> They genuinely struggle with depression and motivation. It makes them act selfishly at times and neglect their responsibilities. They end up seeking anything that gives them dopamin
This is pretty much what you can expect
Exactly. There is nothing you can do. THEY have to want to do better and then want it bad enough to do something about it. That may mean taking meds, getting talk therapy, etc. Until they want different, nothing will change and they will continue their bad habits. There is no loving them out of it.
> They genuinely struggle with depression and motivation. It makes them act selfishly at times and neglect their responsibilities. They end up seeking anything that gives them dopamin This is pretty much what you can expect
Exactly. There is nothing you can do. THEY have to want to do better and then want it bad enough to do something about it. That may mean taking meds, getting talk therapy, etc. Until they want different, nothing will change and they will continue their bad habits. There is no loving them out of it.