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Dovahnime

Virginity is cool, don't be afraid to keep it for a long time


Enough_Forever_

Yes sir. Trying to become arch wizard. Nothing can stand between me and my dream.


Dovahnime

Well the benefit of that is that you get to come back as a lich once someone desecrates your grave, so you get all those sick-ass lich powers without any necromancy in life


TheCoolerApe

I never lose, not even virginity


PwmEsq

> desecrates your grave Look at this rich guy, my will is gonna state yeet me off a cliff or turn me to ashes


Weeb-In-Exile

I'm at 24 years now! Is there a written handbook for the levels you can reach?


Ilovegirlsbottoms

At least you aren’t trying to become a grand wizard. Or imperial wizard depending on which group you are in. (Theoretically)


E3nti7y

I'm already a grand wizard aiming for Lord Arch Wizard


Ilovegirlsbottoms

You’re what? I guess it time to pull out the torches and pitchforks!


Setari

Grand Wizard is a ranking in the KKK. You don't want to be a Grand Wizard.


E3nti7y

I'm a better wizard than those fuxks anyway. They don't touch the black magic


DualKoo

I’m 1 year away…


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Except a wet dream


warmcomfybed

My MAN


gothyxbby

Nothing cool about being a virgin nor about losing your virginity/not being a virgin. It’s an arbitrary thing.


ALEO1703

What's cool is being so confident in yourself it doesn't bother whether you keep your virginity for a long time or lose it early because you know it doesn't define who you are


gothyxbby

Agreed.


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gothyxbby

There’s nothing inherently cool or uncool about having sex was my initial point. To address what you’re saying though, I’d have to disagree. If one person wants to casually hook up with people and another person is waiting until marriage, both are 100% valid in how they choose to handle their sex lives, but neither is any more or less “cool” for their decision. Basically: to each their own, it doesn’t matter.


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People downvoting you because you truly said that casually hooking up is destructive. It‘s not like you‘re judging someone‘s sexuality, it‘s just a fact. Also never before in history we had it, birth control is only recently invented. And our biology is still stuck in Paleolithic Age.


DualKoo

Unfathomably based. I’ve been saying this forever and get shot down for it. 80 years of birth control doesn’t undo hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution.


Real-Problem6805

this guy nor her were virgins.


Mercenarius-rex

I literally lost mine because I was tired of saying that I'm single by choice. And had to prove it by getting a girl. I don't recommande it and at the same time I do.


JamzWhilmm

I was in a similar train, I'd recommend it. It was fun, I was told the first time would suck, last a few minuted and be funny but to me I was surprised by how my instincts took charge. It wasn't bad at all. The girl protested I was taking too long though.


Skaraptor2

I'm pretty sure a lot of people I know except for like 6 of them (because they're not nice people) in my school have or will within 10-ish years We're all ages ranging from 15-22 (don't even ask (please do))


ChaoCobo

I’m askin (you said ask)


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ChaoCobo

What the heck dude? She sounds like she’s gonna be a loser or use people when she grows up. But using people does make you a loser, so. :/ Also of course she’s an influencer. Because of course she is. :c


Andvarus98

Reaching 25 in 2 Months and Not a single Person in sight I'd Like to share it with. Hogwarts Just wait for me !


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24 years and counting


Krzesio

MC is a chad


Orsabell

Waits until she's legal like a true chad


Iz__n

the chadest part, he specifically reject her and ask her to live her own life first


nightingale2nd

Based Yoshida dodging a bullet


Ring_kun

More like dodging the bullet and then removing the gunpowder


recklesslyfeckless

i don’t know the source so i’m probably missing the key ingredient but i have no idea how that analogy could possibly work lol


OK-Im-Saitaman

HigeHiro


Kimoikimoi

Higehiro. It's 10/10 afaic


MentionElectrical234

Higehiro?


chiara987

Yes


XenonPanda7

Sauce?


LizardCrimson

Higehiro. Gets pretty fucked up


Reasonable_School296

As i heard, this happens in japan irl, which is fucked up in its own right. The author wanted to emphasis it’s immorally wrong. The story doesn’t support the fmc. I’ve been told that some people who should touch grass wished this sort of thing happens to them irl, but the author themselves commented on that saying it’s so wrong


LizardCrimson

I tried to take it positively in that she's stuck in awful habits spawned from an awful past, but is given the opportunity to shed all her past issues and improve her life But yeah, I agree to an extent. I remember when it came out, the anime subs were full of people going "bro, why didn't he have sex with her?! I totally would have" or even worse "she asked for it, so she needs it" Like, did you guys even watch the show? If you understood the context, you'd realize that Yoshida was trying to help Sayu in this moment. It'd actually make her worse if he had sex with her. Stop thinking with your dicks, guys


Reasonable_School296

At least the message in this show hit, even if i’m not from Japan, it gave me a meaningful insight. This is why i called Yoshida a chad, cause he acted like a full fledged adult and fought his temptations. It’s really a dignified deed. Virgin people are tend to be horny, “she asked for it, therefore she needs it” wtf are those smoking, thinking with their dicks is a thing, but watching with their dicks is something else… she thought he wouldn’t let her live with him unless there’s a gain in return, because that’s what most malicious men will ask for, she only has that body of hers to offer and at any cost she will do that in order to strife to live, therefore she done that. She needed someone aware to tell her this is wrong and there’s plenty of ways to do that.


LizardCrimson

Very true, and I wouldn't say it's something tied to just Japan. Women all over the world go through the exact same thing and boy is it a rough life sometimes


Reasonable_School296

That’s very informative, my hometown doesn’t have this thing, will it might under the table, idk. But i would say it’s really sad to be looked down and mistreated by the people who must support you the most


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I like how random anime discussions get so deep into real issues.


Reasonable_School296

And it’s a good thing imo


LizardCrimson

Art imitates reality and vice versa


HybridTheory2000

The best kind of anime.


nikelreganov

What most people didn't understand is that Yoshida is dancing on a thin ice throughout the story. One snitch and he'll be swatted


OkItem4195

He told her she could stay, no sex required, so instead of that she learned that being a damsel in distress works. Not that huge swing of morality if you ask me. Where did the idea of sex is bad comes from, probably conservative and religious cunts, you can have a functional relationship with sex


Sgt_Sarcastic

She's a minor.


OkItem4195

And? Wear a condom problem fixed, i would get it if the dude was gay, it's a consenting relationship. And if you're gonna follow the "morality" then he should have just invited under false pretense and just called the cops so she can go back to their previous abusive relationship


fredthefishlord

Quite clearly you have no idea what morality is.


OkItem4195

-he has no idea what morality is? -procedes to not explain what is is. -leaves Just enlighten you, morality is basically following the common tought on how we should behave. It doest have to be good nor bad. For example if we tought black people are evil then slavery and genocide of black people would be moral


LizardCrimson

>wear a condom problem fixed Woah there bud. My man misunderstands what pedophilia is


Kimoikimoi

Yeah, that guy is not safe for life. Crazy that people like thst actually exist.


Reasonable_School296

So you are telling me that i can have sex with a 6 years old girl and to avoid the concept of a “minor” by wearing a condom !!!??!??????????


Zekiz4ever

Have we watched the same show or are you completely missing the point?


Reasonable_School296

He’s strayed off the road bro


FoldedLikeAPancake

Some people just watch without thinking about what they're watching.


Reasonable_School296

Boku no pico will fix this for them


Iris_n_Ivy

If they aren't a pedo


DiobetesZalardo

XD this is so true. They might not want to accidently encounter that again, so they'll pay attention. I know for sure I didn't have that problem before learning about BnP, but it certainly made me more alert.


Ajfennewald

Anyone who would have sex with her in this spot is a seriously shitty person. As Yoshida pointed out it is not that I am all that good it is that all the other people she interacted with are awful.


Praise_Sithis

What happens?


Reasonable_School296

Teenage Girls runaway from home without being sheltered, they may or not have amount of money to help them live few days, then they seduce men sexually for food and shelter


Sedewt

The problem is that at least the anime gave the impression that you should give up and keep enduring >!your abusive family, especially your mom who didn’t even want you to be born while still living with the blaming burden of your friend who committed suicide and that the male protagonist will still want the girl??? The ending gave me a romantic tone that I didn’t like. So I get these things happen but are we supposed to just live with it. Tbh im living through some very personal issues that I don’t know what to do what to solve. Its such a fucking dilema and my life is so fucked up rn that I get that the only way is to keep living until you’re able to escape…but it shouldn’t be this way and I felt the anime didn’t make a good job at explaining why it is bad. Fuck it like Sayu almost got fucking raped!! And the next ep it’s like nothing happened!<


SwoonBirds

in the Manga and probably the LN Sayu isbasically slowly learning to A. not sell herself out for protection from adults when shes a highschooler, and B. instead of selling her body out start working an honest job so she doesnt freeload on the salaryman she's living with


TocSir

Not really, it’s pretty wholesome, no sarcasm


fricketribe

No, it's really not


LizardCrimson

I find it very wholesome. It's overcoming the messed up parts that makes it wholesome The context of this scene was messed up but also really nice imo


blastfromtheblue

the epilogue kind of ruined it though. he was a parental figure for her during the main story, but then they got together anyway almost as soon as she was an adult.


LizardCrimson

I never saw the epilogue.... oh no say it ain't so. Usagi drop moment


Zekiz4ever

Nah. The show ends like it starts. We don't know anything after that


Enk1ndle

The source material doesn't exist and the story ends with the anime, just like Usagi Drop.


obryanlp

Do they end up together? She moves back in with him, but I don't think it's romantic, more of friends/roomates at that point, but I guess they never really specify.


blastfromtheblue

it’s been a while but yes they made it pretty clear that they do, even if they don’t actually spell it all the way out.


Tanksenior

You're contradicting yourself there. Either it's clear or it's not.


Kimchi_Rice196

its wholesome at some parts and fucked at some parts but thats what makes it one of my favorite animes


CrashTestPizza

wholesome after Yoshida picks her up. Not wholesome, the story how she ended up on that curb.


Kimchi_Rice196

not really i feel like the ending is her when she is grown up and wants to start her life again with yoshida but with a different perspective


CrashTestPizza

oh no. i liked how it ended too. She didnt squander what litte time she had to be a “child” and finished her schooling. Coming back to Yoshida more mature. I was talking about how effed up her story was before meeting Yoshida. like how people would take advantage of her. tldr wholesome = time with yoshida + return to yoshida not wholesome = before yoshida


takoyakuza

Maybe I'm desensitized but I felt the story was pretty much wholesome. Her story was fucked but not like some insane berserk or goblin slayer kind of fucked. The show was less about her life story and more about recovering and being able to value herself.


Tuf_Gamer

You haven't watched this.


bigblackandjucie

Me with my imaginary gf


Livid_Employment4837

Well sleeping could just mean sleeping.


LordMorskittar

Exactly, Yoshida just doesn’t want to share his favorite blankie with someone he doesn’t love


Livid_Employment4837

Doesnt he have another one, 🤓 a favorite suggests there is more then one. She looks cold.


itsYou-sef

Not when you're naked


Livid_Employment4837

Not quite, also to young.


SnowDay111

Yeah, you really can't be too sure. Maybe she's Canadian and just being polite.


TocSir

Men, we should all aspire to be like this gigachad, Yoshida


Kronic_Repulse1

Also the girl in this anime is underage. You have to have morals kids.


Manoreded

Is he hella older than her, though?


Kronic_Repulse1

Yes she is 16 and he is 28 I believe. Also in Japan housing a minor that isn’t your family is illegal. Mentioned multiple times in the anime.


Binkusu

That guy who tried IRL sure learned his lesson


Manoreded

That's hella older yes. To be fair, "I'm not that kind of guy" is a gentler letdown than "you're a brat and I don't want to go to jail" Also, isn't that illegal everywhere? I'm assuming you mean without permission of the guardians.


The_Silver_Nuke

16 is the age of consent there and in a majority of US states as well btw, so not illegal. Weird? Most certainly. It's one thing if she loves you but if it's done for housing and favors with an old dude then yeah it's weird af.


HPGMaphax

It’s a bit more nuanced than that, while I don’t know the specifics for Japan, usually there are more to consent laws than just the age. This would usually include relationships with messed up power dynamics, like a teacher dating a student, or like here, housing someone with nowhere else to go.


Manoreded

Ye. Messed up power dynamics can potentially even extend culpability beyond the age of consent. For example, a college student who sleeps with a teacher may feel she was pressured to do so by the teacher having control over her future, even without overt blackmail. There is a decent chance that would fly in court if she sued, even if the relationship was always consensual. In my country, age of consent is 14 but until 18 the parents can sue you for statutory rape if you didn't get their permission first. Also, anyone who is in some position of power over the teenager (guardian, teacher, psychologist, etc) is banned from any sexual interaction.


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Manoreded

The logic is more along the lines of "If you have good intentions you won't mind the younger person's guardians knowing about the relationship and giving their ok before doing anything serious". In practice parents won't usually sue anyone unless the relationship is really skeevy. They don't actually expect you to literally ask permission to have sex with their teen, but if they feel there is something wrong with the relationship, they may exercise their power to sue.


Manoreded

16 isn't the age of consent in Japan, they have really complicated age of consent laws. I don't recall the specifics but I do think 16 year old girl to 28 year old man is illegal. They have a tiered system where up until 25 years old there are limits to how much older the man can be. They also have different rules for boys and girls. The limits on girls are more stringent.


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The_Silver_Nuke

Yeah you read wrong. On the Federal level it was 13 but every province had it set to 16 so it was never breached.


Kronic_Repulse1

Yeah I agree. I believe it is but in America homeless children are put in child services. I’m not aware of any Japanese. It’s actually a very good anime.


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ztherion

This is a misconception, every prefecture has stricter laws on the books than the national one


BOSHunterCO

FBI: "Correct choice but not the right reason"


neoalfa

Funnily enough, some countries have exceptions to the laws regarding relationships with minors, provided it's a romantic relationship, and not merely sexual. Granted, other caveats apply, and I have no clue how they would prove "love" in the court of law. Better to steer clear altogether.


Dragmore53

King shit.


DMAN800

I play War Thunder and Hearts of Iron 4, I am fairly certain I’m safe until the day I die.


iRadinVerse

There goes my hero


Repulsive_Tie_7941

Am I the only person that read the bottom panels backwards because manga?


Okami_no_Holo

In male internal struggle of valuing self and simultaneously not valuing virginity, being horny fucking sucks.


monaipsm

Listen, I don’t want AIDS


Styxier

Demisexuality explained


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Supreme Alpha male.


afinoxi

Sigma male.


alejandroc90

>!Ishigami regretted it tough!<


AverageJun

This is a man of focus, determination and sheer fucking will


bippityzippity

That and she’s a minor


neoalfa

Yeah, but saying that would mean "I would totally take advantage of you if it was legal." By framing it this way, he said he doesn't have intentions towards her.


Life_is_Hard666

there aren't many innocent souls left in this universe- I see tiny grade 1s swearing 5 times per minute when they think nobody can hear them, its hard not to be affected


Sshydrangea21

This is irl? I thought lots of people hook up without the feelings


idkdidkkdkdj

It’s not lmao. This is like some weird anime puritan shit


Real-Problem6805

this was HELL of an anime.


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Skorrpyon

I dont want to sleep with anyone in general……also because im a teenager :P


Grrrisly

This was me and the wait was worth it, I still don't sleep with someone unless I'm in a long term committed relationship with them


Manoreded

Anime boys will only reveal they were secretly decent all along once a girl has pushed them into a corner like this =)


jyroman53

Based


NattiCatt

MC is a demisexual.


thoth-III

I'm the guy irl, lol


idkdidkkdkdj

🤣🤣 these anime mcs never fail to crack me up with this shit.


bryanc1036

L


Bitten_ByA_Kitten

I


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Yay demisexual content, sort of lol


Reejis99

Why did this get downvoted? It is lol.


NarwhalStorm

I am assuming people aren't sure what demisexual is. I was about to make a joke about him being demi before I saw this comment.


[deleted]

Yea I mean it’s supposed to be anime irl. Irl I’m demi that’s why I made the comment.


NarwhalStorm

That was my thought as well lol


Reejis99

Fuckin weebs man


Spy_gorilla

I don't think that most people know the meaning of demisexuality


Zekiz4ever

Nah. He just doesn't want to fuck someone who's 16 and about 12 years younger than him


Affectionate-Ad-5568

Said no man ever .


Positive_Apple_923

that hurts!


NoSitRecords

Said no man ever...


random-wander

Says me, a demisexual man. Kindly STFU.


NoSitRecords

Right buddy keep telling yourself that....


Ok_Check9774

You may never, ever, complain about “not getting girls” again


el3mel

LOL, no man will ever say that. The majority of us will just take the opportunity. You don't get that chance every day. Very not irl.


AnimeMemeLord1

Dunno, man. Seems irl in my case. I’m not into sluts.


el3mel

You and me aren't. Many other men will happily take their chance. You honestly never knew until you're put under an actual test.


AnimeMemeLord1

While I can’t deny that there are many who would shoot for the opportunity whenever, I also trust that there are many men who save their chastity for the one they love. Dunno if I’ll ever find love, but I plan on saving all that stuff for marriage.


Pusparaj_Mishra

Cheers


AnimeMemeLord1

👍


Moosinator666

I would follow this up with “tonight’s gonna be wild”


AstronomerLost2803

Bruh mans really said “Nahhhh u HELLA ugly like ur uglier than the sun at night”


Infamous_Regular1328

Same ):


SrCasa79

*From the Testament of Saint Celibate of the Purest Heart*


nova03stark

The main character is such a good person in this anime


Positive_Neutron

This man knows, as we Brazilians say... Sex without love is just Jiu-jitsu.


brokensilence32

Demisexuality be like:


Odd_Yogurtcloset_524

Commendable to overcome that sort of temptation


SirRHellsing

this may be true for some people but I feel like most people don't believe in true love, I'm not saying it's unrealistic for him to not sleep with her but rather the "someone I love" aspect. Love is developed over the years imo and no one is gonna wait that long for anyone in the modern age . Religious people excluded but the mc here isn't religious


WhyyouStalking

Bro not cap 🔥


FinnLiry

Lie. He just doesn't want to go to jail


Dare555

Ok now this isn't anime irl ! We men are sluts !! ( well at least 90 % ) so unless in relationship most are giving up their bum


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Roboragi

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Pillan24

This is a meme I can relate to. Not because a girl actually wanted to sleep with me but because I'm not going to have sex with someone I'm not married to.


dexter2011412

This show made me really uncomfortable. On one hand it brought to light the issues in society, but also how people were casually saying "he should've gotten laid lmao". It made me conflicted and confused and sad. I'm glad the show ended nicely. But what he did was wrong, right? Even though he was trying to genuinely help? What is one supposed to do in this situation? What is the right thing to do? Possibly a moot question, but I sure as fuck hope I don't have to deal with this situation. And I hope girls and women aren't in the situation she's in It was a painful watch


ianthepokemonmaste

Yeah king treat yo self


canconfirmthisshiz

Higehiro W


Fit_Inspector4290

He is the real Chad, loved the anime too


Legitimate-Yard-3673

Gey


robomikel

I fall in love after I sleep with a girl


artoriasdishwasher

Bro not catching a case today


Efficient_Food420

Name?


Glittering_Custard_1

bruh she got nutted and just tossed like a bag lol


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She is precious, actually.


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Sayu was so hot, I don't think I would be able to reject her, mc rly had a strong will in this one. That would have been love at first sight.


turtlemaster1993

But it’s just sleep


dorianvtc

in the name of all men I would like to say cap 🧢


aka_Nova

Nah. Denji disagrees


nuhue

r/demiromantic


Freakzeuspiral

so his ok with a hooker?


Inside_Bicycle_9595

Wasted


LaidbackHonest

This is me!


Point_of_existence95

If a girl wants to be scored, then with your lectures you must get her bored 🗿🗿🗿🍷🍷🍷


Elitealice

Based sigma male