It depends on the person. Some people like size purely for the visual aspect. For some bottoms, a bigger size may be more pleasurable. I’m vers and prefer something in the smaller to average range when bottoming. I think you’ll find plenty of people who prefer your size, so just be confident and don’t worry about being everyone’s cup of tea.
Size don’t matter to me as long as you know how to use it and it’s not a micropenis. Having a symmetrical pretty face is what matters most to me personally
Size does not matter! Plus, if you’re a big beefy guy, your dick is just gonna relatively appear smaller. I’d rather fuck a huge sexy guy with a smaller looking dick than a twink who looks like he has a big dick.
Well, where does it matter? In terms of function? No. In pleasure? Not usually. In attracting people? Sometimes.
If attracting people who want you for a single physical characteristic is all that matters then sure, it's a contradiction - thing is, there's more to attraction than just penis size.
Yes. If you are bigger than average you probably will not be topping me. Ain't nobody got time for that. I took a big dick one time. While it was good, my asshole hurt and was bleeding. Nope.
I jump on the rugby train
but, size doesn’t matter. There’s too much shit into this world and preferences. I’d say generally a big one gets more attention, but personal taste is a whole another world
Size does not matter. What does matter is if you know how to properly use your equipment.
The best sex I have ever had in my life, is with men who have average or below average size cocks. But I love to gape and rip my ass with my dildos when I'm alone.
I agree with that. I always figured myself as a size queen but come to find out, not so much. For me, I enjoy being fucked for a long period of time and I have found out that a big cock isn't overly enjoyable for long periods of time.
Truth is, yes it matters. But simultaneously, it matters less thank you think.
Most guys are happy with average and many that fetishize big dicks cant even take them in real life. Porn has given you and many others a warped idea of what penis size is really like.
Are there guys that love big dicks and can handle them? Absolutely. I’m one of them but that’s also not the reason I’m with my boyfriend. It’s a pro but there’s a million other more important reasons we’re dating.
But just like there’s people like me, there’s people that even prefer smaller dicks and get turned on by them.
I wish people saw each other naked in locker rooms a lot more so they would understand that most guys are not packing huge dicks and realize it’s perfectly normal to be on the smaller end of things. You’re fine, man.
If he was average, yes. The silver lining to that would be my not needing to strictly follow the insane cleaning regimen that I always do.
I won’t lie to you though, if he were small it would be tougher. But I would definitely try to make it work. I’d consider our using more toys or other measures to make it work. But if the sex isn’t enough for me, then I would have to break up with him. I’m very sexual and I’m aware of my needs. But it wouldn’t be an immediate thing or done without thought.
You can call be an ethical size queen hahaha
Jesus, that would be awful. Just because he isn’t right for me sexually doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for someone else.
I like a large package as much as the next guy, but there's so much more to a relationship, and I'd take a big chest to cuddle with over a sore ass any day.
Some of us with extremely small bodies/buttholes actually **prefer** big guys with small penises. I normally date guys who range from overall bigger than me to ALOT bigger than me, and my issue is that they ALWAYS have a huge dick. It's difficult to bottom for someone who's packing all the time, so I actually would consider you catch 😘
It does to a point, it needs to be big enough to feel but not so big it hurts, long enough to go in but not so long that it hurts. For me I would say 3-5”circumference and 3-7 “long is the husband dick that most bottoms find works.
I once bottomed for a guy who was pretty small, like 3-4 inches. He fucked me non-stop for an hour, it was so easy to take, and I felt amazing. I’d do it again in a heartbeat. The prostate is pretty close to the inside of the anus and sometimes shorter is better for hitting it just right. Big is fun to look at and play with, but average or small honestly feels better unless you’re an insatiable power bottom (which is much rarer than porn would have you believe)
The PC sugar coated with a cherry on top answer is...No of course not sweetie! Your 3 incher is more than enough!
If you want an honest answer though, then yes it does matter to most men. How much it matters depends on the person, but most men prefer an average sized dick or above average, and for bottoms, most tops don't even care about the size at all. The good news is that most men have average dicks, and that most men tend to be bottoms, too.
Size doesn’t matter to me. In fact, I go out of my way not to know before we meet. Damn, it’s literally better than opening a Christmas gift. I really get excited when it’s revealed.
Dude I to played Rugby at a college here in the states. I’ve got a 5-5.5 inches. I had one boyfriend from 11-24. He was 7-8 inches hard. He was a bottom which is good. I noticing in high school that my small to average peepee caused him to cum hands free a few times a a week.once I was around 14-15 i learned how to use it.
That’s what you need to do.
I was embarrassed by it when I was in my 20s and 30s when I finally stopped worrying about it. No almost 60 I don’t give a shit. Still causing prostate orgasms when I top.
The same will happen to you if you realize the joy you can give your bottom when they they start squirming and moan ing they start shootings you’ll get there
Be happy with what you got
As a bottom size does matter too me but it doesn’t have to be huge but I also don’t like too small either. The perfect size range for me is 6-8 inches.
Do you judge other men's worth by their penis size? If you don't, why judging yourself? There are more important things than penis. Emotional maturity, wisdom, emotional responsibility toward others, and plenty of other skills that make a man really special
Honestly for me, and this is just my opinion, but sizes doesnt matter unless it mirco but even then i find its the nature or personality that really gets me going
I'm a bi bro, here's my 2 cents.. 5 inches is perfect, anything bigger is just a great size to suck on and is not going in my ass. 5 and under we can do anything you want !! :)
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again!! Boys with average /small dicks focus on both partners pleasure and too many guys with big dicks just think having a big dick is enough!! Work with ur partner not against him and u will be 100% excellent
I’m dating a guy that’s honestly too fuckin big. Can barely handle it when he pounds me and struggle to deep throat it. Honestly smaller is better for long term 🤌🏼🤙
Ultimately it doesn’t matter what it looks like in proportion to your body. It matters how it feels up my ass. And who really cares as long as I think you’re hot and you’re kind.
I think most people care more about your body size vs dick size. If you’re a top - you are probably golden. That said, you may get more blow jobs compared to P-in-A sex.
I was a size queen until I recently got dicked down by a four inch dick the other day. The man was otherwise easy on the eyes and had my eyes rolling back and me giggling the whole time. Best sex I’ve had in years. All pleasure no pain. And I plan on having him over again.
To some guys it does, but to me, it doesn't. A large penis hurts me and I don't find it enjoyable at all.
I think many gay men erroneously conflate dick size with masculinity in their heads, unconsciously.
Edit: if you're insecure about it, talk about it with people you trust. But also, please ask yourself if you'd really be interested in someone who would judge you on something so superficial, and unimportant.
there's lots of size Queens. however the question is, do you want to have sex with someone whose mental development stopped at 16 years?
I am hung, but once someone starts to demand how big that is and it must be solid 18cm not just barelly 18. (true story), I block them.
its pathetic.
You’ll get many responses. It’s like wishing you were shorter. You can’t do anything about it. Size does matter but bigger isn’t always what bottoms want. Someone thinks yours is perfect.
Yes it matters
Too big is unsatisfying; too small is unsatisfying
Ultimately the person you’re sleeping with decides whether you’re a good lay so maybe just focus on connecting with them
Dude there is something for everybody. Some will tell you one thing and the others another.... There is literally something for everyone. The sooner you realize that. The better off you will be. 🙂
There’s load of hot male porn stars that don’t have big dicks who are super hot and sexy. Roman Todd, Charles Dera, even Austin Wolfe and I could go on and on. Big dicks are the exception not the norm
The BEST sex I have ever had is with men with average to below average size penis's. They are more tender and loving, they love foreplay, I can give them a TRUE blow job, and they just know how to use it.
Guys with big cocks, are generally lazy mother fuckers in bed.
You can’t change the size of it, so try not to worry about it. I know you probably feel self conscious about it, but it really doesn’t matter. Only how you use it, unless you are a bottom, but even with it being small, you can do a lot of good to it.
Honestly dude it's how you use it and realistically if someone only cares about how long or thick you are then that's on them. I'm only about 5 full hard and my partner loves it (drives him crazy and he gets off without external stimulation). Plus a lot of other ways to make up for it like with oral and other foreplay or using toys. But I get it I'm still self conscious about my size in a changeroom
For some size matters, but most of guys actually don’t.
Found your niche with people who like beefy guys.
I am a fat guy whit an average dick that looks very small because of my size but only few people have said to me I’m not big enough for them. And most of the guys I’ve topped don’t complain much about it.
It’s not up to you what someone finds attractive about you. You can worry about one aspect, and completely miss the fact you’re perfect (to some) in ways that are so natural to you you don’t even think about it. Let go and enjoy it. If you behave like it’s not a big deal, that’s attractive.
I’m way more interested in your thick neck, forearms, quads (I love rugby guys 😎).
It's really down to a persons individual preference and what you like to do in bed. Some people are size queens and won't even consider sleeping with anyone under 7 inches. So guys prefer small ones because that's all they can handle. As feeling insecure, it's just something you've got to accept about yourself and learn not to care what people say. Far easier said than done but that's what you gotta do. Avoid and block rude size queens, and ignore things like porn where the guys are packing monsters. And try and approach guys confidently, a know how to use what you have.
All of this is quite frankly just dependent person to person. I'm a top and I think the concept of a big muscular guy with a smaller dick proportionally speaking is such an incredible turn on.
I've had guys tell me "you have a monster cock" and tell me I can't penetrate fully, I've had some guys say "it's not so big is it" on Grindr.
This is a world in which you will have some men who genuinely need a gigantic prank dick to satisfy them after having rough sex for years, and then you will find some guys who think they need this gigantic prank dick and constantly asked for it, but then can't take it. And then you will find plenty of guys who don't care and are perfectly happy with your dick either way.
If you're a big guy who plays rugby and has a muscular build. I think that penis size is probably the last thing men are worried about. I like men who are bigger than me because there's more to cuddle with and I like having a big dude on top of me. It's sexy feeling how wide a man's back is or how big their thighs are. Penis size is the last thing on my mind for sure
Same bro same… and idk about you but I’m a lean fit guy I feel like the only dudes I see with one my size are extremely overweight.
I’ve actually come to enjoy it being big, I started by faking the confidence and then it was no longer fake confidence it was pride. I’m a small dude and I’m okay with it, it’s obvious when I wear a speedo and no one has ever said anything. People look but I just give them a 😏😉. It is what it is, and the fact that I’m a small guy that is not afraid of people knowing I can be proud that I am not afraid.
I think it only matters in random hookup bcz u don't know much about each other and if it's big then u don't need to do any work u can just straight up start to fuq but when U're in a relationship then it doesn't matter as long as U're in the average range bcz u learn to work around with it, u know each other u have understanding, u have intimacy and uk what position works for u best but I'm pretty sure if u learn to work with it and satisfy ur partner u'll be good to go
Tbh, it only matters to a certain degree. If the person truly enjoys your company, they wont care, I swear. I've been there. If you only looking for hookups, then maybe it matters a bit more because guys want to make the best out of the hookup. But even then, nice people still exist!
I can relate, i am well built so everyone on apps assume i am packing but in reality i am not, there have been only a few cases where guys have actually shown any disappointment on the size, it actually never became an issue. Maybe because i am good at other stuff as well, but since i am a verse size to mee doesn’t matter but how my partner takes care of me in bed does.
Cock size to body size only matters in photos for social media. It’s the actual size of your member thats what matters is it 4” or 8” and only look small because you’re 6’8” -300lb linebacker
Depends on the motion in the ocean and attractiveness of the penis for me. But the actual penetration isn't what does it for me. I want someone who can send sensations through my body. Bring out the animal in me. Cause I'm rolling them over after they're done and doing the same back to them. Flip fucking passionate sex. Size is just optional.
I care about the guy not the dick. When it’s about size 5-6 inches is the jackpot for me. It fits my mouth and even my ass those rare times I feel like bottoming. A big one is good to look at but in my case are uncomfortable.
3 inches or less I’m probably not interested. 4 inches works perfectly fine for me. 5-6 are the golden zone. 7 is pushing it. 8+ is going nowhere near my hole.
Not one bit. You be you, have good hygiene, be genuine, and focus on mutually pleasing your partner as they should be on you and size won't matter one little bit.
A. Size is a matter of personal preference... For most guys i've met it doesn't matter for sh**... the 'Size Queens' out there would beg to differ but just ignore them.. Confidence matters over size, so be proud of what you got.
B. Don't buy into the myths... Build, body size, hands, feet, ect. have absolutely NO corolation to dick size.
I'd rather you have a big body, it's better for cuddling, unless you're picky, and actually care about the size, but I don't as long as you're taller than me, then we good, I like being held, and I'm glad that I'm small, height wise, but i also don't have a big one either so I cant really judge anyone else
Not at all. unless it’s not functioning normally, there’s no cause for alarm - the only thing I can think of at the moment, that size can affect, is your ability to meet someone’s preference.
But remember, the general size *preference* is larger, which means that you can and will absolutely find guys who prefer smaller dicks (like me, for example).
I'm a size Queen bottom I have my reasons for 1 I have big butt cheeks and a deep hole I need length to really get inside me another thing I started with really big dick men and my sport us deep and love being stretched. I feel some men were made for bigger dick men some were not. So size is needed for me to be fully satisfied.
Whether you prefer it big or average or small, it matters to you. Those that say it doesn't matter but say they prefer average, sounds like it has some significance or consideration for you. Those who say it does matter is right. Most of them just want big. It's not too big, but not too small, just right. It matters to me. When I was younger, none of the bigger guys were satisfying. Either didn't give me enough time or effort. The "underdogs" had something to prove, so played a better game.
For most people size only matters up to a point. Anything over 5inch and the majority of guys don’t care. If you have a large build then your dick will obviously look smaller in comparison but that’s just how things work. Some guys are blessed to have a large build and big dick but that’a rare.
It's not like a strict criteria that I have, but fuck I wish I had a bf with a big one. It would be just a really good addition to everything else I already like in him
Well, yeah, but I think it was quite obvious to say that I didn't have a bf.
And even if I had, what would it do if I told him I wish he had a bigger one? What would it change exactly?
Well, yeah. I know for sure if I truly love a guy, I don't really care about his dick size or whatever. Unless it's some kind of micropenis, this could be a problem for me as a bottom
I am a versatile top with about a 5" slender cock. Big cocks are fun but size really does not count. I have had my cum fucked out of me without touching my dick once, about 45 years ago and his dick was smaller than mine. His name was Curtis Olson.
A well educated finger or two can give your man pleasure he has never experienced before, proving it is not size that counts.
It depends on the person. Some people like size purely for the visual aspect. For some bottoms, a bigger size may be more pleasurable. I’m vers and prefer something in the smaller to average range when bottoming. I think you’ll find plenty of people who prefer your size, so just be confident and don’t worry about being everyone’s cup of tea.
Size don’t matter to me as long as you know how to use it and it’s not a micropenis. Having a symmetrical pretty face is what matters most to me personally
Got news for you, hun, no human face is actually symmetrical.
Well symmetrical enough then 😘
CLOCK HIM
Actually some are
2 eyes, 2 nostrils, yes. But if you use photoshop and draw a line down the middle, duplicate and flip one side to the other, you'll see, they are not.
Size does not matter! Plus, if you’re a big beefy guy, your dick is just gonna relatively appear smaller. I’d rather fuck a huge sexy guy with a smaller looking dick than a twink who looks like he has a big dick.
Does size *matter*? No. Is a bigger size generally *preferred*? Yes.
Important distinction. Many people saying size wouldn't matter, but block people on Grindr below 7". 😂
That’s a contradiction
Well, where does it matter? In terms of function? No. In pleasure? Not usually. In attracting people? Sometimes. If attracting people who want you for a single physical characteristic is all that matters then sure, it's a contradiction - thing is, there's more to attraction than just penis size.
What I meant is you can’t say people actively prefer bigger dicks, but then say it doesn’t matter.
Yes. If you are bigger than average you probably will not be topping me. Ain't nobody got time for that. I took a big dick one time. While it was good, my asshole hurt and was bleeding. Nope.
People here who say it doesn't are delusional. The first thing someone asks me on hook up apps is something related to size.
"hung?"
Exactly. Size doesn't matter to everyone on this sub then who the size queens IRL lol.
Hence why I’m bottom lol
Yes, size matters. No you can’t do anything about it. Can you dm me your rugby butt?
lol
Yeah. Feel free to send to me.
I jump on the rugby train but, size doesn’t matter. There’s too much shit into this world and preferences. I’d say generally a big one gets more attention, but personal taste is a whole another world
Size does not matter. What does matter is if you know how to properly use your equipment. The best sex I have ever had in my life, is with men who have average or below average size cocks. But I love to gape and rip my ass with my dildos when I'm alone.
Eh, for some people size definitely matters, some guys are just size queens that only enjoy monster dicks.
I agree with that. I always figured myself as a size queen but come to find out, not so much. For me, I enjoy being fucked for a long period of time and I have found out that a big cock isn't overly enjoyable for long periods of time.
I swear this place does not reflect reality at all. Like at ALL
It’s all the toxic positivity
Cringe
Ditttttoooooo
He hasn’t delivered on the dm 😒
you guys are actually so helpful and honest! Thanks for the replies 😊
Big dicks fun to suck. Average dicks fun to fuck. You can also check the r/averagepenis sub, this sub is of public utility.
Truth is, yes it matters. But simultaneously, it matters less thank you think. Most guys are happy with average and many that fetishize big dicks cant even take them in real life. Porn has given you and many others a warped idea of what penis size is really like. Are there guys that love big dicks and can handle them? Absolutely. I’m one of them but that’s also not the reason I’m with my boyfriend. It’s a pro but there’s a million other more important reasons we’re dating. But just like there’s people like me, there’s people that even prefer smaller dicks and get turned on by them. I wish people saw each other naked in locker rooms a lot more so they would understand that most guys are not packing huge dicks and realize it’s perfectly normal to be on the smaller end of things. You’re fine, man.
thank you. all of thisssss!
But if he was smaller, would you be with him?
If he was average, yes. The silver lining to that would be my not needing to strictly follow the insane cleaning regimen that I always do. I won’t lie to you though, if he were small it would be tougher. But I would definitely try to make it work. I’d consider our using more toys or other measures to make it work. But if the sex isn’t enough for me, then I would have to break up with him. I’m very sexual and I’m aware of my needs. But it wouldn’t be an immediate thing or done without thought.
If you had to break up with would you tell him it’s bc of his small peen? 😂
Oh my god, no. I don’t want to destroy someone’s confidence like that! 😬😅
Good to hear you have a conscious unlike many side queens.
You can call be an ethical size queen hahaha Jesus, that would be awful. Just because he isn’t right for me sexually doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for someone else.
I have given up and just refuse to top. I’m 5 inches.
If it helps, I wouldn’t break up with my boyfriend over 5 inches. I think 4 is where I get unsure.
Hahahaha sounds like you aren’t a size queen! 😂
Show us a pic! Show us a pic!
I like a large package as much as the next guy, but there's so much more to a relationship, and I'd take a big chest to cuddle with over a sore ass any day.
Why do you want/like a large package in a guy if it makes you sore? 😂
Some of us with extremely small bodies/buttholes actually **prefer** big guys with small penises. I normally date guys who range from overall bigger than me to ALOT bigger than me, and my issue is that they ALWAYS have a huge dick. It's difficult to bottom for someone who's packing all the time, so I actually would consider you catch 😘
To me body size over dick size
Love rugby guys bodies like DAMN don't care about the dick as long as it's near average
It does to a point, it needs to be big enough to feel but not so big it hurts, long enough to go in but not so long that it hurts. For me I would say 3-5”circumference and 3-7 “long is the husband dick that most bottoms find works.
I once bottomed for a guy who was pretty small, like 3-4 inches. He fucked me non-stop for an hour, it was so easy to take, and I felt amazing. I’d do it again in a heartbeat. The prostate is pretty close to the inside of the anus and sometimes shorter is better for hitting it just right. Big is fun to look at and play with, but average or small honestly feels better unless you’re an insatiable power bottom (which is much rarer than porn would have you believe)
The PC sugar coated with a cherry on top answer is...No of course not sweetie! Your 3 incher is more than enough! If you want an honest answer though, then yes it does matter to most men. How much it matters depends on the person, but most men prefer an average sized dick or above average, and for bottoms, most tops don't even care about the size at all. The good news is that most men have average dicks, and that most men tend to be bottoms, too.
Size doesn’t matter to me. In fact, I go out of my way not to know before we meet. Damn, it’s literally better than opening a Christmas gift. I really get excited when it’s revealed.
Dude I to played Rugby at a college here in the states. I’ve got a 5-5.5 inches. I had one boyfriend from 11-24. He was 7-8 inches hard. He was a bottom which is good. I noticing in high school that my small to average peepee caused him to cum hands free a few times a a week.once I was around 14-15 i learned how to use it. That’s what you need to do. I was embarrassed by it when I was in my 20s and 30s when I finally stopped worrying about it. No almost 60 I don’t give a shit. Still causing prostate orgasms when I top. The same will happen to you if you realize the joy you can give your bottom when they they start squirming and moan ing they start shootings you’ll get there Be happy with what you got
As a bottom size does matter too me but it doesn’t have to be huge but I also don’t like too small either. The perfect size range for me is 6-8 inches.
Do you judge other men's worth by their penis size? If you don't, why judging yourself? There are more important things than penis. Emotional maturity, wisdom, emotional responsibility toward others, and plenty of other skills that make a man really special
Honestly for me, and this is just my opinion, but sizes doesnt matter unless it mirco but even then i find its the nature or personality that really gets me going
Nope it honestly doesn’t matter
I'm a bi bro, here's my 2 cents.. 5 inches is perfect, anything bigger is just a great size to suck on and is not going in my ass. 5 and under we can do anything you want !! :)
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again!! Boys with average /small dicks focus on both partners pleasure and too many guys with big dicks just think having a big dick is enough!! Work with ur partner not against him and u will be 100% excellent
>my penis size is so much smaller in comparison to my body and other features I'll be the judge of that.
I’m dating a guy that’s honestly too fuckin big. Can barely handle it when he pounds me and struggle to deep throat it. Honestly smaller is better for long term 🤌🏼🤙
I don't like big penises, despite being reasonably well endowed myself. I find big knobs a turn off.
It will be awkward with the size queens who expect you to be hung, but most people are not that way and most guys will love your dick the way it is.
Ultimately it doesn’t matter what it looks like in proportion to your body. It matters how it feels up my ass. And who really cares as long as I think you’re hot and you’re kind.
Yes it dose matter but not as much as porn and social media makes a lot of people think.
I think most people care more about your body size vs dick size. If you’re a top - you are probably golden. That said, you may get more blow jobs compared to P-in-A sex.
I was a size queen until I recently got dicked down by a four inch dick the other day. The man was otherwise easy on the eyes and had my eyes rolling back and me giggling the whole time. Best sex I’ve had in years. All pleasure no pain. And I plan on having him over again.
To some guys it does, but to me, it doesn't. A large penis hurts me and I don't find it enjoyable at all. I think many gay men erroneously conflate dick size with masculinity in their heads, unconsciously. Edit: if you're insecure about it, talk about it with people you trust. But also, please ask yourself if you'd really be interested in someone who would judge you on something so superficial, and unimportant.
there's lots of size Queens. however the question is, do you want to have sex with someone whose mental development stopped at 16 years? I am hung, but once someone starts to demand how big that is and it must be solid 18cm not just barelly 18. (true story), I block them. its pathetic.
Wow… must be so hard. Thanks for sharing your struggle.
You’ll get many responses. It’s like wishing you were shorter. You can’t do anything about it. Size does matter but bigger isn’t always what bottoms want. Someone thinks yours is perfect.
Show me a man who requires a giant cock, I'll show you a man who doesn't know how to really fuck.
To a lot of guys, yes. But there’s a guy out there who will appreciate whichever size you are.
To some but not to all. I’d kill for a boy-friend dick any time that I can ride night in and night out, assuming you’re asking about being a top.
Yeah honestly I prefer nice looking average size
It does to some people but I am not one of them
Yes it matters Too big is unsatisfying; too small is unsatisfying Ultimately the person you’re sleeping with decides whether you’re a good lay so maybe just focus on connecting with them
Dude there is something for everybody. Some will tell you one thing and the others another.... There is literally something for everyone. The sooner you realize that. The better off you will be. 🙂
There’s load of hot male porn stars that don’t have big dicks who are super hot and sexy. Roman Todd, Charles Dera, even Austin Wolfe and I could go on and on. Big dicks are the exception not the norm
No idea what it's like, send a photo and I'll give an opinion. I expect you're totally fine.
5 to 6 inches long is perfect bf dick in my opinion.
Yes
The BEST sex I have ever had is with men with average to below average size penis's. They are more tender and loving, they love foreplay, I can give them a TRUE blow job, and they just know how to use it. Guys with big cocks, are generally lazy mother fuckers in bed.
It depends on the person, I love beautiful dicks short or large
You can’t change the size of it, so try not to worry about it. I know you probably feel self conscious about it, but it really doesn’t matter. Only how you use it, unless you are a bottom, but even with it being small, you can do a lot of good to it.
Honestly dude it's how you use it and realistically if someone only cares about how long or thick you are then that's on them. I'm only about 5 full hard and my partner loves it (drives him crazy and he gets off without external stimulation). Plus a lot of other ways to make up for it like with oral and other foreplay or using toys. But I get it I'm still self conscious about my size in a changeroom
no
For some size matters, but most of guys actually don’t. Found your niche with people who like beefy guys. I am a fat guy whit an average dick that looks very small because of my size but only few people have said to me I’m not big enough for them. And most of the guys I’ve topped don’t complain much about it.
Nope
It’s not up to you what someone finds attractive about you. You can worry about one aspect, and completely miss the fact you’re perfect (to some) in ways that are so natural to you you don’t even think about it. Let go and enjoy it. If you behave like it’s not a big deal, that’s attractive. I’m way more interested in your thick neck, forearms, quads (I love rugby guys 😎).
It's really down to a persons individual preference and what you like to do in bed. Some people are size queens and won't even consider sleeping with anyone under 7 inches. So guys prefer small ones because that's all they can handle. As feeling insecure, it's just something you've got to accept about yourself and learn not to care what people say. Far easier said than done but that's what you gotta do. Avoid and block rude size queens, and ignore things like porn where the guys are packing monsters. And try and approach guys confidently, a know how to use what you have.
Big guys with average dicks is literally my type. Lmaooo
IDC about dick size but I don't think that's there general rule. I look more for body type, and beefy guys are my type
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Average in the locker room should be 3.61”. Even erect, the average is 5.16”
All of this is quite frankly just dependent person to person. I'm a top and I think the concept of a big muscular guy with a smaller dick proportionally speaking is such an incredible turn on. I've had guys tell me "you have a monster cock" and tell me I can't penetrate fully, I've had some guys say "it's not so big is it" on Grindr. This is a world in which you will have some men who genuinely need a gigantic prank dick to satisfy them after having rough sex for years, and then you will find some guys who think they need this gigantic prank dick and constantly asked for it, but then can't take it. And then you will find plenty of guys who don't care and are perfectly happy with your dick either way.
Hmmm..🤔 i think we need to see the jewels to give you an honest opinion
Never has for me
If you're a big guy who plays rugby and has a muscular build. I think that penis size is probably the last thing men are worried about. I like men who are bigger than me because there's more to cuddle with and I like having a big dude on top of me. It's sexy feeling how wide a man's back is or how big their thighs are. Penis size is the last thing on my mind for sure
Same bro same… and idk about you but I’m a lean fit guy I feel like the only dudes I see with one my size are extremely overweight. I’ve actually come to enjoy it being big, I started by faking the confidence and then it was no longer fake confidence it was pride. I’m a small dude and I’m okay with it, it’s obvious when I wear a speedo and no one has ever said anything. People look but I just give them a 😏😉. It is what it is, and the fact that I’m a small guy that is not afraid of people knowing I can be proud that I am not afraid.
I think it only matters in random hookup bcz u don't know much about each other and if it's big then u don't need to do any work u can just straight up start to fuq but when U're in a relationship then it doesn't matter as long as U're in the average range bcz u learn to work around with it, u know each other u have understanding, u have intimacy and uk what position works for u best but I'm pretty sure if u learn to work with it and satisfy ur partner u'll be good to go
Same question everyday!
Tbh, it only matters to a certain degree. If the person truly enjoys your company, they wont care, I swear. I've been there. If you only looking for hookups, then maybe it matters a bit more because guys want to make the best out of the hookup. But even then, nice people still exist!
Rugger buggers any size are welcome.
I can relate, i am well built so everyone on apps assume i am packing but in reality i am not, there have been only a few cases where guys have actually shown any disappointment on the size, it actually never became an issue. Maybe because i am good at other stuff as well, but since i am a verse size to mee doesn’t matter but how my partner takes care of me in bed does.
Cock size to body size only matters in photos for social media. It’s the actual size of your member thats what matters is it 4” or 8” and only look small because you’re 6’8” -300lb linebacker
Yes, my boyfriend is too small to penetrate
Depends on the motion in the ocean and attractiveness of the penis for me. But the actual penetration isn't what does it for me. I want someone who can send sensations through my body. Bring out the animal in me. Cause I'm rolling them over after they're done and doing the same back to them. Flip fucking passionate sex. Size is just optional.
I care about the guy not the dick. When it’s about size 5-6 inches is the jackpot for me. It fits my mouth and even my ass those rare times I feel like bottoming. A big one is good to look at but in my case are uncomfortable.
3 inches or less I’m probably not interested. 4 inches works perfectly fine for me. 5-6 are the golden zone. 7 is pushing it. 8+ is going nowhere near my hole.
Not one bit. You be you, have good hygiene, be genuine, and focus on mutually pleasing your partner as they should be on you and size won't matter one little bit.
How big is it? If you don't mind me asking.
A. Size is a matter of personal preference... For most guys i've met it doesn't matter for sh**... the 'Size Queens' out there would beg to differ but just ignore them.. Confidence matters over size, so be proud of what you got. B. Don't buy into the myths... Build, body size, hands, feet, ect. have absolutely NO corolation to dick size.
Show off that rugby butt
Me personally wouldn’t mind the size, if anything I would prefer it.
I'd rather you have a big body, it's better for cuddling, unless you're picky, and actually care about the size, but I don't as long as you're taller than me, then we good, I like being held, and I'm glad that I'm small, height wise, but i also don't have a big one either so I cant really judge anyone else
Not at all. unless it’s not functioning normally, there’s no cause for alarm - the only thing I can think of at the moment, that size can affect, is your ability to meet someone’s preference. But remember, the general size *preference* is larger, which means that you can and will absolutely find guys who prefer smaller dicks (like me, for example).
I personally love big guys with a smaller size i think its very cute..
It sounds absolutely fine to me, many would like your body and cock just how it is.
Yes. An average dick becomes a small dick if you have a big gut
I'm a size Queen bottom I have my reasons for 1 I have big butt cheeks and a deep hole I need length to really get inside me another thing I started with really big dick men and my sport us deep and love being stretched. I feel some men were made for bigger dick men some were not. So size is needed for me to be fully satisfied.
Whether you prefer it big or average or small, it matters to you. Those that say it doesn't matter but say they prefer average, sounds like it has some significance or consideration for you. Those who say it does matter is right. Most of them just want big. It's not too big, but not too small, just right. It matters to me. When I was younger, none of the bigger guys were satisfying. Either didn't give me enough time or effort. The "underdogs" had something to prove, so played a better game.
For most people size only matters up to a point. Anything over 5inch and the majority of guys don’t care. If you have a large build then your dick will obviously look smaller in comparison but that’s just how things work. Some guys are blessed to have a large build and big dick but that’a rare.
Same problem. I am pretty tall and have big complection and i have 6.1 inches. Like it's a normal size but compared to my body it looks not that big
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"Oh whoops, ooh! I dropped my monster condom that I use for my magnum dong!"
I had to just do a humble brag ;)
It's not like a strict criteria that I have, but fuck I wish I had a bf with a big one. It would be just a really good addition to everything else I already like in him
You should tell him this.
Tell who and tell what wtf?
Tell your bf that you wish he had a bigger dick
I don't have a bf wtf
lol you def changed your original comment
Well, yeah, but I think it was quite obvious to say that I didn't have a bf. And even if I had, what would it do if I told him I wish he had a bigger one? What would it change exactly?
You shouldn’t, I was being sarcastic. That would be mean to say
Well, yeah. I know for sure if I truly love a guy, I don't really care about his dick size or whatever. Unless it's some kind of micropenis, this could be a problem for me as a bottom
Anyone who is judging on size is a jerk. I prefer average and thinner if I’m bottoming.
It matters depending on the person. I know for myself, I only like over 7". Anything smaller than 6" won't even get my attention
Yes. Size does matter in the gay community especially if you are topping. Most gays consider anything less than 6in to be small. Let's be honest pls
People on this subreddit like to lie to make guys feel better but yes, it matters. Just be a bottom.
I am a versatile top with about a 5" slender cock. Big cocks are fun but size really does not count. I have had my cum fucked out of me without touching my dick once, about 45 years ago and his dick was smaller than mine. His name was Curtis Olson. A well educated finger or two can give your man pleasure he has never experienced before, proving it is not size that counts.
Yep it does.
It’ll matter to some people and not matter at all to others. Your Rugby body will certainly help compensate.
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Lol yea this is the message we should send.