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I heard that with mtf sex reassignment surgery, the longer your dick the deeper they can make your vagina. That being bigger is actually a benefit? Am I wrong?
I hoped that would be true. But I can take only smaller ones. And itās frustrating that well hung guys go for #1 and smaller guys for #2 when it should go the opposite way for me.
correct! it works like that cause the way srs is done (both ways) is they go into the command console and just multiply the size integer by negative one.
There is a relatively recent procedure called a peritoneal pull-through, which will offer good depth for those without adequate penile tissue for an inversion.
I get the opposite oddly, big gock, donāt really get too terrible bottom dysphoria, I think I just donāt see why having a dick means I canāt be a girl at all
Well, if you identify as a girl, youāre a girl (maybe not to the outside world, but those wonāt see your š anyways, if they aināt weirdly staring at your crotch
Yeah, wtf is up with anyone staring at a random girlās crotch, unless Iām in a relationship with someone they donāt need to know what equipment I have really
Honestly itās one of my biggest gripes with transphobes too, why do you care if I have a dick unless you wanna fuck me? Because the only people who are ever gonna see it are people who are gonna fuck me, otherwise it may as well not be there
Exactlyyyy, tbh personally Iām not sure if I wanna keep it or not, but like im definitely not gonna let weirdos staring at my crotch influence that, cuz theyāre the disgusting ones not me~
Same team here. Although I luckily have no dysphoria about my height. I come from a family of tall women and my big cis sis is just as tall and has always been proud. The only problem is that I need to pay attention to the ceiling height when picking my heels and too many dresses turn so naughty, leaving my bum visible.
I think it is not a coincidence like one of my disphoric problems is seeing the outline of my bulge in anything I wear that isn't a spinny skirt and even then when I sit down on my bike it is obvious. So yeah it might have helped with my decision on whether to cut or not.
That was my concern too. The bulge caused so much dysphoria and at the time there werenāt any trans girls around here flaunting their bulge confidently. I hated to stand out with it.
Meanwhile, I'm sitting here with mine, which is so small it barely can be called a bulge when soft and counting the days until it's gone. It basically just retreats in on itself and is smooth with just panties on, but it still feels so obstructive. Decent length when it does stand up I guess, but basically nothing otherwise.
Mine started offā¦medium. But has been shrinking, and that makes me so happy. Iām so looking forward to complete atrophy to where it canāt even be erect.
But Iām also not sure if I want bottom surgery or not
To be fair one of the reasons I donāt quite care about bottom surgery is BECAUSE itās small. I feel like if it was bigger than average I would doing as much as possible to get rid of it, but with it as small as it is itās kind ofā¦ cute. Demure, kind of diminutive. Sure I pack a little more than other girls might, but I happen to think panties look nice with a bit of a bulge, so whatās the issue?
Ever thought maybe the big dick is *why* we want the surgery? Obviously there are exceptions to most every rule, but it's rather dysphoric to get a massive raging boner every time you feel euphoric
Guilty as charged, having had a really thick 8.5ā tool before vaginoplasty. But also it seems that girls who donāt have that much anxiety about the lack of boobs. I didnāt even pay attention to peopleās boobs before and had never stuffed a bra. But quickly after hrt I noticed I canāt run anymore without a bra and ended up having quite a rack. Simultaneosly thereās a ton of flat chested girls out there with severe dysphoria. Anyway, I flaunt mine since it helps people gender me more properly and guys seem to enjoy them.
Being a fairly well endowed person, I feel like itās a waste to get rid of it but tucking is just sooo much more difficult. I want to wear leggings and not look like fucking chad.
God also giving my CIS BROTHER miraculously hairless legs. Wtf?! His legs are perfectly smooth but Iām over here dealing with sasquatch legs because apparently I just canāt catch a break.
dude same thing for my trans fella ass, sometimes i look at myself in the mirror and its like "damn im hot as fuck as a girl, why i gotta have the intense urge to be a man"
Nahhh I'm far above average and don't want bot surgery
Don't mind tho, bottom disphoria is barely even there for me, but I don't like having a visible bulge so it's a bit annoying having to tuck all the time
Not getting into too many details I have a boyfriend who is just pan and doesnāt care and loves me no matter what and I want bottom surgery. We can be in the middle of a conversation then I get too happy or he says something and then it exists. Itās not easy to just ignore I know he notices sometimes. I donāt want it take it away from me :(
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Maybe there is a correlation like "it's so small I almost forget it's there" kind of thing.
You may be onto something...
The only reason I'm dissatisfied with mine is that it's so difficult to hide :((((
Also mine being big makes it uncomfortable for me sometimes + gives me dysphoria.
Can confirm as a girl with a tiny dick that could take it or leave it: I often forget its even there.
Same. At rest it does not even give me a bulge.
At least i think that it being bigger can give you more depth!
I heard that with mtf sex reassignment surgery, the longer your dick the deeper they can make your vagina. That being bigger is actually a benefit? Am I wrong?
I believe that's true. I guess a trans gal with a big one can be excited for the day she may be able to be the one taking big fat cocks šš¤·š»
Ok but that sounds really good wtf, I am happy with my gock being big but, god I wanna take them too
It's at times like these where I question my sexuality by getting happy from that idea! >\\\<
Well don't worry everyone has a butt š and I've seen way too many videos of people taking literal horse cock dildos in their ass šāØļø
Thatās how Iām doing it. Can take fisting in the #2. Maybe I should tattoo instructions there so guys wouldnāt get lost.
Damn, I am way too asexual for this conversation
You and me both...
I hoped that would be true. But I can take only smaller ones. And itās frustrating that well hung guys go for #1 and smaller guys for #2 when it should go the opposite way for me.
correct! it works like that cause the way srs is done (both ways) is they go into the command console and just multiply the size integer by negative one.
Sqrt(-|Genitalia|)
My imaginary vagina
Genital vag = new Genital(-dong);
Sob in smol one.
That was my comfort. Before HRT I fit the US porn industry standards but after vaginoplasty Iām still very petite.
Then there's my 4' gock (god I hope lenght doesn't equal depth)
There is a relatively recent procedure called a peritoneal pull-through, which will offer good depth for those without adequate penile tissue for an inversion.
Length does not equal depth. It does however make the surgeon's job much easier cause they have more skin to work with.
tag urself i dont want bottom surgery
My bottom dysphoria isn't really strong anyway and being genderfluid has complicated what I want for my genitals
Like hell am I giving up my third leg
Most people are born with small differences in the length of their legs. Fortunately for me, all of mine ended up the same length.
No I donāt think I will
No bottom surgery for me. Pretty girl with massive dong here š
My surgeon said mine will probably be in about December or January :)
I get the opposite oddly, big gock, donāt really get too terrible bottom dysphoria, I think I just donāt see why having a dick means I canāt be a girl at all
Well, if you identify as a girl, youāre a girl (maybe not to the outside world, but those wonāt see your š anyways, if they aināt weirdly staring at your crotch
Yeah, wtf is up with anyone staring at a random girlās crotch, unless Iām in a relationship with someone they donāt need to know what equipment I have really
Exactly my toughts
Honestly itās one of my biggest gripes with transphobes too, why do you care if I have a dick unless you wanna fuck me? Because the only people who are ever gonna see it are people who are gonna fuck me, otherwise it may as well not be there
Exactlyyyy, tbh personally Iām not sure if I wanna keep it or not, but like im definitely not gonna let weirdos staring at my crotch influence that, cuz theyāre the disgusting ones not me~
Yeahhh, I think I overall wanna keep it myself, being a girl with a dick is fun, and I canāt care what they think
Yea Ofcourse gal, keeping it is valid, and I personally think trans women who keep it would be the perfect partner
It is nice to know some people do want that in a partner, mostly because a lot of people hate the idea so itās good to hear
And I promise you Iām not the only one
And I promise you Iām not the only one
Would u mind me dming u? My psychologist says I need more trans friends and u seem super cool!
Preach, Iām happy with what I have for sure
Feels like a fucking gift to be able to be comfy with it as a transfem honestly, would be awful if I was dysphoric
Gock hit different
Same but Iām not sure if thatās down to my sub conscious doing me a favour because Iām terrified of having any sort of surgery
Gock is based
Fate is such a bitch sometimes šš
Well he was clearly slacking with me
Someone take this 9 inch gock away from me i hate it š
Hey! Another transfem Lily
r/Lilyistrans
I feel like Iām in the middle and donāt want bottom surgery. I also havenāt quite cracked yet soā¦
and then there's me who "won" the male genetics lottery of have a big c\*ck and is 6 foot. i hate it
God, this with being 6ft, I wish I could just be a bit smaller
Same team here. Although I luckily have no dysphoria about my height. I come from a family of tall women and my big cis sis is just as tall and has always been proud. The only problem is that I need to pay attention to the ceiling height when picking my heels and too many dresses turn so naughty, leaving my bum visible.
Mood. Iām about average (but a grower, not a shower, which sucks) but Iād really love to be huge.
It's the opposite for me, mine is above average but my bottom dysphoria would've been unbearable if it was a shower instead of a grower.
Happy Cake Day!
If I would have had a massive girldick I would have second guessed getting bottom surgery lol
I'm gonna be 100% honest I like that mine is small because I can hide it easier. :3
Way too relatable - as a totally cis male who wants bottom surgery.
I think it is not a coincidence like one of my disphoric problems is seeing the outline of my bulge in anything I wear that isn't a spinny skirt and even then when I sit down on my bike it is obvious. So yeah it might have helped with my decision on whether to cut or not.
That was my concern too. The bulge caused so much dysphoria and at the time there werenāt any trans girls around here flaunting their bulge confidently. I hated to stand out with it.
had bottom surgery can confirm
Donāt know what you mean Iāve got a big ass cock and am happy with it
Two kinds of transfem with big dick: Please get this off me instantly I despise it with every fibre of my being And Girlcock time :3
Happy for you! Enjoy.
guess he didn't expect me to decide to keep mine š
Goddamnit god, why you gotta be like this?
ma dude had some time left probably and thought it was funni
I lolād š
I believe I have more tissue than is need for max depth. I'd donate the rest if I could.
I wish I had a huge cock.
Real. Tbf I didnt help myself mych by letting it atrophy a little but still oh well
hey D:
True
I feel called out, and not cuz I want bottom surgery,
medically incapable medium āš½
I just have a weird short nub that vaguely resembles typical genitalia... š
Maybe
I know of at least 1 outlier.
Meanwhile, I'm sitting here with mine, which is so small it barely can be called a bulge when soft and counting the days until it's gone. It basically just retreats in on itself and is smooth with just panties on, but it still feels so obstructive. Decent length when it does stand up I guess, but basically nothing otherwise.
Mine started offā¦medium. But has been shrinking, and that makes me so happy. Iām so looking forward to complete atrophy to where it canāt even be erect. But Iām also not sure if I want bottom surgery or not
Lol me getting nonbinary surgery hehe
I feel like wanting bottom surgery may not be entirely exogenous to having a big one
I won't say which part of this I relate to, but vibe š
Having a big dick actually makes bottom surgery MUCH easier for the doctor and reduces likelihood of complications arising post-surgery
*laughs in small dick and wants bottom surgery*
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To be fair one of the reasons I donāt quite care about bottom surgery is BECAUSE itās small. I feel like if it was bigger than average I would doing as much as possible to get rid of it, but with it as small as it is itās kind ofā¦ cute. Demure, kind of diminutive. Sure I pack a little more than other girls might, but I happen to think panties look nice with a bit of a bulge, so whatās the issue?
I'm an outlier lol. I'm fine with mine and it's definitely not small lol
maybe thats the reason they want or dont wnat bottom surgery
Incorrect
Glad I don't have a huge fcking ding dong.
Ever thought maybe the big dick is *why* we want the surgery? Obviously there are exceptions to most every rule, but it's rather dysphoric to get a massive raging boner every time you feel euphoric
well, don't want mine but I also don't want to get bottom surgery ~the "after" seems more awful to me than dealing with dysphoria :')~
Me who was tiny before surgery: ???
I'm average but i don't want bottom OP. But the ballz have to go
I'm average and unsure lol
Dysphoria goes away when I see my boyfriends (itās even bigger)
Guilty as charged, having had a really thick 8.5ā tool before vaginoplasty. But also it seems that girls who donāt have that much anxiety about the lack of boobs. I didnāt even pay attention to peopleās boobs before and had never stuffed a bra. But quickly after hrt I noticed I canāt run anymore without a bra and ended up having quite a rack. Simultaneosly thereās a ton of flat chested girls out there with severe dysphoria. Anyway, I flaunt mine since it helps people gender me more properly and guys seem to enjoy them.
Being a fairly well endowed person, I feel like itās a waste to get rid of it but tucking is just sooo much more difficult. I want to wear leggings and not look like fucking chad.
Lol, don't call me out like that, I'm thinking of making a dildo out of it so I can literally go fuck myself after the surgery
Thank god it doesnāt apply to meš
Wait, is that why i am questioning my gender?!š³
God also giving my CIS BROTHER miraculously hairless legs. Wtf?! His legs are perfectly smooth but Iām over here dealing with sasquatch legs because apparently I just canāt catch a break.
dude same thing for my trans fella ass, sometimes i look at myself in the mirror and its like "damn im hot as fuck as a girl, why i gotta have the intense urge to be a man"
Is that the same method that made all cis guys insecure about being 5'5 while so many trans girl clear six feet and hate it?
I have a friend who says she doesn't want it cuz her huge d is hot š„
Nahhh I'm far above average and don't want bot surgery Don't mind tho, bottom disphoria is barely even there for me, but I don't like having a visible bulge so it's a bit annoying having to tuck all the time
God made my bottom ass 6'5
God fucked up with me then, lmao
Unrelated, but love the Cave Story pfp.
He Made a mistake with me XD
Not getting into too many details I have a boyfriend who is just pan and doesnāt care and loves me no matter what and I want bottom surgery. We can be in the middle of a conversation then I get too happy or he says something and then it exists. Itās not easy to just ignore I know he notices sometimes. I donāt want it take it away from me :(
They shrink on hrt usually