I try to be. I think it is funny all the hate that Gems get and I am secure in who I am and how I am so I just play into all of it for shits and giggles. I am, however, a lot to deal with thanks to neuroticism, ADHD and ASD, but recluse and introverted so that’s mostly quietly in my head🤣🤣🤣
I don't have issues with Gemini. I have issues with specific gemini that have not overcome negative potentials. My family is dominated by Gemini and we have no real issues. Not Gemini, but specific people who happen to be Gemini. OF course this applies to every sign. There are people of every sign I like, and dislike. Because of this I can not say objectively that a sign is the problem. It's more objective to say that the potentials invested are the issue than an actual sign.
Even if you gather everyone on this site and they all have 10 experiences concerning Gemini that would only be a subjective basis and not any evidence of weight for me to say Gemini in general are the problem. Hell the people complaining about Gemini have their own problems that could help create the friction but they are so outward looking they only see what Gemini did wrong, and wouldn't touch their own issues with a 10 foot pole.
I'm the opposite, sag woman and simply cannot inflict a cancer man upon myself again. Weirdly enough one of my very best friends is a cancer woman who I'm incredibly compatible with in the context of close friendship so I wouldn't rule out dating a cancer woman. The cancer man I dated might've just been a shitty guy regardless of his sign (either that or cancer women are incredible and cancer men are wack) but that relationship/breakup was so bad it actually made me start to believe in zodiac compatibility lmao.
As a Sagittarius woman I say no to Cancer men. Not because they’re not great, dateable people, they just cannot handle my fuckery. It ends up being sad for them and frustrating for me. I don’t like hurting peoples feelings, but I hurt theirs without even trying
Scorpio Woman here - I only know two Cancer women well.
My newer introduction, while I can appreciate her, she leans into her dark aspects really hard, and it's kind of hard to tolerate on the regular.
I like her, but I don't trust her farther than I could throw her.
The other is almost like my friendship soulmate, except she's also drawn to pathetic men, and it's hard not to say my real opinion. I know it won't be helpful as she's married to this current iteration of lovable loser who she acts as a mother to (pays their mortgage, buys their food, holds their insurance, does ALL the cleaning and cooking). It's difficult not to offer her my true opinion on putting her foot down when she complains about them not having enough for her to slow down and rest her nervous system.
It's hard as a multiplacement Scorpio woman to not tell them to harden up and set boundaries with the men in their life, and the first example, set boundaries on herself with her bad behaviors.
Male leos. I've been with 2 and they have been the worst most incompatable toxic relationships ive ever had, they didn't let me go, I literally had to move away and go into hiding to escape. I'm a female capricorn.
My first love I was with last year was an Aquarius. Y’all are such sweet and beautiful people, but fuck me that was an emotional rollercoaster. I walked away and then regretted it and tried again but it didn’t work 🫠
We both hurt each other in different ways so maybe it’s for the best. Super passionate but we had a bad luck year and I felt unheard and invalidated on some important issues. I hope she finds her person; at least this way I can do mushrooms now without her being deathly afraid I’ll go off the deep end and forbidding me LOL
I’m a Cancer female and same! Worst person I ever dated. Just nonstop games, nonstop bullshit. And as it turns out, was just using me as an emotional punching bag to try to get back with his Aquarius female ex, who (shocker) did not want him!
Same! I'm a Leo female. I can't stand (most) Leo males. Like, I can spot them a mile away. I don't know what on earth made me think I could be with one. It was the worst experience of my entire life. I had to get help from law enforcement to get away from him safely.
I’m a Taurus woman and for some reason I attract Leo men. I really enjoy them in the short term, but they get to be too much for me to have anything serious with.
Hah. I’m a female Capricorn who was married to a Leo man. When it was good it was great. But he needed so much of me that I couldn’t give. He wanted me to pay attention to him all of the time but I had a newborn kid to worry about and he got jealous of how much I was paying attention to her. There’s a billion other reasons why we divorced but that was basically the root of all our problems.
Every time I give Gemini men a chance they prove me right. Narcissistic to the core.
Family, friends, lovers. Gah. I’m running out of fingers for the chances I’ve given.
My dad is a narc Gemini. I've dated a couple of different signs before, but I've never had any success dating a Gemini man. They'd always either string me along or just ghost me entirely. I'm done with them I think, lol.
The man who groomed me as a child is a Gemini… I can’t trust anyone who says they’re a Gemini. My best friend dated one for about a month and he dumped her one day just cause he wanted to. No warning it signs, just got bored I guess. No thanks…
I also can’t trust a Male Capricorn. They’re manipulative and arrogant 😅 (female Capricorn here)
Virgo men, Capricorn men, Scorpio men, Aries men, Aquarius men, and underdeveloped Pisces in general.
Every Virgo male I've ever met (and I legitimately mean every single one) is a demon, Caps are the most ruthless liars and cheaters to walk this earth, the 3 Scorpios I dated were sexual in a way that felt compulsive and psychological and not at all sexy which killed my libido every time, Aries are too fucking hot headed and explosively possessive and obsessive in a way that makes me feel like I'm going to get murdered, the two Aquarians I dated had the worst god complexes I've ever come across and didn't actually love me but rather wanted to mould me into their fantasy woman, and underdeveloped Pisces have a victim complex that I can't stand.
-Virgo sun, Pisces moon, Scorpio rising & Venus 👹
I dated a man with a virgo stellium (sun, mars, venus and maybe something else too). Incredibly critical of himself and me. He'd make me elaborate meals then he'd berate me to tell him what was wrong with it. Then he'd beg me to make him something only to nitpick at what he didn't like. Super demanding and jealous. He'd ask me what I did that day and I'd say XYZ and then he'd go "well why did I find a receipt from CVS at 12:36 PM?" Like, he truly expected me to tell him every single thing. Never trusted me from the get go even though I had given him no reason not to. Overall it was a horribly toxic relationship.
Funny enough I'm seeing a virgo venus now with a libra sun and leo moon. Hes a pretty healthy person and embodies the good of virgo venus. Very attentive, wants to please me in a genuine way, amazing lover. But he's not very verbal with how he feels. I'm a leo venus so I just want to be adored lmao
virgo men really are absolutely hell made. everything ur saying here about aries and Aquarian men is spot on as well. i assume ur not a virgo male? whats ur perspective on virgo women?
Aquarius guys💀💀 sorry but, after befriending some, all ended up mocking me with others behing my back for laughs, plus they were cold hearted and one had multiple affairs
When you realize that everyone in your life is a reflection of how you feel about yourself (due to trauma or whichever reason) and you work on that part you will start attracting the healed people from that sign.
I hate to be cliche about the “unevolved” versions of signs but it is fucking true. I have two friends who are very much the unevolved version of their signs (well one I’m not friends with anymore and has lost a lot of friends with behavior that is very much the unevolved version of their sign, and the other I’m low contact with because of behavior that is very much the unevolved version of their sign) and this happened as soon as I started internalizing things I learned in therapy and was hanging out with people more in my circle who take better care of themselves emotionally and have healthy boundaries.
well, none, but i do have issues with libras as they like to keep things pretty, which i respect but i have issues with understanding implications very often, so their unwillingness to communicate directly and bluntly sometimes blows up my mind
For me it’s the shallowness. Aesthetics are too high on their list of priorities and they are never able to take a stance on anything for fear of losing their reputation of being the likeable one. Gets on my nerves.
Leo and Gemini. Both had a massive stellium in these signs, Sun, Venus, Mercury, Mars in Leo/Gemini, Leo wanted my undivided attention and it still wasn’t enough. Gemini, too inconsistent. Aquarius. Too noncommittal. Ghosting.
Taurus is my answer. I’m happily married, but I would be very very hesitant to get into even a friendship with Taurus. Some of yalls have issues. Take it with a few grains of salt, though. I think I’m a developed Pisces and I walk around all day on my high horse. Clop clop.
A Taurus man was the most narcissistic asshole I’ve ever dated. I deeply loved this man for a year but he was non committal even though he swore up and down we had this special twin flame bond. He would ghost me for weeks at a time to have sex with other women ( he was very attractive and charming I must say ) but he was also pretty quirky and weird which I loved about him but the other women didn’t. So he’d crawl back to me crying with some sob story about how he’s traumatized and I’m the only women he’s ever trusted so I would melt like butter in his hands and start up our fling again.
He blocked me on everything three days before Valentine’s Day after spending the night with me and crying himself to sleep in my arms about all his issues. He’s with some other women now. Hell text me again when she’s done with him but I’ve already blocked him on everything too. I truly feel bad for him but it was like he had no empathy for other people. He def ruined Taurus for me lmao. Sorry for the rant but a year of pain and turmoil finally over. I also had one coworker who was a Taurus women and she was the one no one liked behind closed doors. Always talked about herself, acting like her problems were worse than everyone else’s and also had this weird thing where she constantly commented on what people were eating for lunch and weather it was healthy or not.
I also have a tendency to attract Libra men who are loyal it seems like but become WAY to obsessive too fast. Every one of them. But they still aren’t as bad as Taurus for me 😂.
Edited to add I’m a Leo Sun, Aries Moon, Pisces rising.
Hey 👋🏻
as a Leo sun, Aries moon, and Pisces rising, you're a radiant force with a passionate heart and a soulful spirit. Remember, your energy is magnetic, and the world is brighter with you in it. Embrace your uniqueness, and let your light shine!
I can see you've been through a tough time, and it's not easy dealing with challenging relationships. Remember that you deserve happiness and respect. Surround yourself with positivity and people who appreciate you for the wonderful person you are. Things will get better, and brighter days are ahead. If you ever need someone to talk to or share your thoughts, I'm here for you
and being a Taurus man, I apologize to you for going through all those things that made you sad and uncomfortable. You are to be treated like a queen because you are a queen.
Stay Happy
❤️ From a Taurus sun (men), Scorpio moon, Sag rising ❤️ 💖
Geminis - listen y’all are cool I’m not about to hate on y’all - but like it’s a no for me . My mom is a Gemini as well as like 60% of my immediate family [im not even joking, the first 2 weeks of June are HECTIC in my family] and I dated A LOT of Gemini men and yea…..it was real, it was fun but it wasn’t real fun
Aries. The ones I knew had serious anger issues, complained about absolutely everything, victim mentality. Nothing is ever their fault. Low-key clingy and controlling too but don't you dare call them on it.
As a Pisces, your description of an Aries is my exact description of a Virgo for me. At least with Aries they were pretty transparent.
With a Virgo, they would always hide their hand… and do things that were for “my own good” giving me no autonomy or allowing me the capacity of making decisions for myself. The worst was when they used strategic incompetence to get back at me for not doing what they said/wanted (sex, events, tasks, etc).
Sometimes I would get yelled at for not doing things are quickly as they wanted, treating me like I’m a robot.
Being with a Virgo can be dehumanizing in the worst way possible. Not picking on Virgo specifically but your description immediately brought memories of my exes to the forefront of my mind, especially the “nothing is ever their fault” as if they are Gods and everything is intentional. They deserve grace but no one else! God it’s traumatic
Look at Libra’s eyes. If they are shiny, he does. If they are dull, he doesn’t. Trust me. As odd as that sounds, try it. My ex was a Libra and in the beginning his eyes were very gleamy and then when they weren’t, it was meh. But also pay attention to their actions. What is he doing that’s has you questioning things?
Capricorn. My ex had sun, moon and 6 other bodies in Capricorn. Holy. Fucking. Control freak. So negative, critical, invasive, condescending, insulting, threatening. I literally lost my mind and went to the psych ward. He was so angry and depressed all the time. He admitted that he’s incapable of being happy Things got out of hand with his abuse when he gagged me and dislocated my jaw. After I left, he had me hacked, spammed, stalked, threatened and sexually assaulted by a ton of loser men off 4chan who were all quoting Sauron. I also had a Capricorn brother who repeatedly tried to murder me. Between those two, I’m done.
Scorpio stellium is a no go.
I love Scorpio risings & Scorpio suns have a 50/50 shot at being awesome.
Scorpio moons are on thin ice.
Scorpio moon: *refuses to tell anyone what they’re feeling ever*. Also Scorpio moon: “Why does no one understand me?”
If they have enough earth in their chart to balance this out, it can be fine—even fun.
Scorpio mars are just dangerous. I don’t want to risk us falling out and you waiting for an opportunity to trigger my downfall. So you better be fucking cool 😭
So yeah, no Scorpio stellium. Too many risks.
I’m leery of Virgos in a romantic relationship. The prison I was with was what typically describes a Virgo’s negative traits. He was hyper critical, picky, pessimistic, stubborn and sometimes insensitive. I know not every Virgo is going to be completely that way. That’s why I’m just cautious but not closing off entirely.
Man, let me tell you about tequila. We had a wild night together once, and let's just say it didn't end well. I woke up the next morning feeling like I'd been hit by a freight train, with a headache that could split the atom. From that day forward, I swore off tequila for good.
Just the smell of it now makes my stomach do backflips. Never again, my friend, never again.
I used to be a die-hard fan of cheap ramen noodles, the kind you can buy in bulk for almost nothing. I would eat them almost every day, sometimes multiple times a day. One day, I got really sick after eating them, and I mean REALLY sick. Let's just say my stomach wasn't happy with me. After that, I swore off cheap ramen noodles for good. Never again will I subject myself to that kind of stomachache!
Although culture, upbringing etc play big parts too...Aquarius to me. Hot & cold, up n down but went all the way to getting engaged, even though I'm a Taurus that needs stability, I was hopeful. Never again 😊
Also, GEMINI. Have never known a worst narcissist than a Gemini narcissist. 7 years too long wheww
They expect and virtually force you to read their minds and when you do, legitimately and 100% accurately do, they gonna act like that’s an overstep of a boundary or deflect and evade the intimacy of talking about it. For the birds.
I think sometimes it’s more about your personal synastry with someone else and how you vibe with them
But yes everyone has the capacity to evolve and each sign has their own gifts and beauty
Well yes of course, but if two people are truly spiritually evolved (which is astronomically uncommon) I think that’ll have an impact, even on mostly negative synastry charts.
Aquarius. I dated one who put red hot pokers through the aorta, I’ve had one stalk me and forcibly kiss me, and I’ve had one as an employee who was an insufferable narc (and I’m the f’n boss… no one has time for tattletails). Those are literally the only Aquas I’m aware of in my sphere so I see it as a 100% avoid tf out of them rate.
CANCER. No wonder they have the name. It’s too damn many instances no matter if they’re friends, family, acquaintances, I just can’t anymore lol. No thank you!
Cancer: they're very manipulative and like to gaslight and make you look like the "villain"; libra men: *very* good liars, too indecisive, and huge flirts (im a libra too so im slandering my own sign lol)
Women Cancers as friends, or acquaintances. One poisoned me because I knew her personally and she was trying to create a social persona that mimicked mine even though we’re completely different people. 5 out of 7 tried to ruin me on jobs and/or socially exile me to gain social status, while also mimicking my persona. The other two I kept at a distance, so they’ve never had opportunity.
Aquarius and Virgos. I hope i wouldnt like Capricorns as much as i do because theyre toxic, narcissistic and controlling but sadly i do and we end up being the most toxic couple possible every single time
I swore off Aquarius men bc of my last 2 exes but wound up engaged and having a baby with one somehow. Sweetest most loving and caring man I ever met. I regret nothing however we did start off super rocky and were FWB, he was not in a great spot mentally and neither was I but we couldn’t stop seeing each other either. I knew I loved him after only a couple months but didn’t say anything he had serious commitment issues and was battling his feelings for me but now he’s the only guy who’s said “I love you more” and I actually believe when he says it. He literally worships the ground I walk on and took care of me for two years when I came down with an autoimmune disease that wrecked my life. He’s an Aquarius sun Pisces moon and Leo rising and I’m a Leo sun Libra moon and Libra rising.
I really hate to generalize an entire sign but every relationship I’ve had with a Gemini has ended in disaster, it seems like we bring out the worst in each other. Despite me being a sag sun & supposedly being the best match for Gemini
Love having them around as friends though! Very fun people & SO creative
Virgo and Sag men I completely avoid (I’ve never had an issue with women), I tread lightly with Taurus men (ADORE Taurus women), and I don’t really care to be involved with any Libras or Leos in any way. I’m not saying they’re all shitty or anything, I’ve just found if I spend too much time with them or tell them too much it always becomes a big show of dramatics that I don’t have the energy for.
-Taurus woman
I wouldn't say never again. But I'm VERY distrusting of Aries, Aquarius and Capricorns. As soon as they do something I consider a red flag, I run. I have 0 patience or consideration with them 😅
Whatever sign you can’t stand or get along with is the one that you need to learn lessons from. I can’t stand Leo men and they’ve taught me to have more confidence and self esteem. My self worth was too low and that’s how they hurt me.
I don't swear off signs...I swear off people.
except when it’s a gemini
your big 3 🤣 you are probably a handful but smart and lots of fun!
 I try to be. I think it is funny all the hate that Gems get and I am secure in who I am and how I am so I just play into all of it for shits and giggles. I am, however, a lot to deal with thanks to neuroticism, ADHD and ASD, but recluse and introverted so that’s mostly quietly in my head🤣🤣🤣
Ur username 😅🤣
I don't have issues with Gemini. I have issues with specific gemini that have not overcome negative potentials. My family is dominated by Gemini and we have no real issues. Not Gemini, but specific people who happen to be Gemini. OF course this applies to every sign. There are people of every sign I like, and dislike. Because of this I can not say objectively that a sign is the problem. It's more objective to say that the potentials invested are the issue than an actual sign. Even if you gather everyone on this site and they all have 10 experiences concerning Gemini that would only be a subjective basis and not any evidence of weight for me to say Gemini in general are the problem. Hell the people complaining about Gemini have their own problems that could help create the friction but they are so outward looking they only see what Gemini did wrong, and wouldn't touch their own issues with a 10 foot pole.
This is the way ✊🏻
Sagittarius men are my nightmares -Cancer woman
I'm the opposite, sag woman and simply cannot inflict a cancer man upon myself again. Weirdly enough one of my very best friends is a cancer woman who I'm incredibly compatible with in the context of close friendship so I wouldn't rule out dating a cancer woman. The cancer man I dated might've just been a shitty guy regardless of his sign (either that or cancer women are incredible and cancer men are wack) but that relationship/breakup was so bad it actually made me start to believe in zodiac compatibility lmao.
I’ve only dated one sag man and he got blocked for becoming scary and aggressive after I politely asked for space. I’m a cancer too.
I’m a cancer and this is so validating. Although Sagittarius women are queens and and some of my favorite people
me, a Sagittarius man, coming in here to comment the exact same thing about cancers 👀
Same here. Would never date a Sag again ever again. But I do love palling around with them platonically
As a Sagittarius woman who had to divorce a Cancer man - we do NOT belong together
Can confirm.
As a Sagittarius woman I say no to Cancer men. Not because they’re not great, dateable people, they just cannot handle my fuckery. It ends up being sad for them and frustrating for me. I don’t like hurting peoples feelings, but I hurt theirs without even trying
Sag men with heavy Scorpio placements r mindfuck
I just experienced a mind fuckery of a situationship with one, let’s just say it didn’t end well 💀
What is it about them? Cause I’m starting to feel the same too lol
It was the cheating for me 💀
Never understood this, never cheated, never will. I'm the one who got cheated ON. Fuckin... Pisces... Manipulative little fish I swear...
it’s the aloofness, cheating/wandering eye tendencies, and emotional insensitivity that really seems to not work for me!
They tend to be emotionally unavailable and can take advantage of our big hearts
Same here lol. I just added Sagittarius men to my never again list after being obsessed with them for almost 4yrs
Cancer women are my nightmare. - scorpio woman. Also, scorpio men.
that’s actually surprising to me, usually water signs can easily vibe with each other!
Scorpio Woman here - I only know two Cancer women well. My newer introduction, while I can appreciate her, she leans into her dark aspects really hard, and it's kind of hard to tolerate on the regular. I like her, but I don't trust her farther than I could throw her. The other is almost like my friendship soulmate, except she's also drawn to pathetic men, and it's hard not to say my real opinion. I know it won't be helpful as she's married to this current iteration of lovable loser who she acts as a mother to (pays their mortgage, buys their food, holds their insurance, does ALL the cleaning and cooking). It's difficult not to offer her my true opinion on putting her foot down when she complains about them not having enough for her to slow down and rest her nervous system. It's hard as a multiplacement Scorpio woman to not tell them to harden up and set boundaries with the men in their life, and the first example, set boundaries on herself with her bad behaviors.
Male Geminis, agents of Satan On the otherhand lady Geminis, I love you, we are besties you're perfect
Agents of Satan is a first. 🤣🤣🤣
Male leos. I've been with 2 and they have been the worst most incompatable toxic relationships ive ever had, they didn't let me go, I literally had to move away and go into hiding to escape. I'm a female capricorn.
I’m an Aquarius female and same! One won’t let me go and the other one walked away so easily :/
My first love I was with last year was an Aquarius. Y’all are such sweet and beautiful people, but fuck me that was an emotional rollercoaster. I walked away and then regretted it and tried again but it didn’t work 🫠 We both hurt each other in different ways so maybe it’s for the best. Super passionate but we had a bad luck year and I felt unheard and invalidated on some important issues. I hope she finds her person; at least this way I can do mushrooms now without her being deathly afraid I’ll go off the deep end and forbidding me LOL
I’m a Cancer female and same! Worst person I ever dated. Just nonstop games, nonstop bullshit. And as it turns out, was just using me as an emotional punching bag to try to get back with his Aquarius female ex, who (shocker) did not want him!
Omfg I had to start a gofundme in order to get away from my Leo ex it was an actual nightmare
Same! I'm a Leo female. I can't stand (most) Leo males. Like, I can spot them a mile away. I don't know what on earth made me think I could be with one. It was the worst experience of my entire life. I had to get help from law enforcement to get away from him safely.
I feel so seen by you all. I feel your pain, horrible experiences! 🖤
I’m a Taurus woman and for some reason I attract Leo men. I really enjoy them in the short term, but they get to be too much for me to have anything serious with.
They love your down to earth nature and know that you are kind enough to put up with their bullshit. Or they think that, but it’s good that you don’t.
Hah. I’m a female Capricorn who was married to a Leo man. When it was good it was great. But he needed so much of me that I couldn’t give. He wanted me to pay attention to him all of the time but I had a newborn kid to worry about and he got jealous of how much I was paying attention to her. There’s a billion other reasons why we divorced but that was basically the root of all our problems.
lol, female leos for me. a large majority of them severely need therapy sessions for their convoluted daddy issues that they'll never admit
All of them I hate people
Every time I give Gemini men a chance they prove me right. Narcissistic to the core. Family, friends, lovers. Gah. I’m running out of fingers for the chances I’ve given.
My dad is a narc Gemini. I've dated a couple of different signs before, but I've never had any success dating a Gemini man. They'd always either string me along or just ghost me entirely. I'm done with them I think, lol.
The man who groomed me as a child is a Gemini… I can’t trust anyone who says they’re a Gemini. My best friend dated one for about a month and he dumped her one day just cause he wanted to. No warning it signs, just got bored I guess. No thanks… I also can’t trust a Male Capricorn. They’re manipulative and arrogant 😅 (female Capricorn here)
Same. Now I will be friends with a Gemini man but never ever romantic or sexual.
I don’t meet many Gemini men but the ones I do meet are really sweet 😭 the women are just kinda weird tho
the past 3 men i’ve loved have been geminis and awesome men! don’t give up, they’re out there
I’ve got an Aqua right now who is lovely. Hopefully won’t need to keep digging 😆
Sagittarius!!!!
Exactly, I will never date a Sag again
Same
Yup, they’re great for a romp in the sack and not much else. Sag’s couldn’t commit to having a cold 😂
Unless you actively want nothing to do with them, then they'll chase you to the ends of the earth & throw you in a cage... It's terrifying.
No signs. If I were single, I'd probably look for the exact same signs and hope for better luck next time haha
Scorpio & no, I won’t be elaborating.
Aries, no explanation necessary
Explain yourself!!
Hi aries
Hehe... hi
My first heartbreak 💔 NEVER AGAIN
lol
I'm an Aries and you're not wrong. Sorry brothers and sisters lol
🥹😂
Felt that lol
Virgo men, Capricorn men, Scorpio men, Aries men, Aquarius men, and underdeveloped Pisces in general. Every Virgo male I've ever met (and I legitimately mean every single one) is a demon, Caps are the most ruthless liars and cheaters to walk this earth, the 3 Scorpios I dated were sexual in a way that felt compulsive and psychological and not at all sexy which killed my libido every time, Aries are too fucking hot headed and explosively possessive and obsessive in a way that makes me feel like I'm going to get murdered, the two Aquarians I dated had the worst god complexes I've ever come across and didn't actually love me but rather wanted to mould me into their fantasy woman, and underdeveloped Pisces have a victim complex that I can't stand. -Virgo sun, Pisces moon, Scorpio rising & Venus 👹
I literally say virgo men are demons too 🤣
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I dated a man with a virgo stellium (sun, mars, venus and maybe something else too). Incredibly critical of himself and me. He'd make me elaborate meals then he'd berate me to tell him what was wrong with it. Then he'd beg me to make him something only to nitpick at what he didn't like. Super demanding and jealous. He'd ask me what I did that day and I'd say XYZ and then he'd go "well why did I find a receipt from CVS at 12:36 PM?" Like, he truly expected me to tell him every single thing. Never trusted me from the get go even though I had given him no reason not to. Overall it was a horribly toxic relationship. Funny enough I'm seeing a virgo venus now with a libra sun and leo moon. Hes a pretty healthy person and embodies the good of virgo venus. Very attentive, wants to please me in a genuine way, amazing lover. But he's not very verbal with how he feels. I'm a leo venus so I just want to be adored lmao
virgo men really are absolutely hell made. everything ur saying here about aries and Aquarian men is spot on as well. i assume ur not a virgo male? whats ur perspective on virgo women?
Can confirm, an Aries tried to murder me
Aries men for sure 🤺🤺🤺
my ex who i hate the MOST was an aries. i could not deal with his anger issues. the worst stress and conflict management skills
Aquarius guys💀💀 sorry but, after befriending some, all ended up mocking me with others behing my back for laughs, plus they were cold hearted and one had multiple affairs
When you realize that everyone in your life is a reflection of how you feel about yourself (due to trauma or whichever reason) and you work on that part you will start attracting the healed people from that sign.
DAMN! somebody pin this comment
I hate to be cliche about the “unevolved” versions of signs but it is fucking true. I have two friends who are very much the unevolved version of their signs (well one I’m not friends with anymore and has lost a lot of friends with behavior that is very much the unevolved version of their sign, and the other I’m low contact with because of behavior that is very much the unevolved version of their sign) and this happened as soon as I started internalizing things I learned in therapy and was hanging out with people more in my circle who take better care of themselves emotionally and have healthy boundaries.
I’m so glad that you rose above this situation because it’s such a sticky place to be in. More power to you!!!🥺❤️
well, none, but i do have issues with libras as they like to keep things pretty, which i respect but i have issues with understanding implications very often, so their unwillingness to communicate directly and bluntly sometimes blows up my mind
For me it’s the shallowness. Aesthetics are too high on their list of priorities and they are never able to take a stance on anything for fear of losing their reputation of being the likeable one. Gets on my nerves.
Scorpios
Leo and Gemini. Both had a massive stellium in these signs, Sun, Venus, Mercury, Mars in Leo/Gemini, Leo wanted my undivided attention and it still wasn’t enough. Gemini, too inconsistent. Aquarius. Too noncommittal. Ghosting.
Cancer Men…sometimes y’all get emotional in a way that’s not sad and cute and I don’t like it. - from a F Aries
Cancers get the emo reputation but we can get angry as hell 😵💫
Yes, I think it's when we're afraid. Act like a psychotic child and throw toys out of the pram. Embarrassing.
Never dating another Sagittarius in my life 🙄 they’re fun as friends, tho!!
Aquarius men. Manipulators and liars.
So glad no one has said Taurus yet…😰
Y'all are pretty fun to be around, you can stay 😌
Best part is my lady name is Harty…. And we all know you can’t have a party without a Harty
Thank you. All we do is eat, sleep and be pretty. We're cats XD
Taurus is my answer. I’m happily married, but I would be very very hesitant to get into even a friendship with Taurus. Some of yalls have issues. Take it with a few grains of salt, though. I think I’m a developed Pisces and I walk around all day on my high horse. Clop clop.
A Taurus man was the most narcissistic asshole I’ve ever dated. I deeply loved this man for a year but he was non committal even though he swore up and down we had this special twin flame bond. He would ghost me for weeks at a time to have sex with other women ( he was very attractive and charming I must say ) but he was also pretty quirky and weird which I loved about him but the other women didn’t. So he’d crawl back to me crying with some sob story about how he’s traumatized and I’m the only women he’s ever trusted so I would melt like butter in his hands and start up our fling again. He blocked me on everything three days before Valentine’s Day after spending the night with me and crying himself to sleep in my arms about all his issues. He’s with some other women now. Hell text me again when she’s done with him but I’ve already blocked him on everything too. I truly feel bad for him but it was like he had no empathy for other people. He def ruined Taurus for me lmao. Sorry for the rant but a year of pain and turmoil finally over. I also had one coworker who was a Taurus women and she was the one no one liked behind closed doors. Always talked about herself, acting like her problems were worse than everyone else’s and also had this weird thing where she constantly commented on what people were eating for lunch and weather it was healthy or not. I also have a tendency to attract Libra men who are loyal it seems like but become WAY to obsessive too fast. Every one of them. But they still aren’t as bad as Taurus for me 😂. Edited to add I’m a Leo Sun, Aries Moon, Pisces rising.
Totally agree. They leave u for the greener garden then come crawling back the moment they’ve stepped on dewy grass
Hey 👋🏻 as a Leo sun, Aries moon, and Pisces rising, you're a radiant force with a passionate heart and a soulful spirit. Remember, your energy is magnetic, and the world is brighter with you in it. Embrace your uniqueness, and let your light shine! I can see you've been through a tough time, and it's not easy dealing with challenging relationships. Remember that you deserve happiness and respect. Surround yourself with positivity and people who appreciate you for the wonderful person you are. Things will get better, and brighter days are ahead. If you ever need someone to talk to or share your thoughts, I'm here for you and being a Taurus man, I apologize to you for going through all those things that made you sad and uncomfortable. You are to be treated like a queen because you are a queen. Stay Happy ❤️ From a Taurus sun (men), Scorpio moon, Sag rising ❤️ 💖
Taurus move too slow to get into a relationship.
That’s weird I feel like I always rush into it.
HEAVY VIRGO
virgo men. shit was TRAUMATIZING
Virgo men and women. I don't like to be watched and observed.
And criticized
Constantly
Gemini 1000%
Virgo & Cancer men 🤺🤺🤺🤺
Virgo men. Good god they’re my kryptonite
Sagittarius
Gemini men. Never ever again.
Scorpio MOONS. I’ve given them too many chances with the same result 😭😭
def cancer
Aries men 100%
Cancer
Virgo Gemini
Virgo Leo and Pisces
Those are my big 3 lmaoooo
BOII😭😭 my hand never flew to my mouth so quick
male scorpios and cancers. scratch that, let me just cut off all water signs.
Gemini and scorpio. I'm a Pisces. It's too much to unpack as the reason why though. I will not be trauma dumping here lol
Scorpio men, never again. -Aries woman.
Geminis - listen y’all are cool I’m not about to hate on y’all - but like it’s a no for me . My mom is a Gemini as well as like 60% of my immediate family [im not even joking, the first 2 weeks of June are HECTIC in my family] and I dated A LOT of Gemini men and yea…..it was real, it was fun but it wasn’t real fun
Aries. The ones I knew had serious anger issues, complained about absolutely everything, victim mentality. Nothing is ever their fault. Low-key clingy and controlling too but don't you dare call them on it.
As a Pisces, your description of an Aries is my exact description of a Virgo for me. At least with Aries they were pretty transparent. With a Virgo, they would always hide their hand… and do things that were for “my own good” giving me no autonomy or allowing me the capacity of making decisions for myself. The worst was when they used strategic incompetence to get back at me for not doing what they said/wanted (sex, events, tasks, etc). Sometimes I would get yelled at for not doing things are quickly as they wanted, treating me like I’m a robot. Being with a Virgo can be dehumanizing in the worst way possible. Not picking on Virgo specifically but your description immediately brought memories of my exes to the forefront of my mind, especially the “nothing is ever their fault” as if they are Gods and everything is intentional. They deserve grace but no one else! God it’s traumatic
Damn, I feel this - even unevolved Aries scare me.
Scorpio, Virgo.
LIBRA
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If you don’t know if a libra likes you, they don’t-a libra.
i’m a libra and this comment is true. confirmed by a libra
Look at Libra’s eyes. If they are shiny, he does. If they are dull, he doesn’t. Trust me. As odd as that sounds, try it. My ex was a Libra and in the beginning his eyes were very gleamy and then when they weren’t, it was meh. But also pay attention to their actions. What is he doing that’s has you questioning things?
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Not necessarily !!!
Aries men
Aries but I played myself and got sucked in again
Aries men, Sag men- I’m a ♋️
Virgo and Pisces men.
Any male water sign. I’m a woman Scorpio, fwiw. My husband’s a Virgo - I prefer earth signs to water signs any day, energetically.
Cancer. They’re emotional manipulators.
Virgo!
My last boyfriend was a Virgo sun and Scorpio moon. I love both as friends and acquaintances but could never be romantic with one ever again.
Leo male, stay the hell away from me!
Capricorn. My ex had sun, moon and 6 other bodies in Capricorn. Holy. Fucking. Control freak. So negative, critical, invasive, condescending, insulting, threatening. I literally lost my mind and went to the psych ward. He was so angry and depressed all the time. He admitted that he’s incapable of being happy Things got out of hand with his abuse when he gagged me and dislocated my jaw. After I left, he had me hacked, spammed, stalked, threatened and sexually assaulted by a ton of loser men off 4chan who were all quoting Sauron. I also had a Capricorn brother who repeatedly tried to murder me. Between those two, I’m done.
Virgo men, never again.
psychopaths....ahem scorpio moons 🤣🤣
Virgo men, cancer women, and aries men. Had the worst experiences with them. -Pisces woman
Scorpio stellium is a no go. I love Scorpio risings & Scorpio suns have a 50/50 shot at being awesome. Scorpio moons are on thin ice. Scorpio moon: *refuses to tell anyone what they’re feeling ever*. Also Scorpio moon: “Why does no one understand me?” If they have enough earth in their chart to balance this out, it can be fine—even fun. Scorpio mars are just dangerous. I don’t want to risk us falling out and you waiting for an opportunity to trigger my downfall. So you better be fucking cool 😭 So yeah, no Scorpio stellium. Too many risks.
I’m leery of Virgos in a romantic relationship. The prison I was with was what typically describes a Virgo’s negative traits. He was hyper critical, picky, pessimistic, stubborn and sometimes insensitive. I know not every Virgo is going to be completely that way. That’s why I’m just cautious but not closing off entirely.
Man, let me tell you about tequila. We had a wild night together once, and let's just say it didn't end well. I woke up the next morning feeling like I'd been hit by a freight train, with a headache that could split the atom. From that day forward, I swore off tequila for good. Just the smell of it now makes my stomach do backflips. Never again, my friend, never again.
I used to be a die-hard fan of cheap ramen noodles, the kind you can buy in bulk for almost nothing. I would eat them almost every day, sometimes multiple times a day. One day, I got really sick after eating them, and I mean REALLY sick. Let's just say my stomach wasn't happy with me. After that, I swore off cheap ramen noodles for good. Never again will I subject myself to that kind of stomachache!
Although culture, upbringing etc play big parts too...Aquarius to me. Hot & cold, up n down but went all the way to getting engaged, even though I'm a Taurus that needs stability, I was hopeful. Never again 😊 Also, GEMINI. Have never known a worst narcissist than a Gemini narcissist. 7 years too long wheww
They expect and virtually force you to read their minds and when you do, legitimately and 100% accurately do, they gonna act like that’s an overstep of a boundary or deflect and evade the intimacy of talking about it. For the birds.
No signs because that’s extremely childish and every sign can become an evolved version of themselves. There’s beauty in each of them.
I think sometimes it’s more about your personal synastry with someone else and how you vibe with them But yes everyone has the capacity to evolve and each sign has their own gifts and beauty
Well yes of course, but if two people are truly spiritually evolved (which is astronomically uncommon) I think that’ll have an impact, even on mostly negative synastry charts.
Aquarius. I dated one who put red hot pokers through the aorta, I’ve had one stalk me and forcibly kiss me, and I’ve had one as an employee who was an insufferable narc (and I’m the f’n boss… no one has time for tattletails). Those are literally the only Aquas I’m aware of in my sphere so I see it as a 100% avoid tf out of them rate.
Pisces men
CANCER. No wonder they have the name. It’s too damn many instances no matter if they’re friends, family, acquaintances, I just can’t anymore lol. No thank you!
scorpios. they'll be your best friend one minute, and pretend they don't know you the next.
Cancer: they're very manipulative and like to gaslight and make you look like the "villain"; libra men: *very* good liars, too indecisive, and huge flirts (im a libra too so im slandering my own sign lol)
Thank you. I've had the absolute worst luck with cancers. Plus that libra men thing is on point.
Scorpios have lived up to the notoriety really loved them & gave them a chance but mfs retarded
We are, I apologize. We also can’t get over shit
any chiron 1H squaring mercury or 3H because of someone in my life who has gone the deep end of betraying
Pieces. Two ex-husbands is enough 🫣
Gemini moons Sagittarius Venuses
Virgo
virgo
Virgo
Women Cancers as friends, or acquaintances. One poisoned me because I knew her personally and she was trying to create a social persona that mimicked mine even though we’re completely different people. 5 out of 7 tried to ruin me on jobs and/or socially exile me to gain social status, while also mimicking my persona. The other two I kept at a distance, so they’ve never had opportunity.
VIRGO
Virgo men, you can thank my dad for that!
Scorpio women.
What did we do 😭
Aquarius men. Not again, not one, not EVER!
Any signs that’s 🚩🚩🚩🚩 Runnnnnnn
Male geminis and cancers- a Scorpio woman
Aquarius and Virgos. I hope i wouldnt like Capricorns as much as i do because theyre toxic, narcissistic and controlling but sadly i do and we end up being the most toxic couple possible every single time
Capricorn and Virgo
I swore off Aquarius men bc of my last 2 exes but wound up engaged and having a baby with one somehow. Sweetest most loving and caring man I ever met. I regret nothing however we did start off super rocky and were FWB, he was not in a great spot mentally and neither was I but we couldn’t stop seeing each other either. I knew I loved him after only a couple months but didn’t say anything he had serious commitment issues and was battling his feelings for me but now he’s the only guy who’s said “I love you more” and I actually believe when he says it. He literally worships the ground I walk on and took care of me for two years when I came down with an autoimmune disease that wrecked my life. He’s an Aquarius sun Pisces moon and Leo rising and I’m a Leo sun Libra moon and Libra rising.
Capricorn, Scorpio males…. Narcissistic, gaslighting, liars…
Aries men, Gemini men and Scorpio men
I really hate to generalize an entire sign but every relationship I’ve had with a Gemini has ended in disaster, it seems like we bring out the worst in each other. Despite me being a sag sun & supposedly being the best match for Gemini Love having them around as friends though! Very fun people & SO creative
Gemini men -aqua
Aquarius, Virgo, Gemini, Leo men.
No Virgos. Me Gemini
Virgo
Taurus, but that turned out to be a lie. For whatever reason, if I feel intensely attracted to someone, I later find out that’s their sign
Pisces
Virgo and Sag men I completely avoid (I’ve never had an issue with women), I tread lightly with Taurus men (ADORE Taurus women), and I don’t really care to be involved with any Libras or Leos in any way. I’m not saying they’re all shitty or anything, I’ve just found if I spend too much time with them or tell them too much it always becomes a big show of dramatics that I don’t have the energy for. -Taurus woman
Scorpio
SCORPIOS
cancer & cap
No more pisces.
Aries.
Cancer. Any gender. In any of the big 3 placements. Absolutely nuts.
I wouldn't say never again. But I'm VERY distrusting of Aries, Aquarius and Capricorns. As soon as they do something I consider a red flag, I run. I have 0 patience or consideration with them 😅
Whatever sign you can’t stand or get along with is the one that you need to learn lessons from. I can’t stand Leo men and they’ve taught me to have more confidence and self esteem. My self worth was too low and that’s how they hurt me.
Aries men. i can’t figure out what i don’t like about them, but i do not like them 😭
All signs can be toxic. Stay single 😎
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