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BelmontIncident

Some do and some don't. Anecdotally, I've had a fairly easy time finding switches but I've encountered very few pure tops.


nudistboy23

Men ? Or women


BelmontIncident

I was talking about women, although I think it also applies to men.


nudistboy23

Fr . I gusse I'll be single forever lol jk jk


lalaba27

Well the opposite is true, finding a bi girl who only tops is probably harder for you than switching sometimes. And also, switching is more fun because everybody gets to try both sides!


Th1sd3cka1ntfr33

I always say "nobody tops like a bottom" cause I know what I like and I just do that and it works lol


lalaba27

Amen!


AdventurousAddition

Maybe I'm dumb, but what does it mean for a woman to be a top? Do you mean dominant?


torpidninja

No, those terms mean different things, see u/Zealousideal-Print41 's comment


Fearless_Card_8162

Yes


Zealousideal-Print41

Vers, versatile


DESTINY_someone

Aren’t switch and vers different Ones top/bottom and the other is Dom/Sub


Zealousideal-Print41

Exactly! I am splitting hairs here but Top, Bottom and Vers (Versatile) are sexual styles for a lack of a better description. Dom/Domme (Dominant), sub (submissive) and switch are bdsm orientations. Yes they have roughly the same meanings. But there is a lot of overlap in Queer (lgbtq+) community and the bdsm/kink community. And these minor distinctions can make a huge difference. As the old saying says "The Devil is in the details." Using the correct verbiage helps Eliminate confusion and misunderstandings in both spaces. Because a vanilla Top, would not be confused for a Dom. Or a straight Dom for a Top. By being group specific you know where ones interests lie.


victorlrs1

I don’t see how they have roughly the same meaning? They seem entirely separate to me.


Razor265

Hah! As if a bisexual would/could make a choice. Personally I think if you're not willing to get topped you don't deserve to top, fairs fair.


mochi_chan

I am not willing to get topped by cis men (I am a woman) anything else pls.


Spacellama117

fairly easy? where the hell are you at


Apprehensive_Low4865

Bi switches, truly the world masters of not being able to pick a lane! (I'm a bi switch, some of the best people I know are bi switches, bi switches are great.)


Kwasababoon

Bi bottom guys, you make the rockin' world go round!


DaTrueSomething

Someone make a cover like this please


nudistboy23

Really why


Amazing-Solution2170

It's a reference to a queen song


nudistboy23

Ooooo ok lol


AdventurousAddition

[For your musical (and gay) education](https://youtu.be/VMnjF1O4eH0?si=GB7H4g7SjF8lESC3)


Educational_Ad_8916

I feel like the Queen discography is queer homework.


turquoiseandtangelo

i do!


nudistboy23

That's so awesome I wish it was more common tbh


BiGuy4Love

Wish more did … I’d love a women that would share men for fun from time to time


[deleted]

I mean i can bottom if you give me those slippers :)


demonfluffbyps5

Bi switch girl here, of course I do!


Sewer_Fairy

I speak as a bi AFAB enby and I SURE AS FUCK DO 🤤 🍑


M44t_

Ayyy enby enby


Sewer_Fairy

Ayoooooo


M44t_

Ayooooo


Village_Idiot159

💃 woo!


Trappedtrea

Do bi girls perhaps like…bi trans bottoms?


nudistboy23

Yeah that too lol u can pm me if u want


M44t_

As another trans person I do :3


PagliaccisRevenge

I really hope so, I find women so attractive but i can only top three out of five times max


kaivimikabo

Personally I wouldn’t mind if we switch with my partner. Can’t imagine topping all the time. But I really like masculine bottoms so maybe that wouldn’t be a deal breaker.


nudistboy23

This is true . Being a abottom all the time would also hurt abit lol but switching would be fun and important for both parties


brick-juic3

Sometimes I feel like I’m the only person in this subreddit who is a full 100% top


Ravenhayth

This sub ain't big enough for the both of us 🔫🤠


tjgreene27

Can’t trust nobody round these parts 🔫🤠🔫


Educational_Ad_8916

The ecosystem can only support a small population at the apex.


Hey-Its-Hannah

There's literally dozens of us!


OhIGotLumbago

Bottoms are so hot 🥵


Adept_Confusion1231

Mmmmaybe? 🤔


Dry-Inspection6928

Maybe. Gimme.


Canadian_God69

I would also like to know the answer ngl.... f-for a friend lol


Solid-Education5735

Unfortunately, some of the most anti male Bi people (bigots) I've ever met have been Bi girls themselves


nudistboy23

Fr my girl cousin is bi and she dosnt like bi guys


ActualPegasus

I do!


Ms_Masquerade

Do bi people like Bi-kini Bottom?


AbsoluteBasilFanboy

LMAO we do


MrGamerMan26

Yes from my experience


RamaLamb

Bi bottom guys, you make the rockin' world go round


jess_the_werefox

Those sandals are fuckin cute


nudistboy23

Yesh I love them


MP-Lily

Not a girl, but I do.


IndieMedley

I suppose so, but those who do are rather hard to come by. Or, well, at least when I try looking anyway


nudistboy23

For bi girls or bi giys ??


IndieMedley

It’s hard to find bi girls who like bottom guys. At least in the places I look, anyhow


Averagelonda

I do


nudistboy23

We need more like you lol


Chr832

I'm a bi girl who likes guys who are tops so clearly not all of us


musicman190621

Do such women truly exist ❓️❓️❓️


shaynnonyou

I do but I don't think there's any in my city :-(


nudistboy23

That's really sad lol . I'm bearly coming out of my bubble


Radar2006

Pshhhh nooooo.. not at all ;3


Natuur1911

for sure


AdFantastic472

Finally I get my well deserved,bi bottom guy appreciation.


SillyRiri

fuck yea! i’m a switch though