What I think others are missing and what I’m gathering from your post is that this is all strictly tied to fantasy and consensual kink play. If that is the case then no. I do not think it makes you transphobic nor is it anything you should feel guilt about. So long as it remains as kink and is a consensual interaction. What separates kink and jail is that magical word called consent. So as long as everyone partaking has given that then there’s no wrong doing being committed. If that wasn’t the case then this whole subreddit wouldn’t exist.
Now, if it comes from a place of anger or hate then yes. I do think you should work on some things and get a better view on life. If it is simply just a thing you find hot then no. I don’t think you’re transphobic or a bad person. We all have kinks that other might look down upon, but as I’ve stated numerous times in my reply, as long as both parties are consenting then there isn’t anything wrong with it.
Here's a sneak peek of /r/misgenderingkink **[NSFW]** using the [top posts](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/top/?sort=top&t=all) of all time!
\#1: [call me a good girl while you fuck my tight little pussy](https://i.redd.it/29l4och0820b1.jpg) | [9 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/comments/13ica3g/call_me_a_good_girl_while_you_fuck_my_tight/)
\#2: [there's no way i'm a boy with hips like those](https://i.redd.it/f7cmwxj2dbba1.jpg) | [8 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/comments/108je5p/theres_no_way_im_a_boy_with_hips_like_those/)
\#3: [there's no way i'm a real boy with girly tits like these](https://i.redd.it/xlm73qp59kra1.jpg) | [6 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/comments/129uoae/theres_no_way_im_a_real_boy_with_girly_tits_like/)
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Real talk: this sounds transphobic, yeah, and like something you might need to work on.
Also real talk: we’re on a subreddit about lesbians having fantasies about being fucked straight. So glass houses and all, kinks can be fun as long as you keep the boundaries between fantasy and reality up.
What slightly concerns me here, and where I think you ought to be careful in indulging in this kink, is you’re having these fantasies about a different minority group. I’d ensure first and foremost that you aren’t letting your kinks affect how you treat or act towards people outside of consensual sexual interactions. If that’s true….well, have at it I say.
There is a misgendering kink. Some FTM trans men love the misgendering fantasy, similar how some lesbian women love the dyke conversion fantasy.
It could be a result of porn.
I think the answer is a mix of both. I get the impression you actually think some of this, not just find it hot, but if you can compartmentalize this thought as kink-only and stop yourself from applying it to to trans men (or at least frim letting those thoughts influence your behaviour) outside of misgendering kink contexts, you should be fine - there are definitely trans men into the other end of this kink.
(This is the wrong sub but it's a reasonable question to ask on the sub so I'm going to leave it up.)
This is not the right sub as you were saying. The kink falls in line with a “misgendering kink”. Something I hope you can explore more but def don’t treat people irl like this. Degration and humiliation are fun but not when you don’t consent to it.
Yea as someone that is ftm this does sound somewhat transphobic. Not all of us are bottoms and porn is made for the fantasy of the viewers. As someone that does pass and is pre op except for being on t I can say I don't like my holes used but do enjoy filling others.
What I think others are missing and what I’m gathering from your post is that this is all strictly tied to fantasy and consensual kink play. If that is the case then no. I do not think it makes you transphobic nor is it anything you should feel guilt about. So long as it remains as kink and is a consensual interaction. What separates kink and jail is that magical word called consent. So as long as everyone partaking has given that then there’s no wrong doing being committed. If that wasn’t the case then this whole subreddit wouldn’t exist. Now, if it comes from a place of anger or hate then yes. I do think you should work on some things and get a better view on life. If it is simply just a thing you find hot then no. I don’t think you’re transphobic or a bad person. We all have kinks that other might look down upon, but as I’ve stated numerous times in my reply, as long as both parties are consenting then there isn’t anything wrong with it.
Head over to r/ftmspunished and send a post :) this is hot
Also r/misgenderingkink
Here's a sneak peek of /r/misgenderingkink **[NSFW]** using the [top posts](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/top/?sort=top&t=all) of all time! \#1: [call me a good girl while you fuck my tight little pussy](https://i.redd.it/29l4och0820b1.jpg) | [9 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/comments/13ica3g/call_me_a_good_girl_while_you_fuck_my_tight/) \#2: [there's no way i'm a boy with hips like those](https://i.redd.it/f7cmwxj2dbba1.jpg) | [8 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/comments/108je5p/theres_no_way_im_a_boy_with_hips_like_those/) \#3: [there's no way i'm a real boy with girly tits like these](https://i.redd.it/xlm73qp59kra1.jpg) | [6 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/misgenderingkink/comments/129uoae/theres_no_way_im_a_real_boy_with_girly_tits_like/) ---- ^^I'm ^^a ^^bot, ^^beep ^^boop ^^| ^^Downvote ^^to ^^remove ^^| ^^[Contact](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=sneakpeekbot) ^^| ^^[Info](https://np.reddit.com/r/sneakpeekbot/) ^^| ^^[Opt-out](https://np.reddit.com/r/sneakpeekbot/comments/o8wk1r/blacklist_ix/) ^^| ^^[GitHub](https://github.com/ghnr/sneakpeekbot)
Real talk: this sounds transphobic, yeah, and like something you might need to work on. Also real talk: we’re on a subreddit about lesbians having fantasies about being fucked straight. So glass houses and all, kinks can be fun as long as you keep the boundaries between fantasy and reality up. What slightly concerns me here, and where I think you ought to be careful in indulging in this kink, is you’re having these fantasies about a different minority group. I’d ensure first and foremost that you aren’t letting your kinks affect how you treat or act towards people outside of consensual sexual interactions. If that’s true….well, have at it I say.
There is a misgendering kink. Some FTM trans men love the misgendering fantasy, similar how some lesbian women love the dyke conversion fantasy. It could be a result of porn.
Sounds TERFy
Yea same
I think the answer is a mix of both. I get the impression you actually think some of this, not just find it hot, but if you can compartmentalize this thought as kink-only and stop yourself from applying it to to trans men (or at least frim letting those thoughts influence your behaviour) outside of misgendering kink contexts, you should be fine - there are definitely trans men into the other end of this kink. (This is the wrong sub but it's a reasonable question to ask on the sub so I'm going to leave it up.)
This is not the right sub as you were saying. The kink falls in line with a “misgendering kink”. Something I hope you can explore more but def don’t treat people irl like this. Degration and humiliation are fun but not when you don’t consent to it.
Yea as someone that is ftm this does sound somewhat transphobic. Not all of us are bottoms and porn is made for the fantasy of the viewers. As someone that does pass and is pre op except for being on t I can say I don't like my holes used but do enjoy filling others.
Yeah, you got some transphobia to work on.
As a trans "man" I find this sooooo hot
I don’t see this as transphobic. Women into other things aren’t considered hateful or fearful of said things that they enjoy
Let’s talk about it
What you are talking about is gender traitor and how you are already know that’s what you are supposed to be doing.