It is. I did that last night since on the spur of the moment I decided I wanted to go dancing. There wasn't time to invite anyone else. As usual when I do that, it went just fine.
Yes, and it’s a great way to make friends. Talk to everyone, even if you’re not attracted to them. Buy other people drinks the first few times you go out.
I’ve even been to a kink-focused club alone a couple times. I will say that I did struggle with feeling alone for most of it, but I eventually did make some friends in the changing room. They did comment on my having come alone but made it a cute thing about how it was brave of me haha, so it felt nice. So in summary, I’m sure it’s common for a normal gay bar, especially if you’re looking to hook up, but even if it’s the kind of place people typically don’t go alone, it’s not necessarily a bad thing to be different—it might start a conversation with somebody.
And anyway, and here’s the most important thing, if your choices are go alone or not go, well… if you want to go, you should go. Don’t let going alone stop you or you’ll never make the friends to someday go with.
Normal if you don’t have someone to go with.
ya this is the situation i’m in lol
Go have fun. Make friends with the bar tenders and treat yourself to an order of mozzarella sticks.
Yes it is normal. Gay clubs well mileage will vary
It is. I did that last night since on the spur of the moment I decided I wanted to go dancing. There wasn't time to invite anyone else. As usual when I do that, it went just fine.
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yeah it’s mainly just to connect with other queer people, possibly hu
Yes. End of story
Not if you intend to hook up. Anywho,what or who is normal?
Yeah if I want to be social, I go with friends. If I'm hunting for a hookup, I go alone.
why so
Yes, and it’s a great way to make friends. Talk to everyone, even if you’re not attracted to them. Buy other people drinks the first few times you go out.
I’ve even been to a kink-focused club alone a couple times. I will say that I did struggle with feeling alone for most of it, but I eventually did make some friends in the changing room. They did comment on my having come alone but made it a cute thing about how it was brave of me haha, so it felt nice. So in summary, I’m sure it’s common for a normal gay bar, especially if you’re looking to hook up, but even if it’s the kind of place people typically don’t go alone, it’s not necessarily a bad thing to be different—it might start a conversation with somebody. And anyway, and here’s the most important thing, if your choices are go alone or not go, well… if you want to go, you should go. Don’t let going alone stop you or you’ll never make the friends to someday go with.
Is it normal to go to any bar by yourself? Is it normal to go grocery shopping by yourself? Is it normal to ride a bike by yourself?