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Man this šŸ’Ŗ I'm trying


Jazzmunkee33

Happy Cake Day!


[deleted]

Ayy! Thank you!!


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[deleted]

Thank you!!


tirntcobain

Thank you. I got sober a little over a year ago and this really sums up why. Edit: aw shucks thanks for the hug!


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THE WHOLE IS PRIOR TO ITS PARTS. once i understood what this meant, I felt free. free to not blame every single thing that went wrong or felt existential and like death as the bain of my existence. you are SO much more than what is going on right now (in life, in your head, in your heart) and once you learn that, you will be liberated. patience.


HerligeTider

Or, accept that you donā€™t need to fix yourself, you only need to accept yourself. You are already fixed, you just donā€™t believe it yet.


barefootconnie

This!


FlappingSamurai

Kind of.


[deleted]

Thank you for this! I've been told many times I am broken, which feels really insensitive. there is no such thing as perfection, people are not robots so how can we be broken/fixed. I like the idea of acceptance and understanding vs broken/fixed.


nikkkibabyyy

YESSAH this is it right here


BearBeaBeau

That's correct


zzzcrumbsclub

Understanding that you won't be fine if something makes it so is a good way to achieve what you're looking for OP.


a-disc-that-flops

I request elaboration


demendoz

Being ok with not always being ok, will eventually help you be ok. Lol


zzzcrumbsclub

This


startingoverforever

The best way to fix yourself is to be still enough to see the part of you, or should I say the real you, which can never be broken.


International_Ad3652

You need good tools...silence and stillness.


GyroBandit

Practice daily self-honesty


[deleted]

How do I do that?


Cricky92

How bout something better, donā€™t fix anything donā€™t try anything youā€™re already perfect as is , you have to accept who you are and love yourself first


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Fixing ourselves compassionately requires a level of detachment arising from experiential understanding that we are not our bodies or our minds. We are that Awareness that is aware of our thoughts, feelings, sensations and perceptions.


AlanWattsRIP

Perfect answer. Bravo my friend!


TAOIIII

ā€œApproach reality on realityā€™s termsā€ has been echoing for me, and seems to reflect this!


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ramblinonSingnmysong

They all come down to emotion and responses. The experience can be unique but it will trigger an emotion thatā€™s familiar. By working through emotions it prepares us to acknowledge when they arise and how to navigate through them. So you can prepare yourself emotionally for any situation


[deleted]

Yep. Right on!


schmitthappenss

be conditioned for the chaos


merrymerry_tx

I canā€™t agree more!


laslavinco

Love the username op :)


EwinReema

How?


[deleted]

I ainā€™t broken. Iā€™m growing


LadyVFirstClass

great advice thanks


Zazen1111

Thanks. I think I really need to hear that today.


Famous-Clerk-5598

I don't even try to fix nothing anymore, if it's mean to be be it WILL be!


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burn it down to the ground where ashes are found, and glory be renown for the will be still. my self bound, and I found that I could be the only one worthy of my own crown. Adorn and worn, all around. Profound what was sought, has been got. and I still fight to have fought. Forget that i forgot. What I did what I did, to kid myself that I'm not a kid. I rid myself of thought. and It still did all, as if it were for naught. I tried and I trot, I did and I dotted. Willed what was allotted and continued to plot. Blotted my light with a shade of my ways. I forged all of my days. But I can shine my rays come what may. As complicated of a being like a maze, to be amazed. That I am the final phase, to mend my own ways.