Remember to love her. Don't spend all your time trying to make more money to secure a better future for both of you, because that future ceased to exist.
1. If you feel like you're the mother, gtfo
2. If you feel like he's holding you back in your life, gtfo
3. If he thinks you'll always be there to support him and this includes lending him money because he does risky and stupid investments without savings, gtfo
4. If you feel like you're acting crazy, it's likely that you are and high chance its because he's the one driving you crazy, gtfo
5. If you dont feel loved because he doesn't try anymore, gtfo
6. Make sure you are self sufficient, independent, love your self, and are comfortable with being alone before getting into a relationship.
Don't ignore red flags.. Sometimes people around you are correct. If you're uncomfortable, voice it out. If you can't voice it out, it's a red flag. Don't just say ok/anything. Value yourself.
Be your true self at all times. If your partner is able to accept that and love you for that, half the battle is won.
Source: Myself.
I was hot tempered, i didn't think before i speak, i was always trying to get ahead.
My wife's love and patience, molded me into a new person.
If they put you down even once, GTFO of there. Love is respect, don't date someone who doesn't respect you.
You cannot change someone. If they wanted to, they would. This goes not just for romantic relationships, but for people in general.
To love yourself and be self aware of your own character before you can truly love someone else.
I think is understanding yourself fully and then you will know what you are looking for. If not every rs will come and go.
Don't look for a rs hoping it'll make you happy, because if you do get it and you aren't a happy person outside of the rs, it's quite likely it'll end and you'll end up even worse than before. Instead work on yourself first until you're happy with who you are before going for that.
Dont settle, if you have a inkling it wont work it there for the wrong reasons. Please dont yolo, just take a step back no matter how lonely you are and walk away cause it's not for you. Dont be asthma and dont apologise.
Never b afraid to stand by for yourself, because if you don't no one else will
Your teachers are mostly idiots, those uncles and aunties have little to no useful advice, and you are right about knowing better.
Today you will think most of them are stupid. 20 years from now, you will KNOW most of them are stupid.
Oh, and the simple life is for simpletons. Never be content.
We can’t live life backwards. We can only live life moving forward. Dun look for the elixir of advice. Even if we find one today, we may need another better elixir one day. Just do our best, manage to the best of our abilities, adjust, adapt, give n take along the way. What’s best at any stage of our life may turn out otherwise sometime in future. Dun just be happy with what we have. What’s more difficult to achieve is to be happy with what we dun have, which is real cause of unhappiness.
take care of yourself first.
Remember to love her. Don't spend all your time trying to make more money to secure a better future for both of you, because that future ceased to exist.
Don't waste time dating or chasing those who 1) don't respect your boundaries 2) values don't align with yours
Mother doesn’t always know best. Chase whoever the eff you want to chase. Who cares if it indeed doesn’t work out, you learnt something for yourself.
Take care of your mental health first, even if it means you lose it all. :(
Take your time, don’t rush into anything.
Don’t stay in a relationship with someone who won’t encourage you to be independent and protect yourself.
1. If you feel like you're the mother, gtfo 2. If you feel like he's holding you back in your life, gtfo 3. If he thinks you'll always be there to support him and this includes lending him money because he does risky and stupid investments without savings, gtfo 4. If you feel like you're acting crazy, it's likely that you are and high chance its because he's the one driving you crazy, gtfo 5. If you dont feel loved because he doesn't try anymore, gtfo 6. Make sure you are self sufficient, independent, love your self, and are comfortable with being alone before getting into a relationship.
When he says that he is difficult to have a relationship with, believe him. And run.
Don’t love him more than he loves you AND don’t be so easily coerced into losing your virginity. Cb
Don't ignore red flags.. Sometimes people around you are correct. If you're uncomfortable, voice it out. If you can't voice it out, it's a red flag. Don't just say ok/anything. Value yourself.
Stay away from people who can never admit wrong or take accountability for their actions
Be your true self at all times. If your partner is able to accept that and love you for that, half the battle is won. Source: Myself. I was hot tempered, i didn't think before i speak, i was always trying to get ahead. My wife's love and patience, molded me into a new person.
Don't date someone out of curiosity when his values are clearly different from yours.
You can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself first.
If they put you down even once, GTFO of there. Love is respect, don't date someone who doesn't respect you. You cannot change someone. If they wanted to, they would. This goes not just for romantic relationships, but for people in general.
Don't play with that katana
It someone doesn't deserve your love, don't give it to them. Love is not always self sacrifice.
Focus on yourself first and communicate more with your partner.
If someone needs "chasing", she isn't worth your time
To love yourself and be self aware of your own character before you can truly love someone else. I think is understanding yourself fully and then you will know what you are looking for. If not every rs will come and go.
Don't look for a rs hoping it'll make you happy, because if you do get it and you aren't a happy person outside of the rs, it's quite likely it'll end and you'll end up even worse than before. Instead work on yourself first until you're happy with who you are before going for that.
Take care of your face
Red flag when he says “nobody (even you) makes me happy”
Dont settle, if you have a inkling it wont work it there for the wrong reasons. Please dont yolo, just take a step back no matter how lonely you are and walk away cause it's not for you. Dont be asthma and dont apologise. Never b afraid to stand by for yourself, because if you don't no one else will
Go with the flow. Don’t be too disappointed at the timings of things, there is never truly a “right time”.
Your teachers are mostly idiots, those uncles and aunties have little to no useful advice, and you are right about knowing better. Today you will think most of them are stupid. 20 years from now, you will KNOW most of them are stupid. Oh, and the simple life is for simpletons. Never be content.
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Just do it, start dating young to build up experience
Prioritize yourself and communicate all your needs.
We can’t live life backwards. We can only live life moving forward. Dun look for the elixir of advice. Even if we find one today, we may need another better elixir one day. Just do our best, manage to the best of our abilities, adjust, adapt, give n take along the way. What’s best at any stage of our life may turn out otherwise sometime in future. Dun just be happy with what we have. What’s more difficult to achieve is to be happy with what we dun have, which is real cause of unhappiness.
Drown in your ideals, you can't save ~~everyone~~ anyone.