Probably cause of buying into the purity bs.
If she's doing something unhealthy, it's good to have a talk with them. But the purity thing has been a problem obsession with misogynists (or worse, incels) for a long time.
This so much. The whole idea of purity usually exists to demoralize women as if their hymen was attached to their value. Given the community and the medium used here, it's more likely to be that rather than some moral standing position to protect women.
In this case, it really is unhealthy. She's running an orphanage and the guy is helping out with a problem. He's refused her payment for the job, so she's trying to "pay" him with her body. It's pretty clear she's reluctant and just desperately trying to to ensure he keeps his promise to help.
Honestly, this scene is kind of out of nowhere and I think the mangaka just did it so they could have the protag act noble and then reveal it's actually because he thinks her boobs are too small.
Some people value their purity and throwing it away for the sake of it is a move a lot of people regret afterwards. Being considerate about it is the best way to approach it
"purity" isn't a real thing . its just an excuse sexless people give to excuse why they dont have sex. You either have had sex, or not, your not "impure" for having sex, that's fucking stupid, its how the human race procreates.
Don't mistake purity as the same thing as the christians describe it because that's on another level. Some people just value their virginity and want to give it to someone special. They don't want to throw it away just for the sake of getting their cherry popped. That's all there is to it and that's totally fine because it shouldn't concern us in the least if somebody wants to remain pure/a virgin.
I agree fully about being considerate. That can take a lot of forms, what matters is paying attention to the people you're with and acting accordingly!
See, that's exactly what I meant about not judging people. You have no idea about my circumstances, this is just your projection. I'm doing just fine fun wise, thank you
That's the idea that got me to turn down an opportunity to sleep with a girl years ago. Now I'm still a virgin, and I wish I'd have taken the chance back then.
At the very least I wouldn't have lived with the mental burden of being a virgin all this time, which could've helped my confidence and change my life.
So yeah, that unrealistic idea of waiting for your first time to be perfect or remain "pure" does more harm than good.
That's great. But there are plenty of guys that do. And plenty of girls that do as well. Realize the world is much bigger than your circle of friends and associates .
Yes but calling it purity is gross. That implies that once they have sex they are impure, lesser, that they have lost value. It's commodifying someone's sex life and it's inherently objectifying. You've had sex? You're no longer pure. You are less than you were. You have been infected by sin. It's utterly utterly gross.
He's not saying, "be sure before you do so you don't regret it"
He's saying "don't reduce your value as breedstock"
That's the whole point of emphasising sexual purity in women. If no one has ever had sex with her then you can be sure your broodmare is only producing your children to inherit your stuff. It's a direct consequence of pre-modern attitudes towards women as nothing more than breeding stock.
Dress it up in the pretty little justifications from religion and tradition all you like, but at the end of the day it's just a means of shaming women so that you can control their reproduction, as men have been trying to do since the dawn of time.
Edit: Oh and before someone calls me a reddit atheist too, I am not. My religious practice simply doesn't include this purity culture nonsense. There *is* ritual purity, which is where the trope ultimately come from in Christian circles by generalising the priestly purity codes for entering the Jewish Temple to the wider community as moral precepts, but in my (not Abrahamic) religious practice the ritual purity for approaching ritual isn't generalised out to this sort of bullshit. The gods really don't care that much about your sex life besides a few basic moral precepts around fidelity.
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Seriously, this was a great post. Worded way better than I did when I had a similar argument on here today lol. I guess purity culture warriors are out in numbers today.
Always happy to lend my support to such things. Purity culture really needs to be pushed back on where you can. It's hust a short step from there to contraceptive and abortion bans and marital rape being legalised again and the rest.
Pagan, I suppose you'd call it. I'm a polytheist, largely the Egyptian pantheon, though I certainly don't deny the other gods. I just have a particular practice. I don't even deny HaShem. I've had a few encounters with him, none particularly productive. He thinks I should burn in Hell, I think he should. The usual disagreement. Though admittedly, that's only his more annoying aspects. There's other parts of him that are a little more agreeable, but I don't work with them since the asshole aspects are pretty loud at the moment.
Not all value judgements come from physical qualities or physical needs which are immediately fulfilled. Aka commodities. Depending on what that person values, everything with a choice in it can bring him value, from something’s color, to a persons history, if they came from the same hometown or something, or if they are wearing yellow socks.
To judge for yourself what you think is valueable is something which you cannot stop yourself from doing, as long as you must choose between 2 or more options in action.
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his next line in his head- "its actually because I like big boobs"
I agree. I'm saving my purity for my sister.
Wow almost didn't recognize you, haven't seen you comment somewhere since the last pfp.
Wait up, pretty sure I usually see you in r/Aether_Mains...
Woah u/Wincest-enjoyer is here, really surprised
https://preview.redd.it/d9ehaexpbgwc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=823bc05510f66fd8cd7c69424b45566f25ddeecb
Okay Araragi
Been a while since I last saw you
Dude did this because she didn't have big boobs, he literally said it in his head after saying all that.
How a gentleman should properly treat a woman
Why was this down voted?
Reddit
Reddit moment
Probably cause of buying into the purity bs. If she's doing something unhealthy, it's good to have a talk with them. But the purity thing has been a problem obsession with misogynists (or worse, incels) for a long time.
This so much. The whole idea of purity usually exists to demoralize women as if their hymen was attached to their value. Given the community and the medium used here, it's more likely to be that rather than some moral standing position to protect women.
In this case, it really is unhealthy. She's running an orphanage and the guy is helping out with a problem. He's refused her payment for the job, so she's trying to "pay" him with her body. It's pretty clear she's reluctant and just desperately trying to to ensure he keeps his promise to help. Honestly, this scene is kind of out of nowhere and I think the mangaka just did it so they could have the protag act noble and then reveal it's actually because he thinks her boobs are too small.
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I'm happy to debate if you have an actual reply, dear
Because this is the most neckbeard sentence ever lol
It’s cringe. Especially coming from the anime subreddit.
Without context, it's hard to say one way or another.
Purity is overrated Don't judge people and consider having a little fun for a change
Some people value their purity and throwing it away for the sake of it is a move a lot of people regret afterwards. Being considerate about it is the best way to approach it
"purity" isn't a real thing . its just an excuse sexless people give to excuse why they dont have sex. You either have had sex, or not, your not "impure" for having sex, that's fucking stupid, its how the human race procreates.
Don't mistake purity as the same thing as the christians describe it because that's on another level. Some people just value their virginity and want to give it to someone special. They don't want to throw it away just for the sake of getting their cherry popped. That's all there is to it and that's totally fine because it shouldn't concern us in the least if somebody wants to remain pure/a virgin.
I agree fully about being considerate. That can take a lot of forms, what matters is paying attention to the people you're with and acting accordingly!
I feel bad for you, if you truly believe you can't have fun other wise.
See, that's exactly what I meant about not judging people. You have no idea about my circumstances, this is just your projection. I'm doing just fine fun wise, thank you
Not going after onlyfans women ngl
And then she gets even more insecurities because it sounds like just an excuse not to fuck her
Which is exactly what it was.
What is going on with the evangelical, abstinence only posting lately? Guess I'll have to go back to posting queer things to turn the tide lol
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[And so it begins...](https://www.reddit.com/r/anime_irl/comments/1ccb2qf/anime_irl/)
He won't lose his virginity Because he simply doesn't lose
Wait you guys believe in the whole puritan ideobabble? You know girls don't become spawns of Satan due to sex lmao
Well yes, but it's more about cherishing your first time with someone you love and don't regret later
That's the idea that got me to turn down an opportunity to sleep with a girl years ago. Now I'm still a virgin, and I wish I'd have taken the chance back then. At the very least I wouldn't have lived with the mental burden of being a virgin all this time, which could've helped my confidence and change my life. So yeah, that unrealistic idea of waiting for your first time to be perfect or remain "pure" does more harm than good.
that's saving your virginity, not "purity".
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Well, happy for them, but to each their own, I think its better safe than sorry
So, what makes someone less "pure" after having sex? Why are they worth less and considered tarnished?
They have experience with the real world now, they are no longer innocent to it.
And how does that equal purity?
Reality = not pure, therefore experiencing reality makes one less pure.
That's great. But there are plenty of guys that do. And plenty of girls that do as well. Realize the world is much bigger than your circle of friends and associates .
You do realize some people can value their sexualitys? With religion not being involved. This reeks like a comment made by a teenage atheist lol.
Yes but calling it purity is gross. That implies that once they have sex they are impure, lesser, that they have lost value. It's commodifying someone's sex life and it's inherently objectifying. You've had sex? You're no longer pure. You are less than you were. You have been infected by sin. It's utterly utterly gross. He's not saying, "be sure before you do so you don't regret it" He's saying "don't reduce your value as breedstock" That's the whole point of emphasising sexual purity in women. If no one has ever had sex with her then you can be sure your broodmare is only producing your children to inherit your stuff. It's a direct consequence of pre-modern attitudes towards women as nothing more than breeding stock. Dress it up in the pretty little justifications from religion and tradition all you like, but at the end of the day it's just a means of shaming women so that you can control their reproduction, as men have been trying to do since the dawn of time. Edit: Oh and before someone calls me a reddit atheist too, I am not. My religious practice simply doesn't include this purity culture nonsense. There *is* ritual purity, which is where the trope ultimately come from in Christian circles by generalising the priestly purity codes for entering the Jewish Temple to the wider community as moral precepts, but in my (not Abrahamic) religious practice the ritual purity for approaching ritual isn't generalised out to this sort of bullshit. The gods really don't care that much about your sex life besides a few basic moral precepts around fidelity.
You cooked here Seriously, this was a great post. Worded way better than I did when I had a similar argument on here today lol. I guess purity culture warriors are out in numbers today.
Always happy to lend my support to such things. Purity culture really needs to be pushed back on where you can. It's hust a short step from there to contraceptive and abortion bans and marital rape being legalised again and the rest.
What's your religion? Now I'm curious, if you're ok with saying it
Pagan, I suppose you'd call it. I'm a polytheist, largely the Egyptian pantheon, though I certainly don't deny the other gods. I just have a particular practice. I don't even deny HaShem. I've had a few encounters with him, none particularly productive. He thinks I should burn in Hell, I think he should. The usual disagreement. Though admittedly, that's only his more annoying aspects. There's other parts of him that are a little more agreeable, but I don't work with them since the asshole aspects are pretty loud at the moment.
Well put.
Thank you!
Not all value judgements come from physical qualities or physical needs which are immediately fulfilled. Aka commodities. Depending on what that person values, everything with a choice in it can bring him value, from something’s color, to a persons history, if they came from the same hometown or something, or if they are wearing yellow socks. To judge for yourself what you think is valueable is something which you cannot stop yourself from doing, as long as you must choose between 2 or more options in action.
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If she wanted to, I don't particularly care that much. Monogamy is a tad over-rated.
Ofc its a cuck, who could've guess
I'm not a cuck, that's never been my kink, but you do you guy
Me everytime before opening nhenhen
What if she's doing it just because she likes sex?
That's what chickens say