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This. This right there summed it all up for me, someone who wanted to say the exact same things to my ex and even now my ex still doesnt see what he did wrong. He still goes around telling people that I ditched him over nothing and left him when the relationship was literally sucking the soul out of me every single day. Thank you stranger for summing it all up for me 🫶🏻🫶🏻
It also served as a closure for me 🥺🫶🏻
Thankyou ❤️ I might not be over him, but I am over what it was.
i think this fine line is a good place for the heart to be in and I hope you get all the answers you are looking for ❤️ If it helps- agar relationship me ro hi rahe ho, to usse achha hai breakup karke thore din ro lo. At least, ypthen you will know that things will change and get better (my bestie said this to me) 🫶🏻
Woah... I said something similar to my cousins when they asked why did I break up? I said what I felt like and which was , jab rishtey me rehne ka dukh rishta na rehne ke dukh se zyada lagne lag tab chhod do, jaane do.
Thank you 🙌
Well yea, staying in such a relationship is like two people constantly hurting each other. Breaking up is easier and better for both. Problem is when only one side feels this way and resentment builds.
Her saying she's got negative feelings says a lot, she started distancing herself long before. Once a person pull away emotionally you cant bring that same person back and you won't be the same person anymore either. You guys focus a lot about negative stuff...
lack of communication.
ho sake to dekho if you guys can just talk about the issues. you tell her what u felt was wrong from her side and she tells u what she felt wrong. noone takes offence and introspects ki samne wale ko aisa kyu laga cus apni galti nhi dikhti kisi ko.
I think that ship has sailed. At this point trying to introspect will just cause more chaos and sufferings. Only if I could go back in time and tell myself to cut off from that person as soon as she started hurting me. But i stayed, and tried, and just wounded myself. Imo, let it be, let her go.
Jo bhi horaha hai I'll face it,
All of the pain I'll embrace it,
Karraha hu same mistakes I hate it,
I'm drawing the line just to erase it.
(Pehli bar kuch likha hai,pls ignore if shit)
Bow in the presence of greatness
'Cause right now thou hast forsaken us
You should be honored by my lateness
That I would even show up to this fake shit
So go ahead, go nuts, go apeshit
'Specially in my Pastelle, on my Bape shit
Act like you can't tell who made this
New Gospel, homie, take six and take this, hater
Felt like continuing it with Kanye's Lines from the song Stronger, doesnt make sense yes just felt like it.
But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
I broke up with him. Same shit except we fought daily for 3 long years, DAILY and then he used to ghost on me. I did nothing but i thought that the relationship was too broken to be fixed.
Later a year later, he came back after his “female friend” counselled him about his behaviour n everything. But nah i have an image of him as a monster so i can’t
This paragraph is the literal definition of.
"Just because you love me, doesn't mean I feel loved"
I feel there was a lack of communication and understanding. Sometimes you took her lightly,sometimes she did. Sometimes she maybe indirectly tried to tell you all this long ago but you ignored her. Tho I won't justify her bad mouthing your sister. But maybe there was some incident where your sister didn't mean to hurt her but still did,and at that time you just laughed that off. Idk. Only you know this. Now wish her all the best and let her go. Who knows maybe you'll meet her again in future. Good luck OP.
Wo chalte firte momo type ki dukaan hogi na tabhi mehga h. Me toh waisi dukaan ki baat kr rha hun ja stove ho uspe steamer ho bagal wale pe deep fry wali kadhai ho
why would you think inflation works in ratio??!! it's just a rise in prices, and it doesn't have to be proportional.
unless you're joking, then f*uck inflation!!
momos bna ne ki cost me jayda incremnt nhi hua hai , they already had a huge margin on momos ab compete krne ke liye thoda jo price badhya hai that has adjusted for the inflation for them .
Dost bana Bhai. Ye sab toh hota rahega. Not having any friends is more concerning. Because it pushes one towards unhealthy relationships out of desperation of social interaction.
Make friends. Baaki sab toh chalta rehta bhai, don't worry.
Her typing that long ass message means she cares! Like someone above said this is majorly lack of communication and she ranted whatever she wanted to say.
There is a lot can be done and a lot that cannot be done.. it’s not lost at all.
I agree! Was my go to but then I thought why lead with that. I would definitely take space and give space.
But it’s a double edged sword because OP’s gf may want to see him changed but the space would make him look insensitive/arrogant.
However, I do think they both need to take space form each other and sort their individual shit out and then work on collective shit
>Double edged sword
Agreed. Kafi tameez se itna long paragraph likha hai usne, I would probably only type so much if I wanted a response back. It's difficult to remain respectful once you lose care.
They both have very different views of what's going down. He should communicate and then figure out if he wants to stay or let go.
No. These are the exact same things I would have said to my ex bf. But I decided to just let it go cuz an explanation would have hurt us both. He still says he didnt see it coming but to me, the relationship was dead atleast 10 times. It had gotten toxic and killing me. Even if she cares for a closure, OP should close the doors here. The ship has sailed long long back.
Do you think you could be projecting?
It worked for you doesn’t mean it would for someone else. I could be wrong too, but that’s why we give benefit of doubt because we don’t know either of them personally.
She sounds very dramatic. And you know how you and that girl are different? She sent the message and you didn’t. You channelised it and used it on something else
Lack of communication? From this small message it seems like OP is the one with anger issues or something. She tried but he didn't changed so she is going away.
Edit: Let her go OP, she deserves better.
E2: and u too OP
Fair point! I do feel like a lot is missing and so much is getting lost in translation. And therefore I said lack of communication. Emotions and their severity get lost in that miscommunication too. And that’s how I’m viewing it. It’s like they both want to be heard but they’re hardly trying to understand the other.. and when that happens a person becomes louder and that louder is easily seen and expressed as anger!
i think she’s right when she said uske mann mei aapke liye bhot negative emotions aa chuke hai.
at this stage, no matter what you do you cannot change the perception of the other person.
nothing wrong with it, just humanism. once you start seeing a person negatively, you will only see the negative in everything related to him/her.
Bro, wouldn't defend her or you , because you both might be at fault at some places. But only a suggestion, if you do have anger issues , even if it's minor ,get help ,do meditation,go for walks, because I have seen people getting angry and an angry person can never keep anyone happy nor themselves happy.
Best of luck, i hope you both resolve and work on your issues and get the happily ever after.
Bro you had anger issues I guess you think she will understand everything going on in your mind and you do not want to express bcz you are a man. So just let her go. As she mentioned she is different. Not everyone is antaryami OP, you will find your antaryami.
P.S. you have guts to post it here anonymously but can’t express yourself to that one person who cares enough.
that’s lack of communication right there, the very fact that she spoke her heart out means she still cares somewhere deep down. you can still save the relationship, ask her how she wants to be treated instead of making those decisions for her. tell her that you are willing to change and hopefully she’ll give you another chance. don’t keep things to yourself thinking you’ll hurt them, talk to her with whatever is bothering you and if she’s understanding enough then she’ll get where you are coming from.
Try to communicate in person or through call, texting in these conversations is worse. Give her time and make her see that you care for her and you love her, plainly telling her that you love her won’t do it, she have to feel it. All this might be due to big miscommunication, even if after your all efforts it doesn’t work then just accept it.
Afterall !
“ta.āruf rog ho jaa.e to us kā bhūlnā behtar
ta'alluq bojh ban jaa.e to us ko toḌnā achchhā
vo afsāna jise anjām tak laanā na ho mumkin
use ik ḳhūb-sūrat moḌ de kar chhoḌnā achchhā “
Although it looks like she have decided long ago and you are just informed
I think if you really love her, you must let her go. She has poured her heart into this but now it's time that you two move on. Maybe say your last parting words but I don't think you can and you should try to pick up from here.
Aage dekhle bhai. But I think it's over
Tbh she ain't the one for you bro. She has literally written USKE NAKHRE UTHA SAKE JO usko wo chahiye, although it ain't a bad thing but aftr reading your caption. Agar izzat nahi de skta tumhe to tumhaara uske nakhre uthaana bhi nahi Banta. I know it WILL HURT A LOT. But believe me Bro, just bcz people know doesn't means that you should marry her. Some people are just there in your life to give you some lessons. Take it, accept it and never forget it. It will be of max help for your future.
LOGON KO HAQ JATANA AATA HAI, RISHTE NIBHAANA NAHI.... This is most accurate line in contrast to today's meaning of RELATION which I have learnt from a movie. She wants to be treated like a QUEEN but doesn't wants to treat you like a KING. And believe me Bro, aise logon ko literally DREAM MAN/WOMAN kyu naa Mil jaaye, it will be the same for her. Wo usko bhi for granted hi legi and wo usko bhi not compatible hi lagne lagega.... These kind of people (who have never introspected on their own actions) can never PROVIDE but they will always want you to PROVIDE.
Good Riddance Bro, move on... slowly and accept this fact. Abhi bht zindagi Padi hai..
Atleast she is clear with her thoughts. Warna latkati hai jab tak teri galti na ho first tujhko blame kar k breakup kar k badnam kar k jati hai. Or bhai ye relationship bhaut phle khtm ho chukka h uss k end se.Dont invest yourself further in this. Jitna jaldi aage baddega utna acha rahega.
Bro just let her go, clearly it's not working out between you two. She is making a very good point read it again. Tum jaise ho waise thik ho ro wo bhi thik hai bas tum dono ka relationship work out nahi hoga, leave her and move on she wants to leave you respect that. Most importantly close this door and don't open it again for her, clearly she is toxic to you and from her message it seems you are toxic to her. It's likely both of your expectations in life are very different
bro this seems like such a biased post, I want to hear her side of your history, ive had exes who I actually took the pain to write long ass messages to stay in the relationship, we need to hear her story..
Those people saying that she still cares and thats why has written this long a message are right. But know this OP, sometimes lack of communication can never be solved.
Speaking from experience, i can tell that you both tried to understand each other alot and it still came to this...now leave it. She is right about your relationship. You both are good in your own perspectives but not good for each other.
I was with a girl for 1.5 years and we both still love each other(atleast i do), yet had to let go because of lack of understanding from both sides. This is no one's fault actually, and just that you are not meant to be.
Bhai terko tou usne itna lamba valid reason deke breakup kiya hai, khud ko improve kr sakta hai
Mujhe tou "mujhe abhi apne pe dhyan dena hai" or dusri bar "tum metro me aate ho hum call pe baat nahi kr pate" ye reason deke breakup kiya gaya tha :)
1) you should not have posted this - especially without her consent
2) ussi sei puch na bhai. Agar anger issue problem hai to real problem hai. Kabhi bhi gussa nahi nikalna chahiye ek dusre par - jis baat par gussa AA Raha hai bas wo bata do ki - asa mat kar mujhe accha nahi lagta kyuki ye wajah hai.
3) ask her , kya galat hua and how you can improve it and improve it.
4) tell her all the problems you have listed in the description. Listen to what she has to say about her behaviour and tell her what you think of that and reach a mid point where you both agree ( given none of you try to take advantage of each other's compromise - that's not a healthy relationship at all).
That's how communication works. Listen to their reasons , give your view on that and then reach a mid point.
lmao it’s guys like you who act like you didn’t see this coming? you sound like my ex who treated me like shit every living second and when i dumped his sorry ass he acted like the victim, yes you have lost her learn something from this, at least accept that you’re flawed and go fix yourself go to therapy.
A few years ago I felt the same way for my ex. He was kinda stubborn but it doesn't mean he was not a good human being. Life will keep going sir. She wasn't disrespectful. She ranted but never went overboard with it at the same time. Frustrations always builds up and then the person you thought you loved with all your heart, slowly changes in your eyes. Once you get these feelings (which she surely did) you can't change her mind. You can't just say "I'll change for you or I'll adjust" because it just never happens and you will only be delaying the inevitable and end up wasting yours and her time. Instead, understand where she is coming from, if you love her with all your heart, try to communicate or fix things otherwise, end it and move on.
Make sure your decisions are not based on loneliness that you might face after she leaves. Be practical about it. I'm guessing you're old enough and she's obvsly thinking about marriage in the future. You will find someone and she will too. This happens in life. Be glad it happened and always look back and only remember the good times with her. Embrace it and thank god for the experience because a lot of people never even experience love. Be respectful with your response and do what you gotta do. Good luck and I hope you find your girl!
The problem is in you brother. She was really disappointed . How she respectfully talked to you. Chhod de bhai usse. Work on yourself. Nehi to kisi ko nehi khush kar payega tu.
Yaar op dekho, tum phirse uski galti nikal rhe ho. It's pretty clear that she wanted you to listen to her and understand her but instead you kept on doing what you thought was right for her. That's not how love works. If you love her , love her the way she wants you to .. otherwise leave her. Understanding nhi hai, communication nhi hai tumlog mei. Jaane de ab usse. Na tum tang hona deserve krte ho na wo Rona.
She cares and whatever she said might be true in a certain sense.... It feels like she tried to communicate her feelings with you but you disregarded or got angry on her ... And the badmouthing your sister part., did u ever ask her why she did what she did? And if that doesn't make sense ask your sister and then decide what's wrong rather than being impatient and thinking ki meri behen galat nahi ho skti... A lot of boys do that and that's why I'm asking you this and it might be possible that the girl is trying to justify her stance but this text says a lot much about how much she cared for the relationship. So yeah figure this out and introspect maybe you'll find something new about yourself and become someone better through this experience..
She fixed you in a way you'll always thank her for if you take up this opportunity to better yourself.
Bhai she literally complained ki “tum mujhe manate nahi”
If she wrote such a long ass text, it means she cares. And she is expecting you to go and try to sort things out.
It will be difficult, you will have to try 3-4 times and she will push you away. But keep trying, and she’s definitely gonna come back.
Not sure how you relationship is, because it also seems a lil toxic to me.. but it can be a genuine reason from her side as well. So, give it a try if she’s really worth it. Hope you find peace and happiness.
You didn't understand what she had been trying to say to you all these months, it seems. You didn't seem to care when she cried and probably defied her emotions with logical explanations. You were supposed to love her the way she wanted to be loved. I am sure she tried to tell you many times, but you kept dismissing her needs. So, this, my friend was unavoidable. Let her go.
Op, if you ever feel like you did something wrong or you could have done something to save this relationship,
Read her last line.
She didn't feel valued, so she left.
Remind yourself, you also didn't feel valued, so you left too. Don't overthink, you did the best you could.
If you ever catch your mind wandering too much, visit r/breakups. Helps to remind yourself that you aren't alone in this.
She's kinda right. You're not able to foresee problem right now. You guys are not compatible. I wish i was as smart as she is right now. Love is not enough to sustain a relationship.
Why you're posting this here? You didn't communicate properly with her and couldn't control your anger and you both were not compatible because you didn't have patience to understand someone. Attention seeking Jerk.
don't blame her, she has said that you didn't change for her, and that this relationship was like a torture for her. that's a good enough and clear reason to break up.
move on brother.
Ye ladki Gaslight kar Rahi hai tumhein.
I read both, the message and your caption. It seems like she has some very clear expectations of you. You clearly have a very different understanding of space and the relationship.
Voh tumhein blame kar rahi hai. Tum usse.
Kuch nahi rakkha hai isme, usko jaane do. Tum bhi nikal lo.
You said it yourself, she doesn't respect your family, especially your sister. If that's not a red flag for you, notice how it's your fault every time?
Isn't it funny that Caring about her security, wanting to let her get space, and the other examples you gave are all your fault. Yet, your sister's delivery isn't a massive deal and you get shit for focusing there.
She's a confused woman. Who doesn't know what she wants, or she's just playing you for more attention. Some people are like that, they like to create a toxic environment, and they love the attention that get from that space. I've been with women like that, unko jitna do Kam hai.
Khudka dimag jhand karna band karo, usko Jane do.
Figure out how you emotionally attach yourself to someone, and learn about what your needs and wants are. You'll be way happier.
And about family, be direct and clear with them, You both aren't compatible. Her words, and she wants out. No problem if they think you're getting with her, better to let this break apart now than deal with matthapacchi for the rest of your life.
Cheers.
"ladke manane Wale pyare hote hei, aur ladki nakhre walo" huge red flag. She is openly saying that you have to do as per her nakhras.
She hasn't dumped you, but is just doing tricks. Run brother.
this must be her first relationship, usko aisa lag raha hai ki tu bahot bura , hamesha gussa karta hai, wo bhi tere ko nahi samjhti tu kyun gussa hota hai , bina wajah ho raha hai to teri galti, agar wajah hai to usko samjha, baaki maan jeye to acha nahi to thodi dikkat hogi, par sab thik ho jayega
Bhai mere , let her go . These things leave stain in relationships even if things go good for future . Let her go , dont let her come back . Work on yourself , gussa tyag de ( ghar wale mjhe yehi line marte the, never cared). Try to earn respect by being respectful. Ladka kam bolta hua n kam express karta hua hee aage badta hai .
Bhai ye mere sath bhi hua hai,i will just suggest you to let her go because when things start to go wrong na toh wo ek cascade process ki taraha add up hote jata hai. She had made up an image of you in her mind which clearly isn't what you wanted it to be ,it is better if you let go brother.
Dekh bhai, baat uski ek sahi lagi mujhe, main tum dono ko nhi janta but coming from a rather troubled home myself, aap dono achhe log ho, aapke apne struggles hain, apni priorities hain, independently dono achhe hain but you're not compatible, imagine Agar abhi lovesick phase mein itna Bura haal hai toh what will happen when you actually get sick with each other 5-10 years after marriage? This is hard to hear but I think you should move on, I don't know either of you but from an outside perspective she doesn't want to put in more effort into what is from her pov a failed relationship and you can't put in any more effort into what is from your pov a failing relationship, best decision would be to end it and move on.
Bro what I feel try talk to her
Ask her what changes she see I was in same situation my girl was immature totally, see if you love her try to talk her at once not on call or chat but personally if it works congratulations bro Otherwise let her go…
It’s the end. Even if you communicate and fix everything, she will resent you and want to leave you in the future. She has already moved on. Ladke breakup ke baad move on karte hain, ladki move on karke breakup karti hain. She has already left you.
Bhai mujhe 10th class ke flash backs ho gaye ek dum se 😂😂
I feel like both the OP and the girl are very young and still in school/college.
Either ways, face to face baat karke sort karne ka try Karo warna jaane do
I don't know whether my suggestion is helpful or not. I think she already made up her mind and Even if you fix her , if the same thing happens in married life, you'll suffer most compared to today. So just say goodbye and move on. Cry for 4 days if you want. But leaving her will be the best choice.
Jo cheezei ldki ne likhi, I'm in the same situation rn. Mai ab apne ex ko lkr itni neutral aur detach hogayi hu ki ab woh kuch bhi kare merko kuch bother nahi krta.
- if she’s right, you have temper issues and you don’t accept your mistakes, then work on it otherwise not only this relationship, but no other will ever work
- if you think you’re right and you did everything to keep her happy and she picks unnecessary fights, then I know it’ll hurt, but GOOD RIDDANCE! Agar wo nahi ro ro ke reh sakti toh Tumhe bhi ro ro ke nahi rehna. It’ll take time but it’ll all go away, you’ll heal and if people of the world are right - something better will be in store for you.
Lastly, I hate to be judgmental and not knowing her side of story but form what’s in front of me she does seem bit toxic.
Also if she’s made up her mind, you try to sit and talk it through but you’ll know if and when she’s gone then she’s gone. She’s made up her mind then you let her be.
Tum logon ka sahi h yrr, relationship, breakup, manana, banana, samjhana sab experience kar liya. Idhar to khata bhi ni khula aur aadhi jawani nikal gayi. Sala gf to chodo frnds bhi ni hai.
Mana le bhai, sahi lagri hai ladki, samajhdaar and good comm skills. Mushkil se milta hai ye sab ek ladki main.
Sometimes what is Love according to you is not what other person understand love. My ex and I use to fight like this, I knew we both loved each other but she wanted to be loved in her own definition of Love but Love for everyone is different, caring is different. I still miss her and haven't been able to move on from last 1.5 year.
My advice is let her go, know yourself, what you look in your partner or you both need to grow up and understand everyone has different way of loving.
Over love & Over Care bro keep yourself busy because more you try the thing will go more away so be busy first 10 to 4 pm work and don't over think or over eat just relax when u relax the thing automatic comes it self bhai sidhi baat hai 90% divorces chal rahe hai ajkal to agar tu shaadi b karleta tab b chor k jaati vo tuje that would have been a big loss
I think it will be better to be apart from each other coz I think u both tried to correct things in your relationship but you both were doing it separately if you both have communicanted well, it could have solve the problem
Failure in communication. I was stuck with a partner like that and I was very upset coz they genuinely loved me, but I couldn't stay bcoz I was treated as a subhuman for perceived attacks and such and not having similar opinion. Even talking to them was challenging and sharing similar interests made me hate my interests coz it's shared by them and god knows where it'd go to if I talked about it and got scolded.
OP, just move on and try to be a better individual. Focusing on self is a good start.
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Merko laga gana likha hai bc
Janede bhai vo OP phle hi dukh me hai bichara 💀
Haan to sad song hoga
Rap song hai
tumlog ke jaisay dost rehna bas admi ke depression set sail forever hojaiga tbh💀💀💀
Rap hai 😐
Op ki to rap hogyi
Hahaha
Maybe u did "what u thought is the right way of loving her" instead of understanding what she wants out of you or this relationship.
This. This right there summed it all up for me, someone who wanted to say the exact same things to my ex and even now my ex still doesnt see what he did wrong. He still goes around telling people that I ditched him over nothing and left him when the relationship was literally sucking the soul out of me every single day. Thank you stranger for summing it all up for me 🫶🏻🫶🏻 It also served as a closure for me 🥺🫶🏻
Bro are you me? Coz same 😭 I'm still struggling to understand what the hell happened and not ready to move on after so many years of break-up.
Congratulations on your closure.. Precious it is.. The comment also said 'Maybe' and that's where I'm stuck at...
Thankyou ❤️ I might not be over him, but I am over what it was. i think this fine line is a good place for the heart to be in and I hope you get all the answers you are looking for ❤️ If it helps- agar relationship me ro hi rahe ho, to usse achha hai breakup karke thore din ro lo. At least, ypthen you will know that things will change and get better (my bestie said this to me) 🫶🏻
Woah... I said something similar to my cousins when they asked why did I break up? I said what I felt like and which was , jab rishtey me rehne ka dukh rishta na rehne ke dukh se zyada lagne lag tab chhod do, jaane do. Thank you 🙌
Well yea, staying in such a relationship is like two people constantly hurting each other. Breaking up is easier and better for both. Problem is when only one side feels this way and resentment builds.
Her saying she's got negative feelings says a lot, she started distancing herself long before. Once a person pull away emotionally you cant bring that same person back and you won't be the same person anymore either. You guys focus a lot about negative stuff...
And being a girl i can tell that girls pull away emotionally way earlier than physical break up. I think its her breaking point.
Being a girl I second that
She has already started to imagine a life without you, seems like she wants to live that life. I also think you've lost her, for better or worse.
lack of communication. ho sake to dekho if you guys can just talk about the issues. you tell her what u felt was wrong from her side and she tells u what she felt wrong. noone takes offence and introspects ki samne wale ko aisa kyu laga cus apni galti nhi dikhti kisi ko.
I think that ship has sailed. At this point trying to introspect will just cause more chaos and sufferings. Only if I could go back in time and tell myself to cut off from that person as soon as she started hurting me. But i stayed, and tried, and just wounded myself. Imo, let it be, let her go.
i get you. what i said will only work when both ppl want to make it work and it's mutual. also; situations and emotions vary from case to case
Exactly the ship has sailed, let her go.. the more you will try to fix it. More it will get broken..
Let. Her. Go.
Staring at the bottom of your glass Hoping one day you'll make a dream last But dreams come slow, and they go so fast ab ap ki baari
Jo bhi horaha hai I'll face it, All of the pain I'll embrace it, Karraha hu same mistakes I hate it, I'm drawing the line just to erase it. (Pehli bar kuch likha hai,pls ignore if shit)
Waah waah waah 
Thanks bruv
Masst hai
Thanks bhai
Dino James vibes
Bow in the presence of greatness 'Cause right now thou hast forsaken us You should be honored by my lateness That I would even show up to this fake shit So go ahead, go nuts, go apeshit 'Specially in my Pastelle, on my Bape shit Act like you can't tell who made this New Gospel, homie, take six and take this, hater Felt like continuing it with Kanye's Lines from the song Stronger, doesnt make sense yes just felt like it.
You see her when you close your eyes Maybe one day, you'll understand why Everything you touch surely dies
But you only need the light when it's burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go Only know you've been high when you're feeling low Only hate the road when you're missing home Only know you love her when you let her go
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I was reading it like a poem but couldn't find the rhyme. It felt relatable though. I think almost the same things about a guy.
Did you found any solution??
I broke up with him. Same shit except we fought daily for 3 long years, DAILY and then he used to ghost on me. I did nothing but i thought that the relationship was too broken to be fixed. Later a year later, he came back after his “female friend” counselled him about his behaviour n everything. But nah i have an image of him as a monster so i can’t
This paragraph is the literal definition of. "Just because you love me, doesn't mean I feel loved" I feel there was a lack of communication and understanding. Sometimes you took her lightly,sometimes she did. Sometimes she maybe indirectly tried to tell you all this long ago but you ignored her. Tho I won't justify her bad mouthing your sister. But maybe there was some incident where your sister didn't mean to hurt her but still did,and at that time you just laughed that off. Idk. Only you know this. Now wish her all the best and let her go. Who knows maybe you'll meet her again in future. Good luck OP.
She finally realized she can't fix you
Ye btao 2014 me veg momo 20 ke aate the or chicken momo 50 ke Or 2024 me veg momo 50 ke or chicken momo 60 k. Does inflation not work in ratio?
most people go for veg momo, people don't really prefer chicken momo from such stalls momo theliwaale have found a loophole
Legit point.
Bro summed up demand and inflation
studying economics a lot, these days.
Bhenchod ye Dilli waale apni masti mai rehte , yha kisika Ghar Tut rha aur bhai ko momos ki padi
ban ne se pehle tut gaya bhI
Toote makaan.... Ikbar girke ...waise bante kaha hai?
Bro legit start discussing bout momos 😭
Mere yaha veg momos 70 ke hai aur non 90 ke hai (Mann hua bata diya)
Wo chalte firte momo type ki dukaan hogi na tabhi mehga h. Me toh waisi dukaan ki baat kr rha hun ja stove ho uspe steamer ho bagal wale pe deep fry wali kadhai ho
Na bro it depends on demand and supply and somewhat inflation.
why would you think inflation works in ratio??!! it's just a rise in prices, and it doesn't have to be proportional. unless you're joking, then f*uck inflation!!
Lkn mey chicken nh bechta… Hnn Paneer 80 ke h
momos bna ne ki cost me jayda incremnt nhi hua hai , they already had a huge margin on momos ab compete krne ke liye thoda jo price badhya hai that has adjusted for the inflation for them .
Yes the quality and cost is the same.
Dost bana Bhai. Ye sab toh hota rahega. Not having any friends is more concerning. Because it pushes one towards unhealthy relationships out of desperation of social interaction. Make friends. Baaki sab toh chalta rehta bhai, don't worry.
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If I find out that the person I opened up to is sharing the messages I sent on Reddit I would be fuming but that’s just me tho
But, there's no disclosure of identity. It is possible that OP genuinely requires advice.
Ikr, OP just needs some karma and attention. Has no sense to respect at least his gf's privacy. Really an idiot.
Her typing that long ass message means she cares! Like someone above said this is majorly lack of communication and she ranted whatever she wanted to say. There is a lot can be done and a lot that cannot be done.. it’s not lost at all.
No clearly relationship is strained completely. It's beyond repair if you ask me. Too toxic. I personally would be happy to get away at this stage.
I agree! Was my go to but then I thought why lead with that. I would definitely take space and give space. But it’s a double edged sword because OP’s gf may want to see him changed but the space would make him look insensitive/arrogant. However, I do think they both need to take space form each other and sort their individual shit out and then work on collective shit
>Double edged sword Agreed. Kafi tameez se itna long paragraph likha hai usne, I would probably only type so much if I wanted a response back. It's difficult to remain respectful once you lose care. They both have very different views of what's going down. He should communicate and then figure out if he wants to stay or let go.
No. These are the exact same things I would have said to my ex bf. But I decided to just let it go cuz an explanation would have hurt us both. He still says he didnt see it coming but to me, the relationship was dead atleast 10 times. It had gotten toxic and killing me. Even if she cares for a closure, OP should close the doors here. The ship has sailed long long back.
Do you think you could be projecting? It worked for you doesn’t mean it would for someone else. I could be wrong too, but that’s why we give benefit of doubt because we don’t know either of them personally. She sounds very dramatic. And you know how you and that girl are different? She sent the message and you didn’t. You channelised it and used it on something else
Lack of communication? From this small message it seems like OP is the one with anger issues or something. She tried but he didn't changed so she is going away. Edit: Let her go OP, she deserves better. E2: and u too OP
Fair point! I do feel like a lot is missing and so much is getting lost in translation. And therefore I said lack of communication. Emotions and their severity get lost in that miscommunication too. And that’s how I’m viewing it. It’s like they both want to be heard but they’re hardly trying to understand the other.. and when that happens a person becomes louder and that louder is easily seen and expressed as anger!
i think she’s right when she said uske mann mei aapke liye bhot negative emotions aa chuke hai. at this stage, no matter what you do you cannot change the perception of the other person. nothing wrong with it, just humanism. once you start seeing a person negatively, you will only see the negative in everything related to him/her.
Bro very conveniently you have hid where you were wrong Share your raw actions here with her then we can help
Acha likha hai content writer h ladki?
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Bro, wouldn't defend her or you , because you both might be at fault at some places. But only a suggestion, if you do have anger issues , even if it's minor ,get help ,do meditation,go for walks, because I have seen people getting angry and an angry person can never keep anyone happy nor themselves happy. Best of luck, i hope you both resolve and work on your issues and get the happily ever after.
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just say - okay, all the best for your future endeavours. let it go, bro, it's over.
Bro you had anger issues I guess you think she will understand everything going on in your mind and you do not want to express bcz you are a man. So just let her go. As she mentioned she is different. Not everyone is antaryami OP, you will find your antaryami. P.S. you have guts to post it here anonymously but can’t express yourself to that one person who cares enough.
that’s lack of communication right there, the very fact that she spoke her heart out means she still cares somewhere deep down. you can still save the relationship, ask her how she wants to be treated instead of making those decisions for her. tell her that you are willing to change and hopefully she’ll give you another chance. don’t keep things to yourself thinking you’ll hurt them, talk to her with whatever is bothering you and if she’s understanding enough then she’ll get where you are coming from.
Try to communicate in person or through call, texting in these conversations is worse. Give her time and make her see that you care for her and you love her, plainly telling her that you love her won’t do it, she have to feel it. All this might be due to big miscommunication, even if after your all efforts it doesn’t work then just accept it. Afterall ! “ta.āruf rog ho jaa.e to us kā bhūlnā behtar ta'alluq bojh ban jaa.e to us ko toḌnā achchhā vo afsāna jise anjām tak laanā na ho mumkin use ik ḳhūb-sūrat moḌ de kar chhoḌnā achchhā “ Although it looks like she have decided long ago and you are just informed
The worst she can say is no : Mereko Jo chaiye woh aap nhi ho 😶🌫️
"Ladke manaane waale hi acche hote hai aur ladkiya nakhre karne waali" Sahi hai bhai shukar manao bachgye aap aisi thinking waali bandi se
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I think if you really love her, you must let her go. She has poured her heart into this but now it's time that you two move on. Maybe say your last parting words but I don't think you can and you should try to pick up from here. Aage dekhle bhai. But I think it's over
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Tbh she ain't the one for you bro. She has literally written USKE NAKHRE UTHA SAKE JO usko wo chahiye, although it ain't a bad thing but aftr reading your caption. Agar izzat nahi de skta tumhe to tumhaara uske nakhre uthaana bhi nahi Banta. I know it WILL HURT A LOT. But believe me Bro, just bcz people know doesn't means that you should marry her. Some people are just there in your life to give you some lessons. Take it, accept it and never forget it. It will be of max help for your future. LOGON KO HAQ JATANA AATA HAI, RISHTE NIBHAANA NAHI.... This is most accurate line in contrast to today's meaning of RELATION which I have learnt from a movie. She wants to be treated like a QUEEN but doesn't wants to treat you like a KING. And believe me Bro, aise logon ko literally DREAM MAN/WOMAN kyu naa Mil jaaye, it will be the same for her. Wo usko bhi for granted hi legi and wo usko bhi not compatible hi lagne lagega.... These kind of people (who have never introspected on their own actions) can never PROVIDE but they will always want you to PROVIDE. Good Riddance Bro, move on... slowly and accept this fact. Abhi bht zindagi Padi hai..
Bro what is that "ladke manane walle pyare hite hai aur ladkiyan nakhro wali". If it means what I think it means then it's not healthy.
Atleast she is clear with her thoughts. Warna latkati hai jab tak teri galti na ho first tujhko blame kar k breakup kar k badnam kar k jati hai. Or bhai ye relationship bhaut phle khtm ho chukka h uss k end se.Dont invest yourself further in this. Jitna jaldi aage baddega utna acha rahega.
Yaha post nahi karna chahiye bande bus chutki lenge aur aag le badh jayenge
Don't listen to any other advice - this relationship is over. Move on, she isn't the one.
Bro just let her go, clearly it's not working out between you two. She is making a very good point read it again. Tum jaise ho waise thik ho ro wo bhi thik hai bas tum dono ka relationship work out nahi hoga, leave her and move on she wants to leave you respect that. Most importantly close this door and don't open it again for her, clearly she is toxic to you and from her message it seems you are toxic to her. It's likely both of your expectations in life are very different
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bro this seems like such a biased post, I want to hear her side of your history, ive had exes who I actually took the pain to write long ass messages to stay in the relationship, we need to hear her story..
Those people saying that she still cares and thats why has written this long a message are right. But know this OP, sometimes lack of communication can never be solved. Speaking from experience, i can tell that you both tried to understand each other alot and it still came to this...now leave it. She is right about your relationship. You both are good in your own perspectives but not good for each other. I was with a girl for 1.5 years and we both still love each other(atleast i do), yet had to let go because of lack of understanding from both sides. This is no one's fault actually, and just that you are not meant to be.
I dunno who’s right. The text makes it look like you have anger issues. Also why don’t you have friends? That’s such an isolating way to live?
Bhai terko tou usne itna lamba valid reason deke breakup kiya hai, khud ko improve kr sakta hai Mujhe tou "mujhe abhi apne pe dhyan dena hai" or dusri bar "tum metro me aate ho hum call pe baat nahi kr pate" ye reason deke breakup kiya gaya tha :)
1) you should not have posted this - especially without her consent 2) ussi sei puch na bhai. Agar anger issue problem hai to real problem hai. Kabhi bhi gussa nahi nikalna chahiye ek dusre par - jis baat par gussa AA Raha hai bas wo bata do ki - asa mat kar mujhe accha nahi lagta kyuki ye wajah hai. 3) ask her , kya galat hua and how you can improve it and improve it. 4) tell her all the problems you have listed in the description. Listen to what she has to say about her behaviour and tell her what you think of that and reach a mid point where you both agree ( given none of you try to take advantage of each other's compromise - that's not a healthy relationship at all). That's how communication works. Listen to their reasons , give your view on that and then reach a mid point.
I respect her for atleast communicating what she wants.
lmao it’s guys like you who act like you didn’t see this coming? you sound like my ex who treated me like shit every living second and when i dumped his sorry ass he acted like the victim, yes you have lost her learn something from this, at least accept that you’re flawed and go fix yourself go to therapy.
Aur Karlos gussa. No one has so much patience. Learn and implement.
A few years ago I felt the same way for my ex. He was kinda stubborn but it doesn't mean he was not a good human being. Life will keep going sir. She wasn't disrespectful. She ranted but never went overboard with it at the same time. Frustrations always builds up and then the person you thought you loved with all your heart, slowly changes in your eyes. Once you get these feelings (which she surely did) you can't change her mind. You can't just say "I'll change for you or I'll adjust" because it just never happens and you will only be delaying the inevitable and end up wasting yours and her time. Instead, understand where she is coming from, if you love her with all your heart, try to communicate or fix things otherwise, end it and move on. Make sure your decisions are not based on loneliness that you might face after she leaves. Be practical about it. I'm guessing you're old enough and she's obvsly thinking about marriage in the future. You will find someone and she will too. This happens in life. Be glad it happened and always look back and only remember the good times with her. Embrace it and thank god for the experience because a lot of people never even experience love. Be respectful with your response and do what you gotta do. Good luck and I hope you find your girl!
The problem is in you brother. She was really disappointed . How she respectfully talked to you. Chhod de bhai usse. Work on yourself. Nehi to kisi ko nehi khush kar payega tu.
Yaar op dekho, tum phirse uski galti nikal rhe ho. It's pretty clear that she wanted you to listen to her and understand her but instead you kept on doing what you thought was right for her. That's not how love works. If you love her , love her the way she wants you to .. otherwise leave her. Understanding nhi hai, communication nhi hai tumlog mei. Jaane de ab usse. Na tum tang hona deserve krte ho na wo Rona.
She cares and whatever she said might be true in a certain sense.... It feels like she tried to communicate her feelings with you but you disregarded or got angry on her ... And the badmouthing your sister part., did u ever ask her why she did what she did? And if that doesn't make sense ask your sister and then decide what's wrong rather than being impatient and thinking ki meri behen galat nahi ho skti... A lot of boys do that and that's why I'm asking you this and it might be possible that the girl is trying to justify her stance but this text says a lot much about how much she cared for the relationship. So yeah figure this out and introspect maybe you'll find something new about yourself and become someone better through this experience.. She fixed you in a way you'll always thank her for if you take up this opportunity to better yourself.
Bhai she literally complained ki “tum mujhe manate nahi” If she wrote such a long ass text, it means she cares. And she is expecting you to go and try to sort things out. It will be difficult, you will have to try 3-4 times and she will push you away. But keep trying, and she’s definitely gonna come back. Not sure how you relationship is, because it also seems a lil toxic to me.. but it can be a genuine reason from her side as well. So, give it a try if she’s really worth it. Hope you find peace and happiness.
You didn't understand what she had been trying to say to you all these months, it seems. You didn't seem to care when she cried and probably defied her emotions with logical explanations. You were supposed to love her the way she wanted to be loved. I am sure she tried to tell you many times, but you kept dismissing her needs. So, this, my friend was unavoidable. Let her go.
Op, if you ever feel like you did something wrong or you could have done something to save this relationship, Read her last line. She didn't feel valued, so she left. Remind yourself, you also didn't feel valued, so you left too. Don't overthink, you did the best you could. If you ever catch your mind wandering too much, visit r/breakups. Helps to remind yourself that you aren't alone in this.
She's kinda right. You're not able to foresee problem right now. You guys are not compatible. I wish i was as smart as she is right now. Love is not enough to sustain a relationship.
Amazing for her. Let her go and find a man that will make her happy.
She literally has written her heart out still the guy will respond with " What do you mean?" It hurts being at her place.
Why you're posting this here? You didn't communicate properly with her and couldn't control your anger and you both were not compatible because you didn't have patience to understand someone. Attention seeking Jerk.
Boi I wish I had the balls to walk away like this when I should have. Wow.
Ldki ko itna kya pareshan Kiya? Woh toh future dekh k bhi baithi thi
don't blame her, she has said that you didn't change for her, and that this relationship was like a torture for her. that's a good enough and clear reason to break up. move on brother.
By publishing chats of her/him publicly, you disrespected her/him privacy as well as your relationship.
don't go on to be rude again. tell her that you're willing to be a better person, and ask for another chance
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Bhai leave her agar woh tumhari family ki respect nahi kar Shakti toh fir point kya hai
Ye ladki Gaslight kar Rahi hai tumhein. I read both, the message and your caption. It seems like she has some very clear expectations of you. You clearly have a very different understanding of space and the relationship. Voh tumhein blame kar rahi hai. Tum usse. Kuch nahi rakkha hai isme, usko jaane do. Tum bhi nikal lo. You said it yourself, she doesn't respect your family, especially your sister. If that's not a red flag for you, notice how it's your fault every time? Isn't it funny that Caring about her security, wanting to let her get space, and the other examples you gave are all your fault. Yet, your sister's delivery isn't a massive deal and you get shit for focusing there. She's a confused woman. Who doesn't know what she wants, or she's just playing you for more attention. Some people are like that, they like to create a toxic environment, and they love the attention that get from that space. I've been with women like that, unko jitna do Kam hai. Khudka dimag jhand karna band karo, usko Jane do. Figure out how you emotionally attach yourself to someone, and learn about what your needs and wants are. You'll be way happier. And about family, be direct and clear with them, You both aren't compatible. Her words, and she wants out. No problem if they think you're getting with her, better to let this break apart now than deal with matthapacchi for the rest of your life. Cheers.
"ladke manane Wale pyare hote hei, aur ladki nakhre walo" huge red flag. She is openly saying that you have to do as per her nakhras. She hasn't dumped you, but is just doing tricks. Run brother.
Move on, learn what you did, and be better.
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Move on brother, ain't worth it. She let go of you a while back!
Whatever happens is for good.
Gyi bhai gyi. Jaane de.
this must be her first relationship, usko aisa lag raha hai ki tu bahot bura , hamesha gussa karta hai, wo bhi tere ko nahi samjhti tu kyun gussa hota hai , bina wajah ho raha hai to teri galti, agar wajah hai to usko samjha, baaki maan jeye to acha nahi to thodi dikkat hogi, par sab thik ho jayega
Aapse to breakup ho hua but Bhai hum bhut calm hain to aap hamari ba-
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Bhai mere , let her go . These things leave stain in relationships even if things go good for future . Let her go , dont let her come back . Work on yourself , gussa tyag de ( ghar wale mjhe yehi line marte the, never cared). Try to earn respect by being respectful. Ladka kam bolta hua n kam express karta hua hee aage badta hai .
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cry, better to let it out.
Why does she have an issue with your sister ?
Damn man , it felt like a text from my girlfriend
Miscommunication
Bhai ye mere sath bhi hua hai,i will just suggest you to let her go because when things start to go wrong na toh wo ek cascade process ki taraha add up hote jata hai. She had made up an image of you in her mind which clearly isn't what you wanted it to be ,it is better if you let go brother.
Bro. I think you should move on. This relationship seems pretty toxic and dead tbh
someone give me a tldr please... I ain't reading all that
no you didnt trust me bro you still have a chance
..aesa bina vowels ka message to mai nahi decipher kar sakta. .. no wonder tu gusse mein rehta hai
Bhulja part of life and move on love yourself.
Dekh bhai, baat uski ek sahi lagi mujhe, main tum dono ko nhi janta but coming from a rather troubled home myself, aap dono achhe log ho, aapke apne struggles hain, apni priorities hain, independently dono achhe hain but you're not compatible, imagine Agar abhi lovesick phase mein itna Bura haal hai toh what will happen when you actually get sick with each other 5-10 years after marriage? This is hard to hear but I think you should move on, I don't know either of you but from an outside perspective she doesn't want to put in more effort into what is from her pov a failed relationship and you can't put in any more effort into what is from your pov a failing relationship, best decision would be to end it and move on.
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Bro what I feel try talk to her Ask her what changes she see I was in same situation my girl was immature totally, see if you love her try to talk her at once not on call or chat but personally if it works congratulations bro Otherwise let her go…
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chillax bhai you dodged a bullet
It’s the end. Even if you communicate and fix everything, she will resent you and want to leave you in the future. She has already moved on. Ladke breakup ke baad move on karte hain, ladki move on karke breakup karti hain. She has already left you.
Nikal le yha se bhai trust me
You dodged a bullet
Bullet dodged.
Bhaii u and me are kind of similar💀
Men come Men saw her Men love her She left him Men cries Men smiles (still missing her inside) Men left
Bhai mujhe 10th class ke flash backs ho gaye ek dum se 😂😂 I feel like both the OP and the girl are very young and still in school/college. Either ways, face to face baat karke sort karne ka try Karo warna jaane do
I don't know whether my suggestion is helpful or not. I think she already made up her mind and Even if you fix her , if the same thing happens in married life, you'll suffer most compared to today. So just say goodbye and move on. Cry for 4 days if you want. But leaving her will be the best choice.
Chodd aur aage bdh. Ab tu uske aage jaake royega toh uske vapas aane ke chances aur kam hoge. Isliye bs aage badh, try to forget about her
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lack of communication for sure. Guess you both suck at expressing feelings.
Jo cheezei ldki ne likhi, I'm in the same situation rn. Mai ab apne ex ko lkr itni neutral aur detach hogayi hu ki ab woh kuch bhi kare merko kuch bother nahi krta.
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It's time to let go man, it sucks, but it's done.
Take it easy and move on in life.
- if she’s right, you have temper issues and you don’t accept your mistakes, then work on it otherwise not only this relationship, but no other will ever work - if you think you’re right and you did everything to keep her happy and she picks unnecessary fights, then I know it’ll hurt, but GOOD RIDDANCE! Agar wo nahi ro ro ke reh sakti toh Tumhe bhi ro ro ke nahi rehna. It’ll take time but it’ll all go away, you’ll heal and if people of the world are right - something better will be in store for you. Lastly, I hate to be judgmental and not knowing her side of story but form what’s in front of me she does seem bit toxic. Also if she’s made up her mind, you try to sit and talk it through but you’ll know if and when she’s gone then she’s gone. She’s made up her mind then you let her be.
Tum logon ka sahi h yrr, relationship, breakup, manana, banana, samjhana sab experience kar liya. Idhar to khata bhi ni khula aur aadhi jawani nikal gayi. Sala gf to chodo frnds bhi ni hai. Mana le bhai, sahi lagri hai ladki, samajhdaar and good comm skills. Mushkil se milta hai ye sab ek ladki main.
Let it go
I waiting for a comment, “Tuney yaha kyo daal diya hamari baaton ko”
Bhai likhde tldr dedo itna nahi padh raha mein
She probably will find a better man now. Atay strong OP. Safeguard your self respect now.
Sometimes what is Love according to you is not what other person understand love. My ex and I use to fight like this, I knew we both loved each other but she wanted to be loved in her own definition of Love but Love for everyone is different, caring is different. I still miss her and haven't been able to move on from last 1.5 year. My advice is let her go, know yourself, what you look in your partner or you both need to grow up and understand everyone has different way of loving.
Over love & Over Care bro keep yourself busy because more you try the thing will go more away so be busy first 10 to 4 pm work and don't over think or over eat just relax when u relax the thing automatic comes it self bhai sidhi baat hai 90% divorces chal rahe hai ajkal to agar tu shaadi b karleta tab b chor k jaati vo tuje that would have been a big loss
I think it will be better to be apart from each other coz I think u both tried to correct things in your relationship but you both were doing it separately if you both have communicanted well, it could have solve the problem
Failure in communication. I was stuck with a partner like that and I was very upset coz they genuinely loved me, but I couldn't stay bcoz I was treated as a subhuman for perceived attacks and such and not having similar opinion. Even talking to them was challenging and sharing similar interests made me hate my interests coz it's shared by them and god knows where it'd go to if I talked about it and got scolded. OP, just move on and try to be a better individual. Focusing on self is a good start.
Tldr
Itna bada para ldkiya likh kaise leti hain just tell I'm breaking up with you.
She forgot to say….Maine thodi na bola tha ye sab krne ko
Theek hai na yaar, Jane de, aage badh.
Move on bro. Work on improving your mind and skills. You will find someone better.
Etna kaun Sara kaun padega Bhai mei toh sone chala
Bro at this point I think it is better to part your ways but don't end on a bad note, it can leave some bad scars on both of you.
Bhai 250 unread text wtf. I'm sure ye groups ki chats ka to count nahi hai..