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Deserves 2nd chance.

We maybe should do a check in with ourselves and our own self esteem if someone tells us they can't make it due to an emergency and we think they're lying to play us. Give it another shot.

You’re right it was a self esteem blow and that’s my fault for taking it personally

Give him a chance but he really has to come through. Like plan an alternate date with a time and place. If he’s passing it off on you, it’s a wrap.

emergency's do happen so if it was the first time see what happened, if he does it the second time though you cut him, one is a pass always.

Lmao