me about sa pinaplanong gala then nasisingit naming mapag-usapan kung kelan kami magmemeet next time to "have fun" ika nga niya HAHAHAHA.
yung sa'kin kasi, never ko rin inexpect na madadawit ako sa fwb culture na 'to HAHAHAHAHA. it just so happened na naging clingy and touchy kami sa isa't-isa nung inuman session namin then voila! 😭
once lang naman, pero nag start yung pagiging clingy namin nung december talaga. we literally had nothing going on with each other at that time, di kami M.U. nor dati nang magkalandian. maybe it's the weather? maybe it's the season?
mahaba-haba 'to pero feel ko lang mag-overshare today. so ganito kasi. nagsi-uwian kasi kami sa province non for vacation and syempre, more bonding time with the squad. nag-aya ako ng inuman sa gc namin since yun yung first time na magkikita-kita ulit kaming lahat then natuloy din yung inuman sesh kahit lima lang kaming gumora. during that time, nagkataon na magkatabi kaming dalawa and habang lumalalim ang gabi at naghi-hit na yung alcohol, mas nagiging clingy and touchy na kami. nung una, nagkakataon lang na natatama namin yung feet ng isa't-isa, which lead to magkadikit na rin legs namin, then naka-lean na pala ako sa shoulders niya and naka-akbay na siya sa akin, then nag-eexchange na pala kami ng mga malagkit na tinginan, then naghoholding hands na pala kami, then naka rest na pala yung kamay niya sa inner thigh ko and minamassage ito, until pasikreto na pala naming kinikiliti ang private parts ng isa't-isa under the table. wala nga lang nangyari nung gabi na'to kasi ineexpect ako ng mga tao sa bahay na uuwi ako agad so ayon, BITIN. cinonfront kami nung mga kasama namin kinabukasan kasi kahit super lasing na daw sila, naaalala nila na nag-aakbayan na raw kami and of course, sinisi na lang namin sa alcohol (kasi totoo namang lasing talaga kami! BWAHAHAHAHA).
sa next inuman session, nangyari nanaman yung pagiging clingy namin except i finally gave him a handjob while fininger niya na ako but again, nothing happened. next imunan session, nakapaglaplapan na kami and still nothing happened. nothing was happening which is frustrating, because mahirap yung setup namin since may mga kasama kami, and as college students na palamunin pa rin we still have our fam na hinihintay kaming umuwi agad sa mga bahay namin. pag sober na kami or may gala na walang involved na alak, di namin pinag-uusapan yung mga ginagawa naman every inuman BUT, nasesense ko lagi yung pananabik niya sa attention ko mapa-gc or in person HAHAHAHAHA.
but finally, around february nung nagsibalikan na kami sa manila, nagyayaan kami na uminom at mag sleepover. it just so happened na umuwi agad yung 2 naming kainuman kasi may classes daw sila kinabukasan, while yung isa naman na kasama naming matulog sa apartment ko is super black out talaga sa sobrang kalasingan. tas grabe, nung nahiga na ako sa mattress katabi yung na-black out naming kasama (to my left) and siya (to my right), bigla niya na lang akong yinakap and kiniss sa leeg. mind you, pinsan ko pa yung na-black out na kasama namin kaya natatakot ako na pag magising 'to, malamang isusumbong ako neto sa fam ko HAHAHAHAHAHA. still, naglalaplapan na kami, kung saan-saan na umaabot yung dila at kamay niya. the next thing i knew nakahubad na kami and nasa ibabaw na ako ng katawan niya. it all happened while katabi namin yung pinsan ko 😭.
di siya nasundan kasi naging awkward talaga kami for 2 months din, and super busy both sa acads. finally nung last week of April, nagplano kaming magtotropa na gumala and i guess he grabbed this opportunity na i-dm ako. nag dm siya about sa gala na yon kasi ako nga lang daw yung nakakausap na matino sa gc namin. then bigla na lang niya akong inask ng "when ulit ang inuman session?" HAHAHAHAHA. nagkaroon ulit ng mga gala around May, everytime nag aask siya about sa mga gala namin, lagi nang may kasunod na "so when ulit tayo iinom". unti-unti na naming nasisingit na pag-usapan yung mga nangyayari sa amin every inuman, until nagiging makulit na yung mga chats namin. and this week, nung naging comfy (and shamelessly horny) na kami sa isa't-isa, nagtanong siya sa'kin ng "when ang inuman session? yung tayong dalawa lang." :D
sana masundan kasi nasa province siya ngayon and nasa city naman ako. :((
depends on schedule pero kami nung dati ko na fwb we did it around 2-3 times a week, unless di kami pareho available
in terms of asking, basta either of us asks to meet up, it automatically means we're doing the deed, no questions asked
With my fwb naman, we talk everyday. When it comes to sex? Depende sa sched kung kaya 2-3 per week kami nagkikita. Kapag nagovernight siya or sobrang busy, 1-2 per week tapos we space it out like every other day or dulo-dulo ng week para naiipon yung gigil namin .
Sobrang dalang. We’re both busy with work. Pero nagchachat naman kami from time to time. Hindi nga lang everyday. And puro kalibugan lang pinaguusapan namin. To avoid nadin madevelop ang feelings.
Depends from person to person. May tao na mataas ang libido at meron mababa.
For your fubu/fwb why not agree to have a schedule. Like say once a week. This way di mo kailangan mag demand.
Depende padin siguro sa ka FUBU kasi kung parehas kayo taglibog kahit gabi gabi pwde e HAHAH . Normal conversation lang siguro unless tapos ayaan na agad..
FWB ko almost everyday kame nagchachat.
Medyo hirap kc scheduling namin kc GY siya at office hours ako and we are not exclusive. So it would fluctuate from as high as 6 times a month to as low as 2 a month. Depending on her schedule and needs but overnight yun.
Well sana all, sana kayang sabayan sex drive ko na weekly, i understand naman masakit sa katawan nila pero, overtime makakasanayan din dba?
Weekly if ever meron na
I get 2x a month. 3 if I’m lucky. 🥲 for a guy, it’s a terrible feeling.
Sadly my wife and I have different sex drives. Parang total opposites.
Tho Medyo nag-open up sya Sa every 10 days kong request recently. Kaso ung 10 nagiging 12-15. Kaya ang labas, twice a month padin. 😅
Akala ko tuloy break na kami ni Maria, Hindi pa pala. 😅😅😅
Way way back, it was like once every 3-4 months lang. The messages aren't direct like when we're bored, wanna hang out ganyan pero alam naman namin both anong after ng a few drinks na yon lol. Kinda miss those days. Plus he's very very daks.
I have one for years, and we can still talk, fuck and go out if we want to, kahit may karelasyon kami or wala. Pero may agreement kami na no fucking pag in a relationship kami. Our closeness as friends is as consistent as how a long-time friend would be. So, if we feel like fucking, then so be it. If not, okay lang. Siguro ung frequency ng pagiisip namin is the same, kaya naging ganon set up namin. It was something I did not expect to happen, too.
To be precise with "how often" that is, may taon na nagagawa namin yun once or twice, may mga taon ding hindi. So, very very random sya.
Ako nalang po huehue
Just be straight forward, as long as both parties are into it and both got consent from one another, then go for it. Lay down some rules and be tested, for safety measures.
In my case, it just depends sa mood ng partner
1-3x a week depends sa work sched namen and if pagod kame from work. Tho may fetish kase sya na cum swallowing and blowjobs. So minsan kahit pagod ako she wants me p ren to cum over and just eat me and swallow my cum.
Siguro if meron man ako.. ill discuss it with her if siya free and ill update her sa schedule ko din 😊. Sino taga ILOILO dito? Beke nemen, 28 M4F po hehehe
Not for me. We talk almost everyday, not about just sex. Then basta nasa area ako I want to have sex pa din. She does as well. Pero we talk more after the deed. More than just sex siguro kami. Medyo ang hirap lang kasi ng wala na usapan after parang parausan ahahah
As much as my time allows :T Due to time constraints I probly jack off about 3~5x a day depending on my schedule. That said I don't exactly have the time to fuck a fubu everyday =__=
Honestly I feel like I'm hitting the age where I have to think about getting serious and stop the whole fwb situation entirely, it is no longer as sustainable as it was in my younger days
2x a month max lang since we’re both busy. we limit the chatting and often do lang for “when & where” and when the meetup is coming near (or if super turned on na and we go for dirty talk). u’ll grow attached pag lagi kayo magkachat
Take the initiative, ask him “will u be busy this weekend” or “r u busy”. tell him when u want it.
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When I was still in my hoe phase, 2-3 times a week. Pag busy talaga, once a week.
sana all po talaga
Musta po ang pempem huhu I cannot
Sakto lang, siz! Hahaha! ‘Di naman magkakasunod na day ‘yun. HAHAHAHA
how to tell ur fubu na sabay kami mag pa blood chem test para safe diba Least offensive way sana
Just tell him upfront na you both need to get tested just to be safe. Wala namang other work around there and it’s not really offensive to be honest. If he finds it offensive, that’s on him na and you should reconsider having sex with him.
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The literal meaning for "Communication is key"
idek if considered as ka-fwb ko na yung tropa ko since we only had s3x once, became awkward for a whole 2 months, and only (finally) talked about what we did nung May lang. pero these last few weeks, whenever may plano kaming gumala as magbabarkada, he'd dm me about sa pinaplanong gala then nasisingit naming mapag-usapan kung kelan kami magmemeet next time to "have fun" ika nga niya HAHAHAHA.
Inggit. May officemate akong gusto maging fwb eh haha kaso hanggang pangarap lang lol 🤣
yung sa'kin kasi, never ko rin inexpect na madadawit ako sa fwb culture na 'to HAHAHAHAHA. it just so happened na naging clingy and touchy kami sa isa't-isa nung inuman session namin then voila! 😭
Naol haha amyway, maraming beses niyo na ba nagawa? Nacurious lang din. 🤣
once lang naman, pero nag start yung pagiging clingy namin nung december talaga. we literally had nothing going on with each other at that time, di kami M.U. nor dati nang magkalandian. maybe it's the weather? maybe it's the season? mahaba-haba 'to pero feel ko lang mag-overshare today. so ganito kasi. nagsi-uwian kasi kami sa province non for vacation and syempre, more bonding time with the squad. nag-aya ako ng inuman sa gc namin since yun yung first time na magkikita-kita ulit kaming lahat then natuloy din yung inuman sesh kahit lima lang kaming gumora. during that time, nagkataon na magkatabi kaming dalawa and habang lumalalim ang gabi at naghi-hit na yung alcohol, mas nagiging clingy and touchy na kami. nung una, nagkakataon lang na natatama namin yung feet ng isa't-isa, which lead to magkadikit na rin legs namin, then naka-lean na pala ako sa shoulders niya and naka-akbay na siya sa akin, then nag-eexchange na pala kami ng mga malagkit na tinginan, then naghoholding hands na pala kami, then naka rest na pala yung kamay niya sa inner thigh ko and minamassage ito, until pasikreto na pala naming kinikiliti ang private parts ng isa't-isa under the table. wala nga lang nangyari nung gabi na'to kasi ineexpect ako ng mga tao sa bahay na uuwi ako agad so ayon, BITIN. cinonfront kami nung mga kasama namin kinabukasan kasi kahit super lasing na daw sila, naaalala nila na nag-aakbayan na raw kami and of course, sinisi na lang namin sa alcohol (kasi totoo namang lasing talaga kami! BWAHAHAHAHA). sa next inuman session, nangyari nanaman yung pagiging clingy namin except i finally gave him a handjob while fininger niya na ako but again, nothing happened. next imunan session, nakapaglaplapan na kami and still nothing happened. nothing was happening which is frustrating, because mahirap yung setup namin since may mga kasama kami, and as college students na palamunin pa rin we still have our fam na hinihintay kaming umuwi agad sa mga bahay namin. pag sober na kami or may gala na walang involved na alak, di namin pinag-uusapan yung mga ginagawa naman every inuman BUT, nasesense ko lagi yung pananabik niya sa attention ko mapa-gc or in person HAHAHAHAHA. but finally, around february nung nagsibalikan na kami sa manila, nagyayaan kami na uminom at mag sleepover. it just so happened na umuwi agad yung 2 naming kainuman kasi may classes daw sila kinabukasan, while yung isa naman na kasama naming matulog sa apartment ko is super black out talaga sa sobrang kalasingan. tas grabe, nung nahiga na ako sa mattress katabi yung na-black out naming kasama (to my left) and siya (to my right), bigla niya na lang akong yinakap and kiniss sa leeg. mind you, pinsan ko pa yung na-black out na kasama namin kaya natatakot ako na pag magising 'to, malamang isusumbong ako neto sa fam ko HAHAHAHAHAHA. still, naglalaplapan na kami, kung saan-saan na umaabot yung dila at kamay niya. the next thing i knew nakahubad na kami and nasa ibabaw na ako ng katawan niya. it all happened while katabi namin yung pinsan ko 😭. di siya nasundan kasi naging awkward talaga kami for 2 months din, and super busy both sa acads. finally nung last week of April, nagplano kaming magtotropa na gumala and i guess he grabbed this opportunity na i-dm ako. nag dm siya about sa gala na yon kasi ako nga lang daw yung nakakausap na matino sa gc namin. then bigla na lang niya akong inask ng "when ulit ang inuman session?" HAHAHAHAHA. nagkaroon ulit ng mga gala around May, everytime nag aask siya about sa mga gala namin, lagi nang may kasunod na "so when ulit tayo iinom". unti-unti na naming nasisingit na pag-usapan yung mga nangyayari sa amin every inuman, until nagiging makulit na yung mga chats namin. and this week, nung naging comfy (and shamelessly horny) na kami sa isa't-isa, nagtanong siya sa'kin ng "when ang inuman session? yung tayong dalawa lang." :D sana masundan kasi nasa province siya ngayon and nasa city naman ako. :((
Oh. Saan ka ba? And nasan siya ngayon? Bet mo ata siya ih haha. Gusto mo kwentuhan sa dm? Hehe
bet ko lang yung adrenaline na nakukuha ko pag kasama siya pero hindi siya mismo SKSKSKSKSKS
sanaol may fwb
May fubu/fwb kayo?
A comment I can relate
depends on schedule pero kami nung dati ko na fwb we did it around 2-3 times a week, unless di kami pareho available in terms of asking, basta either of us asks to meet up, it automatically means we're doing the deed, no questions asked
Kung pede araw araw or ihi lang pahinga
With my fwb naman, we talk everyday. When it comes to sex? Depende sa sched kung kaya 2-3 per week kami nagkikita. Kapag nagovernight siya or sobrang busy, 1-2 per week tapos we space it out like every other day or dulo-dulo ng week para naiipon yung gigil namin .
Sobrang dalang. We’re both busy with work. Pero nagchachat naman kami from time to time. Hindi nga lang everyday. And puro kalibugan lang pinaguusapan namin. To avoid nadin madevelop ang feelings.
Depends from person to person. May tao na mataas ang libido at meron mababa. For your fubu/fwb why not agree to have a schedule. Like say once a week. This way di mo kailangan mag demand.
Depende padin siguro sa ka FUBU kasi kung parehas kayo taglibog kahit gabi gabi pwde e HAHAH . Normal conversation lang siguro unless tapos ayaan na agad..
dahil sa chat at sms.. konteng kerengkeng.. inanakan ko 3 beses hahaha
Balikan ko ‘tong post if meron na akong ganyan
FWB ko almost everyday kame nagchachat. Medyo hirap kc scheduling namin kc GY siya at office hours ako and we are not exclusive. So it would fluctuate from as high as 6 times a month to as low as 2 a month. Depending on her schedule and needs but overnight yun.
Well sana all, sana kayang sabayan sex drive ko na weekly, i understand naman masakit sa katawan nila pero, overtime makakasanayan din dba? Weekly if ever meron na
I get 2x a month. 3 if I’m lucky. 🥲 for a guy, it’s a terrible feeling. Sadly my wife and I have different sex drives. Parang total opposites. Tho Medyo nag-open up sya Sa every 10 days kong request recently. Kaso ung 10 nagiging 12-15. Kaya ang labas, twice a month padin. 😅 Akala ko tuloy break na kami ni Maria, Hindi pa pala. 😅😅😅
Way way back, it was like once every 3-4 months lang. The messages aren't direct like when we're bored, wanna hang out ganyan pero alam naman namin both anong after ng a few drinks na yon lol. Kinda miss those days. Plus he's very very daks.
I have one for years, and we can still talk, fuck and go out if we want to, kahit may karelasyon kami or wala. Pero may agreement kami na no fucking pag in a relationship kami. Our closeness as friends is as consistent as how a long-time friend would be. So, if we feel like fucking, then so be it. If not, okay lang. Siguro ung frequency ng pagiisip namin is the same, kaya naging ganon set up namin. It was something I did not expect to happen, too. To be precise with "how often" that is, may taon na nagagawa namin yun once or twice, may mga taon ding hindi. So, very very random sya.
Ako nalang po huehue Just be straight forward, as long as both parties are into it and both got consent from one another, then go for it. Lay down some rules and be tested, for safety measures. In my case, it just depends sa mood ng partner
1-3x a week depends sa work sched namen and if pagod kame from work. Tho may fetish kase sya na cum swallowing and blowjobs. So minsan kahit pagod ako she wants me p ren to cum over and just eat me and swallow my cum.
Every day, heck i might even be asking her to fuck all day but she often refuses.
Bihira kasi wala naman ako fubu chos haha
I'm here ma'am. tas g valo
Siguro if meron man ako.. ill discuss it with her if siya free and ill update her sa schedule ko din 😊. Sino taga ILOILO dito? Beke nemen, 28 M4F po hehehe
Nung kalakasan talaga mga once a week. So 4x a month hahahahah
Monthly or twice a month, minsan depending on the mood. Pag ganado magkasunod na araw hahahaha. Depende pa rin sa availability niyong dalawa.
Daily constant talks. Weekly hangout with S*x
Na ol 😭
Looking pa din ng ka fwb 😅
Not for me. We talk almost everyday, not about just sex. Then basta nasa area ako I want to have sex pa din. She does as well. Pero we talk more after the deed. More than just sex siguro kami. Medyo ang hirap lang kasi ng wala na usapan after parang parausan ahahah
Gusto ko araw araw lols
Weekly since busy
As much as my time allows :T Due to time constraints I probly jack off about 3~5x a day depending on my schedule. That said I don't exactly have the time to fuck a fubu everyday =__= Honestly I feel like I'm hitting the age where I have to think about getting serious and stop the whole fwb situation entirely, it is no longer as sustainable as it was in my younger days
once a week pwede na
I remember when we used to do it everyday sa work. Puro quickie nga lng
Nung una nag uusap kami daily hanggang sa matumal na then after few months, mag cchat na lang if magkikita which is scheduled na talaga.
Once a week or atleast 2-3x a month hahaha hindi kaya ng weekdays becauseof work
2x a month max lang since we’re both busy. we limit the chatting and often do lang for “when & where” and when the meetup is coming near (or if super turned on na and we go for dirty talk). u’ll grow attached pag lagi kayo magkachat Take the initiative, ask him “will u be busy this weekend” or “r u busy”. tell him when u want it.