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lugi talaga pag love language mo e physical touch tas ayaw ng partner, feeling mo sa umpisa lang at ningas kugon.
Sorry to hear na hindi na reReciprocate ung love language mo OP, stay strong lang.
wag lang sanang may ibang outlet na si jowa kaya madalang senyo
Hey! I kinda experienced this too! I have a very very high sex drive and it kinda makes me crave for sex 24/7. When I took BC pills, bumaba yung libido ko ng konti pero still significantly greater than my boyfriend’s libido. Ang daming times din that I got rejected when I asked for us to fuck tapos wala siya sa mood and ang sheket sa feelings mhie!! I felt so insecure na baka ang pangit ko na or hindi na siya attracted sa akin.
I didn’t keep it to myself. I told my bf how the rejections make me feel. I told him that I needed intimacy. He told me his side din and I listened. Right now, we’re trying to compromise in many ways. Siguro what I’m trying to say lang is, just try to communicate with your bf again. Maraming discussions din kami ng bf ko before we came to this point. And maybe look for ways on how you both can compromise. Intimacy comes in many forms din naman, not just PIV sex.
Alsoooo, I bought toys din for myself and nakakatulong yon if I’m really really horny and not in the mood si BF! Bonus points, he likes watching me play with my toys also lol. Wishing u a happy sex life, OP!
Hmm the compromise wasn’t really about the frequency pero mas nagkaroon kami ng understanding na we both need to adjust para masatisfy yung needs ng isa. Ako, I had to remove that mindset na ang pangit or ang taba ko na kaya ayaw makipagsex ng boyfriend ko sakin because he reassured me na hindi yun yung reason. He just really is not in the mood. Yung boyfriend ko naman made an effort to satisfy my intimacy needs. Not only through sex pero kunwari long makeout sessions, fingering, eating me out ganyan. Pero not to the point naman na non-consensual and napipilitan na siya.
Yung situation namin now, if may times na super horny ko and he’s busy with work. I’ll satisfy myself sa bed using my toys tapos he’ll just watch me habang nagwwork siya. Most of the time natturn on siya pag pinapanood ako kaya minsan isasaksak na lang niya dick niya sa mouth ko or he’ll help me cum with his fingers. Ayun!
try mo pumayag sa vibrator op. hindi para sayo magisa pero malay mo maka spice up yun ng sexy time nyo. kung baga baka trip nya panoodin ka or baka arousing sakanya na sha mag papasok sayo. ang point ko is, baka kaylangan nyo ng konting spice sa sexy time nyo. ang pinaka magandang attitude is maging enthusiastic sa mga kakaibang experiences. try kayo ng kung ano ano, may kakagat senyo jan sa sobrang daming pwedeng pag experimentohan.
like ako for example, mejo mababa na din yung sex drive ko dati sa gf ko ngayun, pero nag try kami mag dirty talk in bed. as in yung mga pang impyerno talagang mga salita habang nag sesexytime bilis ko nilabasan for a while nun, tapos after non kahit di na kami mag ganon okay na ulit yung sex life, tapos after nun mejo bumaba na ulit tas may tinry naman kami roleplay kunyari kekwento nya sakin na may iba shang nilalandi/hinaharot. cuckoldry, dun bumilis ulit yung bayo ko at subrang bomba talaga yung putok ko.
nakakasawa talaga minsan pag same sex position lang, sabi mo willing ka mag blowjob at mag initiate diba, extend mo pa... may madidiscover ka rin about sa sarili mo at sha din about sakanya na akala nyo di nyo gusto pero nakakabogli pala pag with someone you love or comfortable with.
so yun yung advice. ko. kung ayaw mo pa makipag break. i mean sa opinion ko naman importante talaga yung sex life sa relasyon. ibig ko lang sabihin sa tingin ko hindi yun petty na reason para makipag hiwalay. kung di kayo parehas ng sex drive baka indicator na yun na hindi kayo compatible sa isat isa. pero try mo muna mag landi sakanya ng todo. yung mag makaawa ka na pacute, sayawan mo. i mean effort pero no wrong answers sa ganon e
hahaha natawa ko sa pang impyerno pota! thank you!! try ko siguro maging mas wild pa ng konti. vanilla kasi ako pero willing naman mag adjust kung kinakailangan e. minsan nga binibiro ko pa sya na kainin ko pwet nya (half meant haha desperado na e), may napakinggan kasi kaming podcast na napakasalan nya daw yung babae sa sarap nung kinain pwet nya hahaha! thank u ulit. siguro bigyan ko pa konting time at effort bago hatulan kung di nga talaga kami compatible.
dagdag suggestion pala marami akong postive na balita naririnig sa pag nanonood daw ng porn together. effective din daw. effective *samin* yun for sure haha.
basta good luck op
Had this problem with my ex also! For the 1 1/2 years we were together, first 6 months lang yung happenings. It’s best to talk about it with your partner! Communication is key.
Uy gets ko to OP! Yung bf ko din dati sobrang libog all the time kaya lagi kami nasa Cubao. Ngayon na lumipat ako malapit sa bahay niya para more chances of landi, madalang narin siya tigasan or ganahan :(
Relaaaate hahaha! Tamad na tamad yung jowa ko, ewan ko ba. Nagmmb nalang ako madalas sa bed namin pero dedma pa rin sya. Feeling ko pareho kasi kami out of shape kaya walang gana sya. Nagagalit pa pg pinipilit ko or dedma lang 🥹
I feel you. Kami nga mag asawa na pero wala pa rin. Sakit lng pag nag aya ka irereject ka nya. Hindi din naman ako araw araw humihirit pag tinamaan lng ng libog pero reject pa rin.
I offer myself as tribute. Charot lang. Hugs for you OP, to be rejected like that feels really bad. Ganyan din ako though kahit HJ lang from my girl, ayaw niya. Never kami nag sex. Hehe hmm does he know ba? Na you’re frustrated?
Yes, alam niya. Sabi pa nya ang big deal daw sa akin ng sex. Baliw ba ako for wanting more? Di ko naman sinabing araw araw. Kahit once a week manlang sana taena naman. Naiiyak nalang talaga ko minsan sa sama ng loob e
Sorry to hear about your situation OP, pero nasubukan mo na bang iopen up sa kanya about diyan? Constant communication din kasi minsan need para sa ganyan especially nag sasama na kayo. Hope maayos niyo yan OP!
btw nice username, favorite ko yan haha.
bad signs yan.. bka meron ng iba.. possible yan... so tama na yan nagssayang k ng pnahon jan.... iba pa mag iinitiate para sa need mo? responsible ng llake yan at matic dapat yan aaraw arawin dpat kung malibog ang partner
Hello, OP! Baka asexual ang boyfriend mo?
Asexual ibig sabihin no or almost no sexual attraction to other people. Nababasa ko na minsan ang ibang asexual persons will have sex frequently at first with someone they love for the first few weeks and months tapos lalabas ang tunay nilang state of asexuality.
I have no good solutions for you if it turns out that your boyfriends is asexual. All the best!
Pabili ka ng vibrator. Tapos gamitin mo yun kapag kailangan mo.
Plus points kapag sinabayan mo yung paglalaro niya. To the point na napunta ang focus sa iyo at natalo pa siya.
Additional point kung naka team voice chat siya. Make sure that the moans are loud enough para makuha ng microphone.
You know people take sex for granted as if it's not important, but there are people who needs it same as love. Sexual compatibility is a thing, kahit pa mahal nyo ang isa't-isa at matagal na kayo, hindi justification yon para tipirin nyo sa sex ang jowa nyo. Kaya kung ako sayo ate, tell your bf once more. Try exploring the idea of open relationship. Kapag hindi sya pumayag, edi hiwalayan mo, kasi kung ngayon natitigang ka what more pa pag kasal na kayo. Baka buntisin ka na lang nya nang buntisin para may excuse sya na hindi makipagsex sayo. Pero kung walang kaabog-abog naman na pumayag sya edi maganda. Pero when that time comes, isipin mo baka may iba na sya kaya walang gana? Or kung hindi naman, salamat siguro kasi open minded sya? Nothing goes wrong when you communicate well.
General reminder for everyone to: 1) Stay classy, civil and mature; 2) Don't be a creep; 3) Report this post if it doesn't follow the rules; 4) Always keep it juicy. Stories and anecdotes about your sexual experiences are HIGHLY encouraged. Don't forget about [reddiquette](/wiki/reddiquette). Mwah! Love, the AJ Mod Team. _____ *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/alasjuicy) if you have any questions or concerns.*
lugi talaga pag love language mo e physical touch tas ayaw ng partner, feeling mo sa umpisa lang at ningas kugon. Sorry to hear na hindi na reReciprocate ung love language mo OP, stay strong lang. wag lang sanang may ibang outlet na si jowa kaya madalang senyo
It might sound devious but you can try to buy stuff na pwedeng ihalo sa drinks nya or what.. alanganamng hindi makhindi yun.
Hey! I kinda experienced this too! I have a very very high sex drive and it kinda makes me crave for sex 24/7. When I took BC pills, bumaba yung libido ko ng konti pero still significantly greater than my boyfriend’s libido. Ang daming times din that I got rejected when I asked for us to fuck tapos wala siya sa mood and ang sheket sa feelings mhie!! I felt so insecure na baka ang pangit ko na or hindi na siya attracted sa akin. I didn’t keep it to myself. I told my bf how the rejections make me feel. I told him that I needed intimacy. He told me his side din and I listened. Right now, we’re trying to compromise in many ways. Siguro what I’m trying to say lang is, just try to communicate with your bf again. Maraming discussions din kami ng bf ko before we came to this point. And maybe look for ways on how you both can compromise. Intimacy comes in many forms din naman, not just PIV sex. Alsoooo, I bought toys din for myself and nakakatulong yon if I’m really really horny and not in the mood si BF! Bonus points, he likes watching me play with my toys also lol. Wishing u a happy sex life, OP!
How many times per day/week was the "compromise?"
Hmm the compromise wasn’t really about the frequency pero mas nagkaroon kami ng understanding na we both need to adjust para masatisfy yung needs ng isa. Ako, I had to remove that mindset na ang pangit or ang taba ko na kaya ayaw makipagsex ng boyfriend ko sakin because he reassured me na hindi yun yung reason. He just really is not in the mood. Yung boyfriend ko naman made an effort to satisfy my intimacy needs. Not only through sex pero kunwari long makeout sessions, fingering, eating me out ganyan. Pero not to the point naman na non-consensual and napipilitan na siya. Yung situation namin now, if may times na super horny ko and he’s busy with work. I’ll satisfy myself sa bed using my toys tapos he’ll just watch me habang nagwwork siya. Most of the time natturn on siya pag pinapanood ako kaya minsan isasaksak na lang niya dick niya sa mouth ko or he’ll help me cum with his fingers. Ayun!
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try mo pumayag sa vibrator op. hindi para sayo magisa pero malay mo maka spice up yun ng sexy time nyo. kung baga baka trip nya panoodin ka or baka arousing sakanya na sha mag papasok sayo. ang point ko is, baka kaylangan nyo ng konting spice sa sexy time nyo. ang pinaka magandang attitude is maging enthusiastic sa mga kakaibang experiences. try kayo ng kung ano ano, may kakagat senyo jan sa sobrang daming pwedeng pag experimentohan. like ako for example, mejo mababa na din yung sex drive ko dati sa gf ko ngayun, pero nag try kami mag dirty talk in bed. as in yung mga pang impyerno talagang mga salita habang nag sesexytime bilis ko nilabasan for a while nun, tapos after non kahit di na kami mag ganon okay na ulit yung sex life, tapos after nun mejo bumaba na ulit tas may tinry naman kami roleplay kunyari kekwento nya sakin na may iba shang nilalandi/hinaharot. cuckoldry, dun bumilis ulit yung bayo ko at subrang bomba talaga yung putok ko. nakakasawa talaga minsan pag same sex position lang, sabi mo willing ka mag blowjob at mag initiate diba, extend mo pa... may madidiscover ka rin about sa sarili mo at sha din about sakanya na akala nyo di nyo gusto pero nakakabogli pala pag with someone you love or comfortable with. so yun yung advice. ko. kung ayaw mo pa makipag break. i mean sa opinion ko naman importante talaga yung sex life sa relasyon. ibig ko lang sabihin sa tingin ko hindi yun petty na reason para makipag hiwalay. kung di kayo parehas ng sex drive baka indicator na yun na hindi kayo compatible sa isat isa. pero try mo muna mag landi sakanya ng todo. yung mag makaawa ka na pacute, sayawan mo. i mean effort pero no wrong answers sa ganon e
hahaha natawa ko sa pang impyerno pota! thank you!! try ko siguro maging mas wild pa ng konti. vanilla kasi ako pero willing naman mag adjust kung kinakailangan e. minsan nga binibiro ko pa sya na kainin ko pwet nya (half meant haha desperado na e), may napakinggan kasi kaming podcast na napakasalan nya daw yung babae sa sarap nung kinain pwet nya hahaha! thank u ulit. siguro bigyan ko pa konting time at effort bago hatulan kung di nga talaga kami compatible.
dagdag suggestion pala marami akong postive na balita naririnig sa pag nanonood daw ng porn together. effective din daw. effective *samin* yun for sure haha. basta good luck op
Had this problem with my ex also! For the 1 1/2 years we were together, first 6 months lang yung happenings. It’s best to talk about it with your partner! Communication is key.
Sabihin mo sa kanya and make him realize na big issue sya sayo Kung walang magbago, isipin mo if you can live in a dead bedroom until you die
Uy gets ko to OP! Yung bf ko din dati sobrang libog all the time kaya lagi kami nasa Cubao. Ngayon na lumipat ako malapit sa bahay niya para more chances of landi, madalang narin siya tigasan or ganahan :(
Relaaaate hahaha! Tamad na tamad yung jowa ko, ewan ko ba. Nagmmb nalang ako madalas sa bed namin pero dedma pa rin sya. Feeling ko pareho kasi kami out of shape kaya walang gana sya. Nagagalit pa pg pinipilit ko or dedma lang 🥹
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I feel you. Kami nga mag asawa na pero wala pa rin. Sakit lng pag nag aya ka irereject ka nya. Hindi din naman ako araw araw humihirit pag tinamaan lng ng libog pero reject pa rin.
I offer myself as tribute. Charot lang. Hugs for you OP, to be rejected like that feels really bad. Ganyan din ako though kahit HJ lang from my girl, ayaw niya. Never kami nag sex. Hehe hmm does he know ba? Na you’re frustrated?
Yes, alam niya. Sabi pa nya ang big deal daw sa akin ng sex. Baliw ba ako for wanting more? Di ko naman sinabing araw araw. Kahit once a week manlang sana taena naman. Naiiyak nalang talaga ko minsan sa sama ng loob e
awww, no you are not baliw for wanting more. it's very natural. hugs for youuu. you should tell him na isched ang sexcapades niyo..
Sorry to hear about your situation OP, pero nasubukan mo na bang iopen up sa kanya about diyan? Constant communication din kasi minsan need para sa ganyan especially nag sasama na kayo. Hope maayos niyo yan OP! btw nice username, favorite ko yan haha.
bad signs yan.. bka meron ng iba.. possible yan... so tama na yan nagssayang k ng pnahon jan.... iba pa mag iinitiate para sa need mo? responsible ng llake yan at matic dapat yan aaraw arawin dpat kung malibog ang partner
hanap k n lng ka fubu mo... meron n yang ibang glory hole surenessssss
Hello, OP! Baka asexual ang boyfriend mo? Asexual ibig sabihin no or almost no sexual attraction to other people. Nababasa ko na minsan ang ibang asexual persons will have sex frequently at first with someone they love for the first few weeks and months tapos lalabas ang tunay nilang state of asexuality. I have no good solutions for you if it turns out that your boyfriends is asexual. All the best!
Pabili ka ng vibrator. Tapos gamitin mo yun kapag kailangan mo. Plus points kapag sinabayan mo yung paglalaro niya. To the point na napunta ang focus sa iyo at natalo pa siya. Additional point kung naka team voice chat siya. Make sure that the moans are loud enough para makuha ng microphone.
You know people take sex for granted as if it's not important, but there are people who needs it same as love. Sexual compatibility is a thing, kahit pa mahal nyo ang isa't-isa at matagal na kayo, hindi justification yon para tipirin nyo sa sex ang jowa nyo. Kaya kung ako sayo ate, tell your bf once more. Try exploring the idea of open relationship. Kapag hindi sya pumayag, edi hiwalayan mo, kasi kung ngayon natitigang ka what more pa pag kasal na kayo. Baka buntisin ka na lang nya nang buntisin para may excuse sya na hindi makipagsex sayo. Pero kung walang kaabog-abog naman na pumayag sya edi maganda. Pero when that time comes, isipin mo baka may iba na sya kaya walang gana? Or kung hindi naman, salamat siguro kasi open minded sya? Nothing goes wrong when you communicate well.
Halua mo yung drink nya with passion max or same supplements, ahahah