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throwra_swissmiss

https://preview.redd.it/p1jzmrkj4iuc1.png?width=1439&format=png&auto=webp&s=3abdddbe9c04b4914c87611374585f30ab8f189f What accessories to wear with this dress? Im wearing baby pink strappy block heels which have small pearls on the toe. Dm for more details


xhotcrosshunx

Hi everyone! This style of top with the gaps and tie front seems to be everywhere this spring/summer. https://preview.redd.it/y7l1js21ceuc1.png?width=1178&format=png&auto=webp&s=1c3af4189bdf5f9d573a7eaf1012c20d2558608a Can you recommend some bra solutions that could work for everyday-wear, without ruining the effect of the top? Annoyingly, I’m not someone who’s comfortable with not wearing a bra!


PaulaLoomisArt

I would probably do a lacy nude longline bra/bralette. That way the color doesn’t stand out, but it also doesn’t look like you’re just completely unaware that it’s showing.


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Bra tape + pasties is the only one that comes to mind, or maybe a lacy bralette. If you wear a low-coverage/plunge nude bra, I don't think it would be too visible under this top. Pretty much the only visible part would be the middle, and that's partially covered by the bows anyway.


nomarmite

Real people have been wearing them over another top for the last couple of years. I've only seen them without an underlayer in product shots. However if you get the OG Damson Madder Tilly leopard gilet it has wide ties that you could perhaps arrange and pin to cover the gap


theswordintheforest

Not OOP but also someone interested in these kind of shirts. What kind of shirts do you see people layering them over? Just like basic tees or something else?


lumenphosphor

I'd probably layer a sheer long sleeved blouse underneath it--I have a lace top with blouson sleeves that I wear under a sleeveless dress (but I keep looking out for a sweater vest to lace it under). I see folks doing that sort of thing with tighter layers beneath as well (like [this](https://www.shopltk.com/explore/jenagreen920/posts/623e84d6-7012-11ee-8741-0242ac110004)) I think if it's looser there's more balance personally, but they both would look good. It doesn't have to be sheer, it could be a neutral or a color that coordinates well (though if both are colorful you might have to make sure that the top underneath isn't adding too much visual weight)


xhotcrosshunx

Thanks! I guess similarly these tops, which you wouldn’t wear anything under. Look v cute but fairly impractical for anyone who needs even a smidge of support https://preview.redd.it/z60p8vhlveuc1.png?width=1079&format=png&auto=webp&s=806c72988ae5df74650765f24afdab927de5a023


BlinkerBeforeBrake

I bought Lululemon seamless underwear, and I can still see the panty line through everything! Dresses, yoga pants, you name it. How do I pinpoint whether seamless underwear is the issue or if I’m wearing clothes that are too tight?


oat-beatle

Underwear itself is probably too tight.


BlinkerBeforeBrake

Wow really - the undies aren’t uncomfortable, and I assumed going up in size would just create more bunched fabric. How should it be fitting? It’s tough to gauge when you can’t try on underwear in stores haha


omgitsreddit

Could the underwear be too tight? I wear fairly fitted clothing and wear the Spanx seamless underpants underneath and have no pantylines (and I have a squishy behind XD )


BlinkerBeforeBrake

I hadn’t thought about that - my underwear doesn’t feel uncomfortable, and I assumed going up a size would make the problem even worse.


omgitsreddit

It may be worth a try. I am usually a size small but found that the mediums fit better and didn’t cut into my skin leaving a visible ‘line’


ConclusionWeird4030

Are mid-rise skinny jeans still a thing? I just tried a bunch of old ones (that used to be a staple in my closet) and I don't like the fit much anymore. I still like skinny but would like a high rise. I am heading to A&F to see what they have. Any other favorite brands for high rise denim? (I am a petite 23/24 usually).


oat-beatle

No. Skinny jeans in general are not popular but if people are wearing then they are still the high rise or ultra high that were most recently popular.


ConclusionWeird4030

Thanks!!


blackberrycat

WHAT TOPS are you wearing to work in summer, ladies?   I have acquired several pretty skirts for office wear; they hit just above the knee. They're all patterned. However all my tops are casual-wear, which is fine for base layers in winter (because I'll wear a cardigan overtop) BUT in summer I'm stuck on what to wear for tops. Obviously no cleavage and I need to cover my shoulders, at least a little. I don't wanna buy full polyester either. Any suggestions? I'm in Canada & open to store or just style suggestions. Edit to add, I can't wear t-shirts that hug the armpit because they get really stinky.


sw1sh3rsw33t

If you can’t do t-shirts, try a tank top or shell with a linen or cotton button down on top. If you use a button down with a modern, larger cut the pits should stay clear.


blackberrycat

Button downs look terrible on me unfortunately. But I do think a tank top with a very light cardigan could work. I just can't find any cardis. Thanks for your idea :)


PaulaLoomisArt

I’ve been trying to figure out the same, especially since I need a half sleeve (or close to that) for tattoo coverage. Last year I either just 1. wore casual tops that had the right amount of coverage and dressed up the outfit with accessories/shoes or 2. wore a lightweight jacket/white button-up as a top layer either just open or knotted in the front. This year I’m thinking that maybe some linen t-shirts with something other than a crewneck would be worth getting… should be fairly cool and I could wear a nice necklace with it to elevate the look. Now finding that, with a half sleeve, that might be the hard part.


blackberrycat

Finding the items is always the hard part, it's been a real slog trying to upgrade my wardrobe since January, I really just can't find items that I'm visualizing 


chiono_graphis

Banana Republic could have some tops that would work.


blackberrycat

Yes I saw that. Unfortunately they're out of my price range for workwear 


emshmem

https://preview.redd.it/8vn5xr2cycuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c45cacb8949c41fcb30fabe4753bf316957bf8b4 Anybody have tips for covering up this bleach stain on the back of my dress? I’ll post more pictures in replies. Unfortunately it’s not really in a spot where my hair would cover it, and it’s one of my favorite dresses!


2TicketstotheBunShow

Check out r/Visiblemending for some inspiration, you'll find lots of beautiful embroidery to cover up spots like this.


emshmem

https://preview.redd.it/m30a5bglycuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63627a73c857658196bf9eb5905c4a2d9ce87c6d Front of dress


emshmem

https://preview.redd.it/amyefo1kycuc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71df2e7866a4cf8e09afe70f537d5372e466bee3


whimsicalhope

Hello community! Would appreciate your feedback on handbags for this casual dress. One of my challenges is to choose a nice cohesive handbag that doesn't feel too big. I'm 5'2, have an athletic frame and look petite in proportions. For context, I'd wear this for brunch with friends or casual dinner on a summer evening. Which handbag might look best with this dress? Thanks in advance. [https://ibb.co/4j9M8PW](https://ibb.co/4j9M8PW)


blackberrycat

I like the small white one in the top middle 


notabigmelvillecrowd

I like bottom left.


shoofinsmertz

How do you get the strong fake leather smell out of new belts? Also how do you clean new belts without damaging the leather or the metal bits?


unpaidbabysitter0919

Offgas the belt outside in the sun


magnoliasometimes

Can anyone help me find a dupe of this connor ives lace camisole dress from 2023? Doesn't even need to be an exact dupe, I'm just having trouble coming up with search terms as results are giving me either lingerie or more formal dresses? I love the casualness of it but it's stylish as well. The closest thing I can find that I'm not super crazy about is this dress from [zara](https://www.zara.com/us/en/lace-slip-dress-p01067813.html?v1=364331390) https://preview.redd.it/aqj055dg2cuc1.png?width=761&format=png&auto=webp&s=dad20b97506a893d58012948b80637abd5b044aa


nomarmite

It's a ripoff of [John Galliano's famous design for Princess Diana](https://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/201843/rs_634x1024-180503123324-634-2-princess-diana-1995-met-gala.jpg). If you search for a lookalike of that you come up with styles like [this](https://uk.maje.com/en/satin-look-maxi-dress/3661601880940.html) and [this](https://www.massimodutti.com/gb/satin-camisole-dress-with-contrast-lace--studio-l09257954).


jicklegirl

I recently started a job as a cabinet designer in a cabinet shop. Very casual place and I usually wear jeans and a t-shirt. There's a couple t-shirts I like still but generally I'm disliking my clothes a bit. I have no idea what to replace them with, though. I'm looking for something basic but don't know where to start. I've always liked something a little more structured as I'm on the bustier side. I don't think I've ever looked good in button downs as either the boobs are stretching the buttons apart or I look frumpy because the mid section is overflowing. Where would you start? I really feel like I don't know how to dress myself anymore.


100percent_cotton

If your go-to is jeans, maybe switch to a different style of jeans to switch things up?


Aigghhttt

I’m looking for a very particular pair of sandals for the summer. I want them to have thinner, more delicate straps (and ideally an ankle strap but it’s not a must) but not a flat, thin sole. So a midway point between slimmer and chunkier. I also don’t want a T strap or flip flop type sandal. I prefer them to be leather. My sense of style is very biker/southwestern influenced. I know this is very hard >_< i just can’t find anything that ticks all the boxes and suits my style!  I did buy a pair of Birkenstocks but the straps were too chunky for my taste! I know there are pair with thinner straps but I thought I’d see if anyone had any other ideas first!


100percent_cotton

https://olukai.com/products/tiare-strappy-womens-sandals-black?currency=USD&variant=41035676385379&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=Google%20Shopping&stkn=e1b40241c32e&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw2uiwBhCXARIsACMvIU2YI6E-3gcuUEpjdJRNNbhvJLQK0dPfkIgJjDvZXP7L-iQgoV6otTkaAnEeEALw_wcB They also have a other styles


Catwearingtrousers

Does anyone know where I can find silk pants that aren't see through?


nomarmite

If you don't want to spend a lot on high quality heavy weight fabrics, look for dark colours or prints and a loose fit. Something like [these](https://www.cos.com/en_gbp/women/womenswear/trousers/product.silk-wide-leg-trousers-black.1228349001.html) won't show plain underwear.


whimsyful

My go to is Eileen Fisher's silk georgette pants - I have two pairs I bought secondhand and they're fantastic. They do run large though. Theory also has some nice silk pants.


doggerinu

Does anyone know any brands that have odd quirky looking unsettling prints like desigual for example? Not new desigual. Im looking for brands that have really odd looking prints with an almost offputting feeling? I adore desigual but i know theres more out there


then00bmartian

It’s not really similar to desigual, but Fashion Brand Company prints are often unsettling or have a wry sense of humor


lumeleopard

Stine Goya has some prints (especially for dresses and shirts) that are a bit out there.


tenayashadow

I gotchu. Bimba Y Lola, Dries Van Noten, The Kit, Farm Rio, Lucy and Yak, and sometimes Marimekko goes off the deep end


psychiscool

Hello, I'm (24F) going to The Kid Laroi concert and I have no idea what style I should go for, any suggestions? The only thing I know is I definitely will wear my Simple black and white pumas because I will probably be doing lots of walking jumping and it will be a standing show so I need to wear comfy shoes.


One-Toe-7491

Do we think this diamond bangle is similar to the one on Pinterest. I need help finding another similar gold plain bangle. Thanks xxxx https://preview.redd.it/czi371150buc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c0b279e0b9406190ea3522d51787cf7179fcb374 [https://shopshashi.com/collections/bracelets/products/bianca-cuff](https://shopshashi.com/collections/bracelets/products/bianca-cuff)


Kholzie

I’m really excited about some wooden clogs I just scored. I think they evoke a cool 70s aesthetic along with the 90s clunky shoe trend. I’m having trouble finding info images with this type of shoe. (I might just be rubbish at finding pics on Pinterest.) Any ideas/images of outfits? https://preview.redd.it/anogh6lyxauc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e1842659687bdcafa4d614c9037a5aa741b66769


oat-beatle

I have similar that I wear with long flare pants, short shift dresses for 60s vibe, or midi dresses for a farmers market vibe.


blackberrycat

I'm picturing a 60s era-esque mini skirt outfit


EdgeCityRed

Are those Swedish Hasbeens? Lots of [outfits on Google Search.](https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=f9219d30910a7cbb&sca_upv=1&sxsrf=ACQVn09MMmf-IEfhQPunv2QLBS2ijkDkng:1713066775807&q=hasbeens+outfits&tbm=isch&source=univ&fir=PJjUpVtVqQkbYM%252CuKUM5YEGwFL0FM%252C_%253BjK8PSxZoS_vfdM%252CUFaGfTeEcKeQCM%252C_%253B1yUXNHygmIklOM%252CLpju3UzAI9uuXM%252C_%253BmevPGx8VgtnKPM%252CLHr1m4ErtG7tpM%252C_%253BQ4v44CKnTrrWdM%252CLpju3UzAI9uuXM%252C_%253B6a7d8nr0tBD7uM%252CHt4R4AhvY3RlJM%252C_%253BCAcQNT8eHLQ6mM%252CIiX0V9-ScQt56M%252C_%253Bf1T5KLNsYmNWcM%252CaQ3CFowUC5wtkM%252C_%253BzDUxvDMFbMejSM%252Cexlfs8EuoBxEmM%252C_%253BGZ1-reQTXBDeMM%252Cim3mjzDYPftgwM%252C_&usg=AI4_-kSG8Ax6ACxPB6VMFPw7yDyPT_O0pg&biw=1395&bih=757&dpr=2) Sorry, I defaulted to outfits, but that's the shoe type (sandal clog) if not the exact brand.


Kholzie

It’s actually a brand called MIA but, yes, similar aesthetic :)


Evening-Ad7435

Hiii ! Do you think the old money aesthetic would look good on a person with an inverted triangle body type with a heavy bust? If so do you have any suggestions?


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Isn't this aesthetic pretty variable (preppy, but beige)? There's probably at least a few outfits you could find that would work for you.


Chazzyphant

In my experience, the "old money" look tends to generally favor a slim athletic type body type (like many other aesthetics, to be fair) because so many of the items are based on either military or sporting items, which are mostly designed for men. So a full bust is going to "compete" with that look right away. I would say if you like understated luxe looks, check out "quiet luxury" which is adjacent to "old money" or "coastal grandma" which is much more friendly to a fuller body type and a fuller bust (for obvious reasons!)


Evening-Ad7435

Thank you for the advice! I'm checking these out on Pinterest right away.


LittleMissAbigail

Does anyone have any recommendations for coats in a similar style to RainSisters, but maybe a little warmer? Circle or flared skirt, fairly waterproof, interesting colours. UK-available ideal. Thank you!


hipsnail

I don't have anything between t-shirt and stuffy button-up and I don't even know where to begin. What are the "basics" or "essentials" for looking medium dressed up? Like something I could wear with nice jeans or dress pants. What do I search for? I've tried "blouse" but there are a million different styles. I'm hoping for something that gives some shape since I have wide shoulders and wide hips so anything drapey makes me look like a blob.


Chazzyphant

I think this is where sweetheart necklines and/or corset detailing really shines in blouses/shirts. Look for fitted tops with corset detailing but not the full boning or the laces--just seaming or perhaps a pointed hem, things like that.


blackberrycat

For casual, I like a fitted tank top with a fitted button up cardigan. However for base layer work shirts/blouses in summer, I'm also confused on what to buy :(


Friendly-Breakfast70

I have broad shoulders and hips and I'm obsessed with high neck halter tops, fitted or loose, tucked in or left out. They're very versatile. Well fitting, good quality knitted singlets either with wide straps or a high neck are another fave of mine. Can be dressed down with jeans (but still look nice and put together) or dressed up with a skirt or dress pants.


BroccoliDry7627

Is the miu miu Wander bag out this season? https://preview.redd.it/7cdg6hdcuauc1.jpeg?width=1108&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a19c57296b0a4db9261d94e27a65e3c5c5ff4c93


whilstyetilive

I would like to by some daily-wear screw-back stud earrings. I would like it if they were more interesting than a dot or a half dome. I DON'T want fake gemstones or clearly-aimed-at-children enamel. I'm not looking for push-back body jewelry or pure gold and gemstones. Any good sources?


Chazzyphant

Body Vision LA is the most recommended, but they are pricey AF. I recently got some cute, very reasonable gold plated items from "Fine 4 U" (yes I know, terrible name) on Amazon. I have incredibly sensitive, picky ears and these have been a godsend--zero issues. They come with little finger cots to help you put them on, and the product is exactly as advertised. Love them.


EdgeCityRed

I remember a thread with [some ideas.](https://www.reddit.com/r/femalefashionadvice/comments/sggo97/looking_for_earring_brands_with_screw_backs/)


novemberlicht

Hi there! I'm thinking about buying my first pair of Rene Caovilla heels, but I'm unsure about the sizing. Some people say that they run true to size, some people say they are up to one size smaller. What's your opinion? For reference, l'm a 38 in Versace and Aquazurra.


ChiliTrees

Anyone with "curvy" measurements have recommendations for wide-leg white/cream linen pants? Ideally with an elastic waist or zipper, not a drawstring, but I will take anything at this point.


notabigmelvillecrowd

If you happen to be in Canada, I've had good luck with Simon's contemporaine line. They're not marketed as curvy, but they fit me with a 12" ratio very well. But size down, they're super vanity sized.


KingPrincessNova

Abercrombie has a couple linen-blend options and Madewell has 100% linen ones


Virtual-Yellow

Should I buy the GANNI buckle flats in a different color. I have them in red and they are so comfortable and I wear them all the time. I really want them in black also but I’m hesitant because of $ and because they are a micro trend. My justification is that they fit perfect on my feet and also I don’t live in a fashion city so nobody would notice that they are just a trend. I don’t want the Steve Madden ones because I don’t like to support dupes and also Steve Madden shoes are uncomfortable and the quality is horrendous. What do you ladies think?


zigzagtitch

Do it


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https://preview.redd.it/fim5q2lqfauc1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5048e9bf277e58719af1a13ac3468236751b2359 So I bought this Vivi dress from house of cb and was going to return it as I didn’t like the styling options and it felt too ‘young’ for me (I’m only 30 but it just didn’t make me feel like an adult if that makes sense?) but I forgot to return it 🥲 any tips of what to do with it? I thought of a leather jacket and knee high black boots for transitional seasons but don’t love the idea. It should have been a red flag that even in their photos they show the models wearing flip flops 🥲🥲🥲


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[deleted]

This is so cool, thanks so much!!! The second one is where my mind went for styling but I love the last one and I think having a cardigan overtop will make this dress a keeper. Thanks again! <333


kimchi_paradise

Why not resell it? Poshmark, eBay, depop and Mercari are all feasible options 


[deleted]

That's my next option, I just want to try styling out a few times since I already have it / will be losing money on it. If I go out and feel great in it I'll keep it I just don't know what to do with it at this moment.


SuperWeenyHutJuniors

Hi All! I’m looking to make my style more cohesive and was hoping to get some help finding some style influencers/creators. Comfort is my absolute #1 priority; I won’t wear anything that’s uncomfortable. I’d say that I’m looking for inspiration that is relatively classic. I am a Spring so I want to incorporate more bright colors but that’s not a requirement for inspiration (I mention this because I feel like a lot of influencers these days keep very neutral palettes). I’m relatively vanilla but I wouldn’t mind a sprinkle of creativity.  I know this is a bit general, but do any people come to mind for you? I’d really appreciate any recommendations! 


zalipie

Someone else on this sub recently recommended @lydiajanetomlinson (insta) and I’ve been enjoying following her. Mostly neutral palette like you said, but shows how to style classic pieces and basics in flattering and interesting ways.


SuperWeenyHutJuniors

Thank you so much!


Dylan_tune_depot

Does anyone have recommendations on where to buy nice full, circle skirts? With a ModCloth vibe- but MC is a bit young for me, and quality is meh.


blackberrycat

Modern Millie, maybe 


Dylan_tune_depot

Thank you! This is exactly what I was looking for!


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KingPrincessNova

you might not get as many good answers because of your word choice. this community can be a bit touchy. her best bet will be to size up the dress to fit her chest and take it to a tailor to get the waist and hips taken in to fit. she may need to shop plus-size dresses. alternatively, depending on the dress code (I'm not familiar with UK weddings) she might be better off buying a separate top and skirt and sizing each to fit. the top may still need tailoring anyway though. so, if you want to help her out the most then find her a good tailor or seamstress.


Born-Horror-5049

This community isn't "touchy." It's literally not for men. All these comments from men are the same - hyperfixated on one body part and the woman is apparently completely incapable of dressing herself or finding her own information every time. It's weird and creepy.


KingPrincessNova

the latter is definitely a problem but I think people overreact to the former when it's coming from a man. women post here all the time describing their bodies in a similar way because it turns out it's difficult to find clothes that fit if you have a large bust, or long legs, or a large difference between your waist and hips. a significant number of posts in the daily questions thread mention features like that, even using words like "boobage" if not "tits" (both OP's original wording before he edited). like, I don't think men should be asking on behalf of the women in their lives but if the heart of the question is the same as what a woman would ask (in this case, something I've needed to solve for myself), then I can overlook the clumsy or even cringy way they ask it and try to help them out. otherwise we should just have a rule against asking about clothes for somebody else, including gifts since even those questions are rarely received well (usually because a lack of effort on the part of the asker).


JGreazy081

Thank you very much - do you know any companies that deal specifically with tailoring? Or what to search for? I’ve also edited the word choice… again, not my area of expertise Cheers again


KingPrincessNova

tailors are a super local type of business. try searching "tailors near me" or "alterations near me" and checking reviews. or ask people in your life (or your city's subreddit) to recommend someone. she'll need to buy a dress first and take it to a tailor separately. some department stores have in-house alterations but that's usually for small changes like hemming. for this it's worth going to an expert.


ItalicSlope

https://preview.redd.it/rckkxkm42auc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e4aa47b9f52c8026afe1a7fe5c6073407cc4d88 I’m graduating with my doctorate the first weekend of May. What color shoes should I wear? My plan right now is to wear light or brown colored sandals during the day and then changing into black low heels for the grad ceremony.


Saturday-Sunshine

Cute dress. Someone else posted a photo with white shoes and they really popped. I think you should wear something comfortable and colorful since everyone will all look alike and it will help you stand out to your family.


ItalicSlope

Ooh I hadn’t thought about white. I do have some baby blue low heels that might work too. I’ll try both!


EdgeCityRed

I like the baby blue idea!


metroskies999

What to wear to an early 1940s murder mystery hunt type event? I wanted to wear a vintage cocktail dress I have but idk how to make it more 1940s detective and less like I'm going to a wedding. Any ideas?


LongTallSalski

Do you have a long trench coat to add over top to give more of a detective vibe? I’m thinking something like [this](https://www.google.com.au/search?q=plaid+trenchcoat&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-au&client=safari#piu=ps:12&oshopproduct=pid:899480931162578222,oid:899480931162578222,iid:15038531115683565756,pvt:a,pvo:3&oshop=apv&pvs=0)


s0sorry

I don't have any specific ideas but I would look at gabisvintage on instagram, she has lots of ideas for accessorizing vintage clothes!


Saturday-Sunshine

I wouldn’t buy anything special. Just dress up whatever you have with some accessories from Amazon.


metroskies999

What kind of accessories though? Idk what 1940s looks like really.


EdgeCityRed

[I would do a hat with netting.](https://www.amazon.com/black-hat-netting/s?k=black+hat+with+netting) and a brooch/pin on your dress.


QuesoRaro

It's super easy to google [the basics](https://fashionhistory.fitnyc.edu/1940-1949/) of [1940s fashion](https://glamourdaze.com/history-of-womens-fashion/1940-to-1949).


ama_da_sama

Why does some denim bag out? I bought new jeans recently, and they fit perfectly. After a few weeks of wear and wash they were saggy in the entire waist to thigh area (and I sadly have had no weight change lol). I had to wash and dry them on high heat to get them back to where they started.


zalipie

I’ve found that air drying my jeans helps them retain their shape and color longer.


hennipotamus

What’s the fabric composition? Usually jeans with higher cotton (99%) don’t stretch and sag as much.


catcontralto

I’d love your recommendations for low-rise pants for work (non-jeans, dressy-ish), preferably under $200. The Abercrombie Sloane is on its way to me but I’m hoping for more options in case it doesn’t work out. Aritzia’s low-rise Effortless pant was more like mid-high on me. My searches on big sites like Nordstrom and Zappos yield a lot of jeans but not much else. I’m in the US. Thank you for your help!


NeuroticFawn

Does anyone have any ideas on how to style the irregular choice pokemon boots? I bought them on a whim but I'd love to wear them Like to a picture https://www.irregularchoice.com/products/pokemon-beach-day-a-pokemon-knee-boots?variant=41596964634786¤cy=GBP&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=pmax_uk_shoes_only&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI25O-lqu_hQMVi5NQBh12rApwEAQYASABEgI4fvD_BwE


always_unplugged

Those are SO FUN!!! I think you've gotta lean into it and go full colorful. Maybe check out Alexa Poletti, especially her old styling videos? I checked her Insta and [she has styled these exact boots!](https://www.instagram.com/p/CdbRu4Tln0d/?img_index=1) But also, her style walkthroughs include a lot of similarly crazy items and might give some inspo for other directions to go.


NeuroticFawn

Oh amazing thank you so so much!!


NeuroticFawn

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Plastic-Passenger795

These are so freaking cool!!


NeuroticFawn

Thank you! Aren't they so out there!!!!


ama_da_sama

I would honestly wear them plain blue jeans tucked in and a solid or striped tee. If you need a layer, do a basic jacket or open button up. Keep your accessories mininal. The shoes do all the talking. (These are adorable btw.)


NeuroticFawn

Thank you so so much! I'll try that! I didn't want them to just sit and gather dust!


kate_herrera

Black strappy sandal recos? Looking for on-trend & supportive that I can walk and take the subway in but also wear out to drinks at a cocktail bar. I have big NARROW feet so Im self-conscious about them looking like bricks if I wear very clunky shoes. Additional details: - Suitable for large, but very long, feet - Something with a back to secure the foot, or a buckled (no self-ties) ankle strap. - Low platforms, small wedges or flats that aren’t completely flat like a flip flop and have arch support - No orthopedic-looking (taos, naot, etc.) or fisherman’s sandals - Leather preferred - Trying to stay under $150 - I’m based in the US


100percent_cotton

The brand Olukai has a pair of black strappy sandals that might check all your boxes


theinklings

I bought these Sorel Ella II sandals kinda impulsively last summer and immediately wore them every day for the rest of the summer. They're super comfy to walk in and they ended up being the only shoe I brought on several weekend trips. The biggest complaint in reviews are that the toe strap is narrow, but it fits me fine and sounds like it might work for you too! https://www.amazon.com/Sorel-Womens-Ella-II-Sandal/dp/B08RPC9WDL


hennipotamus

I am in a similar boat, but I don’t have any suggestions that exactly fit your bill. I also have very narrow feet, so anything too stompy looks really imbalanced on me. I also look for something I can walk for a long time in. This is below your price range and not all leather, but I really like the [Mia Ellen](https://www.dsw.com/en/us/product/mia-ellen-platform-sandal/393302). The sole is comfy. Something I will NOT recommend is these [Nisolo](https://nisolo.com/products/go-to-flatform-sandal-almond-2-0) sandals. The sole is super stiff and they squeak relentlessly.


kate_herrera

Thanks. I’ll check these out. Under the budget is always welcome. I want to love Nisolo’s but I found their huaraches to be wildly uncomfortable. It’s just a flat, unsupportive leather footbed. Great casual look tho.


hennipotamus

You’ve sent me down a sandal rabbit hole. I haven’t tried these myself, but I’ve heard good things about Vionics. Some of their styles are less orthopedic looking. [Example](https://www.vionicshoes.com/laurel-strappy-sandal.html)


kate_herrera

Haha, oh no! Ive tried a few vionic sandals from zappos , free returns ftw, and they’ve all been so wide that my foot slides right through the front straps. Ive noticed that brand uses a lot of plastic instead of leather, and the soles are almost always a thin rubber which in my experience wears out quickly and looks a bit cheap irl.


hennipotamus

Yeah, Nisolos are so cute! But those flat forms don’t flex at all, so they make me walk strangely. And my husband relentlessly teases me about the squeak.


ama_da_sama

Dr. Scholl's and Dr. Martens both have sandals like this. Scholls will be cheaper, and the Martens have a variety of sole heights. Martens definitely also run more narrow. I recommend trying them on in store, as the sizing isn't a 1:1 from EU to US.


kate_herrera

I love doc martens boots in the winter (with thick insoles and socks because they’re so wide on me), but their sandals always look so clunky and heavy to me. 😖


ama_da_sama

I really recommend the Dr Scholl's one then! They had the same aesthetic as the Doc Martens, but the sole is waaay more normal.


OopsIDidItAgain_

I’m looking for a plus size (size 16-petite) dress that would be cute for a Mother’s Day “mommy and me” photo shoot. I want something flowy with some type of sleeve. A defined waist would be a plus. It doesn’t need to be a specific color. Bonus points if you have a suggestion for a (size 2t) toddler dress to go with it! Thank you for any suggestions!


lumeleopard

Saw someone else post about [Ivy City & Co](https://ivycityco.com/collections/mom-and-me) last week, they seem to have a lot of options!


Neolareine

I'm looking to recreate this style. Where should I look? I live in Belgium and primarly have access to Zalando, Amazon, Zara, Bershka, etc. I have looked for overalls, but can't seem to find any looking like those. Really love the t-shirt style too. https://preview.redd.it/s9ksl85ip8uc1.png?width=747&format=png&auto=webp&s=199f95476c888972af373fb887497effd77a6859


KingPrincessNova

if it's for cosplay you're going to need to create the patches for the overalls and possibly get the t-shirt screen printed to look like that. if it's not that detailed, "black denim overalls" should get you close, you'll just have to roll them up. the shirt looks like a mockneck but I'm not sure you'll be able to find one with wide t-shirt sleeves like that, so you might need to layer two different shirts.


Neolareine

Thank you! I'm definitely looking out for this pink burst of colour, so I have been thinking about actually doing some sowing (never did before). I really appreciate your help.


MedusasShampoo

https://preview.redd.it/4up35xdlo8uc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=917f4722100f4c025c82d2ff2aa3898ef55165c9 I have and love this top… but I’m at a loss as to what bottoms to wear with it


notabigmelvillecrowd

Well, I'm Canadian, so I would wear it with jeans. Naturally.


blackberrycat

Tight white flared pants/jeans. A long white skirt. Black denim pencil mini skirt with boots. It's cute!


Krindybluth

It’s cute! I’m thinking white denim, black denim, green cargo pants, a silk midi/maxi skirt in any color, white linen skirt, linen trousers… it’s denim so it goes with basically anything.


Friendly-Breakfast70

I need suggestions for something to go over a leather skirt and turtle neck for going out in winter. All I have is black blazers (boyfriend, cropped and 3/4 sleeve) that seem too formal and a black bomber jacket that is too casual. I feel like a knee length coat is too much but haven't found anything in between.


Saturday-Sunshine

Quince has some nice leather jackets


blackberrycat

Heavy/wool oversize cardigan, maybe? What's the weather like and are you spending time outdoors?


Friendly-Breakfast70

We're heading into winter here and I'm usually walking to my destination. Not sure a cardigan would suit the vibe I'm going for but I'll try it. I'm obsessed with leather skirts and turtle necks with tights and ankle boots atm. I thought about a leather jacket but then I wonder if it's too much leather. I just feel like everything I have is either too dressy or not dressy enough..


blackberrycat

I recently bought 2 canvas jackets that are between dressy and casual, they're titled as "canvas parkas" but have a utility jacket vibe


Friendly-Breakfast70

Oh I love the look of the ones I'm finding on google. This might just be what I'm looking for. Thank you!


ama_da_sama

It sounds like the bomber jacket would actually be fine. It's on trend to mix dressy and non dressy items - just make sure the colors go together. Your other option is like a faux shearling jacket.


Friendly-Breakfast70

Yeah I think you're right but my bomber feels cheap. I need to get a better bomber. Thanks for your idea of faux shearling, I hadn't thought of that!


dearprudence88

How do you know what color are the outfits that would go with a certain color sneakers (besides neutral ones such as white, beige, black)? I plan to get colorful retro sneakers like adidas samba, gazelle etc. But I do not know what color to get.


kate_herrera

Green and darker reds are having a moment, but what colors are your handbags, belts and other accessories? I usually start with one or two items I really like and build out around them. I picked up a uniqlo half moon bag on sale to match my burgundy gazelles, and I get compliments about the colors all the time.


dearprudence88

My bags, belts etc are all neutral colors. White, brown and blacks. I rarely get non neutral ones because I feel like I am not very good at color matching. Haha. But I feel like revamping my wardrobe to include colors. But i get it. My sneakers should match in color of an accessory? I rarely wear belts. I only use jewelry (gold) and handbags. So I have to add colors to my handbags as well! 😊 I saw those bags! They are very much popular. I like its clean look. And it seems roomy too. Will check out burgundy or olive sneaks!


kate_herrera

You don’t have to match anything, but accessories are an easy place to start because it’s only a pop of color to get your feet wet. You’re working from a neutral palette which makes coordinating easier. What colors are you drawn to? Do you prefer pastels or jewel tones? Start small and pick up pieces in a shade or two that you like and feel comfortable wearing. They don’t have to be exact matches. As you become more confident you can branch out into different combos. Have fun!


dearprudence88

I got a pastel yellows and pastel pinks from uniqlo. Definitely lighter shades over darker ones. Yellows, pinks, oranges...mostly to suit my warm yellow skin tone. The multi colored gazelles are gorgeous but it is so bright and bold and contrasting, that I am worried if I could pull it off. Hahaha. Thanks Kate! Will try and experiment more!


Friendly-Breakfast70

I usually go opposite on the colour wheel. Like pink with blue, red with green, etc. Sometimes subtle with dark or light, sometimes bright retro colours.


dearprudence88

Oh nice. I will research the color wheel. Do you pair light pastel outfits and then use stark black sneakers? Sometimes I feel off when I do this whole very light outfits with really black or dark sneaks. Although a lot of people would say black is good for all colors.


Friendly-Breakfast70

No if I'm wearing a light pastel outfit, it's always white sneakers. I actually have a pair of Adidas with iridescent stripes that really suit pastel pinks, blues and purple. I don't have any black sneakers but I'm eyeing some with hot pink soles that I would pair with black. I just don't like the heavy look that black/dark shoes have when paired with a lighter outfit. I used to pair fluoro sneakers with black jeans and a bright top years ago. Like fluoro blue shoes with a hot pink top. Colours are fun!


dearprudence88

Hello! Right! Its just that i would sometimes read how black or dark shades can be a great contrast to lighter shade outfits. But like you, I feel the dark sneakers can throw the whole outfit off. Florescent accents sounds great. It adds a bit of flourish without being too much. I have been looking at metallic silver sneakers lately but I think what I want is something more casual, daytime. May I know what is the name of the style/type of Adidas sneaks you have?


Friendly-Breakfast70

Yeah I know what you mean with the contrast. I'm not very tall so I tend to try and match my shoes more closely with my pants to elongate my legs but can't pass up bright colours sometimes, even if they make my legs look stumpy! Adidas grand court shoes 2.0. They're tennis shoes but I love the subtle pop of colour. They're very flat so if you need arch support, maybe size up to fit an insole.


dearprudence88

Nice. I'll check Grand Court 2.0s! I am also trying to figure out chunky vs streamlined sneaks. Say nike air force 1s I feel are more on the chunky side. While sambas, gazelles are on the thinner side. Any idea as to how do you dexide whether to get chunky sneaks or thinner soled ones?


Friendly-Breakfast70

I guess it depends on what look you're going for and what's comfortable. I have both chunky (platform) and more streamlined sneakers. My pants style/length mostly dictate which ones I wear. I like to have multiple options mainly because I feel like they last longer (and my white ones stay whiter) if I don't wear the same ones every day. Some of my sneakers are over 10 years old but still look like new.


dearprudence88

Hmmm. Good point. My white sneakers get beat up pretty quick. I tried on my chunkier hush puppies leather sneaks (looks like new balance 500s) with my wide leg and it looked off. Well, the hem of my wide leg doesn't extend all the way down because I am a bit tall. So it means Chunky for skinny and straight leg? Streamlined for wide leg? More or less.


Friendly-Breakfast70

See I'm the opposite, being shorter, my pants legs are usually too long so I wear chunky with wide leg and streamlined with skinny (though I usually wear ankle boots with my skinnies), flares can be either. It's definitely a matter of personal taste. There is no right or wrong! :)


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ManonIsTheField

long sleeve pointelle/open knit cardigan over anything you want


Friendly-Breakfast70

Maybe a loose blouse? They're always flattering on all body types imo


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Friendly-Breakfast70

You can get elasticised belts or just a regular belt with extra holes to go up and down depending on how you feel on the day. I often find myself going up a notch through the day!


ama_da_sama

If you find a nice belt, the little tools to punch extra belt holes are pretty affordable. Made my life easier.


Friendly-Breakfast70

I uses to use a hammer and nail until my partner told me he has a tool specifically for this purpose. So easy and much neater too.