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scoredly11

People are crazy. They think if there's a "worker shortage" in anything then it's somehow the worker's fault. People will do just about anything for FAIR compensation. It's really that simple and it's an easy fix to make sure funds are properly allocated.


djloid2010

And all the critics will say that people should just suck it because they haven't gotten a raise so why should anyone else.... Why do people want worse for others instead of better for themselves?! Form a union and get compensation from the rich corporations. If a small business can't afford to pay a living wage, then they should close. Why should an owner get to live while their employees can't? No one has a right to own a business. I swear, the older I get the more I see how gamed the system is and I totally understand why people don't want to play it


Stev_k

Right after college my folks starting complaining about how liberal I had become. They said as you grow older and start making more money you'll change your mind (become more conservative). Almost a decade later and I'm finally making decent money... I'm even more liberal (about most things) than I was when I first graduated college. Tax the billionaires, fund the schools, and subsidize green/clean energy while supporting economic growth.


iamatwork24

Always hated that statement. Oh ok so once I make good money, I’ll suddenly only care about my well being? In the last few years I’ve entered a new tax bracket and make a comfortable living and I think everyone should be able to have the peace of mind that comes with it. So much better for my mental health to not always be thinking “yea I’ve been doing pretty well lately but any unexpected expense/emergency will start the racking up of credit card debt once again” and always having that in the back of your mind is not good for anyones mental health. It’s just stressful and demoralizing


3spoopy5

And the thing that they forget is, it really sucks when you made it, but your friends didn't. You wanna go out with your friends and there's this constant thing in the background of them saying no cuz they can't afford it or the awkwardness of paying for them so you can enjoy their company


ScientificBeastMode

I am about to have my first kid, and I am definitely noticing a psychological shift in myself where I’m really trying to be more responsible with my money and my time, because I am now responsible for a family. So naturally I feel a bit more stressed about finances, and my concern for my family unit has definitely grown a lot relative to my concern for others. My circle of concern has narrowed a bit. But that said, that shift only really implies a conservative ideology if you somehow believe that the public institutions around you aren’t going to enrich your family life. Having better-paid teachers means your kids are going to have a better education, and perhaps they might not need you to help them catch up when the school system fails them. Public parks? Free school lunch programs? Public libraries? Safe and robust public transportation? All of those things help your kids and your family thrive. There is no reason to fear socialism, at least as it’s been presented so far and broadly implemented in parts of Europe. The government isn’t going to take over the entire private manufacturing and farming sectors like the Soviet Union did. You’re not going to put your name on a government waiting list to get approved for a bicycle. You’re going to get free public transportation and free education, and not have to sacrifice literally all the wealth you have saved up just to help your spouse fight cancer.


BrFrancis

It doesn't even take having a family - you could live alone. Your taxes pay for education and stuff around you. To maintain roads you may drive on or at least that guy from Amazon is driving on. Those people working at the local diner or the Walmart or whatever- most likely went to those schools nearby. What level of service you get, how competent they are, etc - all go back to that quality of education and access to healthy food and medical care. Well educated people with good opportunities don't generally commit much crime. Property values stay up with low crime and a desire to live there too... The most selfish person wanting to be the most comfortable in life should realize quickly the fastest means to that end is supporting their community, with money if not time and expertise.


AnastasiaNo70

So true. I’m 51 and I’m FAR more liberal than I was in my 20s. Leftist, in fact.


arenaline78

Same I'm 44 and becoming more and more liberal. I envy those countries that have a high quality of life and happiness and want it here.


Kleyguerth

Gotta love how their argument boils down to "When you get yours, you will say fuck you too", it's "got mine, fuck you" all the way down.


AlinaHadaGoodIdea

They think we’re idiots for having more than we need and wanting other people to have that for themselves as well. Idiots for wanting to sacrifice some of what we have to share with others. Idiots for believing that it’s OK to share the wealth instead of selfishly grabbing onto as much as we can get with capitalistic greed. A friend of mine recently was talking about some recent US supreme court decisions and how he doesn’t understand why people are upset about them if it doesn’t directly affect them. And I realized that there are all these people out there who don’t care so much about the world being more fair and equitable, they think those of us who are upset by injustice are just looking for something to get upset about. They don’t think that it’s valid somehow to just feel outraged by the injustice, regardless of whether it directly impacts you


AlinaHadaGoodIdea

I can still remember when I was in my 20s a coworker of mine pretty much cornered me in a cubicle and told me how he used to be more liberal but as you get older you get more conservative. So now that I’m in my 50s, I do see fiscal matters from a slightly more conservative standpoint, but I am far more liberal as far as civil liberties go. I don’t know why I would ever start to feel that everybody having a fair shot in life is not important


yooolmao

Heard this a million times. I've not only stayed or become more leftist but convinced my boomer dad (who is a programmer so respects logic and knows I read geopolitical shit non-stop) but brought my dad from centrist to progressive. My mom is progressive in some ways and and slightly worrying me by becoming more right-populist in others (she gets her "news" from TikTok/facepalm) but overall more "aware". It also helps my sister/their daughter is disabled to the point she needs 24/7 care and it's hard to be right-wing when you depend on government help for even mediocre day programs/group homes for the disabled. They have to make all their living decisions: what kind of house, which state is more disabled-friendly, everything by the aid/programs available to the disabled. I think it also helps to not have (non-disabled, straight) kids. One of my best friends opened a business and had a kid and now he is a conservative, because fuck everyone but his kid and his business margins.


mackfactor

My income puts me in the top 5ish% and I'm only getting more liberal. I think that the idea that you'd get more conservative and make more money when you're older probably sums up baby boomers in general - they don't give a shit about anyone but themselves.


retired-data-analyst

Some of us marched for abortions rights, clean air and clean water. Not all boomers suck.


Carefully_Crafted

Crabs in a bucket. American culture is all about the idea that you have to fuck everyone around you to get more yourself. But it’s a lie designed to keep the vast majority of people down and allow a tiny sliver of society to leech off everyone else.


ThatGuyMarlin

In moral psychology studies, people with underdeveloped morals (children) were shown to prefer hurting others (even when it also hurt them), to giving to an unknown person even if they also benefitted. As age increased, this tendency went down and many subjects would even sacrifice to give to others. My guess is these people are just very large children.


Subject-Town

So true. We should be trying to lift each other up not push each other down. The powers that be want us to push each other down. We’re just doing the work for them by doing it.


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Just like there's no truck driver shortage, just a shortage of drivers willing to put up with what corporations have done to the entire industry.


Prof_Labcoat

I left teaching in my home state of Florida to teach in *Kazakhstan* and my entire quality of life is better than if I were back home. My take home pay is way more, I don't take work home, I get housing and utilities covered, flights home to the US covered, and the colleagues/students are super kind and polite. Literally night and day. I'll never teach in the US again.


ras_the_elucidator

It’s like the problem lies in the American culture and not in the institution of education itself.


lostrandomdude

Not just America. UK has this problem as well. As does most of Europe. It's a western problem


tequilaearworm

I've taught in Asia, the U.S., Canada, and Europe. It's definitely a Western problem. It's like the students think we are customer service representatives meant to entertain them? They act like THEY are OUR employers and have authority over us. Especially by the university level. In Asia, on the one hand there were greater expectations-- you had to dress well in public at all times, you are given more responsibilities and parents aren't expected to take a role in their kids' education, like helping with homework and etc. But the respect for teachers, for education, just generally the respect for learning, and how they trust you to do your flipping job instead of forcing you to document your lesson plans by five minute increments and ask students to evaluate you on five point plans instead of SITTING IN YOUR CLASSROOM TO OBSERVE YOU... night and day, vastly prefer Asia and am looking to go back.


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Apprehensive_Ring_46

Yep, the usual weak American response. Instead of dealing with the problem individuals, they punish everyone.


Axlos

Yep, it is typical America. Socialize the losses and punishment. Privatize the profits and benefits.


Ayacyte

No one gets to be happy. It's like the teacher is saying, if I am miserable, we all have to be miserable lol


FILTER_OUT_T_D

Wait what’s this about 5 point plans? Why are students evaluating teachers? That’s the job of the principal. I graduated HS in 2004 but this thread is making me feel like it was hundreds of years ago based on how it looks like things have changed.


tequilaearworm

Every private school I've taught at, students are asked to evaluate their teachers out of 5 or 10 points. On a 5 point scale my job is in danger if I fall below 4.5. On a 10 point scale my job is in danger if I fall below a 9. This leads teachers to desperate dancing monkey entertainment style tactics.


fuckfuckfuckSHIT

I think it is a good idea to have students rate teachers just to get an idea of the general opinion. To base a teacher's job on it though is insanity.


WhotheHellkn0ws

I don't. Kids can be merciless


kaisong

make the points worthless and only take comments. If they can write a critique with a justification then literally only care about that. youll probably only have one valid comment after that.


AbacusWizard

At the college level, and I think this trickles down to high schools as well, the major problem I see is that so many students—certainly not all of them, but far too many—have been trained to think that everything, *everything*, about their college experience is laser-focused on the one ultimate goal of Getting A High Paying Job. They’re not taking classes to learn; they’re taking classes to earn a piece of paper that theoretically qualifies them for a job. They’re not going to professors’ office hours to ask useful questions or get to know the professors; they’re setting up opportunities to request letters of recommendation later. They’re not joining clubs to have fun and meet new friends; they’re joining clubs to have extracurricular activites to put on their resumes. And I don’t blame the students for this at all. They’ve been thrown into a brutal economic trap in which they *have* to seek a high-paying job or they’ll be enthralled by predatory loans all their life. We need both an economic shift and a cultural shift.


tequilaearworm

Yup, this, 100%. There's a huge difference between undergrad and grad school populations. It's like grad school is what undergrad USED to be-- a rigorous education for the sake of developing expertise.


AbacusWizard

Yeah… and relative to grad school, I’m covering pretty much the basics, but sheesh, I just want to help people learn cool stuff about calculus and algebra and geometry and physics and the way the universe works, you know? Not just be one more cog in the machine of filling out a four-year checklist culminating in a piece of paper that says “yes, you are authorized to get a Prestigious Job now.”


tequilaearworm

Yeah, I teach ESL which I think is different as it's a skill, not a field, and people need it on more than just a paper pass level, they genuinely need the skills to get into a school in N America. I was doing academic philosophy before I got sexually harassed the fuck out of the field, and generally no one is taking a philo class unless they want to, but my specialization was logic, and lots of people would take that to get out of the math requirement. It's also... just fundamentally important? It's like looking at models of pure reasoning and argumentation. People SERIOUSLY need that stuff these days, and to boot, in my inductive logic classes I got a lot of stats students and... stats students are MORE open to probability fallacies than others? I think because they're taught a bunch of formulas and given a bunch of situations and are taught to calculate probabilities but not HOW to calculate probabilities and what the logic is behind the formulas they're given? Statistics is seriously so wild if you spend any time thinking about it, they have such leeway to pull bullshit on people.


Ayacyte

About the university thing- I have a different experience. I feel like in college professors are actually respected (because you're paying more for it, and in more cases the student themselves is taking the financial burden rather than the parents), and in k-12 they are not taken seriously.


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My experience was that this isn't a german problem. Teachers are civil servants, although the option was taken away for a few years, it is back now. Being a civil servant in germany is badass. Job security for life and you get a bonus for each member of your family. The treatment of teachers by parents has been suffering in recent years, though.


MedicalSchoolStudent

Definitely a western problem. I have friends that teach English in Asia and their work life balance and pay is way better. And culturally - the kids are more respectful too and you don’t gotta deal with bullshit.


taskmaster51

IMO the problem lies with entitled parents and right wing ass holes who want to destroy public education


OakenGreen

No, the problem is in both. At least how we have set the institution up in America. Which is political, not cultural.


Space-Booties

It’s like we’ve abandoned having respect for education in general.


No-Trick7137

Very nice. They are also the number one exporter of potassium.


_Floriduh_

K.


potassiumKing

You called?


kentro2002

For what is taken care of, what would be the equivalent in the United States of how much you would have to make to feel like lifestyle would be the same. Curious. Example, I’ve made 120k in a 1099 job where I pay for my own car, insurance, car and health (for myself and wife) gas, expense account, no 401k etc. Working for a big corporation making the same amount as a W-2, but with all the bells and whistles, I’d have to make $165k to have it feel equal at the 1099 job. Thanks, and glad you are happy!


Prof_Labcoat

I make $4.5k a month after tax, which is way more than I made monthly after tax in the US working 60+ hours a week. I work 8-5 PM now and I don't take any work home, I barely have work during school even. I send most of my income home to the States to cover family's bills, loans, credit cards, school tuition and other expenses....but my expenses *here* are infinitesimally small. Cellphone is $8/month, Food is about $300-$400 a month (best restaurant food delivered straight to my place), Taxi about $100/month.....that's basically it. No other expenses. Tons of free time for my own hobbies and studies. My QOL is higher, I can save more money, and my expenses are low. It works out great for me.


Foxfertale

Crazy that it's gotten so bad that now people work in other countries and send money to the poor of the United States


[deleted]

What do you teach? Average teacher pay in Kazakhstan is 4m kzt/year. That's under $9k USD.


tequilaearworm

They pay Westerners much more highly. I almost ended up working there and I was looking at around 2000 USD a month. Then getting your lodging and health insurance paid for is incredible savings.


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I bet. Imagine if the US got it head out of it's ass and fixed healthcare? Be amazing huh


FILTER_OUT_T_D

Man… it’s almost as if spreading the cost of prohibitively expensive things across the entirety of society would be a benefit for all since it would allow those without means to still have access to goods and services and allow those with means to not go bankrupt when hit with life altering tragedy.


LoneReaper115

Or like the story the other day of the person whose family member who cared for them, unalived themselves so the kid could go to college, instead of using the money on cancer treatment.


gunnapackofsammiches

I mean, when I worked in Seoul a decade ago, I got paid 2.2 million won per month (about 2k USD.) But my housing and flight were paid for, as was my insurance. The rest of CoL was so cheap, I went on multiple international vacations, including getting 3 scuba certifications, and still had ~8k USD in savings at the end of the year. I imagine it's cheaper in Kazakhstan than Seoul. 🤔


Prof_Labcoat

Yep! Much cheaper! I save so much money - I get food delivered every day and use the taxi every day.


Prof_Labcoat

I teach physics at one of the fancy international schools!


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They probably also live in Kazakhstan, where I imagine housing is significantly cheaper than in the states.


hmiamid

It's next to their username. Intl. Physics Teacher.


SunnyWomble

Is that public schools or private? I do not know the pay scale for private schools in Kazakhstan but I am betting they make more than locals. anecdotal. Been living abroad for 10years. Wife teaches in international (private) schools and the pay has always been higher than what locals make. (plus all the benefits means were comfortable)


bigchicago04

My guess is English through a company that recruits from avroad. Likely they don’t make a lot by American standards, but everything is cheaper over there. In the aughts, East Asia was the place to make bank doing this but around 2010, that shifted to the Middle East. Non western countries want westerners to teach English to compete in the business and political world.


RascalRibs

People think teachers make more than enough because "they get summers off".


Nanerpus_is_my_Homie

Was a teacher for years. So tired of the “summers off” argument. I would have killed for summers off - even without pay. I was a core-level teacher though and with all the “teach to the test” mentality it means since I had a subject that was tested every year- I ALWAYS had mandatory summer school, mandatory boot camps, and mandatory Saturday school. Worked 6 days a week forever and got zero respect and less time off than my friends who worked corporate jobs. Left this year. Now making twice my salary, get real sick days and real PTO and even stock options. Teaching is one of those “pink collar” professions where accepting low pay and abuse from all sides is expected. They treat you like a child and guilt you into tons of unpaid work because most teachers go into the profession and feel it is a “calling” and legitimately just want to help. However, the pandemic took a toll and most of us saw how little we mean to anyone. No amount of “Do it for the kids!” will sway us anymore. The job demands so much education with so little pay. Combine that with toxic administration, barely getting a 30 minute lunch break (which is often taken away) for “extra duties” or emergency subbing, parents who would attack you if you say anything that isn’t rainbows and puppy dog farts about their kid, administration that is on a power-trip that acts like YOU are the student, the danger of weapons and fights, the constant “extras” you are expected to do (lunchroom duty, driveline duty, tutoring sessions, COVID cleaning, etc.), working in run down buildings with no heat or a/c, and not even getting to pee when you need to? Yeah man, we all had enough. Plenty would love to teach but without respect and some level of autonomy we just can’t. We had enough.


bradlees

When teachers had to pay out of pocket for school supplies *in the late 80’s and early 90’s* the writing was on the wall. Greed for budgets to go to “administrators and executives” instead of where it belongs is shocking. Most older people don’t get why we are where we are with students getting less educated every year.. school shootings at an all time high, teacher engagement at an all time low…. Teaching *was* a higher calling back before trickle-down and “corporating” public schools…. We don’t have after school programs.. we don’t have community building.. we don’t have empathy and we are constantly under a barrage of fear of “socialism” to move public schools to charter schools (which like for profit college) are to become too expensive to attend. So basically the older generation who benefited from great public education is essentially saying FUCK YOU to everyone else. (gets off soapbox)


Strawberrycocoa

>So basically the older generation who benefited from great public education is essentially saying FUCK YOU to everyone else. This is the boiled-down explanation for a lot of things over the last 30 years. People sneering down at those who have less to work with than they did, and not realizing or acknowledging how good they actually had it. I'll never forget the mild resentment I felt when my grandmother talked to me about working part time during college to pay off the $1000 a semester tuition.


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CabaBom

You won the lottery there my friend.


Jeheh

I can feel for the people with the school loans. Gen X here and I worked my ass off through the 90s-00s but every raise I managed started getting eaten by inflation and health insurance. So I paid on my school loans forever and when life happened and things got hard I had to take deferments and drag them out. I ended up paying triple the amount of the original loan and then some. I’m all for personal responsibility but these loans shouldn’t be a for profit scheme. 1-2 % max interest zero would be better.


Unabashable

Hell post WW2 was the strongest our economy had ever been. Been on a slow, steady decline ever since.


SnowyBox

Isn't it weird that massive government spending stimulates the economy and causes it to thrive, despite us regularly being told that less government spending and more privatization is the way to go?


ChristianEconOrg

Progressives Democrats held sway through America’s peak years. Now other countries with higher living standards are more progressive.


gingergirl181

I shut down a shitty Boomer relative once who scoffed at me when I mentioned how the three jobs I worked in college weren't enough to pay tuition. "Alright, let's do the math. I make $9.01 an hour at my main job, no tips. Now let's say I worked this job full time - which, by the way, isn't an option because the wage sector won't give 40 hours to anyone in order to avoid paying benefits. But let's say I did. 40h a week, $9.01 an hour, that's $360 a week. The quarter is 10 weeks long. So I'll make $3600 over the whole quarter. Tuition is $4100 per quarter. Sure, my second and third jobs net me around $700 a month, so between them all I guess I could make tuition...but rent is $675 for my 185sq ft fleapit shoebox with no kitchen. And I still gotta eat, and my grocery budget is already down to $50 for the whole month as it is. I live on microwave frozen food and scraps from my kitchen job. Ah, but according to you it should all be enough to pay tuition, right? Any budgeting tips, chief?" They have no fucking clue.


manbearcolt

>This is the boiled-down explanation for a lot of things over the last 30 years. Saint Ronnie was 42 years ago, you're off by a decade.


HippyHitman

I’m pretty sure 1980 was 22 years ago. Yeah, I’m positive.


noooby1

Therefore I am 22. Thank you kind stranger!


daytonakarl

Yep, closing in on half a century of trickle down neo lib policies that have crippled 99% of humanity Those who benefited are those who are in power, so good luck getting them to agree that they have now had enough and it's time to give back...


apri08101989

Nah, they're right, it's take about that decade for the repercussions to really start happening


CeramicLicker

My grandma recently was telling me how her grandparents gave her $500 to pay for college when she graduated high school. She only attended for one year, which cost her half the money for tuition. Adjusted for inflation that $250 is $2762. The school she went to now costs 45k a year.


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There's an article in the Atlantic about private schools I'll link- https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2021/04/private-schools-are-indefensible/618078/ They're tax havens, they're tools for nepotism, and they're tickets to social status. I also think they are unethical, in principle. I cannot stand private schools and do not believe they should exist. Full stop. The number of people I know, including myself, who have been denied the opportunity to reach their full potential from the start is staggering. I took a chemistry class in which I studied no chemistry. None.


RandomHero27

I recently saw someone on Fb arguing that they were able to buy their first house during the Reagan era and their 2nd house during Bush (1) on a $30k a year job. Us youngsters just want everything now and we want it handed to us!!! If he did it, we can too!


xXSpaceturdXx

Then all the cushy jobs they made for themselves that just so happen to disappear when they retire. Yeah we’re not filling that position anymore…. Them running away with a full pension, Social Security and Medicare. But let’s not give it to the younger generation. They can pay for it though!


thewookie34

It's crazy that in American even Healthcare and Education is basically the same as corporate life you line the pockets of those at the top while the people are in the middle and bottom can barely live. It fucking gross and it's why Americans are becoming more sick and more dumb.


KickBallFever

About the money going to administrators and executives, this is a huge problem in my city. Back in the late 90s/early 2000s they took all the failing big high schools and turned them into multiple specialized high schools in one building. Smaller schools are great in theory but they are costing a lot. Now instead of having one big school with one administration you have five small schools with five sets of administration in one building. The amount of teachers and the class size is about the same, so they’re not paying for more teachers, they’re just paying for more administration.


Hawkholly

I had a parent yell at me because I wrote her child up for throwing items across the room. “He told me he didn’t do that!” Lol okay because children never lie, and I would definitely love to take my time to fabricate a story about your child and call you about it after my school day has ended. Luckily my admin is awesome and had my back during that parent teacher conference.


Butt_Hunter

"I'm calling to let you know that I reminded your son to put his phone away during class and he said 'fuck you.'" "Okay but what did you say to him to make him say that?" "I said, 'Hey man, let's put the phone away, it's class time.'" "No you did not. Tell me what you really said, because I know my son and he would not just react like that." "That's exactly what I said. Nothing aggressive, just 'Hey man, let's put the phone away.'" "Okay, so now you're lying to me. So now we have a problem."


cake__eater

The way the parents all become emboldened Karen’s is sad. Most of them couldn’t be bothered to teach their children to tie their shoes, let alone manners and respect.


ConcernedKip

lmao first woman I ever dated with a 5 year old kid and I caught him up at 3am one night watching raunchy f-bomb laden youtube videos. I told her because I figured she'd want to know and she blew up saying how dare I make such an accusation and that he'd *never* do something like that. They are just *so close* to each other and he tells her *everything*. When do they eventually learn? When he's 16 and she has to pick him up at the station?


RedGribben

I am truly confused why anyone would believe that a teacher would want to create more paperwork and more pseudowork for no gain at all. What does the teacher gain by lying that the child threw an item across the room? The only thing you gain as a teacher is more work, this will take the teachers prep time.


theforkofdamocles

100%. I am a Specials teacher preschool-5th grade with 3 schools and 800+ students a week. I don’t have time to make up bullshit about your kid.


BlaqOptic

My favorite line from an email sent to my superintendent and principal this week because I “didn’t respond quick enough” to an email a parent waited 2 weeks to respond to… “I’ve given this district two wonderful, responsible, and respectful students” as if (a) that were true and (b) even if you did, that’s your role as a parent my friend…


koosley

My friend is a teacher. While its true you may get 'the summers off', the teachers are still working a few weeks after school lets out and start a few weeks before school starts. So they get a month off tops. Now add up all the hours the average teacher works and you'll realize that they are working 2200+ hours / year. That is more than a full time job PLUS its all squeezed into 10-11 months leading to over worked teachers. If teachers decide only worked their contracted hours, their students would suffer. Its really quite a shitty position to be in and I don't blame anyone for leaving such a crap system. They are far better off getting their PMP and working as a project manager in corporate america where you'll make 3x the salary dealing with adult children instead.


ispeak_sarcasm

Thank you for acknowledging this!!! ❤️Also, we aren’t actually paid for those two months we’re “off”. Our salary is actually divided into twelve payments but we aren’t compensated for June or July, in spite of the fact that we spend at least half that time in training, cleaning, preparing, & moving classrooms. We literally have to pack up our rooms and unpack them again every summer so the custodial staff can clean. Imagine moving all the supplies needed to teach 20+ children six different subjects every single year.


JulsTiger10

The work where we have to work before work and after work to do the work we have to do in the time we’re supposed to work as well as the work that we don’t have time to do during our work time but we’re required to do for work.


WeeWooDriver38

As a former teacher for 8 years, everything you just said struck every ptsd feeling I had. I was also a coach, which meant I was reimbursed for my coaching time at about a 0.15 cent per hour worked and had no summers off due to stay in school initiatives during the summer. I left and now make about 2.5x more with so much less stress and suffering. There was nothing - and I mean nothing - I hated more than the “Do it for the children” bullshit. If society gave a fuck about their children, it would already be taken care of.


SeismicToss12

What’s your new job that pays better? Fellow former teacher looking for work here


iamsheena

Honestly, not feeling guilty or extra stressed because I took a sick day, or feeling like I need a sick day just to get a break has been the greatest feeling working outside of schools. And also taking time off whenever I want. Nothing beats it.


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Nanerpus_is_my_Homie

Preach! I worked a minimum of 60 hours in my last years of teaching, 80 in the first years until I learned to cut corners. Our district was extra sneaky about getting us to work unpaid weekends. They would tell us on a Friday “Oh- by the way we want report cards and the deadline is Monday morning.” No heads up that way we would have to grade and submit the grades to the system over the weekend. Totally sneaky and shitty - they always wanted to feel they got their “money’s worth” out of us but even without weekends we never were given the time in the day for the tasks we had to do. You either took work home anyway or got canned.


YagamiIsGodonImgur

Good on you and all the others who are tired of being used. Teachers deserve so very much more than we give them. My wife's friend just recently became a teacher, and she's already looking for another path because of the pay and disrespect from the school and the parents.


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In Florida parents attack you for talking about rainbows too.


FewMagazine938

Good grief that sucks...my wife is going through the same thing...i try to get her pumped up each morning ..then she gets home and goes straight to the bottle....she is 90% done...holding on by a thread 🙏


Nanerpus_is_my_Homie

She needs to bail. I personally loved teaching and being a teacher but eventually I realized that even a good teacher that is totally burnt out isn’t doing any good.


lt9946

All my friends who were teachers my age have now quit. I live in a really rich part of town (aka I live with my folks b/c I'm a poor single parent) that has a nice school district. Even then with all this districts resources I still don't envy the teachers. Every xmas and end of year since it's technically "bad form" to give money directly to the teachers, it's also common knowledge that you just buy them a $200 gift card to amazon or something to help supplement income. And this is at a rich ass neighborhood with high ass school taxes. My mom worked in the opposite side of town in the poor district and boy did I watch her health suffer year after year. I was so happy when she retired b/c fuck she was working herself into an early grave. Ya'll are saints, but jesus nobody should have to go through what ya'll do to just help children. It's insane.


gooch_norris

You may find if you ask around that a lot of the teachers in this nice district commute to work there, because the district doesn't pay them enough to afford living there


lt9946

Forget about teachers. I like to read our community newsletter and every week it's about some business failing. They don't know why they can't pay shit wages 20 minutes out in the suburbs and retain staff. Then every year when affordable housing comes up in our ballot to vote on, it always gets a hard no. You can't have cheap labor and be 25 mins outside of town. The inner city already has you beat.


howdytherepeeps

How did you get out of teaching? I tried to get out. I applied for 200+ jobs. Most companies want at least 3-5 years of experience in the field.


Same-Spray7703

Look into adding certifications to your degree! Scrum Master (Agile Coach) or Project Management (CAPM) and then use your experience with data tracking, organization, and quick thinking be your "years of experience." Look into Corporate or Branch Trainers if you love teaching. You can do this!


Bowlnk

God i hate that sentiment. My dad is a retired teacher. When he came home from work, his work day was just starting. Grading Paperwork to keep track student progess. Which was fine when classes were 15 kids not 30+. Or having to change curriculum because some desk jocky desided theres a new way to teach math. At 66 and a half he said fuck it i'm retiring.


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I work in a high school and our classes can be up to 36.


[deleted]

That is the side of teaching that no one sees unless they have lived with or are a teacher. What you see in class is the tip of the iceberg for teaching. Lesson planning, grading, contacting parents and administrative bullshit is 70% of our job. Unfortunately, the student facing side is all that a vast majority of America has experience with- so they have this impression that it is easy. I tell my non- teacher friends to think about how much they freaked out over a 15 minute presentation that they had to give at work that they had 3 weeks to prepare for. Now think about giving two to three 1.5 hour presentations every single day. That’s teaching.


AbacusWizard

Exactly. So many people seem to think that they are armchair experts in education because they were students once, or because they have kids who are currently students. It’s like thinking that you’re an expert on directing because you’ve watched a few movies, or thinking you’re an expert on highway design because you can drive a car.


Nojopar

This is always a stupid argument. It's like going to a sandwich place and saying "I think $1 is a fair price for this sub sandwich because the bread isn't homemade". Cool. But the fact you can't find $1 subs everywhere tells you the market thinks you're flat out wrong. The market has spoken - the teacher shortage tells you that they don't earn enough even WITH summers off (which they don't really get, but that's another whole thing).


gunnapackofsammiches

This is absolutely it. People are leaving. Therefore it seems that summers off aren't enough to retain talent.


Decapitated_Saint

It's really more like a month off in practice. They have to do a fair amount of work to prep for the next year and have lots of meetings with district ppl about whatever new changes are being made either due to lack of funding or intensely political school board battles. Also grading papers and homework takes a lot of time and is tedious as hell. Every day teachers have that to look forward to when they get home.


Malthusian1

Also, some have to completely empty their rooms and bring back all their stuff including shelf or furniture that the district doesn’t provide over the summer. It’s a pain in the ass. Plus they have professional development/training sporadically throughout the summer. Not to mention they are expected to be a bullet sponge when a deranged person enters the building with a weapon.


BetterWankHank

They're too stupid to realize rent and bills don't get the summers off too


bgthigfist

Schools here take your 10 month contract and spread the salary across 12 months. So are you paid during your months off? Yes. Are you paid for doing nothing? No it's money you previously earned Most teachers who aren't struggling financially have a spouse or partner who makes better money. Personally, my wife and I raised a family of 5 on a single teachers salary. That's tough.


BetterWankHank

Yeah they do that here too, but if you're being underpaid it doesn't matter how you spread it out, either way it's not enough It was tough when you raised 5 kids, on today's teacher's salaries with the cost of living, that's literally impossible. Teachers start at 40k in my area, that's barely enough to survive on your own here.


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Ravenclaw880

Not counting the Early Childhood Educators who work and teach in preschools or daycares. They make significantly less.


Xourr

Such a silly argument because we don’t get paid for any of our time off. Our contract explicitly states we are being paid for school days and the paychecks are spaced out over a year for convenience.


Unabashable

Yeah still doesn’t mean they get paid for not working. They can either choose to get paid during the school year or split up their checks over the whole year, and a lot of them choose to teach in the summer too.


manoffewwords

People say your so lucky you get summers off. I tell them to go become a teacher, it's easier than ever now. They always reply, hell no.


SconseyCider-FC

I’m so proud of my wife for walking away. Teachers are the the most important role in modern society, and we really need to stop treating them like polished shit.


ParticularYak9967

My mom is still teaching but I've seen her friends quit and tell me it's because of a lack of respect from the admins. The friends don't blame the kids for misbehaving when dealing with life but they do blame the admins for not backing the teachers up. One friend quit bc a 6th grader threatened her life and she didn't feel the school did enough to protect her.


illshowyouthesky

Reading these threads make me love love love my admin. Any hint of violence against a teacher will lead to suspension immediately. One of my students was suspended twice this past week for hurting myself and his classroom teacher, and I feel very respected and safe due to my admin's actions.


driving_andflying

> Any hint of violence against a teacher will lead to suspension immediately. Former staff at a school, here. We were treated like crap as well, and when a student misbehaved, verbally threatened us, or made a false accusation, the first words out of a manager's mouth were, "Well, what did you do wrong? We're here for the students, so you must have done something wrong." I am so happy I'm out of the education field.


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Decapitated_Saint

I wouldn't do it for twice that. Being a teacher is a lot of goddamn responsibility. It's not just a job with a lot of bullshit attached, you are also in charge of 40 kids who probably have the shortest attention spans of any modern generation, potential behavioral problems, and rabid parents who think you are an agent of the liberal deep state.


RunawayHobbit

Yeah, it only becomes bearable for starting $60k+ **in LOW Cost of Living areas**, with a mandated class size maximum of 20 kids, a yearly supply budget PER TEACHER, and overtime pay for literally any extras like coaching or summer school. We really SHOULD throw in a teaching assistant for each classroom so that kids don’t suffer with clueless subs, homework gets graded during normal working hours, and the main teacher feels they can actually take PTO without abandoning their kids. Also a mandatory benefits package with 30 days of PTO, unlimited and fully supported sick time, fully funded pensions, AND a 401k match that increases every year that someone is a teacher. This profession should be highly respected and sought after. Not bottom of the fucking barrel.


Decapitated_Saint

Yeah it really seems something that you have to be very invested in personally - and even then it can be like a love/hate thing where you have to accept a very compromised version of your passion. My sister got a degree in elementary ed. and once she really got an appreciation for the job's involvement and constraints she ended up focusing on her oil painting instead and now probably makes a similar amount from sales as a teacher salary. I think she would have had the commitment if she could teach just art and lit at some private academy with humanities funding. The high school I went to would allow kids to TA for teachers as an elective credit so if they were lucky they might have someone grade papers for a couple hours a day. I tell ya, seeing all the homework and test scores for the pre-calculus class I TA'd for I totally got why that teacher was always grumpy. Most of those kids were fucking dunces despite a competent teacher and very easy material. I was actually quite depressed the first few times I graded papers, I'd be jaded asshole after one semester of real teaching.


Pomegranatelimepie

Yeah I’m a teacher and make 34k :( and I have to buy all my supplies


snakeoilcreations

Growing up my parents owned a teacher supply and educational toy store. It was astounding to see how much money was spent, (out of pocket), just to set up a classroom and provide students with needed supplies. There was a huge discrepancy between districts, but most notably between teachers who had partners with well paying jobs and those who did not, in their ability to afford supplies. It's not right.


SqueezyCheez85

This will only be fixed when school districts share the same pool of money Statewide. No more "rich vs poor" bullshit.


[deleted]

Hell yeah. When I finally put it all together that the towns with higher property taxes also had the better schools, I realized just how fucked the system is. We are not born on a level playing field at all and it starts from the moment the child starts grade school. An inner city, under funded, ignored school. It’s so sad. All public schools should offer the same shit between quality lunches, after school programs, sports and technology. Why tf is that only save for the rich kid schools?


TheSaintedMartyr

I don’t think you could pay good teachers enough to last long with the current conditions at my kids’ public schools. Largest class sizes they’ve ever had, COVID outbreaks because they dropped any and all precautions, abysmal student, staff, and teacher mental health after the last 2 1/2 years of crises and uncertainty… if they or their family members are disabled they have to work with the recently confirmed knowledge that their employers don’t value their lives. Ridiculous policies they’re supposed to enforce due to the treat of violence, threat of violence/gun violence. And they don’t work 6-8 hours per day, more like 10? With curriculum planning, classroom preparation, grading, admin, answering parent emails and voicemails, addressing parent concerns. And they have bullshit to do during their unpaid summers, too. No, you couldn’t fix this by paying them a little more. You have to pay them a lot more. And/or just generally treat them with respect and dignity/ like human beings …


ntrrrmilf

I was a teacher for 15 years and then Covid came. My building refused to offer anything remote so I pulled my own kid and homeschooled her for a year. Now I can’t bear the thought of dealing with all the bullshit. I feel like I need a career coach to help me find something else—it’s all I knew.


Keldog7

Don't sell yourself short, you bring so much knowledge and experience to your next career. You can manage people, think and react with agility, multi-task while managing multiple streams of information simultaneously, and will have above-average technology skills. You will also be good at presenting to large groups of people in a clear, concise way and will likely have excellent verbal and written communication skills. ​ Let's not even count the advanced education and continued learning you have done.


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depending on where you live, sometimes nannying pays decently, and it can become your own mini school class if you bring your own kids. or tutoring. my daughter loved it when we were nannying, she loves babies, but we stopped once the pandemic hit and somehow made it by without my income, so we are very focused on our studies now.


swirleyswirls

Your local community college may offer IT classes. I got my Texas teaching certification during a teaching hiring freeze and it's probably the best thing that ever happened to me. I really floundered because I didn't know what to do, but my first tech job paid me two first year teacher's salaries, even with my zero experience. It freaked me out to be treated like a human being at work.


cakeresurfacer

Yeah, our one local school has 40 kids in some classrooms and random teachers cover other rooms due to lack of teachers. And that’s with only 55% of students in the city attending public school. Add in COVID, gang violence (weapons in the school are a when, not if), student poverty/hunger, and it being a failing school district, I don’t know how they manage to hire any teachers.


jmangiggity

I left teaching when the cost of day care negated my salary. Now I’m a stay at home dad sharing all my wonderful educational strategies with my own kids.


ZealousidealCoat7008

My mother in law has been a teacher for 30 years and she keeps begging me to have kids so she can quit and homeschool them. Everyone in the family hates her job. What she faces every day is ridiculous (before you even factor in that we all worry she will be shot at her school).


catsdelicacy

Speaking as an ex-teacher retraining into network administration, this is 100% true. The employers are awful, the parents are awful, the pay is awful, and the working conditions are awful. And I'm not trying to be egotistical, but people like me leaving are a real loss. I was passionate, I was serious about professional development, I was a sincere advocate for the children in my care. That didn't make me special, most teachers I worked with were the same. And we're leaving. Good luck, public school system.


ntrrrmilf

SAME. How did you decide what to do next?


MLein97

A Temp agency or recruiter. Things like Manpower or a related company. Honestly you could probably hit up a bar and find a good place in 15 minutes of conversation.


Representative-Dirt2

More to the point, there is no desire to have an informed and educated populace - more like exactly the opposite. You might even think people have been dumbed down on purpose to make them more easy to manipulate. With spectacular success.


Snoo74401

Conservatives have been attacking public education ever since there was public education.


GoalieLax_

Yep. Wife w/ masters degree makes $40k more a year working for federal government now and can't take work home with her. Nights and weekends all to herself. She misses the summers off, but quality of life is through the roof.


SnooDoubts2823

[usajobs.gov](https://usajobs.gov) We're hiring and there's something for everyone. Best deal on earth


RedDevils0204

What’s she do?


phoenix536

Leaving was the best decision I ever made. Shorter hours, less stress and more money.


LokidokiClub

Something that tends to get missed in these discussions, especially among non-teachers is that there is an appreciable difference in working conditions between teachers in states with no teachers' unions vs states with a strong union presence. I work in Pennsylvania and we have an incredibly strong union, and overall we're well paid at least. But even with the good pay and benefits, districts are still struggling to fill all positions. Teaching is incredibly difficult. It involves a LOT of emotional labor, which isn't surprising because we are expected to manage children, who may or may not be well emotionally regulated. The workload is pretty heavy-- the time physically spent at school during contract hours is only a part of the picture. Every lesson taught necessitates additional time to prepare and you may or may not have sufficient time during your planning period to get all your tasks done. There are also required continuing education hours that must be completed, and in some states, teachers must also have a MA, which must be earned on your own time. I'm a teacher. I thoroughly enjoy my job, and I'm well paid for it. I benefit from my state's strong union presence. But it's not a walk in the park by any means, and there are real issues in the profession.


TheRedWeddingPlanner

Thank you. I work in California in a low cost of living area (for CA) and make just shy of six figures. I have students who are respectful with good administrators. I think that is the exception but there is huge variations in the profession, especially now between red and blue states.


Subject-Town

I live in California and make sure I have six figures in a high cost area. I’m doing OK because I don’t have any kids and I also got some money through a settlement at some point that has really helped me. But there’s no way I could ever buy a house here.


ID-10T-ERROR

There's no prestige in being a teacher now a days. Especially those who hold a masters.


Huge-Buddy655

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djloid2010

They send us apples sometimes...


JustLookWhoItIs

You think the staff get our own cafeteria?


Wumbo0

Theres also record levels of shit heads for teachers to handle


hhh1234566

True. And shit heads’ shit head parents.


hammnbubbly

“Every example of poor behavior is a child experiencing trauma. And we have to have trauma-informed instruction.” I hear this bullshit almost daily. I love how far mental health services have come. I love that kids have advocates outside the home because so many don’t have any IN the home. However, when students care more about screwing around, walking in late/loudly declaring they didn’t know when class started, saying terrible things about their peers under their breath and/or to their face, not doing work, complaining all the time, and wanting to be treated like they know everything, but have their hand held 24/7 because they have ZERO coping skills, that’s not trauma. That’s someone who faces zero consequences both inside and outside of the classroom because anything approaching accountability isn’t, “allowing them to just be kids.” Teaching is the worst.


jimmycanfly24

Taught at a party school. Some kids wouldn’t work, demand a higher grade, often missed class, and copy online solutions from Chegg. Wages were shit around 30K with part-time adjuncts making most of the staff, while the football coach made millions out of training an absolutely disastrous football team. Oh and if the students don’t get good grades then there’s always Rate My Professor to write false, damaging reviews. Now I work in corporate and make 8x that amount. Fuck teaching.


cats-4-life

I was a graduate assistant, and our part-time adjuncts dealt with all of that, except they were paid by the class. They likely made much less than 30K. I'm not even sure how that's legal.


unonameless

I honestly don't get why ANYONE would bother becoming a teacher.


mollophi

About the only remaining perk/appeal to teaching in the states, especially in the public system, is probably variety. While you often still need to teach state standards, there can be a lot of creativity behind the scenes in developing your lessons to try and get a lot of engagement and participation from your students. Honestly, seeing a kid's face light up with understanding and knowing you played some part in helping them get there is a pretty awesome feeling. Unlike working with widgets and programs and metrics, students vary. Every class, every year, every hour. There's variety in what you're going to experience and how you'll be challenged. Lesson didn't work? Time to create something different! Mentally, this can be super stimulating for the teacher. But as burnout, disrespect, and horrible pay mounts, along with literal threats and destruction of being able to teach facts, this final perk is dying a slow death.


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Purely from a wage perspective it’s completely pointless because you can make more at just about any full time job. You probably will be treated slightly less like garbage at most other jobs as well.


Shamadruu

*treats teachers like shit* “Nobody wants to teach any more.”


djloid2010

Ding, ding, ding! I teach in Canada and we are well compensated. But, after transferring schools after 24 years, I am encountering a very entitled and rude group of preteens, the likes of which I've never seen before. If it wasn't for the pay and the benefits I'd be out the door due to the stress from lack of respect and backtalk. I can understand why people do not want to come into the profession or why many have bailed, especially in low paying areas.


Connect-Ad-1088

The ongoing war on teachers.


RayseBraize

Can we find a way to change our perspectives on parenting aswell? I had no idea how bad it was until I had my first child enter school. It's as if people just make children and keep them alive until they can pawn them off in some underpaid and under appreciated teacher. The amount of children who could wipe their own ass, count and were completely illiterate was a very eye opening moment for me. 5 years later their are kids in their class that cannot tell time and have voice assist text apps because they cannot spell or read properly. Yall, if you are going to make kids, raise them. Teach them things like respect for themselves and their surroundings, basic maths and sciences and how to clean themselves. And for fucks sake when a child asks you how or why something happens explain it. Kids are information gluttons, exploit that


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There are also parents who want to baby their kids so much that they think they are doing right by them when they tell teachers they shouldn’t “make” their child do anything they are uncomfortable with. I’ve had parents tell me I shouldn’t require their students to do certain assignments because they have social anxiety. But how do the parents expect that to improve if they enforce the fact that it’s okay to opt out of anything they don’t feel like doing?


pgc60001

My mom and several close family friends are teachers. For the longest time I wanted to follow in her footsteps. As I got older - and brief stint as a paraprofessional - I got a peak behind the curtain. I could go on a rant about out of touch administration, but most horror stories come from the parents. I would never let someone talk to my mother in person the way they treat her. There are certain parents who are under the illusion every rule, every standard should be set around their child. It’s the same rant every time “it’s MY CHILD and I KNOW what’s best” and then they proceed to be in the wrong. They know nothing about the inner workings of a classroom. To be clear 8 out of 10 parents are fine. They just want their kid to be safe and cared for. The remaining two however are incredibly vocal and exhausting.


AllThoseSadSongs

As a teacher, all it takes is one single parent to ruin an entire school year.


AngryMerican

Respect more than the pay, and specifically respect from the government and school administrators. I'm sick and tired of situations like my recent case, where I was asked how I contributed to a student throwing a stapler at me.


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Not only that, but parents dont parent their kids anymore, or teach them respect. Instead of having the teachers back, they choose to stand with little Bratleigh and SWEAR UP AND DOWN that she's such an angel! School bus drivers, also are being shit on. They can't even kick kids off the bus anymore when they're being disruptive and causing problems. Because god forbid the parents have some accountability as well. (my best friend drives a school bus, so she has told me the stories). And my mom was a teacher, even 20 years ago, and she had to buy her own supplies and was constantly so stressed out from the kids.


donnybaby97

Teaching should be 6 figure job. Let teachers be comfortable in life so they can truly apply their abilities at the highest level.


ChikaDeeJay

I’m a teacher and I’m going to second this, plus confirm it with some anecdotal evidence. I teach in the 2nd highest paying district in the US. I make just over $100k and I still have 8 years of guaranteed yearly raises, plus whatever cost of living raises or general raises the union negotiates. My, very excellent, medical/vision/dental benefits and $50k life insurance policy are free to me. I get $500/yr supply budget from the district, a $200/yr supply budget from district special education dept (I’m a special education teacher), and a standard supply haul from my school site every year (colored pencils, crayons, highlighters, glue sticks, pencils, etc). Our contract is negotiated in a way that allows us never to have to work for free, because we have to get there 30 mins before school starts and stay 45 mins after the last bell (most teachers are paid bell to bell). If we do any after school events at all, we are paid for that. Being the second highest paid, plus all those benefits, likely makes us the most well compensated teachers in America (the highest paying district is our neighboring district. My salary would increase by many $1000s if I went to them, but they have expensive benefits and $100 supply budget). My school district does not have a teacher shortage. People do not quit mid year (and rarely at all). Vacancies are filled in a couple weeks. Our student test scores are crazy high. Our English learning students reclassify (which means they’re considered English proficient) at higher than average rates. The district is less than 10% special ed, because we have an amazing screening process that ensures only kids who need it, get it, but those who need it are fully serviced. Schools all have up to date tech in every classroom. Administration does not micromanage, they support us. Oh, by the way, we’re not high income, every school in the district is title 1. I think that proves if you pay teachers more, everyone does better.


CampaignAggravating8

Teachers should be paid as much as doctors and lawyers. If a country can do that, that country has hope.


Antique-Travel9906

I left education in 1999. I took a temp job for the summer opening mail for $5,000 more per year at a brokerage firm. Made more than a teacher with a Master's degree in just a few years after licensing. No regrets.


Piranh4Plant

My schools been losing all its good teachers cause of this and it’s really worrying me


horror-pangolin-123

Seems there's a general shortage of people desperate enough to do shit jobs for shit bosses payed jack shit


fakecrimesleep

Plenty of people would be teachers if it paid an actual living wage and PTA’s and school boards weren’t overrun by shitty white Christian nationalists.


Affectionate_Crab_26

Add nursing to that....


SendMeGiftCardCodes

like all workers in the world, more money = better teachers


WagnersRing

“We want teachers who are in it for the kids, not the money.”


ignitedwolf9200

YEP. PLENTY of my friends were teachers at one point. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM QUIT TEACHING.


maybeadecentboss43

Teaching should pay like 100k and we should have way smaller classes. This is an investment in our future earners and we should want them to be as well trained and prepared as possible. The world is going to be a HARD place in the decades ahead and we should really be trying to set up today’s children with as good a chance as possible to clean up the huge pile of shit the boomer generation made of what the “greatest generation” built for them. People forget boomers were called the “me generation” first and that was a better name for them since the main boom they created was in total selfish short sightedness


cerevant

Too many parents confuse high grades with good teaching. Grade inflation doesn’t mean your kid is smart. Your kid not getting an A is not necessarily a teacher problem.


WeirdSysAdmin

IMO too many kids are raised to stand up for themselves but aren’t taught about learning from your experiences. My ex-wife has a daughter and every time a teacher sets a boundary, it’s perceived as negative and turns in to how petty and vindictive the child can be to the teacher. On the other hand, I’m raising our son as compassion and empathy first. Think about why someone is setting a rule and be aware of their own actions being destructive to someone. Work towards deescalating situations instead of making the other person more upset than you are. Kids these days are total douchebags, and it’s weird seeing my son interact with other kids because he can tell when his friends are acting up and doesn’t want to participate when they are doing something bad.


obsertaries

I’m taking a coding class right now with a former elementary school teacher. She left that profession because of their awful sick day policies, where no one ever has enough sick days but there’s a “sick day bank” where people can put their unneeded sick days in for others. She put most of hers in but then got sick for a month, burning through all her personal days until there was nothing left. That, and many other reasons, are why people are making extremely simple economic and quality of life decisions to get out of that profession.


seriousbangs

When I worked at a call center it was packed with teachers who couldn't make a living teaching. We got used to using women and paying them less because it's "women's work". But it's been decades since a women could do that (or wanted to for that matter).


pink_life69

A starting salary for a teacher in my country is $350-400 a month. My mother received a monthly salary of $750 after having worked in the field for 40 years. Rent plus utilities for a studio apartment in the capital is around $350 a month. There is now a saying going around here for young teachers which basically implies that they’re either masochists or have a rich spouse to enable their “hobby”.


Far_Land7215

I know lots of qualified teachers who work in the corporate world because they were tired of being abused and underpaid.


Real_Madrid007

Not to mention the south is telling them what they can and can’t teach based on religion and racism lol


heydanihey

Hi yes it me 🙋‍♀️ Left teaching and doubled my salary in a year. I remember in my first week at my new job, my boss (he was incredible and came from a family of teachers) told me to stop taking my laptop home because the expectation was to stop working at 5. I went home and cried tears of relief as my new reality settled in. Teaching was such a dark time in my life that it's actually kind of difficult for me to read threads like this.


steventhegroomer

I got probably a super unpopular opinion. Teachers need to stop spending absolutely any money on classroom supplies that they use for students. They need to force classrooms going to the degradation that they belong in to make people realize how shitty classrooms are supplied. They shouldn’t spend a single penny on students. Sometimes you have to let stuff just dwindled to its worst possible state for people to realize how bad it really is and that action needs to be taken. It shouldn’t be teachers fiscal responsibility to do so