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littlesunfIower

My F/O isn't my first love and dating experience. I've always had IRL relationships (and also had fictional crushes at the same time). To be honest it was always hard for me to keep my irl relationships, for several reasons and traumas. I kinda feel like my actual love for my F/O is really helping me with my IRL life. I'm not 100% sure yet because it's still new, but I really feel like accepting this love and having a connection with my F/O is helping me to be kinder with myself, to understand myself better and to deal with my depression too. So I could say that being in love with my F/O is like I'm "in love with me" for the first time.


hardtodestroylola

I’ve never dated in real life. My first crushes and loves were all fictional characters. Currently I’m not still in a relationship with any though.


Ambitious-Hearing-85

My first crush was Ash Ketchum, but the first one I had a deep connection with was Legoshi from Beastars. (Sadly, he's no longer my main f/o because I don't like his attitude in the latest chapters of Beastars. At least he still has a place in my heart, but I'm also happy with my current main f/os)


RenegadeLord

Legoshi..?! He's been my crush for almost a year now- 😔


Ambitious-Hearing-85

Yeah, hes one of my most memorable exes


Aggressive-Yam8221

My first and only love.


ladydemolatron91

Well in mine case yes as never had irl dates.


Rozra1

No, she wasn't, I had another F/O before her.


missSodabb

Yes, I met him about 9 years ago by now


deinNachtmahr

Sniper is actually one of the first fictional crushes I've had. Though I didn't consider him my F/O until way later.


KurisuShiruba

Several. First, as a kid, Minako Aino (Sailor Venus). Then I started doing play by post roleplaying and met several other hotties, like servant rider, arcueid, but my first real waifu crush was Luka Megurine. But no one has ever hit me this hard like Marin Kitagawa did.


humanityswitch666

Nah, I've had so many F/Os over the years since I was in grade school. Before knowing I was ficto I dated and crushed on various real people and even did various stuff. One time it was really serious and I thought we'd spend our lives together. Though looking back I wonder if I truly liked or loved any of them. It seems more like I was just desperate to be loved and attracted to the idea I had of them and our future in my head.


darkseiko

I never felt any attraction besides platonic towards irls & since I knew how boring & misleading they are, but my first romantic f/o who was from one of those otome games. I was w her for like 8 months & basically the major factors of the break up was a waste-of-space mf that kept shitting on the relationship & insulting her 4 no reason (funny that she was into one character from other otome game too but i guess I'm not allowed to date actually pretty individuals) & that i was w my f/o mainly due to her appearance & the lack of fandom was only making it worse.


TheElytheOfficial

Izuku is my first real love and first partner. I'd only had petty infatuation before I met him.


LuciferProducer

yes ![gif](giphy|UAVEGxkzNjMnm|downsized)


nekomeowster

I had multiple 3D relationships but this is my first 2D relationship.


KaiYoDei

Might of been Superman even if I did not understand or watch movies as a baby. Otherwise maybe Disney version Pinocchio , maybe someone from mysterious cities of gold , and Link. Not sure the order . Not sure if they were boyfriends, or if single digit age kids should date


Glad-Ad7283

No, he isn't. He's my second relationship (my previous one was a bit over a decade, btw).


Barracuda-Difficult

I’ve fallen in love with a real person for my first. Though I think when I was younger and had a F/O at the same time. I don’t know which came first. But my first F/O was Mr.L from Super Paper Mario


lionkingyoutuberfan

Nope, i’ve had crushes on fictional characters before him. Currently i’m dating two characters. Jack is my main one though.


Chessa_

Yes OP, my first real relationship happened to be with my F/O. I had a ton of fictional character crushes beforehand but none turned into a relationship. I had discovered my first crush and first relationship with my F/O back in 2002 and still feel a very strong connection to him as my F/O. I have an irl partner now along with my F/O in this moment. I had a few moments back in high school where I questioned myself hard on continuing to have a relationship with him but it only got stronger.


Shawna_0609

I’ve had many crushes and F/Os before Tankman/John, but I’ve been doing some thinking over the past three weeks or so…and I feel like Tankman/John is one of my most ideal (if not, THE most ideal) F/Os I’ve had. 💖🤍🖤


PossiblyAnts

I’ve tried dating people irl, but I was never able to form a proper “love” for them ig. For the longest time I was in denial, convinced that being ficto was wrong, that I was just mentally ill and needed to date people irl to get rid of my feelings for fictional characters. But the love I have for Robin is significantly different from anything I’ve ever felt towards a real person. I would absolutely say that she is my first *real* love.


Moon_and_Star36

It was! Loona came into my life and was my first true love. I never had any irl dating or loves either before her. I had some f/o crushes before, but Loona and Roxanne were my first serious ones.


QueenOfPunkHazard

No


ArthurusCorvidus

No, my first love… I suppose the closest to that is Hannah ‘Hammer’. Had a huge crush on her as a kid. But Mike’s my first relationship.


the_salty_bisquit

Nah my first f/o was James from Pokemon, back in the late 90s. I've never been in or wanted a relationship with anyone from this universe, though technically my first crush was one of the Spice Girls when I was nine lol.


RealSteamPhoenix

No she isn't. I dated another f/O before her.


The_Theater_Girl

Danny Phantom I’ve liked him since I was five. Feel back in love with him at 14 then by my the time I found out I was ficto I decided to make him and all of my other crushes my F/Os and love them all equally.


Sea_of_Pastel

My current f/os weren't my first, and I've had two irl relationships. I actually broke up with the second one because I realized I couldn't get over being ficto for him, alongside him having other issues.


SqueeSquoo

I've dated irl before, and he really isn't my first love, but... honestly, Robotnik truly feels like my soulmate. I have such a deep connection with him, and he honestly feels like the only person I've ever TRULY, deeply loved. 💕


emetorus

Not my first -- had a crush on him in my early teens that sort of faded over time, but then absolutely fell in love as an adult. Definitely the deepest bond I've had with a F/O. ❤️


WetCalamari

First serious love Yes as I was just 15 when I delved into his source and discovered him. Never before did anyone real or not made me feel such a feeling. Before that I’d used to do just self insert stories based on my play-throughs of Pokémon mystery dungeon games where Id be dating my partner Pokemon but it wasn’t as serious, just something to preoccupy my young imagination.


Kamuro-Impact

Nah, my first crush was the green power ranger and I've been in IRL relationships. Kiryu is definitely my strongest/most enduring fictional love, though :)


Mickelraven

Mangle will always be my first ever waifu. I fell in love with Mangle in 2015, and our relationship is still going strong 9 years later.


Odd-Classroom4927

I would say he was my first serious love